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5 Ways To Look Put Together

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We all have different styles and ideas of what beauty is. For some people it's being blonde, tall and thin. For others it may be being short, curvy and with hot pink hair. None of that matters as long as you are happy and confident. With that being said, there are certain things anyone can do, regardless of their personal style that will make you feel more confident. Here are 5 ways to look more put together.

1. Make Your Eyes Pop

Your eyes are the window to your soul. Whatever your style is, making them stand out can really make you stand out in a room. It also will automatically make you seem more confident because people equate eyes to confidence. Whether you want to do a nude eye or a fun, bright-colored lid, both are fine options as long as you do the following three things.

1. Use a good volume mascara. Mascara makes your eyes look bigger, lashes look fuller, and because of all the different types and colors you can choose from, it can help you to look sexy, sophisticated, or trendy, just depending on your mood.

2. Curl your eyelashes. Curling your lashes is one of the quickest ways to make you look more awake and thus put together. Finding a good eyelash curler is an easy and super cheap way to brighten your eyes by lifting the lashes.

3. Don't forget your eyebrows! It really wasn't until a few years ago that people really started taking care of their eyebrows. Having groomed, proportionate brows that are filled in do wonders for making you look more awake, put together, and just overall feel confident. The reason being is that your brows frame your eyes, and having more symmetrical brows, makes your face overall more appealing to look at. If you are new to getting your eyebrows done, I don't recommend making a drastic change at once. Maybe start by lightly tweezing or filling in your brows with a slightly darker color than your natural hair color. You can find many tutorials on TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube, or you can go to a professional nearby. Just make sure you research their work. The different ways you can work on your eyebrows are:

• Tweezing
• Waxing
• Staining
• Microblading (for a more permanent look)
• Threading
• Filling in with an eyebrow pencil.

2. Wear Heels

Wearing heels is such a simple way to make you look more put together. Whether you're wearing heels with jeans and a t-shirt, a sundress, or a skirt and crop top, heels can be worn with most outfits and quickly make you look more confident and attractive.

Some of the benefits of wearing heels are:

• It makes you taller.
• It makes your butt look perkier.
• It can make you look thinner by elongating your body.
• Studies have shown that women who wear heels that fit and are comfortable instantly feeling more confident.

If you hate wearing heels, don't. Of course, you won't be more confident in something that makes you uncomfortable. However, if you don't wear heels very often, I suggest giving it a try and seeing if you feel more polished and put together. There are so many different heights, styles, and colors that you could definitely find something that fits your personality and makes you feel powerful and sexy.

3. Wear Solid Colors

Wearing solid colors is an easy way to look more put together. While there is nothing wrong with patterns or fun designs, I highly recommend wearing solid colors if your goal is to look more polished. That typically gives you a look that appears less chaotic.

When you have stripes, flowers, or chevron, your eyes tend to gravitate towards the pattern. When you are wearing solid colors, however, people are more focused on you as a person.

4. Keep Jewelry Simple

Jewelry is an easy and fun way to complete any look. However, too much jewelry can be distracting and actually cheapen your look. One mistake many people make is wearing earrings, a necklace, a ring, and a bracelet all at the same time. While that look may be ok sometimes, as a general rule, if you're trying to look more put together, less is more. Having every type of jewelry on, unless done correctly, can look chaotic.

If you're wearing bold statement earrings, either don't wear a necklace or make sure it's very simple or dainty. If you're wearing a ring, skip the bracelet. Make sure not to mix metal colors or types of stones as well.

5. Wear Your Favorite Fragrance

Wearing perfume can boost your confidence, make you seem more attractive to others, and can be a natural aphrodisiac.

Some scents that are known to attract other people are:

• Rose oil
• Vanilla
• Vetiver
• Orange
• Jasmine
• Peppermint

Find a scent that you love that isn't super overwhelming. You'll be sure to get compliments!

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Muntzirmehdi from Mianchannu Punjab Pakistan on August 04, 2021:

Very interesting article

Sarah is a makeup obsessed 30-year-old in Little Rock, Arkansas. I love trying new makeup and watching tutorials on new looks.

Quick Tips for Feeling More Attractive

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! It comes in all different shapes, sizes, colors, and personalities. There is not a magic trick to be beautiful, but these tips will help you feel more attractive!

Make Your Eyes Pop

Quick Tips

• Brighten dark circles under eyes.
• Curl your lashes.
• Brighten your waterline.
• Use eyeliner to accentuate your eyes.
• Wear eyeshadow that brings out your natural eye color.
• Don't forget mascara!

Brighten Dark Circles Under Your Eyes

If you are one of the many women that suffer from dark, puffy eyes, you know that it makes a big difference in your appearance. It makes you look tired and ages you several years. You can depuff your eyes by using a cold spoon. Keep two teaspoons in the freezer to ensure they get nice and cold. Then on the days that you need it, simply put them under your eyes for about three minutes each. The cold will help constrict the blood vessels, which will depuff the eyes.

Next, you should find a great concealer to cover the dark circles. Look for shades with peach undertones in order to get rid of the blue and purple color of under-eye circles.

Curl Your Lashes

Curling your eyelashes is one of the best things you can do to make your eyes pop. I highly recommend buying an eyelash curler. The curled and lifted look of your lashes will make you appear refreshed and younger.

Brighten Your Waterline

Using a light color eyeliner is a quick and easy way to make your eyes appear bigger and brighter. Try using a flesh-toned eyeliner right on the lower waterline to make your eyes really pop!

Use Eyeliner Strategically

Eyeliner is a great way to create the look of a wider or smaller eye. It can be used for soft, feminine looks and bold and powerful looks. Its main purpose is to make the lashes look thick and full, but it also draws attention to the eye and can enhance your current shape or change it for a more dramatic effect.

Wear Eyeshadow That Brings Out Your Eye Color

Some people choose eyeshadow color based on their outfit, mood, or other makeup, which is great but choosing a color that really brings out your natural eye color will really make your eyes stand out. Here are some colors to try based on your eye color.

Brown Eyes

If you're lucky enough to have brown eyes, you would look great in most eye shadow colors! Purple, bronze, blue, and green are just a few great options for you. Lighter brown eyes look especially good with blue eyeshadow. If you have gold flecks, try adding a shimmy gold or bronze!

Blue Eyes

Earth tones, such as rich brown and orange enhance blue eyes. Shimmery grays and silvers will also look great. If your eyes have a touch of gold in them, bronze and gold shades will bring it out. Try a coral or champagne for a natural look. For added drama, try a dark smoky eye.

Hazel or Green Eyes

Hazel and green eyes look best with natural hues. Earthy colors with red undertones or hints of gold. However, shades of purple will make for a beautiful and sophisticated contrast.

Gray Eyes

Gray eyes are similar to blue eyes but look best with complementary hues like silver, dark grey, and icy blue shades. Gray eyes are rare, so play them up to show off your unique eyes.

Use Mascara

Mascara is the most important step in making your eyes pop. In fact, most celebrities and makeup artists will say that if you can only wear one type of makeup, make sure it's mascara! It instantly adds length, volume, and color to the lashes, which draws attention to your eyes. Whether you want a soft, feminine look or a bold and sexy look, there is a mascara for you.

Have a Beautiful Smile

Quick Tips

• Take care of your teeth.
• Whiten your teeth.
• Accentuate your lips.
• Smile!

Take Care of Your Teeth

The best and easiest way to have a great smile is to take care of your teeth. This means to brush and floss regularly and to go to the dentist for regular checkups. Brushing and flossing your teeth regularly will keep your smile whiter, breath fresher, and even keeps you healthier!

Whiten Your Teeth

Having pearly whites really makes for a better smile! So avoid coffee, red wine, and cigarettes to keep from staining your teeth. If you can't avoid those things, make sure that you brush your teeth extra well, and use a toothpaste that has a whitener in it. You can even go to your dentist to have your teeth professionally whitened and cleaned, but for a cheaper option, your local store will have whitening strips, toothpaste, and mouthwash!

Accentuate Your Lips

Make your lips stand out to flaunt your beautiful smile! A bright red lip with blue undertones makes your teeth appear whiter, but you can also try a fun color like purple, blue, or black for a more unique look. Considering adding a gloss with a lip plumper for a poutier look.

Wear Bold Colors

Wearing certain colors can make you look slimmer, sexier, younger, and grab people's attention. While you should wear colors that make you feel comfortable and confident, certain colors are proven to make others perceive you differently if you wear them. You can use this to your benefit.

Black

• Wearing black can create the illusion of a thinner and taller body.
• Black is often perceived as classier and more professional.
• Black is a timeless color that will never go out of style. It can be worn in almost any scenario.
• Wearing black has been known to make people feel more confident.

Red

• Red is the color of passion.
• Red draws the eye—making you stand out in a room.
• Many studies have shown that wearing red can immediately increase your attractiveness.
• Wearing red has been linked to making you feel more confident.

Pink

• Pink often gives people a feeling of joy.
• Pink is often linked to femininity.
• Pink is refreshing and can make people feel lighter and more at peace.

Blue

• Blue is one of people's favorite colors. Because of this, you are more likely to get compliments when wearing blue.
• Blue is often associated with truth and professionalism. Typically people who are wearing blue are more likely to be trusted by others.

Find Your Scent

One of the best benefits of wearing perfume is it helps to enhance your mood. With the right scent, you can give off several different vibes. You can be playful, sexy, fierce, or innocent just by changing your scent up. Here are some scents to try.

Vanilla

Vanilla is a common base note in many popular fragrances, and it has been known to turn men on. It’s a natural aphrodisiac, and many surveys have proven that it really does have a euphoric effect.

Ylang Ylang

This tropical flower is said to be one of the strongest aphrodisiacs. This scent energizes men and women. You can find many perfumes and body sprays with this sexy scent.

Citrus

Lemons, oranges, and grapefruits aren’t just good for you—the smell of the fruits can boost your body’s production of serotonin. Serotonin is what makes you happy, so it can reduce levels of stress hormones. Lemon is one of the most powerful scents of the citrus family. It increases mental stimulation, making you more focused and alert.

Pumpkin Pie

The smell of this yummy dessert is proven to increase arousal in men. One study found that that the scent of pumpkin pie mixed with lavender increased blood flow to the nether regions by 40 percent.

The smell of pumpkin pie mixed with the smell of doughnuts increased blood flow by 31.5 percent. Scientists speculate that the men might be reacting to the vanilla and cinnamon. Either way, these scents will make you smell sweet, and who doesn't want that?

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2020 Sarah Spradlin

Comments

Dora Weithers from The Caribbean on October 27, 2020:

Great tips. All good but I think that the only one for me is to wear bold colors. Thanks!

FlourishAnyway from USA on October 21, 2020:

It was the first time I heard of waterline. Thanks for these tips.

Danny from India on October 15, 2020:

Amazing tips for accentuating image and personality.

Alyssa is a wife, mom, and coffee enthusiast who loves sharing her favorite lifestyle tips with the world.

It's never too early to get ready for spring. Plus, it's a great way to shed those winter weather blues! I've compiled a list of my beauty must-haves, along with some helpful tips and tricks, so you can shed the bulky winter coat and fleece-lined leggings and step out in that cute, flowy dress with confidence.

Exfoliation

It's time to slough off the dead skin cells and reveal gorgeous, glowing skin for spring. My favorite thing to do is dry brush. All you need is a simple body brush. You can find an inexpensive one at Wal-Mart or Meijer. Before each shower, dry brush your entire body. Start with the tops of the feet, working your way in a circular motion up your legs. Then, gently brush the tops of the hands, working again in a circular motion up your arms. Don't forget your tush and back, ending with the torso. Always brush in a circular pattern toward the heart. This is a great way to exfoliate the entire body. Then, jump in the shower to reveal your gorgeous skin.

Another important beauty tool is a pumice stone. A simple one is fine; you don't need anything fancy. Use this in the shower to exfoliate the bottom of your feet. This is perfect for those of us who suffer from dry, cracked feet and want a do-it-yourself option.

Finally, you might consider a luxurious body scrub. I love Dove's Exfoliating Body Polish with Crushed Macadamia and Rice Milk. Not only does it get rid of the dead skin, but it hydrates as it exfoliates, leaving your skin feeling soft and smooth. You could also make your own body scrub using equal parts sugar and extra virgin olive oil. Throw in your used coffee grounds to firm and tighten skin, reducing the appearance of cellulite. Use this body scrub with caution, though. It makes a mess!

Dollar Shave Club

Shaving products can rack up a lot of money. There are almost too many options to choose from, specialized products for both men and women, ranging from shaving gels and creams to fancy razors. My husband and I decided to try Dollar Shave Club back in 2015. At the time, we were spending a lot of money on razors and blades every few months. As a woman, I prefer a man's razor. They have five blades and stay sharp longer than products marketed to women. My husband and I are proud members and recommend it to everyone! It's inexpensive, only $9 for a set of blades. You can also postpone shipments if needed.

In recent years, Dollar Shave Club has expanded its options to include more great products. They have pretty much anything you need, from toothbrushes and toothpaste to hair gel. While it's marketed to men, the products also work well for women. My husband and I both love Dr. Carver's Easy Shave Butter. It softens hair and hydrates skin for a smooth shave.

Lotion

After exfoliating and shaving, it's time to moisturize. Hydrated skin is a must for spring. If you are a busy mom or on-the-go gal, consider an in-shower lotion. These are perfect for capturing the skin's ultimate moment of hydration. All you have to do is apply the product as you would a normal lotion, right in the shower, while your skin is still wet. Then pat dry with a towel, and you are good to go! My personal favorite is Jergens Wet Skin Moisturizer with Refreshing Coconut Oil. It leaves skin feeling silky soft all day!

My current favorite lotion is Neutrogena Hydro Boost with Hyaluronic Acid. This body gel cream is just like their facial moisturizer, giving the entire body hydration and locking it in for soft, supple skin. I've been using it for a month and absolutely love how my skin looks and feels!

If you are looking for an inexpensive lotion that will have you dreaming of the beach, try Queen Helene's Cocoa Butter Hand and Body lotion. This stuff is amazing! Not only is it inexpensive, but you get 32 ounces in a bottle. It lasts a really long time! I'm still using the bottle I purchased back in July. It moisturizes your skin and leaves a pleasant coconut scent, which will have you thinking about soft sand and warm water. Bring on spring!

Self-Tanning

From the time I was 21 up through 23, I frequented the tanning salon. Lathering my skin with sexy scented lotion, laying in the warm bed with my cute tanning shades on, and listening to the current hits was my happy place. Nothing was better, especially during the cold winter months. It became my respite from the stress of my job. It was relaxing and comforting. However, I was a bit of a tanning snob, having to have the package that offered the best technological bed at that time, which also meant a hefty $90 per month. I would go every other day, enjoying the warm radiation for up to 10 minutes at a time. My skin had a gorgeous sun-kissed glow, or so I thought. If I'm honest, it became an obsession.

I would look at my body in the mirror and freak out if I started to look pale. I had to keep my tan; it was a lifestyle after all. That all changed when one day, my husband noticed three purple spots on my shoulder. They resembled the beginnings of skin cancer, and that promptly ended my trips to the salon. Why would I pay that much money each month just to develop a horrible disease? While it wasn't skin cancer, it freaked me out enough to get me to stop. But, I'd be lying if I said I didn't miss it. It was my 'me time,' a chance to escape whatever was going on in life and just relax. Nowadays, I don't encourage people to lay in a tanning bed, but I completely understand the appeal and desire to do so.

If you don't lay in a tanning bed, how do you get that beautiful sun-kissed glow? The magical world of self-tanner. Lotions, mousses, and sprays have come a long way in the past decade. There are so many options to choose from. You could spend the cash to go to the salon and get a spray tan, or you could do it yourself in the privacy of your own home.

I like the do-it-yourself option best. After you've exfoliated, you're ready to give yourself a treat. In the past, I've loved the convenience of the L'Oreal Paris Sublime Bronze self-tanning mist. It's easy to apply, and you can get your back on your own. The spray gives your skin a beautiful bronze tint that looks as though you've been on vacation somewhere tropical. I also love Jergens Natural Glow + Firming daily moisturizer. It's easy to apply and gradually builds the color you want, without streaking or looking fake. I also love it because it helps give the appearance of tight, firm skin on the thighs and upper arms, which is a bit of a problem area for me.

Everyone looks good with a sun-kissed glow, and it's the perfect way to get ready for spring!

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Put Your Best Face Forward

Now is the time to get into a good skin-care routine for your face. Washing your face in the morning and in the evening is a must. I have dry skin, so I use a cleanser once a day, usually in the evening. I love Neutrogena Deep Clean Cream Cleanser. It's gentle and leaves a refreshing tingle on the skin. It's perfect for those of us who still have issues with acne. I also love Neutrogena Deep Clean Invigorating Foaming Scrub. I use this once or twice a month on my face to exfoliate. I love using this on my back to combat acne from working out.

If you are dealing with acne issues, I highly recommend visiting a dermatologist. I spent a lot of money and time on over the counter acne creams and serums, trying to get rid of the hormonal acne around my chin and the little bumps that were cropping up on my forehead and temples. It was frustrating because nothing worked long-term. Finding a dermatologist was the best decision I ever made. My doctor assessed my skin and prescribed two lotions for me. I've been on this regiment for about three years now, and my skin is clear and beautiful again. Do yourself a favor this year and see a dermatologist.

Now that I'm in my 30s, anti-aging skin care is on my mind. I have a few lines around my eyes when I smile, and there are a few lines around my mouth as well. I'm not obsessed with getting rid of them, but I do want to keep my skin plump and hydrated. To combat these issues, I use Olay Pro-Retinol eye treatment twice a day and Olay Regenerist Micro-Sculpting cream all over my face at night. This combination has made my face look amazing! In fact, the last time I went to the dermatologist, she was impressed by how my skin looked. Both products keep my face hydrated and fresh. I love them!

Hair Goals

Everywhere I go, I get compliments on my hair. People stop me in the store to tell me that they love my hair color, and are often surprised when I tell them it comes from a box. While my hair is long, it's pretty low maintenance. Over the years, I've learned that when it comes to hair, less is more, and if you have the right products, you're set.

My hair is long and thick, and it is a pain to wash. Each week I play a fun game, how long can I go without washing my hair? Usually, it's four days, but my personal best is six days. How do I do it? Dry shampoo: a girl's best friend. I love Not Your Mother's Beach Babe Texturizing Dry Shampoo. It absorbs all the oil without leaving a white residue, and it smells like the beach!

The secret is to apply it at night before going to bed. I put my hair in a top knot and spray all around my head, focusing on the roots. When I wake up in the morning, my hair has completely absorbed it, looking fresh and ready for the day. I can do this for a few days without it weighing my hair down. Sometimes I will spray it into my locks to freshen up and give me a beachy tousled look. I don't like my hair to look perfectly coiffed, I like it a little messy and wild.

When I do wash my hair, I am careful of the products I use, especially because I dye it red. Red is the hardest color to keep, as it generally fades quickly to a mousey brown. I've found a way around that. I use Garnier Nutrisse Light Intense Auburn R3. It is the only red that does not fade. As for shampoo, I love a few different brands. TreSemme Color Revitalize is perfect for cleaning your hair without stripping your color. I also love these budget-friendly Suave products:

• Suave Professionals Moroccan Infusion Color Care
• Suave Professionals Keratin Infusion Color Care
• Suave Professionals Sheer Color Radiance

In addition, I always have Suave Essentials Daily Clarifying shampoo in my shower. I use it a few times a month to get rid of any product build-up and it also can double as a body wash.

When it comes to conditioner, I'm picky. Because my hair is so thick, I need a deep conditioner every time I wash my hair. I love Aussie 3 Minute Miracle 3X Moisture. It keeps my hair soft and silky. I also love L'Oreal Paris Elvive Revive. They've rebranded this product a few times. It used to come in a large red tub. It was my favorite deep conditioner and kept my red hair vibrant. Unfortunately, it is difficult to find in stores near me.

Recently, Influenster sent me a complimentary bottle of L'Oreal Paris Elvive Color Vibrancy Rapid Reviver Deep Conditioner. This is the same product mentioned above, but now in a bottle. They are marketing it as a deep conditioner that you can use every time you wash your hair. I love this product! It keeps my hair soft and silky and keeps my red vibrant, but again, I can't find it in any stores near me.

Aside from that, I highly recommend Moroccan oil. There are several brands that sell this. It's great for keeping hair soft, silky, and shiny, a must for anyone who colors their hair.

With spring coming, you might be tempted to straighten your hair or pull out your curling rod for beautiful waves. Why not give your tresses a break from all that heat? Try a cute side braid. I love doing a combination of a regular braid, a fishtail braid, and a knot braid. It's a simple style that always looks classy!

Kissable Lips

Winter weather is harsh on skin and on lips. Make sure you keep your lips soft by keeping chapstick on hand. I love Carmex. It's a simple, inexpensive lip balm. I always have one for the bathroom, one for the living area, and one in my purse. It keeps lips hydrated and soft, a must for the transition between winter and spring. Be sure to keep your lips exfoliated as well. You can easily use your toothbrush or a simple sugar scrub.

Other Beauty Must-Haves

Everyone should keep Vaseline on hand. It works wonders to keep feet, knees, and elbows soft. It can double as a lip balm or gloss. You can even use it to remove make-up. It has a variety of household uses as well.

When it comes to nail polish, consider a nude, beige, light pink, or white for a classic look on the fingers. Keeping a neutral shade on your nails always looks clean and professional. For the toes, you might want a pop of color to celebrate spring. Consider a peachy pink, coral, or red for a pretty, classic look.

Fragrance is another beauty favorite. Consider finding your signature scent this year. My all-time favorite scent is Calvin Klein Euphoria. It's equal parts mature and sexy. I also love Victoria's Secret Heavenly. It's romantic and sensual, making you feel confident every time you wear it. I also love a great body mist. Victoria's Secret Bare Vanilla is my favorite.

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Additional Beauty Tips

Aside from products, there are a few things you can do every day to make sure you are feeling your very best for spring. Be sure to drink plenty of water to stay hydrated. You will also want to get in some movement every day. You don't always need to hit the gym or do a lengthy workout. Get outside for a refreshing walk or go hiking at your local park. In addition to that, make sure you are getting enough sleep each night.

When it comes to beauty, I've found that simple is always best. It's easier to follow, and you're more likely to stick with it. Happy spring!

© 2019 Alyssa

Comments

Alyssa (author) from Ohio on April 02, 2019:

Thank you, Dina! Yes, I am passionate about finding budget-friendly products, and in my experience, they are just as good as the high-end ones. As for picking out a brush, I just chose one that was all natural and had soft bristles. It's really up to personal preference. See what the selection is like at your local store and pick the one that feels the best for you. :) Good luck! Let me know how it works out.

Dina AH from United States on April 01, 2019:

I like that you approached beauty from a more mindful point. For example, I found it refreshing that you shared your connection to tanning. I can totally understand the relaxing factor you'd associated with getting a tan.

Plus, I love love, love that you are not necessarily recommending pricey things. In a way, this makes your advice a bit more applicable to more people.

While I have not attempted body brushing before, I feel like your description evoked a sense of wonder, appreciation, and love towards your body. I think that could be so good for me. How do you pick a brush? Anything I should look out for?

Alyssa (author) from Ohio on February 11, 2019:

Thank you, Pamela! I've heard great things about Cerave, but I haven't tried it out. The Dove is great! I hope you like it!

Pamela Oglesby from Sunny Florida on February 08, 2019:

I like your beauty routine. As I am older I probably have dryer skin, so I alwys but lotion on wet skin as it sure helps. My dermatologist suggested I use Cerave cream, so I use the clenser and the night cream. It has helped. I want to try The Dove exfoliating product you listed and some other products as well.

Thanks for great spring suggestions. Have a great weekend Alyssa.

Alyssa (author) from Ohio on February 08, 2019:

Hahahaha! Thank you, Bill. I hope you have a wonderful weekend as well. Stay warm!

Bill Holland from Olympia, WA on February 08, 2019:

Me and beauty have nothing in common, so I just stopped by to wish you a great weekend. Spring? We have our second snowstorm of the week arriving today, with another one predicted for Monday. I can only dream of spring. :)

I love makeup because it's not simply colors and textures, but also a creative, artistic means of expressing my personality.

In the quest for the fountain of youth, many women are actually drinking from contaminated waters. Instead of rewinding aging, they’re unintentionally pushing it into fast-forward. Their arithmetic is all wrong—rather than subtracting years from their appearance, they’re actually adding years. Consider avoiding these ten beauty mistakes that can appear to accelerate aging instead of slowing it down.

1. Using Too Much Foundation

When it comes to foundation, less is more. You may be tempted to slather on foundation to cover your facial flaws, but you’ll actually wind up with a thick, mask-like appearance that makes you look old beyond your years. Avoid cake-like foundation. It looks unnatural, can clog your pores, and can settle into fine lines and draw attention to them.

Be on the lookout for a light, oil-free foundation. In the search for the right foundation, you may have to try many until you find one that’s the perfect balance of color and texture. If the myriad of foundations confuses you, ask an expert at a makeup counter for assistance.

2. Being Underweight or Yo-Yo Dieting

Maybe you can’t be too rich, but you can be too thin. When you’re underweight, you lose facial fat, which causes droopy skin and a gaunt, older appearance.

Dieting like a yo-yo is also a no-no that can prematurely age you. The constant weight gain and loss stretches and loosens your skin, so try to maintain a consistent, healthy weight. While you’re striving to achieve that weight, you can use a skin-plumping and tightening cream to tide you over.

3. Over-Tweezing Your Eyebrows

Another beauty gaffe that can give your face a gaunt, skeletal appearance is over-tweezing your eyebrows. Thinner brows tend to age you, even if you’re young. When you overdo the plucking, you risk scarring the follicles, preventing the hair from growing back. Serums are available to help regrow eyebrows.

You can also avoid adding extra years to your appearance by splurging on a professional brow shaping. An alternative is to keep the shape that you have, being extra careful to pluck only hairs that stray under the brow bone.

Pump up your brows’ volume with an eyebrow powder in a shade that matches your brow’s natural color. Subtly apply the powder a bit higher than your eyebrows’ natural arch, using a soft, feathery touch. Steer clear of cream-based brow fillers, which are too severe.

4. Using Eyeliner on Your Lower Eyelid

Your lower eyelid should be surrounded with that yellow tape that says, “Do not cross,” because it should be off-limits to eyeliner and mascara. Why? If they smudge, they emphasize dark circles and shadows in wrinkles, as well as other dark areas of your face. They can also draw attention to crow’s feet. All of this can equate to you looking tired and older.

Try to only use liner and mascara (preferably waterproof to stay in place) on the top eyelid to help you look refreshed and alert. If you must go for a smoky eye, apply mascara and liner very lightly over your lower lid.

5. Wearing Dark, Matte Lip Shades

The older you are, the older you’ll look if you attempt to pull off dark, matte lip shades. They lack softness, which makes them look very hard and severe. Matte colors can also bleed and feather in the tiny lines outside of your lips, which can add years to your appearance.

Instead, go for a softer look with a lip liner or stain in a dark color, overlaid with a sheer gloss to offset the dark shade’s harshness. Another caution regarding dark lipsticks—they’ll age thin lips by making them appear even thinner.

Also, put that red lipstick back in your makeup bag, and leave it there. Red is a loud, flashy color that will draw attention to lines around your mouth and can make your teeth look more yellow.

No matter what shade or texture you wear, outline your pout with lip liner to keep lipstick in place.

6. Applying Blush Incorrectly

You’re supposed to apply blush to the apples of your cheeks, right? Well, not exactly. Your cheeks are susceptible to sagging, and blush will only draw attention to this flaw. Instead, highlight your cheekbones by following their line and sweeping powdered blush upward.

Be sure you don’t apply the powder like two stripes of war paint. Instead, use a rounded, tapered brush for a silky smooth glow. Color matters too. If you go for a shade that’s too bright or too dark, you may end up looking like you belong in the circus. Opt instead for a lighter, softer hue that works well with your skin tone (rose is great for many), so you don’t get a call from the Ringling Brothers.

7. Being Too Harsh on Your Under-Eye Area

Any repetitious facial motion or habit is eventually going to leave its evidence on your skin. The delicate eye area (skin under the eye is seven times thinner the rest of the face) is particularly susceptible to frequent rubbing and pulling. This can cause the pigment around your eyes to darken, adding numerous years to your appearance.

Also, avoid premature aging and pigment problems by being very gentle with the skin around your eyes when putting in or taking out contact lenses and when applying eye makeup.

8. Ruining Your Teeth and Mouth

One of the advantages of drinking soda, coffee, or tea through a straw is that it can shield your teeth from staining. The drawback is that it’s prematurely aging you.

Whenever you purse your lips to drink from a straw or to smoke a cigarette, you’re etching lines all around your mouth. So ditch the straw and the smokes, and save your pucker for kissing!

9. You Don't Take Care of Your Hands and Nails

Your hands are one of the fastest-aging parts of your body. Dry, rough hands, no matter what your age, pile years onto your appearance. Slather on a moisturizing lotion, preferably one with sunscreen, several times a day to keep your hands hydrated and restore a dewy luster. A 2013 Australian study determined that women’s hands didn’t age at all after a sunscreen treatment every day for four years.

Out-of-style manicures can also fast-forward the clock. Long nails make your hands look old and witch-like. If nails are long and pointy, your hands will appear even more aged. Instead, pare your nails slightly past your fingertips.

Bright nail polish colors, such as orange, hot pink, and red, can shift the focus away from aging hands. Make sure you wear a warm red, rather than a blue-based one that can accentuate blue veins and spots. The same goes for purples and any shade of blue polish. Avoid nude colors, which are so subtle that they defeat the purpose of providing a distraction from the rest of the hand.

10. You Don't Have the Right Hairstyle

Some women think long hair rocks. Some think short hair is frumpy. No matter how much you love your Rapunzel tresses, they may make you look old and gaunt as you age and lose fat in your face. They draw the eye downward, making for a less-than-pleasing visual.

However, you don’t have to resort to a dowdy roller-set-and-sprayed bubble hairdo. You can try a shoulder-length cut abounding with layers for body, bounce, and the effect of a fuller, rounder face.

Mother Nature and heredity are tough enough aging adversaries, without you adding beauty blunders to the mix. Throw the clock into reverse, and let your own youthful radiance shine through with these effective, easy fixes.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

Katy has an open-minded but practical approach to style. She shares all the details about making fashion work for you.

As women we aspire to look our best all the time. How do some women look flawless while others feel like they struggle just to look presentable? The answer is in knowing where to put your efforts and finding out what works for you.

It doesn't take a lot of money or even time to achieve this look. It's all about wisely choosing what to care for and what to let go.

How to Look Classy Every Day

Want to know the secret to looking classy every day?

It's simple: find what makes the biggest impact. Find aspects of your appearance people notice the most and learn to take care of those every day.

Here are the main things to focus on to look great every single day:

1. Intentional outfits with clothes that fit
2. Well kept hair and nails
3. Simple, natural makeup
4. Healthy skin

That's it! Polished basics can cover up the slip ups we all make when things get busy. No one will notice if you haven't washed your hair today if you're confident in your go-to bun style. You won't worry if your clothes are old if they're well taken care of and fit well.

How to Build "Put Together" Outfits

Your choice of clothes has a big impact on your appearance. We often get caught up in thinking we need the latest, brand name styles. But it's not the dollar amount of the items that count. It's how well they fit and their condition.

Coordinated outfits are a sign that you've mastered adulthood. And they're not as hard to achieve as it might seem!

Let's break down what makes a classy looking outfit:

1. Coordinated colors and fits.
2. All items fit properly.
3. No wrinkles or wear.
4. It fits your personal style.

None of these items need to cost much but it does take some money and time to figure out each.

Use Balanced Silhouettes

Balancing fits is something basic you can do to automatically look stylish. Some items fit tighter like skinny jeans or tight tops, others are loose. A general guideline is to style your upper half or lower half tight or loose and then do the opposite on the other half. So a full skirt on bottom should be paired with a tight tank on top. Wear a bagging sweater with slim or skinny jeans.

Take Care of Your Clothes

A fabulous blouse that fits great and goes with everything will still drag you down if it's wrinkled. Maybe you have time to iron all your shirts but for me this Secure Handheld Steamer has been the holy grail of looking classy.

No matter what I do, most of my clothes dry with anywhere from a slight to horrid amount of wrinkles. This keeps me from looking polished, when I spent so much time trying to look nice. A handheld steamer changed all this and was a cheap and quick solution.

Stick to A Color Palette

Color makes a huge impact in our outfits. You probably know what colors look good on you and if you don't you can take some fashion color quizzes on Google. Making outfits is easier with a simple color palette. Pick a few colors you like and one or two neutrals.

Part of the reason capsule wardrobes are so popular is they have a simple color palette and one or two silhouettes. So whatever you grab from that wardrobe will immediate look great together, in color and fit!

On A Budget

If you find your wardrobe needs a change you don't need to replace all your clothing immediately. Simply limit yourself to your color palette and style when shopping for your next pieces. This strategy will gradually build your wardrobe into your secret weapon for looking great everyday.

Also, spend some time arranging the clothes you do have into new outfits. You'd be surprised what you can come up with when you dedicate 10 or 15 minutes a day trying new outfit combinations.

Simple Makeup for Everyday

Follow these guidelines for great looking makeup every day:

1. Take care of your skin first.
2. Find the products that work for you.
3. Keep it simple!

Let's look at how to pull off these easy principles everyday.

Skincare Routine

Everyday makeup application is easier when there are less flaws to cover up. Start with a solid skin care regimen that works for you. The most important aspect of skin care is sticking to a routine.

Consistency will be easier to keep up with if the routine is simple. Find affordable products and do only what you need. Better yet, learn to make them at home like this DIY Rose Water Toner.

Everyday Makeup Routine

Just like skincare, you're more likely to stick to a makeup routine if it's easy. Narrow down your products to the essentials that make the most impact for your face.

Be honest about how much time you're willing to spend on makeup each day. Cut products until your process fits into the time.

I have dark circles under my eyes and some red patches but otherwise clear skin. Concealer is a must for me and makes a big impact on making me look awake.

I spend more time on basic skincare so all I need on top of that is a BB cream. My favorite is Bare Mineral's Complexion Rescue. It's covers imperfections without looking cakey or highlighting fine lines. And it's a great moisturizer with a bit of sunscreen so it's not fighting my skin care routine.

You could add in mascara or a neutral blush. Whatever makes you feel great!

Women who look great everyday have strong self-care habits

Look Classy Everyday Tricks

Yes the basics for looking nice takes some time commitment. But there are some clever shortcuts you can take when life gets busy. Here are some "hacks" to try to take your everyday routine to the next level.

Polished Nails

Painted nails in a bold or classy color elevates any outfit. Get your nails done and you'll look stylish in just jeans and a t-shirt.

Doing a professional looking manicure or nail job at home is a skill you can learn. But remember that chipped polish looks worse than none so it can be a time commitment.

Pearl Stud Earrings

These can be any stud earrings you like. But pearl earrings have a certain class that's hard to replicate in such a simple accessory. They go with anything from the gym to the office.

Bad Hair-Day Hairstyle

Any busy woman has a go-to hairstyle for when it just won't cooperate. Master a few buns or half-up styles you like. Practice when you'll be at home all day and see if the style stays up before you wear it to work or out for a night.

Share Your Tips for Looking Great Everyday

What tips do you have for looking your best everyday?

Share with us in the comments below.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2018 Katy Medium

Sarah is a makeup obsessed 30-year-old in Little Rock, Arkansas. I love trying new makeup and watching tutorials on new looks.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone has an opinion on whether it's better to be short or tall, thin or curvy, blonde or brunette, etc. Some people like the all-natural look, while others love a dramatic red lip and a dark smoky eye.

When it comes to beauty, all that matters is that YOU feel good in your own skin and are able to express yourself in the way that you want to. With that being said, I have some tips that will enhance the beauty that you already have—and they're all super easy and quick! Try some of these tips below and let me know what you think.

I believe in manicures. I believe in overdressing. I believe in primping at leisure and wearing lipstick. I believe in pink. I believe happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day, and . . . I believe in miracles.

— Audrey Hepburn

1. Brighten Your Eyes

When you look into someone's eyes, usually the first thing you notice is the color. Are they brown, green, or blue? But what really makes your eye color pop is the white part of your eyes. The long-term way to whiten your eyes is, of course, to eat healthily and get good sleep—but an instant way is to use eye drops. This will hydrate your eyes, reduce redness, and immediately make them brighter. Don't use them every day, just when your eyes are dry, red, or you need a little pick-me-up.

2. Whiten Your Smile

Having whiter teeth can make you look younger and healthier. Straight and white teeth are signs of good health. While you can't straighten your teeth instantly, you can whiten them by using whitening strips, whitening mouth wash, or getting them professionally whitened at your dentist. In terms of straightening, it will take time. But there's no better time to start than the present! You can get discuss what method is best for you with your dentist.

3. Achieve a Healthy Glow

Having healthier skin can minimize the look of acne, wrinkles, veins, and discoloration. But if you wake up in the morning and your skin looks as tired as you feel, there is a way you can fib that healthy glow.

Using a combination of highlighter, blush, and bronzer can make your skin look dewy and fresh. And your skin and bone structure will stand out if you highlight and contour in the correct spots. This subtle "no makeup" or "I woke up like this" look started trending in 2018. So as a result, there are plenty of brands out there to try.

These products are your best friend—there's no need to bake in the sun and damage your skin to achieve glowing results!

4. Wear Red

When you think of sexy, what color comes to mind? If you are like most people, you probably think red. Why is that? Maybe because red is a color that has been linked to love and passion. Think about it, red lipstick, red lingerie, red hearts for Valentine's Day, red roses, red is everywhere when it has to do with love. So when a person wears red, it automatically makes people more attracted to them.

In the study "Oxygenated-Blood Colour Change Thresholds for Perceived Facial Redness, Health, and Attractiveness," a group of men was shown pictures of a woman. For some men, the woman in the photo was wearing a red shirt. For others, the same exact woman was wearing a blue shirt. The results found that the men rated the woman in red as more attractive than the same woman who was wearing blue. They also were more interested in dating the woman with the red shirt. Surprisingly, when the men were asked if the color of her shirt had any influence on their attraction, none reported that it did. This indicates that color influences our judgments in an unconscious way. We don't even realize we're more attracted to it.

Try wearing red lipstick or a red dress to really stand out in a crowd. Even just having red nails or wearing red earrings can increase your chances of appearing more attractive.

5. Wear Vanilla

It's long been believed that vanilla is a natural aphrodisiac. The sweet, welcoming smell of Vanilla has a euphoric effect that sets a sensual mood. If you are looking for a scent that is sexy, you want a scent that has vanilla in it. It has been proven that people prefer scents that remind them of comforting situations. Vanilla is a sweet, warm fragrance that reminds people of their childhoods. Some perfumes that have a vanilla scent are:

• Byredo Gypsy Water
• Hypnotic Poison By Christian Dior
• Victoria's Secret Coconut Passion
• Britney Spears Hidden Fantasy
• Krigler Subtle Orchid
• Pacifica Island Vanilla

6. Wear Nude Heels

You probably already know that wearing heels is supposed to make you look more attractive by making you appear taller, walk with better posture, and even lift your booty. Not to mention that heels make you appear more feminine, which has been known to increase attractiveness. But why nude heels? Well, because it creates the illusion that you have longer legs. You can wear nude heels with dresses, skirts or jeans. Because it is a neutral color, it pretty much goes with everything. Try buying some nude heels today and see how great your legs look!

7. Fill in Your Eyebrows

Eyebrows are important because they really frame your face. It has been proven that bushy, full eyebrows are often preferred. Scientists at Oakland University asked 1,000 people to rate images based on attractiveness. Dr. Lisa Welling, the study's senior author, explains some of the possible reasons for the preference:

“It could be that relatively thicker eyebrows signal other qualities, such as a tendency towards more grooming . . . It is also possible that this preference reflects current fashion trends. Whatever the associated trait, it seems to be particularly desirable in a long-term mating context, such as marriage.”

So to make sure your eyebrows are "on fleek," you can try getting eyebrow extensions, using eyebrow gel or powder, or even get microblading, which is where they are essentially tattooing the perfect eyebrows on. I know that sounds scary, but if you go to an expert, it looks great!

Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself.

— Coco Chanel

8. Show Off Your Neckline

Sometimes when women think about showing off skin to look sexy, they think they have to show a lot of cleavage, but the truth is that they don't! Showing off your neckline or décolletage without showing off too much cleavage can be very attractive. It's feminine, flirty, and leaves you wanting more. It also draws attention to the length of your neck. To achieve this look, try wearing an off the shoulder shirt or cold shoulder sweater. To emphasize it more, you can actually take a highlighter and highlight your collarbone. Try layering some long but dainty necklaces to really draw your eye.

9. Wear Lipstick or Lip Gloss

Lipstick is an important beauty trick that most women can't live without. Wearing lipstick brings out the beauty in you and frames that gorgeous smile. Also, it draws people's eyes to your lips, which, of course, then makes them think of kissing.

You don't have to wear a dark color to look attractive. Even a nude color with a shimmery gloss will really pull the rest of your look together. If nothing else, wearing a lip product will make your lips look more hydrated and healthy, which is always a plus.

Aside from the cosmetic appeal, the best thing about lipstick is that it makes people feel more confident and put together. Nothing like a good lip to brighten up your day!

10. Make Eye Contact and Smile

While making eye contact and smiling may not seem important, it really is. Making eye contact shows that you are confident and giving attention to whoever you are talking to. Smiling makes you seem outgoing and more approachable. If there was someone at a party that you were thinking about talking to, you wouldn't go up to them if they were frowning or always looking at their phone, would you? No. Because it makes it seem like they want to be left alone.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2018 Sarah Spradlin

Comments

Zoe on August 16, 2020:

I think everyone is Beautiful the way they are but I also think this stuff is pretty cute too.

Eleanor on August 12, 2020:

What do I do with my eyebrows if they are super light?

K on August 02, 2020:

This is dumb and not helpful.

Hahsti on July 27, 2020:

I hate this quiz bc everybody is beautiful & unique

Jess on July 18, 2020:

I Think This Is Really Good Information But I Think Stuff Like Were A Red Dress Like That’s not Something you Can Were all The time so I feel Like it would show some Pictures Of like cute Clothes and Like cute shoes and hair accessories and some good makeup so that people can Try that stuff out and see If they like it I think How to be pretty is more about Clothes and what you wear and like what your hair ,nails.shoes and skin look like me I’ve got the worst skin ever My hand and Really Really Bad from slime But I think everyone Is pretty In there own say That no matter what your skin looks like or what you wear you are still gorgeous In your own way!

Sarah Spradlin (author) from Little Rock, Arkansas on July 06, 2020:

I'm sure you are beautiful!

Amelia on July 02, 2020:

I am going to try i am sooooooooooo ugly

emily on July 04, 2019:

this is great thanks

Unknown on March 29, 2019:

I think these are helpful, but they need a little more.

Alyssa is a wife, mom, and coffee enthusiast who loves sharing her favorite lifestyle tips with the world.

Some days are completely frustrating. You're getting ready for an event or just to run a few errands, and nothing seems to be working. No matter how you style your hair or fix your make-up, it just doesn't look right—everything you put on to wear looks terrible. You start getting annoyed and frustrated. It's a scene straight out of The Grinch. This is what we call an "ugly day." It happens to all of us from time to time, but it can really put a damper on your mood.

Don't let this temporary setback ruin your morning or afternoon. I've compiled my favorite tips and tricks to turn an ugly day around and have you looking your best!

1. Add a Sun-Kissed Glow

This is my favorite trick. Just add a little bronzer to your cheeks, over the bridge of your nose, along your temples, around your jawline, down your neck, and a touch along your collarbone. This warms up the face and will make you look radiant. It also gives the illusion that you've spent a little time soaking up the sunshine, even if you've stayed inside, laid on the couch, and binged Netflix all weekend.

Apply bronzer over your foundation or to a bare face for a cute, no make-up look. My favorite is Warmth from Bare Minerals. It gives your face a gorgeous, healthy glow, it's made from natural minerals, and looks beautiful on all skin tones.

2. Natural Make-Up

Now is not the time to experiment with a new look. You should do your favorite version of a classic, timeless look. The simpler, the better. I love a light, natural look. The idea is to make you look well-rested, your skin flawless, and your eyes sparkly and bright. You should look like you aren't wearing make-up at all. To achieve that, brighten your eyes with a white or cream-colored gel, shadow, or highlighter.

My favorite is Bare Minerals Stroke of Light eye brightener. Apply your favorite product in the corner of each eye and about a quarter of the way onto your eyelid, blending with the pad of your ring finger. Use just a little foundation, if any at all. Add a pretty pink gloss for a pop of color, if desired.

3. Accessories Are a Girl's Best Friend

When you aren't feeling great about your outfit or your overall look, spruce it up with a few accessories. Put on your favorite necklace, some funky earrings, or cute bangles. Maybe you decide to put on an heirloom piece that makes you think of a beloved family member. Bringing fond memories into mind will help lift your spirits. You might decide on a statement piece that always captures attention and brings compliments.

I have a beautiful rose quartz pendant that I put on when I'm feeling a little low. It helps remind me that I am loved and always brings a smile to my face. When I want to make a statement or radiate confidence, I wear my gorgeous black obsidian pendant. If I'm looking for something feminine and soft, I opt for a stunning pearl pendant my husband bought me our first Christmas together. If I'm pulling my hair back or I want something fun, I like to wear a pair of dangly earrings and a set of pearl studs.

Jewelry can help tie an outfit together or set a vibe. You don't have to choose a piece of jewelry, though. You might opt for a beautiful scarf or a fun belt. Accessories can help transform your day and your mood.

4. Scent

The sense of smell is so powerful that it can transport us back in time. Certain scents can bring about memories decades past that you thought you had forgotten. The next tip is to spritz yourself with your favorite scent, whether it's a perfume, a body spray, or even putting on a scented lotion. It might not make you look better, but it will lift your mood, make you smile, and give you an air of confidence. Be sure to spritz your scent on the inside of your wrists, on the back of your neck, and behind each knee.

5. Sunglasses

Sunglasses make you look like you have it all together, even if you don't. They add a dash of style and flair to any outfit. It's so simple and easy to put on a pair before you leave the house. Throwing on a pair of sunglasses is sometimes the only make-up I need!

Not only do they look cool, but sunglasses also help protect your eyes from the sun's harmful rays, and they can even help block allergens from getting into your eyes, making them itchy, watery, or red. I never go outside without my shades.

6. Wear Your Favorites

This is perhaps the most frustrating part of having an ugly day. You go to your closet, spend five to ten minutes deciding on which pieces you want to wear, pull them out, and put them on. Maybe you struggle while putting them on. You go to the mirror and take a look. Yikes. All of a sudden, you are racking your brain trying to figure out when you turned into a toad. You go back to the closet and repeat this process several times. At some point, your room looks like an F5 tornado ran through it, and you are lying on your bed trying to figure out how you can survive without ever leaving the house again.

Nothing is going to look right at this point. Here's what to do. Find your favorite outfit to fit whatever the occasion. For example, if you're running errands, pick out your favorite comfy shirt and your favorite pair of jeans. If you're off to work, pick out your favorite blouse and dress pants. You want the pieces that you know you always look good in, no matter what. Put them on and take a deep breath. Go the mirror, double-check that everything is in place, and be done. Grab yourself a cup of coffee or tea and head out.

When you have your favorite pieces on, deep down, you know you look good. You can safely leave the house and tackle your day without stressing too much about your clothes. Chances are, within ten minutes of leaving, you will feel better.

7. Rough It Up

Messy hair is gorgeous. What better time for a messy top knot or funky side braid than on a day when your hair is not cooperating? These are also great styles when it's raining or super humid out. I love a low, messy side braid.

I switch it up, starting with roughing up my part. Then I sweep my hair to one side, separating it into two chunky sections. Twist the sections of hair simultaneously toward the middle. Bunch them together, poke your pointer finger through the middle, and create two new sections. Repeat that one more time. From there, create three sections of hair and begin to braid as normal. Stop halfway down and split the middle section into two more sections. Add each section to the other two sections of hair so that you only have two sections of hair to braid. Begin creating a fishtail braid all the way to the end. Secure with an elastic. Gently pull on the sides of the braid to make it a little bigger and a little messier. Spritz with hairspray, and you are good to go.

I love doing different combinations of those three braids. It's a perfect summery mermaid look. Wear it to the beach, while running errands, or, depending on your job, to work.

If your roots are greasy or just growing in and you want to hide them, try throwing on a hat. Combine with the messy side braid, a simple ponytail, or leave it down, and you are ready to go.

8. Fake It 'Til You Make It

All the tips above can help your outward appearance, but being attractive and looking good is more about your attitude, confidence, and how you treat others. If you're still in a bad mood, try this:

Take a deep breath.

Hold for a slow count of 8.

Exhale slowly.

Repeat three to five times.

Then think of something you're grateful for, such as the warm weather, the sunshine, a hot cup of coffee, or just the simple fact that you have this day to spend with the people you love.

Smile, even if you don't feel like it.

Put on your favorite song as you travel to your destination.

Be kind and courteous to everyone you come into contact with during your day.

Doing those things will help transform your mood and your day. In the grand scheme of life, no one really cares what you look like. Most people are too busy focusing on themselves to notice that you don't like your outfit, or your hair is a little off today. What they will remember is how you've treated them, and that is the most important thing.

© 2018 Alyssa

Comments

Alyssa (author) from Ohio on June 16, 2018:

Great tip, Nilza! Thank you for sharing! :)

Alyssa (author) from Ohio on June 16, 2018:

Thank you so much, Geri!

Geri McClymont on June 16, 2018:

These are all great tips, Alyssa, and I thank God for hats and sunglasses! I agree that most people won't notice how we look, but as you say, they'll remember how we treated them. So important and so true. Thank you for a great post.

Nilza Marie Santana-Castillo from Atlanta on May 22, 2018:

I recently learned to use darker bronzer shades to double as contour along the line of the cheekbone! Very easy to do!

Bill Holland from Olympia, WA on May 16, 2018:

Oh Alyssa, pleeeeeeeze! There is no hope for this old man. :)

Alyssa (author) from Ohio on May 16, 2018:

Great tips, Larry! Thank you for stopping by! :)

Larry W Fish from Raleigh on May 16, 2018:

Us men have those ugly days to, Alyssa, but I refuse to use makeup, LOL. What I like to do is take a nice long walk by myself, enjoy the birds, the squirrels, and appreciate what Mother Nature has to offer.

I've been an online writer for several years. My articles focus on a wide range of topics, including skin care, fashion and holidays.

After writing my ''Summer Guide For Goth Girls'' article, I realised fairly quickly that there are many guys out there who have the same summer struggles as us spooky girls, but, unfortunately, there doesn't seem to be the same number of helping hands offered to men as there is for women.

As the summer is fast approaching, or in a lot of cases already here, I thought it would be helpful to adapt my original article to suit all of you darkly inclined guys out there who are looking for ways to survive the summer months without losing your preferred everyday appearance.

Skin Care

Skin care seems like an obvious place to start, but still, so many people forget the importance of regularly applying sunblock throughout the day and keeping themselves shaded when the sun is at its highest.

This is also extremely important for those of you with tattoos, as it will help ensure that your pieces of art will stay looking great for as long as they possibly can.

I recommend using sun cream in the highest available SPF, and Manic Panic offers us spooks our very own Goth Block called ''Vampyres Veil'' which is SPF 45 and is completely cruelty-free and vegan-friendly.

Makeup

If you don't wear makeup as part of your everyday look, then feel free to skip over this section, but for those of you who do, keep reading.

It's a given that makeup plus heat can equal a total disaster. As much as we all love The Crow, his makeup look is probably not the one that you're striving for. After putting a lot of effort into getting your makeup just right, it can be disheartening when the sun just melts away all of your hard work.

A good setting spray is going to be your best friend if you want to avoid this from happening to you this summer, and Gerard Cosmetics offers just that with their Slay All Day Makeup Setting Spray. Not only can you choose from seven amazing scents, but you can also be content with the fact that the brand is cruelty-free and that you are getting amazing value for money.

Stocking up on waterproof products, which are available anywhere, will also increase your chances of keeping your makeup set for longer.

Clothing

As we all know, black attracts the heat, which is something we most definitely don't want or need on already hot days. So for the summer months, it's time to trade in your black velvets and heavy, knitted sweatshirts for something a little bit more lightweight.

Trousers

When it comes to trousers in the summer, you will probably want to avoid denim materials or styles that are extremely fitted. Instead, search for lightweight cargo trousers like the ones shown below. You don't have to pay extreme prices; you can buy any cheap, plain ones from your closest retail store and add zips, chains and spikes/studs to make them match your style more.

Alternatively, if you really want to stick to jeans, then creating rips in the knees and thighs will help you to keep as cool as possible in the overbearing heat.

Tops

Loose fitted or baggy t-shirts are an absolute must for any summer wardrobe, and there is no exception when it comes to being alternative.

Plaid and distressed shirts are a great way to keep yourself cool whilst keeping true to your personal taste.

Shorts

For shorts, I definitely recommend checking out Attitude Clothing for some unique styles. For example, these Zombie Killer shorts will add a badass statement to your summer wardrobe.

Although if you are confident with DIY or know someone who is, it may be in your best interest to purchase a plain pair of shorts and add your own design.

Accessories

Accessories are going to be the most important part of your look, as I'm sure they are most days. Getting really creative in the summer will impact on your look a lot and will really help you to feel as comfortable as you usually do in your normal attire.

Metal chains and cuffs can become restricting in the heat, so instead, opt for things that aren't going to hinder your daily movements and comfort.

Things like hats and sunglasses are super easy to source and for very low prices. There are plenty of stores that sell a wide range that can be styled to suit your chosen outfit.

Shoes

You may be more of a boots kind of guy normally, but unfortunately, the summer calls for more comfortable footwear. But don't worry because you have a huge variety of awesome shoes to choose from.

I hope this guide has helped you out by igniting some ideas on how you can prepare for summer. Us spooky souls can enjoy the hot weather too and still look bad-ass doing so. Feel free to ask any questions and let me know your thoughts on this guide below.

I've been an online writer for several years. My articles focus on a wide range of topics, including skin care, fashion and holidays.

There is a very common misconception that being a ''real goth'' means you have to hate the sun and remain locked inside your coffin for the duration of the summer as though the sunlight will lead to your destruction, which of course, isn't true at all. I, for one, cannot wait until summer starts (perhaps some of this excitement has developed from living in Scotland and having to deal with rain 90% of the year).

However, as the summer approaches, spooky girls everywhere are starting to find themselves panicking about what they are going to do once the temperature rises and the grey and cloudy skies that they have become so accustomed to disappear. ''What should we wear? What about our makeup? Can we still wear black?!''

I'm here to give you a few of my tips and pointers to help make this summer a little easier so that you can spend less time maintaining your appearance and more time having fun in the sun—or, you know, your local graveyard. Whichever suits you.

Skin Care

Skin care seems like an obvious place to start, but still, so many people forget the importance of regularly applying sunblock throughout the day and keeping themselves shaded when the sun is at its highest.

This is also extremely important for those of you with tattoos as it will help ensure that your pieces of art will stay looking great for as long as they possibly can.

I recommend using sun cream in the highest available SPF and Manic Panic offers us spooks our very own Goth Block called ''Vampyres Veil'' which is SPF 45 and is completely cruelty-free and vegan-friendly.

Makeup

Makeup plus heat can equal a total disaster. I cannot count how many times I have perfected my makeup look only to step outside and become like The Matchmaker from Disney's Mulan. After putting a lot of effort into getting your makeup just right, it can be disheartening when the sun just melts away all of your hard work.

A good setting spray is going to be your best friend if you want to avoid this from happening to you this summer, and Gerard Cosmetics offers just that with their Slay All Day Makeup Setting Spray. Not only can you choose from 7 amazing scents, but you can also be content with the fact that the brand is cruelty-free and that you are getting amazing value for the money.

Also, carrying shine control papers in your handbag will help to stop any smudges that your natural skin oils may cause.

Clothing

As we all know, black attracts the heat, which is something we most definitely don't want or need on already hot days. So as the summer creeps in, it's time to trade in your black velvets and heavy, knitted sweatshirts for something a little bit more lightweight.

Kimono

Chiffon kimonos are a great choice as they are really lightweight, and when paired with the right outfit and accessories, will help channel your inner witch. This one can be found on eBay for bargain prices!

Dresses

Chiffon dresses are another great addition to your summer wardrobe; they are comfortable and provide a great foundation for the rest of your outfit. Especially look for dresses with shorter sleeves or spaghetti straps. Or, if you really want to wear sleeves, then look out for mesh or fishnet designs.

Shorts

Channel your inner Black Widow with these black denim spider web shorts from Disturbia. The lace detailing is a very pretty additional touch.

Distressed and lace-up shorts are also a big hit for goth girls in the summer.

Sunglasses

Fierce cat-eye sunglasses are a must for keeping the sun's glare out of your eyes.

Pro tip: Get creative and add your gothic embellishments along the frames to allow your individuality to shine through.

Hats

Large-brim floppy hats are great for maintaining your usual gothic appearance, and they scream witchy vibes. These will also help to protect your hair from the harmful rays, which could destroy your hair.

Bodysuits

Bodysuits are a comfortable and stylish way to bring out the summer side of your goth self, and the Witchery Hexx Mesh Bodysuit from Killstar is the perfect example. If you are feeling creative, you could try DIY-ing a plain bodysuit from your wardrobe or local clothing store.

Swimwear

Bones, skulls and all things dark, that's how creepy little mermaids were made. There are plenty of goth-y swimsuits and bikinis scattered across the internet and at fair prices too. This two-piece is from eBay and is sure to make you stand out at the poolside.

Beach Towels

Killstar's Ouija themed Slumber Towel is available on the Dolls Kill website and is an essential for a goth's adventure day to the beach. Just be sure to always say goodbye.

Shoes

I am more of a boots kind of girl, but unfortunately, the summer calls for more comfortable footwear and these Demonia bat flat-form shoes are great for those who are used to the additional height that boots and traditional platforms offer.

Besides flat-forms and a trusty pair of creepers, be sure to add lace-up pointed-toe shoes to your wardrobe this season.

Accessories

Accessories are going to be the most important part of your look as I'm sure they are most days. Getting really creative in the summer will impact on your look a lot and will really help you to feel as comfortable as you usually do in your normal goth attire.

Metal chains and cuffs can become restricting in the heat, so instead, opt for things that aren't going to hinder your daily movements and comfort. Try adding bows to your hair or badges and embellishments to your clothes. Above are some badges from Witch Worldwide that I think are really cute. There are also many Etsy stores that offer customised pins to suit your personality.

Hair

With the weather getting hotter, it's only natural that the humidity will affect our hair, which can be very inconvenient and even uncomfortable during the day.

To fight the frizz, try Moroccanoil Hydrating and Styling Cream to ensure a firm hold throughout the day. It is a completely natural product and won't cause any hair damage down the line.

If you have long hair, you will know that the heat can cause itching on the back of your neck, so during the summer, you might want to make the most of the length and try different styling methods. Try creating more up-do hairstyles like space buns, which are super adorable and easy to do, and adding clips and bows can take your look from cute to spooky cute.

You may also consider dying your hair a different colour. As goths, we traditionally shy away from colours that aren't black; however, a bold pastel look or steely grey may be just what's in order. Have a look at Manic Panic and La Riche's hair dye ranges for some inspiration.

I hope this guide has helped you out by igniting some ideas on how you can prepare for summer. Us spooky ghouls can enjoy the hot weather too and still look bad-ass doing so. Feel free to ask any questions and let me know your thoughts on this guide below.

© 2017 BunnyClaws

Comments

Mousferatu on April 20, 2017:

Really wish that Manic Panic sunscreen came in a higher SPF :( I'm a natural ginger and anything below 70 doesn't seem to have any effect in protecting me.

Have You Seen Alicia Keys?

Alicia Keys is probably one of the most stunning women on the planet today.

Yes, lately, she is walking around makeup-free, but the woman doesn't need makeup. She could likely bathe in the purest water that runs off of the Himalayas and use a new washcloth every time she washes her face. She could also probably afford the finest creams and makeup money can buy, but she's choosing to go makeup-free right now.

It's working for her, too. There are some women where you wonder how quickly they can get their makeup back on if they are going makeup-free, but there are others who look even more stunning without makeup. Alicia Keys falls into the latter category, and it has nothing to do with her physical appearance.

There's a certain grace and elegance that comes with being confident. I have no idea exactly how Ms. Keys might feel about herself in the dawn's early rays, in the evening after she's tucked her little ones into bed, or even when she gets that glance at herself after a full shower in the morning or evening. But I know it has everything to do with confidence.

You heard me.

It's the confidence with which she carries herself. There's no smug "you should be just like me" that you might expect from a major star who might be very full of him or herself—there's just the contented peace that comes with knowing who you are and knowing how hard you worked to get to that point.

Is Ms. Keys a talented musician? Absolutely. Is she an incredible singer? There's no question about that. But she's incredibly beautiful as well.

Certainly, she's got a full complement of makeup artists and hairdressers at her disposal so that she can look even more stunning than she already is. But it's the whole idea of her being able to shine with beauty daily, without makeup, that makes her so damn beautiful.

How many of us could learn a lesson from that?

Confidence Is Key

Let's Dig Deep

I'm 44 years old, six feet tall, and have really gotten in shape compared to how I was in high school.

One thing that no one tells you about your 40s is that the acne that so plagued you as a teen could come back with a vengeance. I wake in the morning, go through my pre-work routine of coffee, vitamins, breakfast, and writing, perhaps making lunches, and by the time I hit the washroom to get ready to go teach, I'm almost dreading that first look in the mirror.

I know there's acne, and sometimes it's bad. The dark circles under my eyes seem to grow bigger by the day—or would that be the night? I rather enjoy the laugh lines that have creased the corners of my mouth and eyes, although I could do without the lines caused by my furrowing brow.

Granted, we all have our days—those days where we grimace at ourselves in the mirror and go, "who the hell is that?"

But we go through life just the same. It's far easier being comfortable with how you look and embracing it than to be looking in the mirror and thinking that you should be more and better than the image you see reflected back at you.

We all need to be more comfortable with who we are because it's with that comfort that we're able to truly shine and be beautiful. I'm not just talking women, either—men need to embrace that side of themselves as well and to know that it's OK to feel confident in who you are.

We keep saying that beauty is only skin deep, but we have a tendency to say that as we're paying a small fortune for the latest and greatest cream or lotion. It's time we set that aside and realize that like it or not, we have to embrace that person we see in the mirror and realize that there has been a lot that you've accomplished, and you've worked hard to get there.

Confidence is so much a part of the beauty regimen we all need to embrace.

Some Quick and Dirty Tips to Help Shave Time Off Your Morning Routine

I hate having to rush. But sometimes, it's necessary. Sometimes the thought of an extra half hour in bed is too good to resist! And other times, well, I just have better things to be doing in the morning than styling my hair or waiting for my body moisturiser to dry.

That's why I've pulled together a list of simple but extremely effective ways of cutting corners during your morning routine, without compromising on your hygiene, outfit, hair or make-up.

30-Minute Hair, Body, Clothing and Makeup

Cut Corners

I'm not saying you shouldn't shower. If you're anything like me, then you probably don't feel human until you've scrubbed yourself awake in the morning! But showering can encompass a lot of different elements that take up valuable time:

• wash hair,
• apply conditioner,
• wash body while conditioner soaks into hair,
• wash face with special facial soap (never the same soap we use for our bodies, no sir!),
• shave appropriate parts of the body,
• rinse conditioner,
• exit shower,
• apply moisturiser,
• wait for moisturiser to dry...

The list could go on! Do we really need all these different layers of grooming?

In my opinion, yes. But I think it's time to cut some corners. Instead of sticking to your usual routine, try the following:

• Use a two-in-one shampoo and conditioner.
• Use a high-quality body scrub, suitable for face and body, like L’Oréal Paris Go 360 Deep Exfoliating Scrub.
• Only shave where necessary!
• Use an in-shower moisturiser like Nivea.

You might be thinking, "no way—I have to use a conditioner on my hair," but this leads me rather nicely on to my next point about the wonders of hairpieces.

Use a Clip-On Ponytail to Save Time

Washing, drying and straightening or styling your hair can take up a lot of time and add a lengthy process to your routine. When I'm in a rush, or if I'm limited when it comes to resources or space to get ready (such as in the changing rooms at the gym), I use a clip-on ponytail.

These are a fantastic way to get a great looking hairstyle in just minutes! If you're in a hurry and have skipped showering, you can apply some dry shampoo to your hair, put it up into a bun or ponytail, and then attach the hairpiece over the top of it.

Alternatively, if you've showered and washed your hair, you can part blow-dry your hair and tie it up into a tight bun, leaving your fringe free if you have one, and then apply the ponytail while your hair is still damp. You can then blow-dry and style your fringe as you normally would. A word of warning though, it is not particularly good for your hair and scalp to repeatedly tie your hair up before you have allowed it to dry properly—so I wouldn't advise that you do this on a daily basis. But once in a while, when you're really pushed for time, is fine.

Hairpieces have come a long way, and you can now buy human hair or high-quality synthetic hairpieces for a very reasonable price. I often use a simple drawstring ponytail over a tight bun or use a wrap-around or "scrunchie" hairpiece to change things up a bit. I'm terrible at styling my own hair, even if I've got hours to spare—so these are definitely my go-to product if time is of the essence

Cut The Fuss: Choose a Simple Outfit

By choosing a simple, one-piece outfit such as a dress, jumpsuit or playsuit, you can cut the fuss when it comes to actually getting dressed.

Now, this might seem like a no-brainer, but it's something that is definitely worth thinking about. If you choose an outfit that complements your coat or jacket, then you eliminate the additional complications of:

1. Having to coordinate multiple items of clothing into a complete outfit that works together.
2. Having to physically put on more than one item of clothing in order to get dressed (with the exception of underwear, naturally).

If you absolutely must wear trousers or jeans, try teaming these with a two-in-one top, such as a sweater with a shirt underneath it. Also, using a little baby powder on your legs will help you to slide your trousers on more quickly, and not spend time jumping up and down, lunging, and doing the 'skinny jeans dance' as you try to wriggle into your trousers (if they are tight, that is).

Remember—if you're trying to get ready and look great in less than half-an-hour, every minute counts. The time you save dressing yourself could be put to use on other elements of your look that will have a higher impact—such as hair and make-up.

Slap It On! Use an Eyeshadow Stick and Clear Mascara

When it comes to applying makeup in a hurry, it's best to keep it simple. What can you afford to skip off your routine?

In my opinion, it's eye make-up that provides us with our greatest transformation. I honestly feel naked if I don't at least have a little mascara and perhaps a touch of eye-liner. So when I say "slap it on"—I don't mean you should paint an inch thick. I mean, you should use make-up that is so easy to apply that you could do it in the dark (although I wouldn't advise it).

I would suggest using an eye-shadow stick, such as Avon Extra Lasting Eyeshadow Stick. You can literally paint it on, smudge with your fingertips, and your look is complete. The metallic finish is softened by the powder-like effect, so what you're left with is the look of a fine dusting of powder.

Then again, to save time, you could consider using a clear mascara. This is extremely easy to apply because if you smudge a little, it isn't visible. Great Lash Clear Mascara from Maybelline is a good choice!

BB Creams

Instead of applying moisturiser, primer and then foundation, combine all three by using a BB cream instead. These nifty formulas are designed to conceal, moisturise, and even your skin tone whilst providing flawless coverage like a foundation.

There are a variety of different BB creams on the market, and various different options to cater to different types of skin. I personally have oily and combination skin (mostly oily, with dry patches), so I use Rimmel Mattifying BB Cream or Boots No7 Beautiful Skin BB Cream for Normal / Oily Skin.

Alternatively, you could use a CC cream or even a tinted moisturiser. Either way, you're combining potentially three steps of your routine into one, and still getting the same result—a moisturised, even skin tone.

That's a Wrap

So there we have it. Just a few tips to help you get ready in a rush, and still look and feel great. Granted, there is a small element of planning involved—so it's best to think ahead the night before and ensure you have picked the right outfit, and packed your cosmetics bag with the right products (if you're going to the gym, or planning on applying make-up when you get to work—I've been there!)

Either way, this takes very little effort—but the results are pleasantly surprising. By substituting certain cosmetics with combi-products such as BB creams and just applying a little foresight, you can save time in a morning and treat yourself to a little extra time in bed!

Comments

Nika on February 14, 2019:

Thanks for great tips. I have been using clear mascara gel for my eyebrows instead of eyelashes. Can’t imagine any makeup without actual black mascara, it it’s doesn’t look right for my taste. Also, I found if you have black hair, dry shampoo can be as time consuming, because it leaves white powder in your hair which is difficult to get rid of. I tried few brands, some of them better than another. I personally find it to be easier and quiker to actually wash the hair. What I did I just cut it short. Saves me a ton of time! One piece outfit is the way to go.

Amanda Littlejohn on April 04, 2014:

Great tips and very entertainingly written.

Missed this when it was HoTD so belated congrats!

Well deserved accolade. It's well written, well presented, informative and fun. Exactly everything a good hub should be. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. ;)

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 17, 2014:

Thanks Karen - it's really nice to have support in the face of negativity.

:)

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 16, 2014:

Thanks Kiddiecreations - really nice to get a confidence boost! Especially in the face of negativity.

And lifeinthelou I'm far from a natural beauty haha - one other thing I do use is a facial tan spray - it's just a fine mist that you spray on very lightly to give you a bit of colour (and I mean a VERY light layer) It dries instantly and the colour builds in a couple of hours.

Jeannette B. from Midwest on March 15, 2014:

You must be a natural beauty. I need all the prep time I can get. Don't want to scare the neighbors. Any suggestions for us old gals? I will look into the BB cream and thanks for the link.

Nicole K on March 15, 2014:

Oh wow, StephRS, this is a great hub! I really learned some helpful tips here, I'm not kidding! I'm a new mom of a 3-month-old, and I'm always rushing out the door, with little time to get ready! I especially like the idea of quick eye shadow that I can just rub on really fast. I'm also going to look into getting the BB cream, too, and the dry shampoo would be fantastic for those days that I don't make it to the shower (which are many, with a small babe, unfortunately!) I'm SO sorry about the mean, nasty comments one hubber put on your page. There's NO excuse for it whatsoever! I think your page is very practical and totally deserves to be HOTD. Do not listen or take to heart anything that person said. They are just jealous and instead of focusing on their own page, they chose to attack yours. Seriously, you are awesome, keep posting! :) :) :) Voted up!

Thelma Alberts from Germany on March 15, 2014:

Very useful, informative and interesting hub. Thanks for sharing the tips. BTW, congrats on the HOTD!

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 15, 2014:

Thanks Denizee, you're right I was a little clueless - but then when a certain Hubber posted some abusive fan mail to me I realised that it must just be some strange, personal bitterness on the part of that person. Since my Hub was selected as HOTD she has posted various questions about the criteria for winning Hub of the day, and how Hubpages are 'probably' selecting them using an automated system.

I can let negative comments go, after all - everyone is entitled to their own opinion - but contacting me directly to give me abuse is making it personal. I mean, why would you go to the lengths of posting abuse to somebody?? It's quite sad really.

I've noticed that this person has since closed their Hubpages account. That is probably for the best.

Thank you for all the words of encouragement, I appreciate it.

Denizee on March 15, 2014:

I am so sorry you've had to deal with such immaturity here with your Hub - Please dismiss all the negatives posted to your Hub - I can't believe so many people wrote unnecessary comments on this - I don't understand them and I'm sure you're feeling clueless yourself - If it happens to you again don't approve their comments - Nothing you wrote offended me in the least - Smile and like I said before keep writing -

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 15, 2014:

Thanks jpcmc - I agree with you, everyone is entitled to their opinion. It's just a shame that not everyone chooses to express their opinion in a constructive, dignified way.

And I can't believe you've never heard of dry shampoo? :) It's a life saver when camping haha! But if you have short hair I can see why.

JP Carlos from Quezon CIty, Phlippines on March 14, 2014:

StephRS. You did a great job on the hub my friend and let no one tell you otherwise. Although everyone is entitled to their opinion, there is a good way and bad way of saying it.

Now, on to the hub. I hope more women read this. These are great quick fixes when one is in a jam. This is the first time I heard of dry shampoo. But what can you expect from a guy who rarely shampoos? LOL

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 14, 2014:

Perhaps raise the issue with Hubpages next time then, instead of targeting the author, and insulting the people leaving comments.

Kalmiya from North America on March 14, 2014:

No, you don't have to do anything except accept the fact that this reader is mortified that HubPages has made your superficial article a Hub Page of the Day over many other more substantial and deserving pages. This is not your fault. This was a decision by the HP staff and I have certainly written to them about this. I think they may use an automated device to choose these pages of the day but I'm hoping that our debate today will alert them to the fact that writers are not happy with the choices. Your page is very entertaining and I enjoyed it but I just don't think it merits HP of the day (along with many others). No hard feelings on my part certainly and I thank you and your friend's spirited defence.

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 14, 2014:

I don't have to do anything, Kalmiya - except maintain a dignified silence while you throw a tantrum.

I'm sad that it's come to this. Please refrain from commenting further - I respect your opinion, you don't like my Hub, that's fine. Unfortunately, I don't know what you want me to do about that.

Kalmiya from North America on March 14, 2014:

Seriously Karen, you are just as much of an amoeba head ! And you can be CERTAIN that I have contacted HP staff about this. StephRS stand up for yourself.

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 14, 2014:

GO KAREN!!!

:)

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 14, 2014:

Thank you Karen - well said and I couldn't agree more!! I'm all for people expressing an opinion (hence approving the first few negative comments from her) however they started to become rather nasty so I thought it best to delete.

I really wasn't expecting this sort of unpleasantness - are lots of Hubbers like this? I hope not.

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 14, 2014:

Kalmiya I will keep on deleting your negative and abusive comments because, quite frankly, you are boring me and I really don't want to listen to your negativity.

I have deleted your last three comments, which much have upset you because each comment since has become a little more threatening and abusive.

I'm not quite sure why you are so upset that this Hub has made hub of the day?

Bottom line - if you don't like it, don't read it.

Have a nice day :-)

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 14, 2014:

Thanks Karen, I really appreciate it.

And thank you Sunshine, it's a great confidence booster to get HOTD when I'm still learning the ropes.

Really appreciate the positive comments, guys

Linda Bilyeu from Orlando, FL on March 14, 2014:

Excellent hub and tips! Congrats on HOTD.

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 14, 2014:

Oh well.

I guess it was the line "A place where people write for the joy of it" on the hubpages website that mislead me.

Kalmiya from North America on March 14, 2014:

You are very ill informed.

No one writes for a revenue sharing site except to make $$$.

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 14, 2014:

At the risk of sounding repetitive - it's because I enjoy writing.

From what I understand - not everyone is in it for the money?

But hey, I may just be ill-informed.

Kalmiya from North America on March 14, 2014:

Well, if you don't make money on HP then I'd suggest hiding these comments as they will make you look not only ill informed but daft in the process. Why are you contributing to HP?

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 14, 2014:

I don't make money on Hubpages Kalmiya, I'm not sure how it all works yet. I just enjoy writing. And I'm pretty sure you mean "your" rather than "you're"

Thanks John, and Denizee - really nice to hear encouraging comments :-)

Kalmiya from North America on March 14, 2014:

An excellent hub? Are you an amoeba head? I will be sure NOT to look at any of your hubs. Ha ha !

John Sarkis from Winter Haven, FL on March 14, 2014:

Excellent hub. I'm sharing this one for my female friends to see. Congrats!

Voted up

John

Kalmiya from North America on March 14, 2014:

Anyone can be good at writing rubbish. But when you're focus is on how you tie your pony tail, well, .... you might actually make money with Amazon! Sadly, this is where our world is headed. I'm paying attention and writing more rubbish about similar items. If it makes money, well, that's what I'll change my focus to. Thanks for the heads up.

Denizee on March 14, 2014:

Great Hub - I completely enjoyed the read - We live in a world where cosmetics is big business - they sell everything we want - There is nothing wrong with enhancing one's natural beauty with a few tips on how to do so - voted up - Keep writing!! You're good at it -

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 14, 2014:

Maybe.

I just enjoy writing about things that interest me. Each to their own I suppose.

And I enjoyed writing the Hub, it's the first one where I've really tried to follow the proper process with image attribution etc, so it was a nice learning process too.

Sorry you didn't enjoy it. As I said - each to their own.

Kalmiya from North America on March 14, 2014:

The only thing this proves to me is the serious superficiality of everything on the internet. I will adjust accordingly.

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 14, 2014:

Still an amateur on here kalmiya - we all improve with time.

Still proud, even if it isn't perfect - or to everybody's taste

Kalmiya from North America on March 14, 2014:

Forgive me, but how did this hub get to be hub of the day?

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on March 14, 2014:

Thanks for all the comments everybody (positive and negative, everyone is entitled to their opinion - although I wasn't expecting to get quite such strong negativity maxoxam41. I'm sorry you didn't enjoy it - I did my best.)

Genuinely grateful for all the comments, it's really encouraging to hear that people have found my article useful ar at least interesting in some way - and to get HOTD is awesome!

Thanks Hubbers :)

Jenn-Anne on March 14, 2014:

Informative and well-written hub filled with great ideas! Love the suggestion of using the clip-on ponytail! Congrats on HOTD!

Deforest from USA on March 14, 2014:

Tacky pictures, vulgar make-up, trivial model and dressing up. The model looks like a cheap w---e... Excuse my language but how could it be different?

And misses and gentlemen, it is the hub of the day!

swilliams on March 14, 2014:

Great tips! This article is a helpful guide for women who live a fast paced life. Thanks! Voted up!

Kitty Fields from Summerland on March 14, 2014:

I've gotta try this BB cream and eyeshadow stick thing out! Great tips. I am a very low maintenance kind of person already, but this definitely helps!

Preston and Kate from the Midwest on March 14, 2014:

Congratulations on Hub of the The Day! As a stay at home mom with little ones, I am always looking for ways to get ready quickly. Thanks for sharing your tips! -Kate

Cyndyl McCutcheon from Athens, GA on March 14, 2014:

Nice hub! I'm definitely not a morning person, so I've become a pro at morning prep in less than half an hour (and in an instance of oversleeping, 5 mins!). A few other good tips would be to shower at night for those who can and learn which make up essentials work for you without needing the whole routine. For instance, I used to like lots of make up, but thanks to rushed mornings, eyeliner, blush, and tinted chapstick give me a very natural look in less than 5 mins!

Al Wordlaw from Chicago on March 14, 2014:

Unnecessary make up is too artificial. Most guys want to see the actuality and naturalness. C'mon ladies. It's the realness that counts. If all or most of the ladies wear fake eyelashes, bright, red lipstick or silky, nylon hair weave or hair attachments then who has a different look? Who wears their own God-given uniqueness?

Paige Desires from United States on March 02, 2014:

Great article, thank you for sharing!

Colleen Swan from County Durham on March 02, 2014:

Helpful article. I can take 5 minutes, my daughter can spend at least an hour.

Steph Simpson (author) from Sheffield, UK on February 28, 2014:

Thank you Amie! There are plenty on ebay. Mine really is a life-saver, I'm terrible with hair, ha!

Amie Butchko from Warwick, NY on February 28, 2014:

Really like your hub. Especially the part about the clip on ponytail! Wish I had one right now....

Faith is fond of sweets, fitness (to balance the sweets), women's health topics, fashion, and beauty.

The beauty and elegance of Audrey Hepburn were almost too good to be true. Her classy yet bold sense of style made her one of Hollywood's greatest fashion icons. Not only did she grace the stages of film and theater, but her glamor extended into real life as well, where she was a role model and philanthropist.

Audrey left us girls a long list of lessons for how to live life with style. Here are my top 50.

1. “For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone.”

2. Class outshines trash. Many less tasteful women have stolen the stage for small lengths of time, but Audrey outlasted them all with poise and grace. A tramp may grab men's attention for a day, but a lady will win everyone's respect and adoration for a lifetime.

3. Black turtlenecks never go out of style.

4. Bold hat risks are worth it. Audrey was frequently seen sporting crazy hat choices, and they always worked for her. The confidence she wore them with is what made them shine.

5. “Let’s face it; a nice creamy chocolate cake does a lot for a lot of people. It does for me.”

6. Pair a headscarf with sunglasses for effortlessly fashionable traveling.

7. “Forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that made you smile."

8. Black eyeliner is a must. Audrey is famous for ladylike liner and gorgeous, full eyelashes. Experiment with the glamorous cat-eye in liquid eyeliner and jet black mascara. Keep it classy by pairing this dramatic eye with subtle cheeks and lips.

9. Have several little black dresses, and don’t be afraid to wear them on average days.

10. “There are certain shades of limelight that can wreck a girl’s complexion."

11. “Happy girls are the prettiest girls.”

12. Elegance is never overrated. One look at Audrey’s life proves that.

13. Never let anyone put you in a cage, but belong to someone. Playing Holly Golightly in Breakfast at Tiffany’s (1961), Audrey teaches this delicate balance.

14. “Laughing is the best calorie burner.” Especially after chocolate cake.

15. A simple ponytail can be classy and cute.

16. Simplicity can be extraordinary. Part of what made Audrey’s style timeless is her use of simple silhouettes. Praising Givenchy (of whom she was both a fan and a muse), Audrey is quoted as saying, “He kept the spare style that I love. What is more beautiful than a simple sheath made an extraordinary way in a special fabric, and just two earrings?”

17. Always have a pair of big, statement sunglasses on hand.

18. “You can always tell what kind of a person a man really thinks you are by the earrings he gives you.” (Breakfast at Tiffany’s, 1961)

19. Accept the reality of your weaknesses while playing your strengths for all they’re worth. Audrey studied ballet for many years and had a talent in the art. However, when she asked Marie Rambert (who had great influence on British ballet) about her future, she was told that while she could definitely have a successful career in dance, her tall height, and residual issues from poor nutrition during wartime would keep her from ever becoming a prima ballerina. Audrey accepted the truth and moved her efforts to acting.

20. “When you have found it, you should stick to it.”

21. Even a street girl can pass as a princess with some manners. (My Fair Lady, 1964.)

22. Don’t waste time and effort trying to convince a man of your worth. In her role as Sabrina in the 1954 film by the same name, Audrey learns that a man who can’t see her value on his own is not worth pursuing.

23. “Find someone who appreciates you.”

24. Overdressing is better than underdressing.

25. “Your heart just breaks, that’s all. But you can’t judge or point fingers.”

26. Learn to forgive and never stop loving. When she was a child, Audrey’s father abandoned her family abruptly after being caught in bed with the nanny. Audrey finally found him with the help of the Red Cross nearly 30 years later. Even while he remained emotionally detached, she showed him unconditional love, stayed in contact, and supported him financially for the remainder of his life.

27. “The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode, but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul.”

28. “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.”

29. Pairing a long-sleeve button-down shirt with shorts is a do.

30. Take a day off every once in a while to do the things you’ve always dreamed of doing. (Roman Holiday, 1953.)

31. Appreciate your oddities; they make you unique. Playing Jo Stockton in Funny Face (1957), Audrey's character was teased for having an unusual face. That same elfin face ended up making her a killing in the movie, as well as in real life. Play up the things that make you different. They keep you from blending into the crowd.

32. “There is more to sex appeal than just measurements. I don’t need a bedroom to prove my womanliness. I can convey just as much sex appeal picking apples off a tree or standing in the rain.”

33. Own at least one bright-colored peacoat.

34. “Paris is always a good idea.”

35. Marriage is not something that should be done half way: “If I get married, I want to be very married.”

36. Choose the mature sweetheart over the dashing young playboy. In her role as a sweet chauffeur’s daughter in Sabrina (1954), Audrey gains the attention of two wealthy brothers and makes this wise choice in the end.

37. “As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands: one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.”

38. A boyish pixie cut can be sexy.

39. Take advantage of a multinational background. Growing up, Audrey spent time in Belgium, Britain, and the Netherlands, which made her bilingual in English and Dutch. She went on to also become fluent in French, Italian, Spanish, and German. This wide knowledge of languages in no doubt impacted her acting career and aided in her humanitarian efforts.

40. “The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.”

41. A cat needs a name. (Breakfast at Tiffany’s, 1961.)

42. Turn life’s hardships into something meaningful. Growing up during World War II in Arnhem, Netherlands, during the Dutch famine, Audrey witnessed many horrible things and suffered from malnutrition, acute anemia, respiratory problems, and edema. These hardships inspired her to become dedicated to humanitarian efforts later in life. Devoted to UNICEF, Audrey focused on aiding impoverished children in the poorest parts of the world.

43. “You can tell more about a person by what he says about others than you can by what others say about him.”

44. “People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed. Never throw out anyone.”

45. Pair skinny black pants with chic flats for a classic look.

46. “I never thought I’d land in pictures with a face like mine.” Even the most gorgeous women have insecurities. Learn to have confidence and love who you are.

47. “I was asked to act when I couldn’t act. I was asked to sing ‘Funny Face’ when I couldn’t sing, dance with Fred Astaire when I couldn’t dance, and do all kinds of things I wasn’t prepared for. Then I tried like mad to cope with it.” Fake it till you make it.

48. Rock an updo now and then.

49. “Nothing is impossible. The word itself says, ‘I’m possible!’”

50. Focus on the positive things in life and let go of the sad. Audrey said, “If my world were to cave in tomorrow, I would look back on all the pleasures, excitements, and worthwhilenesses I have been lucky enough to have had. Not the sadness, not my miscarriages, or my father leaving home, but the joy of everything else. It will have been enough.” We can all learn from that.

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Caryn Fitzgerald on August 01, 2018:

I Love this lady, she is sheer beauty inside and out, attractive she was so much more .Greek goddess ready hot to trott, beautiful beautiful beauty

AUDREY on February 26, 2018:

THANK YOU FOR ALL OF THE TIPS

ANGELLA BLACKHALL-ROYAN on February 19, 2017:

THANK YOU SO MUCH!Audrey is my idol. Has anyone read the book " How to be a Audrey Hepburn in a Paris Hilton World?" It's excellent. Try to read it - it can be purchased a Amazon.

AJ from Australia on August 17, 2016:

Wonderful inspirational quotes and photographs. Just gorgeous.

Tom on May 04, 2016:

Happy Birthday, baby!

The worlds is in desperate need of class, elegance and grace.

You had it all.

Ralika on April 03, 2016:

I love Audrey!!!

Rebecca Sutton from Rock Hill, SC on July 28, 2014:

I love Audrey!!! She has always been an inspiration to me. I am glad to see others appreciate her as well. I think more people need to be like her, such a classy woman and a dedicated humanitarian.

Faith A Mullen (author) on January 20, 2013:

Thanks, Monis! I am a fan of Audrey's as well. She was such a class act - both in fashion and in benevolence.

Agnes on January 20, 2013:

I am a huge fan of Audrey's. This is a fantastic hub, which I read with such pleasure! So iformative, you can learn a lot about Audrey here. Voted awesome!

Faith A Mullen (author) on January 18, 2013:

Thanks, stephanieb27! I love Audrey :)

stephanieb27 from United States on January 17, 2013:

Great hub!! :)

Faith A Mullen (author) on January 17, 2013:

Thanks, Zsuzsi! Glad you liked it.

Zsuzsi from London on January 17, 2013:

Awesome hub!

The word "attractive," according to the Oxford English Dictionary, means pleasing in appearance or having qualities that arouse interest.

Aside from dramatically increasing your ability to arouse more interest from people in your day-to-day activities, you will also boost your self-confidence with little to no effort. Becoming more attractive can give you more energy, improve your relationships, and have an overall positive effect on your health and your life.

While there are many different ways a woman can improve her looks, here are five ways you can walk out your door today being instantly more attractive.

5 Ways to Become More Attractive Instantly

When I say instantly, I mean within a matter of minutes, in some cases, mere seconds. Here is quick breakdown of how it's done:

1. Smile—be aware of your facial expressions.
2. Practice good posture—it's all about body language.
3. Know your body type and wear clothing that accentuates your best features.
4. Use makeup strategically instead of heavy-handedly.
5. Know what colors look good on you.

That's all there is to it. It's not complicated and it doesn't matter what size you are or how much money you have or don't have. Any woman can do this. So what are you waiting for?

1. Facial Expressions

It's easy to say, "smile and you will instantly become more attractive," but it is true.

When I say smile, I'm not advocating you walk around with a demented frozen smile pasted on your face. That's scary, not attractive. What I mean by smile is to simply be aware of what is going on with your face. Do you tend to walk around looking like you're about to take someone's head off? Do you tend to wear a serious expression on your face most of the time?

Whether you realize it or not, people around you take notice of your expression and it sends a signal to them as to whether or not you are approachable. A woman who walks around with a sullen or serious expression is less approachable than a woman who looks content and relaxed. You don't have to smile 24/7, but you when you are out and about, make an effort to relax your face muscles and be aware of what kinds of responses your facial expressions elicit.

When my face is completely relaxed, I either look tired or pissed off, even if I'm not. It's always been a bit of a problem. Men have come up to me all the time at the clubs to ask if I was upset. This happened enough that I realized I had to actually lift the corners of my mouth and relax my eyes to look less pissed off and more friendly.

If you're not sure what your facial expression is most of the time, get a friend to take a few pictures or take pictures of yourself to see what you look like and if you need to work on relaxing your facial muscles.

It's such a little thing, but it can really have a huge impact. A woman who seems content, happy, and friendly is far more attractive and approachable.

2. Practice Good Posture

Didn't your mother always tell you not to slouch?

Bad posture is not only horrific for you health-wise (just ask my chiropractor) but it sends a message to people around you that you lack confidence and it certainly does you no favours in accentuating your figure.

There is a really cool thing about walking around with good posture, it has a direct and instant effect on your mood and by simply changing how you carry yourself, you can physically alter how you feel inside. Don't believe me? Try it right now!

It takes only seconds to correct your bad posture (which typically includes slouched shoulders, head bent down, and slumping muscles, etc.) by rolling your shoulders back and lifting your chin up. You not only look taller, but also more confident, instantly! Did I mention that by moving your shoulders back your chest naturally comes forward and therefore your breasts will seem just a little bigger and even a tad perkier?

3. Wear Clothing that Suits Your Body Type

Every woman has a unique shape to their body. Some women are pear shaped, others are apple. Some have no curves, and others have hourglass figures. By understanding what your body type is and wearing clothing that suits it, you will make yourself instantly more attractive.

Wearing the latest fashion will do little to make you more attractive if the style is all wrong for your shape. Those skinny jeans might make you look slimmer, but they also may make you look much heavier or shorter than you really are.

For example, my mother is barely 5'4" and if she wears skirts that have a hemline below her knees, she looks much shorter. Certain styles of dresses look better on certain body types. You could be completely in love with that new red dress you bought at the mall, but it could make your hips look even wider than they are. Who wants that?

Once you understand whether you are apple, pear, strawberry, rectangle, or hourglass, you can go through your closet and see what clothing works with your body type and what doesn't. Often, you can have items altered to better suit your shape, so don't worry that you now have to donate or throw away all those clothes that don't suit you.

4. Use Makeup Strategically

While it's true that men usually prefer the natural look on a woman, there is a world of difference between looking natural and wearing no makeup. Unless we are naturally gorgeous, most of us need a little help to look our best.

You might say, What about just going to the grocery store, do I have to wear makeup for that? Let me ask you this, are you single? If the answer is yes, then it can't hurt.

For something like running errands, you shouldn't have to spend more than 5 minutes putting on makeup before you head out the door. A little concealer or foundation where you need it, to hide dark circles and cover any redness or breakouts. A touch of blush, some neutral lipstick or lip gloss, and a little mascara. There, you're done.

I don't know about you, but seeing myself in the mirror with no makeup on does nothing to increase my self-confidence, if anything it does the opposite. Just a little makeup you will look more refreshed, a little more polished, and certainly more attractive. There is no need to actually look like you are wearing makeup, the point is to accentuate your natural beauty and give a little boost to your confidence at the same time.

5. Know What Color Clothing Looks Good on You

You can have perfect makeup on and your hair done just right, but if you are wearing the wrong color, it can make you look like you're about to be sick. Wear the right color, and you will instantly look healthy and glowing.

How can you know what colors look good on you? Well, it starts by knowing your skin tone. Does your skin have a pinkish undertone or is it more yellow? It will also depend on your hair color.

One of the best resources for discovering your colors is the book Color Me Beautiful by Carole Jackson. This was the book that changed how I shopped for clothes, forever. Everyone falls into one of the four seasons and has a palette of colors that suit them best, based on their hair color and skin tone (it has nothing to do with your birthday). I discovered that I was a "spring" and avoided buying clothing that was grey or black because they just made me look pale and sick.

The next time you are out clothes shopping, hold up the garment so that it's right next to your bare hand and you might be able to see if the color has warm or cool undertones and you will notice that certain colors will look better next to your skin than others.

Overall, women with a pinkish tone to their skin look good in colors with blue undertones. Women with a yellow tone to their skin are better with yellow undertones.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2011 Carolyn Dahl

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vipin kumar on June 13, 2020:

i am looking for a partner who’s got time, money, interest to look exceptionally good and maintain it until the age of 63-64.

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Spiritdog Casciano on January 02, 2019:

I'm curvy and tall and find clothes that accent my attributes while hide the not so great ones, im in process of getting backk to to my rwgular size but in the meantime, a close mother like friend was a dancer, she has shown & taught me proper posture and it wasnt easy getting my body to start doing naturally, but if your intent on it you will do. She also taught me the correct way of standing & entering & leaving a room like a model or debutante. When walking with confidence it makes you feel very confident. If you walk with your head hanging low slumped over I dont care how gorgeous you are you wont get many 2nd looks.

I also put on fresh face if even going to a quick store. You never know who might run into. And nothing is more embarrassing wearing raggy sweats& sneakers with no makeup & running into sineine especiallyif havent seen them in them in awhile.

I have to give a lot credit to my beloved mother who passed when I was young but she taught me young, things like skin care etc its never to early to take care of preventive aging. Ive been told i look in my 30s, for a 55yr old im quite happy about that, I dont use botix nor fillers as of yet..lol. But I must agree with article, i dont wear much makeup lipstick, airbrush foundation & my brows,l. I don't wear mascara, Ive been using eyelash growth serum for about 7 yrs now! I now have the lashes I once had when I was a teenager I do use a heated curler to make them stand out.& very light liner threw my lashes nothing heavy nor cat eyes just inhance my eyes & lashes. Thats it!

Less is more & better. To much face makeup settles into any lines or creases you may have, plus no man likes a winabs face he take nail gi down face and have glib of fiubdation on finger! YuCk!! Thats my secrets.

lavenderLove from Philippines on June 10, 2015:

I do powder and little lipstick when I go out for groceries and paying bills...I am not a make up lover but lipstick makes me feel more attractive..(smile)

Michelle Dee from Charlotte, NC on December 14, 2013:

These are great tips and I believe following them will make me feel better and it's fun to get a color analysis. Makeup makes me look much much better but in the summer time I don't wear foundation at all because the humidity where I live makes it melt off so I don't bother. I do exfoliate several times a week and use a good moisturizer twice a day and that seems to help my skin look better.

I went to my local Clinique at the mall and they did a color analysis with a new foundation they had, plus blush and I looked fabulous when they were done. Yes I purchased that foundation and blush LOL! This hub is a friendly reminder that I will get all dazzled up for the holidays! Voted up and across.

peter on November 29, 2013:

tips every women know

JPPhilips from SC Piedmont Area on February 18, 2013:

Great hub.

vibesites from United States on November 27, 2012:

Yes, even when I do go out just to do errands or grocery shopping, I still manage to put on even just a simple dab of foundation and a swipe of lipstick. Not necessarily to attract guys but I just want to look good and decent at least (and most of all not looking haggard).

Beautiful hub! :)

Hezekiah from Japan on November 26, 2012:

Interesting Hub, however some women do actually look good with that angry or pissed off look.

Tammy from North Carolina on November 26, 2012:

Great tips. I love wearing purple but every single time I do, someone tells me I look tired. I don't wear makeup every day and definatley not to the gym. These are the times it seems I run into people I know. This is an enjoyable read.

Jessica from Kansas on September 06, 2011:

I definitely don't agree with the makeup one. I'm not a goddess or anything, but I have never worn makeup on a daily basis and I don't plan to. It always makes me look older and more fake. My husband has never seen me in makeup either and he loves me just the same.

Carolyn Dahl (author) from Ottawa, Ontario on September 06, 2011:

I'm married and I try to put on a little makeup and look nice for my hubby when he gets home from work. He's seen me at my worst and without makeup of course, but I know he appreciates it when I make an effort.

Becky Jo Gibson from Downtown San Diego, California on September 05, 2011:

hmmmm...should men always wear makeup when they leave the house too? Just asking.

Debbie Carey from Riverton, KS, USA on September 05, 2011:

Good tips! Good hub! voted up, useful and interesting!

Arby has been a professional writer and researcher for over 10 years, and her areas of interest are shamefully diverse.

For the bride, beauty is usually pretty high on the list of wedding day worries. All of the planning and preparation can be overwhelming, and it's important to follow some fundamental rules so that you look your best on the big day. You'll be glad you did—every single time you look at your wedding pictures.

• Do address any skin issues as soon as you start planning. Many brides with skin problems use their upcoming wedding as motivation to improve things. If you have a serious skin condition, such as cystic acne or psoriasis, make an appointment with the dermatologist. He or she can likely help you get your skin in shape for your wedding day, but some treatments can take several months.
• Don't take skin matters in to your own hands, literally. If you have bumps, blackheads, or pimples of any sort, DO NOT squeeze or pick. This is a quick way to exacerbate the problem you already have and to create more zits. If you have acne and want clear skin on your wedding day, you will have to resist touching your blemishes no matter what.
• Do invest in quality skincare products. Now is the time to take stock of your skincare regimen and see what is or isn't working. If you're getting breakouts, dry patches, or excessive oiliness: the products you're using are failing you. Start by researching products and looking for reviews by real users who have skin issues that are similar to your own.
• Don't slack off on your new regimen. Once you've stocked up with your well-researched and high-quality beauty products, use them! Keep a regular routine, and never go to sleep without washing your makeup off! Once your skin starts to look nicer, keep at it, or you'll relapse and have to start from scratch. Keep your skin clean, treated (if necessary), and hydrated—and don't forget to protect it if you'll be outside!

• Do get plenty of sleep, especially during those last few weeks leading up to the big day. Lack of sleep shows on your face and is often reflected in your behavior. Do yourself a favor and set a bedtime for yourself, making sure to keep it every night (except maybe the night of your bachelorette party). Your skin can't repair and regenerate itself properly if you aren't getting enough shuteye.

• Don't go overboard on the partying. Sometimes, weddings are preceded by all kinds of festivities and get-togethers. Have fun, and relish in time spent with loved ones. Take care, however, not to drink too much alcohol or overindulge in unhealthy foods. Heavy drinking takes a heavy toll on your body and will show on your face if you aren't careful.

• Do drink lots and lots of water. Staying hydrated is a key factor in getting your skin ready for all those close-ups. Simply upping your water intake so that you get at least 6 glasses a day will create dramatic results. You'll be clearer, more supple, and just generally more healthy-looking. I watched "America's Next Top Model" one day, and a model with bumps on her skin was told to drink water as often as possible. Apparently, this is a well-known thing in that business.

• Don't get stressed out. Planning a wedding can be frustrating, and it's important to decide not to become overwhelmed. Make sure to take time for yourself to unwind and relax. Delegating wedding duties can also lighten your load and ease stress. When all else fails, be willing to let things go.
• Do focus on the important things. Try not to get lost in the details or things that don't go the way you planned. Stay in the moment throughout the planning process, and especially on your big day. Appreciate the people around you and really experience this wonderful time in your life. Remember that your inner state will reflect outwardly.
• Don't wear too much makeup. You definitely want to look amazing on your wedding day, and this might entail the use of some serious cosmetics. Just remember to go for quality over quantity, and to test out your look before the big day. The best strategy is to go for a polished version of yourself rather than trying to look like someone else.

• Do smile. A genuine smile is always flattering, whether you have perfect teeth, crooked teeth, or no teeth. So-called flaws can be melted away with a warm smile. In the worst-case scenario, a photographer can airbrush away a blemish or two. He or she, however, will not be able to fix a sour expression.

Most of all, relish in every moment of your wedding and be a gracious hostess to your guests. It's said that truly beautiful people have the gift of making everyone around them feel beautiful, too.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2011 Arby Bourne

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Shannon Paigah from Irvine, CA on March 16, 2012:

Great advice! Emphasis properly applied, especially the part about not taking "skin matters into your own hands." Thank you :)

The French Girl look is chic, subtly sexy, natural, relaxed, and yet casually elegant. The eyes are accentuated with both the hair and makeup. The lips are natural and smooth with enough color to enhance the lips just a little, nothing overpowering.

The French girl look is about being comfortable and confident about who you are as a woman, yet realizing that a certain amount of effort is necessary to look tres jolie, very pretty. Besides looking and feeling so, so chic, the French Girl look is hot, hot, hot.

While visiting Paris, I couldn't help but notice the beauty of the French women. This article covers tips on how to achieve that French girl look.

We may not be French, but we can cheat a little bit to get that look. Let's start with the face.

French-Style Makeup

It starts with squeaky clean skin. The French women spend a large chunk of their paycheck on beauty products (and lingerie). Make sure you're using a great skincare product and follow the regimen religiously.

Once the face is clean and moisturized, it's time to give your face a very natural, healthy-looking glow. The perfect fashion cannot make up for an unhealthy-looking face. Spending time at the beauty counter of a department store or Sephora can be helpful in determining your skin type and what products work best for your skin type. Don't be afraid to ask questions or tell them what you don't like.

• A smooth, matte foundation gives a nice, finished, natural glow.
• Use a hint of color with blush, or an illuminator fluid that smooths on and gives instant subtle light and color to the face. Nars offers the Copacabana Illuminator and Laguna Bronzing Powder, both of which were used on Olivia Wilde for her French Girl look at the Golden Globes.
• Define the eyes with black eyeliner, starting at the lash line. Smolder eyeshadow on the eyelids if you're going out. Use black mascara, and don't forget to define the brow with an eyebrow pencil, not too dark if your hair is light.
• Lips will look natural and beautiful with a neutral, peachy beige matte lipstick (Nars Madre pure matte). Finish with a sheer pink, velvety gloss such as Nars Super Orgasm

Don't forget the most important step with your facial beauty regimen, a clean, smooth face. The finished look should look natural but glowing, with the accent on the eyes and lips.

OOH LA LA. You look beautiful!

Chic French Hairstyles

The look is effortless, natural, and healthy, not overly processed. If the hair looks untouchable, it is not the French girl look. The French are known for wanting to look as natural as possible and yet not boring. Haircare products with fewer detergents and chemicals will help the hair grow strong and healthy. Frequent cuts/trims help keep the style of the hair and reduce split ends; every four to five weeks.

• Long, straight hair with a touch of shine and Kerastase Volumactive Mousse looks free-flowing and goddess-like. A round brush can be used at the ends to give a more natural, feminine look after washing and drying.
• Tousled yet smooth and natural-looking is chic and easy to maintain, which is a vital French girl prerequisite. A touch of your favorite hair gloss gives texture and shine. Rub a small amount on your finger-tips and lightly run it through bangs, sides that frame your face, and viola!
• If in a rush, and yet you want to look fresh and elegant, a simple French twist or chignon will do the trick. For a more formal occasion, use vintage combs/pins/feathers/lace to give a chic French twist.
• Remember, it's not supposed to look perfect, just perfect for you! Whatever the occasion, the French girl look fits who you are and looks fabulous.

French Women Find a Great Stylist to Take Care of their Hair

There are salons everywhere in Paris because they are in high demand. Find one in your area that you trust, and use a stylist who knows you.

Diet affects our hair. French women drink a lot of water and eat foods which contain water, like fresh fruits and veggies.

Ask your stylist for the best hair products for your hair type. Hair doesn't need to be washed daily. My stylist suggests every two to three days.

Use a great conditioner and a weekly hot oil treatment if you use styling tools.

French Fashion

The French girl look requires some basic classic pieces that never fade from fashion, creativity, and a sense of self-expression. This look is about communication. The eyes, the lips, the hair, are all ways in which a woman communicates. Fashion with style is not only about function and looking well, but is another way in which we communicate our inner self to the outer world.

A simple question; do you feel equally the same about yourself if you do or do not put effort into your looks? I know what the answer is for myself. Even if I'm settling in to work at home for the day, I feel better when I take some time to put myself together. Here are some basic French girl fashion essentials.

• At least one little black dress, two or three is even better
• A great fitting spring/summer dress
• Two pencil skirts, black, taupe or neutral shade
• Two or three soft, silky blouses
• One great tailored white shirt
• Great fitting jeans (no mom jeans, you'll never wear them again once you find a great fit)
• A blazer or jacket for spring/summer, fall/winter
• Two nice fitting slacks
• A few cotton t-shirts to accessorize with scarves, jackets, sweaters
• Ballet flats, pumps/heels, a great pair of boots
• Scarves and belts

We tend to buy more clothes than we need. These basic, quality pieces will last for many years and never go out of style. Accessories and jewelry can change and update the look. Great places to find affordable quality clothing are vintage apparel shops, department store sales, specialty shops, like Mod Cloth and Anthropologie.

Don't feel like you have to pay enormous amounts of money, because it's not necessary. Quality classic pieces can be found at affordable prices with just a little bit of time and effort. You are worth the time and investment,

Now You've Got The Look!

Of course, we can't forget the right bag for the occasion, sunglasses, the jewelry or no jewelry, tights, scarves, belts, lingerie, a light jacket, or the perfect trench coat.

Slide a few hair pins or hair jewelry into your beautiful locks.

The perfect scent and a healthy dose of confidence and self-awareness complete the French girl look.

C'est magnifique!

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

Merci Beaucoup!

Faith A Mullen on January 21, 2013:

I love this look! So ladylike, yet natural. Thanks for sharing!

vibesites from United States on January 14, 2013:

Hahaha, that's really fun! I would like to try for some time and look like I'm stepping out of the fashion magazines. Thanks for your uncomplicated tips. Up, useful, awesome, and a following. :)

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on January 13, 2013:

Thank you, Frenchie. Yes, there is something so captivating and natural about the Parisian look. It's nice to see the hub gets favorable attention!

Thank you and your friend! I hope you watched the Chanel video, it's fabulous and always nice to hear Chromatics. x

Frenchie on January 13, 2013:

I love this hub !! I am a french girl who went to London a few month ago, and when my friend told me about this hub I was sooo exited !! This represents perfedtly the Parisian style and everybody ADORE !! I just want to say : Merci beaucoup !! J'aime cet article !!! Vive les françaises !!

Vespa Woolf from Peru, South America on August 05, 2012:

This is a beautiful hub. I love the way you've formatted it and the photos you've chosen. I also fell in love with Paris. Even my husband, who wasn't necessarily looking forward to the trip, was enchanted. I've always admired French women for their confidence and look. They don't worry about "flaws" and instead focus on what's best for them. I've marked this for future reference. Of course, I could never aspire to look like Olivia Wilde but it doesn't hurt to dream! Voted up and shared. Thank you!

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on July 15, 2012:

Thanks Letitia! Lucky you, living in Paris. I would love to read your review of her book. I'm sure it would be informative and fun to read.

LetitiaFT from Paris via California on July 15, 2012:

You've got it spot on. Even living here in Paris I can use the reminder. Funny, I was actually thinking of doing a review of Ines de la Fressange's book...

Rehana Stormme on July 05, 2012:

Ah, I've been wondering about this for a while now. I like to go all natural and I do love the fresh faced look.

pooilum from Malaysia on February 18, 2012:

This is good. voted up and followed

Wesman Todd Shaw from Kaufman, Texas on December 17, 2011:

Oh I could look at women all day every day and never get bored with it. Gosh, but don't those French women just have something that some others seem to lack?!

I think so!

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on December 14, 2011:

Une fille francaise, sorry I missed your comment! Thanks for your advice and taking the time to read how to get that look you French girls have with seemingly very little effort. I like the attitude and naturalness of the look!

Une fille française on November 29, 2011:

Bonjour, I'm french and I'm very happy to see all the comments and that american people want to know what the french girl look is. Les FF (femmes françaises)try just to be classic and so become chic. But it's not only in the look, it actually with the attitude too. But we admire american look too, there's more fantasy. Merci beaucoup en tout cas !

gottaloveit from MD on October 22, 2011:

Excellent hub! Love the ideas and the pictures. I'm afraid that having the French girl look is outside my realm at this age but it sure looks good on those models.

Anaya M. Baker from North Carolina on October 05, 2011:

Love the look! Especially the whole part about looking natural and comfortable, not caked on and sprayed on!

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on August 30, 2011:

hummingbird, you'll have the time of your life. enjoy!

funomontrealgirl, thanks! redo's are always fun and exciting!

We need that little 'umpf' it gives us. Glad you liked it!

funmontrealgirl from Montreal on August 28, 2011:

I like it! I want to redo my French girl look. :)

hummingbird211 from Delhi,India on August 24, 2011:

rebekahELLE; I'm visiting Paris in winters for three weeks, and I have one week on my own. I have noted down all the places that you've mentioned. I'm really excited. Thanks again :D

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on August 23, 2011:

hummingbird, You've going to love Paris, and be sure to budget some clothes shopping $$. One of my favorite things to do while I was in Paris was to people watch, especially if you spend time in the fashion district or along Avenue des Champs d'Elysses. I have a few hubs about my trip, you may enjoy them. I'm happy you found this hub helpful. Enjoy your trip. OOH LA LA!

hummingbird211 from Delhi,India on August 23, 2011:

I'm planning a trip to Paris and I have been so worried about my wardrobe. This is just the article I was looking for. Can't thank you enough :D

thejovial from United States on July 08, 2011:

Subtle sexy and natural. Love that look without all the maintenance.

TheMonk from Brazil on June 30, 2011:

Beautiful hub! I love to see french films just because of the french girls. They have something going that keeps me coming back for more. Thanks for this! Voted up!

Janell Rhiannon from CA, USA on May 09, 2011:

what a wonderful article. I love the French girl look...honestly didn't know that's what it was called. my daughter has this look down and it's fabulous. Thanks for putting together such an infoprmative and entertaining hub!

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on May 01, 2011:

Thanks winged! I'm glad you found it charming, what a nice compliment! Yes, a true French woman is stunning. There is an element we simply can't replicate, but we can try. ;)

Dr. Amilia, thanks for stopping by!

Tom, thanks so much for reading! I appreciate your time and critique! So glad you enjoyed it.

Tom rubenoff from United States on May 01, 2011:

Well written, nice pictures, thoroughly enjoyable. :)

Dr. Amilia on April 27, 2011:

Ahhh le French... :P

Voted up!

William Thomas from That Great Primordial Smash UP of This and That Which Gave Rise To All Beings and All Things! on April 23, 2011:

You know, rebekahELLE, somehow I found this hub rather charming. Thank you for this peek behind the veil, as it were, as to how the classic "French girl" look is achieved. Marion Coittlard is stunning, and the movie "Inception" wasn't bad either.

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on March 31, 2011:

Hi Winsome, It's so nice to see my friend from the other coast stopping in to read about the French girl look. It's hard not to love the look, it's so chic and feminine. I'll never forget having lunch with a female Parisian friend while in Paris. The naturalness of her beauty and her intelligence and wit was so refreshing.

I love the link, beautiful! Thanks for sharing!

I think the French phase is part of me, I have some French blood. :D ooh la la~~

I hope all is well with you. xo

Winsome from Southern California by way of Texas on March 29, 2011:

Hi Rebekah, I must admit I did not read most of what I know was a stellar girl friendly article, but I do find that you and I have yet another thing in common--I love the French girl look--well OK maybe just the French girls.

Some of my favorites are Eva Green (Ma Vie en Rose and agent Vesper in Casino Royale,) Julie Ormond as Sabrina, Juliette Binoche, and Marion Cotillard. Here is a cool "French look" for her:

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WexC6NEWs_Q/TQYQuHd9OPI/...

Nice to follow your French phase. =:)

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on March 19, 2011:

Thanks for the comments guys! Nice to see you here. ;)

Tracy, thank you for reading. Well, there you go; I like that, French by lunch time. OOH LA LA! I love the look, it's so feminine, yet very natural and alluring at the same time. I'm glad you enjoyed the song. Isn't it beautiful? Enjoy the fun!

Tracy Lynn Conway from Virginia, USA on March 19, 2011:

Little did I know when I woke up this morning that I could be more French by lunch time. I have always thought of exactly what you have written about but never knew what to call it. I also love that this look involves a natural approach. Really great hub! I am voting up.

Love the L'Amour song, what a great touch!!! I will share on fb. By dinner time I might be speaking French and no one will understand me.

Emma from Houston TX on March 12, 2011:

Lovely hub that has pretty hot pics in it.

Bronson_Hub from San Francisco, CA on February 14, 2011:

Elles sont tres belles! J'aime les femmes francais mais elles n'aiment jamais les hommes americaines :(

(Those chicks are hot! I love the french girls but they never like american guys :()

Closing that parentheses looks like the Paul Frank monkey thing. Just needs one of these now :(|)

Score.

French style is indeed hot. And there's one other thing that makes friend women so hot - they speak french! :)

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on February 01, 2011:

Hi lilyfly, I can see that group of guys clapping. I noticed that also in Paris. The men don't have any qualms about letting a woman know he is staring at her. My French friend told me it was expected and that a woman expects to be flirted with openly. They also clap if they see you kissing at a stoplight! Thanks for reading!

Thanks dressmeperfect. I'm glad you enjoyed.

dressmeperfect from Great Britain on January 31, 2011:

nice hub ! lots of time and effort great

Lillian K. Staats from Wasilla, Alaska on January 29, 2011:

Thank you for this: when I was in Paris, I was sitting next to a group of guys who where clapping when a great looking woman went by. For the fun of it, I also told them which had fake breasts and who did not. I admire Frewnch women more than I can say. Every attribute is boldened, and every fault is minimized. Thanks again! lilyfly

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on January 27, 2011:

Thanks for reading sgupta, I'm glad you enjoy the French fashion. WElcome to HP.

Hi miss_jkim, It's nice to see you. thanks for reading and I understand it takes a while to get around HubPages! I can never read all that I want, so I do appreciate your time! :]

miss_jkim on January 27, 2011:

I am just now getting to read this hub, and I am wondering what took me so long. Great hub with good ideas and information. Loved it!

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on January 26, 2011:

thanks kmcmichael. It is a great looks, isn't it. It takes some effort, but sure is worth it.

thanks for reading Aviago, and thanks for taking time to comment! :]

Aviago1115 on January 26, 2011:

very good hub! i like french women myself! u should check out my hubs!

kmcmichael from Athens, Georgia on January 25, 2011:

great hub! i love the easy, natural look. so chic.

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on January 25, 2011:

Hi Katie, thanks for stopping by. I think most of the fashion trends do come from Paris and we see them sooner or later.. not knowing where they came from, but Chic is always in style! :]

@ J Sunhawk, there you go, viva la France, oui! thanks for reading!

@adegenna, I think it depends on the face and the personality for the straight bang look. Some girls can pull it off, on others it just doesn't look right. Personally, I don't like the heavy bang look on Sandra Bullock, it doesn't fit her personality IMO. oh well, wear it well, ladies or sweep the bangs to the side.

no mohawks for me! thanks for reading, adegenna. ;)

adegenna on January 25, 2011:

hahaha the guide to the french girl look! Bangs are so in but I feel like only the celebrities pull it off. When are pretty girls going to stop ruining their swag with the awful straight bang look. Wonder what the next hair trend will be???? MOHAWKS FOR EVERYONE!

J Sunhawk from South Carolina on January 24, 2011:

Don't know a thing about illuminators or blanches but it works for me with these ladies.

Viva la France, yes?

Katie McMurray from Ohio on January 24, 2011:

Thanks for the guide as to what is the french girl look, I've been doing that without knowing I was being chic! I love it thanks for keeping us in the fashion trends know. :) Katie

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on January 23, 2011:

Thank you so much Docmo. I forgot how charming it is to be greeted this way! I wish I had more room to post more photos of the classic French women you have named. I think this is very much going to need a part deux! Or perhaps I can add a few more photos. merci,merci.

Mohan Kumar from UK on January 23, 2011:

Enchanté, ma cherie.

This is a great hub with a thorough breakdown of French chic.

Having been to Paris and spent countless hours on sidewalk cafes/ I am an admirer of the chic sophistication of the la femme francaise. The great line up of Catherine Deneuve and Brigitte Bardot is now carried by Marion Cotillard and Audrey Tatou to name a few. voted up! C'est magnifique!

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on January 21, 2011:

Hi Prasetio, You're always so sweet with your comments. I hope you meet the girl of your dreams! Thanks for reading. :)

Nice to see you Green Lotus, thanks so much for your comment! You are so right, it is a 'je ne sais quoi', it must be the French within them. Whatever it is, it's beautiful. xo

Hillary from Atlanta, GA on January 21, 2011:

This is brilliant! So sophisticated and so "spot on". I will always remember your "Parisian Woman" hub too with affection, and recommend it highly to all. There's a certain "je ne sais quoi" that sets French women above the rest.

prasetio30 from malang-indonesia on January 20, 2011:

I liked this hub and I love French girl looks. Thanks for writing this. Beautiful hub, I wish I could meet French girl in person. Vote up.

Prasetio

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on January 20, 2011:

Hi debbiesdailyviews! thanks for reading and commenting. Yes, this is a fun topic and can be adapted to any age. French women seem to enjoy their age, whatever it may be and don't try to look like a teenager if they're of a 'certain' age.. have fun with it!

@Pamela, thanks for reading. It is a fresh, youthful look, isn't it? I'm always happy to see you! :]

@Ladyface, thanks so much! I'm glad you enjoyed the article. I may be writing another with more examples of putting clothes together! It was fun writing and I'm very happy to hear that it is helpful.

@daravuthz, thanks! I'm thrilled to hear it is inspirational. enjoy! :]

daravuthz from Cambodia on January 19, 2011:

Fantastic hub. Very motivational. Thank you. :)

L a d y f a c e on January 19, 2011:

Being the fashion-impaired plain ladyface that I am, I am excited about this article. Well written, to the point, well explained. Thank you for giving examples and ample description! Now if only I could steal you for a shopping day...

Totally voting up.

Pamela Oglesby from Sunny Florida on January 18, 2011:

I really enjoyed this hub. That look is so fresh and distinctive. Great hub, rated up.

debbiesdailyviews on January 18, 2011:

You pick a faaaaabuous category to hub about, and you obviously live what you write.

As I am an older Lady with style, even if I say so myself heehee

I intend to take this on board. Albeit somewhat adapted for my crevasses, ( i mean laugh lines )

There is no excuse for letting yourself go, at any age.

Great Hub, and voting UP !

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on January 18, 2011:

Stan, as they say in France, Enchante', or enchanted to see you, meet you. While we say, "pleased to see you", or "nice to meet you", they have this simple, beautiful word, enchante'. The French girl look is both classic and alluring. And so much fun. You're more than welcome here! ;)

Stan Fletcher from Nashville, TN on January 18, 2011:

I'm all about this look on women. Now I know what to call it. Hope you didn't mind a guy reading this ladyhub.

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on January 18, 2011:

Hi darski, it's nice to see you here and thanks for reading. I think effort and time to look and feel good is always a plus. I know for myself, it helps me be myself more openly because I feel more confident and able to contribute in a genuine manner. Yes, I will be over to read your hub later today! be well, enjoy the new year!

Bonjour europewalker! It's impossible not to notice them while visiting, isn't it? I have heard that their bathroom shelves are lined with jars, tubes, bottle of beauty products. I don't know if it's still tabu, but it used to be rather off limits to use the 'salle de bain' in another home. :=

Thanks Ingenira for reading. Sitting at a cafe is the way to enjoy the French culture, even the French love this pastime, and it is very much part of their lifestyle. I write about one of my experiences sitting at a cafe in the link above about the Parisian woman looking so effortlessly chic. If you haven't read it, you may enjoy reading it. It was one of those learning experiences for me and it is forever ingrained into my psyche! I'm so glad you enjoyed reading this hub! :]

rebekahELLE (author) from Tampa Bay on January 18, 2011:

Hi Sylvia, Thanks for reading and being the first to leave a comment. I know the feeling about not looking forward to shopping. I'm not a shopping fanatic either. It helps to find stores with knowledgeable sales people. I had to find a great pair of black trousers this past year and told the sales woman what I was looking for, She knew immediately by looking at me and knowing her inventory what would look best. I bought them on the spot after trying them on. They fit perfectly. It also helps to look through magazines that you can check out at the library or online clothing/fashion sites. I hope you enjoy your shopping, make a list and remember, it's for you. :]

Ingenira on January 18, 2011:

Very nice. I wish I can sit in a cafe in Paris and observe how the French women dress up. That's not immediately possible. Glad that you put a write-up here for me to imagine.....

europewalker on January 18, 2011:

Refreshing hub. I also took notice of the stylish French women while I was in Paris. Updated my style when I got back home. Great tips RebekahELLE :)

Darlene Sabella from Hello, my name is Toast and Jam, I live in the forest with my dog named Sam ... on January 18, 2011:

Yes this is an interesting hub, and I did enjoy it very much. It feels good to look fresh and pretty, and make it look like there was not a lot of effort to look this way. Yet, there is effort and time on our personal beauty inside and out....thumbs up great hub, visit mine...Love & peace darski

Sylvia Leong from North Vancouver, Canada on January 17, 2011:

Love this Hub! This is exactly the look for me. And I need to buy some outfits sooo bad. However, I'm one of the few women in the world who actually despises shopping. I wish I could take you shopping with me for some pointers.

P.S. I voted this up & shared it on my Fb page.

:-)