Rachel Anders is a formal model and fashion enthusiast. She has tremendous insight into current fashion trends and styles.

Choosing the Right Panty Style

In the realm of clothing, women are afforded great flexibility in regard to their underwear preferences. This is due, in part, to the wide array of fabrics and styles that are available to consumers. From thongs to “cheekies” (and everything in between), the opportunities for creative combinations (and styles) are endless and limited only by the extent of an individual’s imagination.

Knowing which style and fabric to choose, however, comes with its own host of problems as many women are unsure which panty style is best-suited for their particular needs. This article provides an in-depth analysis of the various fabrics, materials, and underwear styles that are currently available to women. It includes a complete overview of each panty style, as well as their suitability for everyday use. Following completion of this work, it is the author’s hope that her readers will be better-equipped to understand the various options that are available on the market. While unseen to the outside world, proper selection of panties is a vital component to any outfit. As such, a deeper understanding of panties can play a major role in amplifying a woman’s overall comfort, confidence, and sense of style.

How to Choose the Right Panty Fabric

Fabric for women’s underwear and lingerie is extremely diverse, providing ladies with an almost “unlimited” selection that fits their individual bodies and needs. In fact, most ladies will tell you that fabric is one of the single most important factors when choosing panties (even more so than style). Why is this the case? Both “breathability” and comfort are extremely important to how you look and feel. Likewise, both of these factors can go a long way in preventing unnecessary sores and infection of your delicate areas.

Before selecting a fabric, however, ladies should consider a number of factors. This includes the fabric’s overall stretchiness, weight, look, and feel. Each of these factors are pretty self-explanatory, and are dependent upon your individual preference. For stretch and weight, do you desire a close-fitting (snug) material or one that that is slightly loose? Likewise, do you want a thicker material, or one that is thinner and more breathable? Finally, and crucially, for “look” and “feel,” you should always ask yourself: “is this material right for me?” Is it comfortable, and does it make me feel secure?

Listed below are some of the most common fabrics available on the market today.

Cotton

As with many clothing options, cotton is perhaps the most popular fabric for panties due to its level of comfort and breathability. Cotton is appropriate for everyday use, and is capable of absorbing upwards of 25-percent of its weight in moisture (keeping your skin dry throughout the day). They are also quite affordable, and highly recommended by many gynecologists due to their breathability and infection-fighting potential. And while the overall price of cotton has certainly increased over the last few years due to growing demand issues, cotton remains one of the most affordable fabric options on the market today.

Satin

Satin is renowned throughout the world for its soft and smooth texture that feels great to the skin. While it is often used in lingerie (due to its flashier appearance), satin is a popular choice for looser-fitting panty styles. It is cool to the touch, making this fabric extremely comfortable. And while it is quite shiny, this fabric is generally suitable for everyday use. Moreover, consumers can expect satin prices to be moderately cheap in price; however, this is subject to change when satin is combined with other fabrics (such as silk) which can dramatically increase its overall value.

Lace

Similar to silk, lace is usually reserved for fancier underwear such as lingerie and nighties. The material is renowned for its light and transparent qualities, along with its “seamless” feel. Despite these qualities, lace is extremely thin and flimsy. Moreover, its rougher texture can cause irritation (including itching) over time if continual contact with the skin is maintained. For these reasons, lace is usually not recommended for everyday use as they can be quite uncomfortable over longer periods of time. In regard to price, expect panties with lace fabric to be much more expensive than cotton and satin alternatives, as this material is considered a luxurious fabric that is in high-demand by consumers.

Mul Mul Cotton

Originating in Northern India, mul mul cotton (sometimes referred to as “mal mal”) is a softer and slightly thicker alternative to regular cotton. It is extremely light and feels great against the skin due to its natural “cool to the touch” texture. Generally speaking, this fabric is suitable for everyday use. However, it is vital to note that mul mul cotton is far less-breathable than standard cotton. This, in turn, increases the risk of skin-related issues when worn for extended periods of time. In regard to price, mul mul cotton is a relatively expensive fabric due to its fine weave and texture. Due to its widespread availability though, it is important to note that mul mul cotton has experienced a slight decrease in cost over the last few years.

Silk

Silk is typically reserved for making lingerie due to its softness and overall texture. Silk has a “weightless” dimension to it, and feels incredibly smooth against the body. It is also quite cool to the touch, providing incredible comfort to the wearer. Nevertheless, silk is usually not an “everyday” option in the realm of panties as it is not a breathable material. This is problematic, as the material can result in unwelcome infections of your delicate areas over time. In spite of this, the fabric is incredibly durable and will hold its shape for longer periods of time when compared to other choices (such as cotton or spandex). Durability comes at a price, however, as silk is generally more expensive than other panty fabrics on the market.

Jersey

Jersey is a material comprised of cotton, wool, nylon and polyester. It is waterproof and is a favorite for bikinis and water-based attire. Generally described as “springy” and “stretchy” in its overall texture, jersey materials offer a great deal of support as they move freely with the body. Jersey is also quite warm due to its knitted quality. This makes it an ideal choice for colder months. In regard to price, jersey is considered a middle-of-the-road option for many individuals, as it is neither cheap nor expensive.

Spandex (Elastane)

Spandex (sometimes referred to as “elastane”) is a super-stretchy material that is usually combined with cotton. The material is a great choice for athletes and more-active individuals, as its stretchiness provides maximum flexibility, while its cotton component actively “wicks” away sweat from the body. This, in turn, helps the wearer stay dry and comfortable during intense workouts. In spite of this, spandex does not provide a great deal of “breathability,” and can trap heat. This creates a perfect breeding ground for yeast infections over time (healthline.com). Price is also a factor that should be considered when looking at spandex, as this material is slightly more expensive than other fabrics (due to the cost of labor required to manufacture it). Nevertheless, price for this material is still considered to be reasonable, as it is not classified as a “luxurious” fabric.

Organza

Organza is a sheer and transparent material that is often adorned with a touch of “sparkle.” As such, it is generally used for lingerie (or gowns) due to its flashy appearance, and soft texture. While this material can certainly be incorporated for daily usage, individuals seeking a fabric that is comfortable and breathable will be better served by cotton-like materials instead. Moreover, it is important to note that organza is generally more expensive than the other fabrics included on this list due to their luxurious finish and design.

Florence Net

Florence Net is an extremely strong and durable fabric that is stretchy, lightweight, and breathable. Virtually weightless (and soft to the touch), this particular fabric is a favorite for lingerie items and nighties. In spite of this, Florence net is usually not recommended for everyday use. While extremely comfortable and breathable, they are not as durable as other fabrics on this list and may tear (or rip) over extended periods of time. Likewise, Florence net is generally more expensive than other options on this list.

Linen

Linen is an extremely breathable fabric that is capable of absorbing upwards of 20-percent of its weight in moisture. As an all-natural fiber, it is also incredibly lightweight, and softer than most of the fabrics on this list. Linen is generally available in both knit and woven forms, and is a great choice for summer attire due to its breathability. For these reasons, it is usually suitable for everyday use. It is important to note, however, that linen is usually characterized as a luxurious material due to the costs associated with harvesting and producing it. As such, linen-based panties are usually much more expensive than cotton-based alternatives.

Merino Wool

Merino Wool is one of the softest fabrics in the world, as well as one of the most breathable (due to its porous fibers). This fabric will not only keep you comfortable and dry throughout the day, but is also great at regulating your body’s natural temperature (keeping you cool in the summer, and warm when it is cold). As a result, this fabric is generally suitable for everyday use and can be easily incorporated into a variety of panty styles. It should be noted, however, that this particular fabric is incredibly expensive due to the number of fibers present (nearly double that of cotton).

Tencel

Tencel is an extremely breathable fabric that is derived from eucalyptus trees. It is comprised of super small fibers (known as nanofibrils) that actively wick away moisture from your skin. This fabric is highly durable, as well as extremely comfortable (making it suitable for everyday use). Nevertheless, women who are interested in this fabric choice should note that Tencel is also a lot more expensive than other options on this list. This is due (in part) to the technology required for its development, as well as its perception as a luxurious fabric by the public.

Panty Buying Tips

Know Your Body and Personality Type

As with any type of clothing, it is vital that you understand your body type when selecting panties. Some styles are more appropriate than others, depending on your overall shape. Likewise, panties are designed for a wide array of personality types, seasons, and purposes. If you are more modest, for example, choosing a thong or G-string probably isn’t the best choice as the lack of coverage will leave you feeling both vulnerable and exposed. Similarly, fabric choice should be dependent upon the time of year that you plan to wear it. Lighter materials will not offer much protection during the winter, whereas heavy materials will often prove problematic in the summer months.

Know Your Size

Before selecting panties, it is also crucial that you understand your waist and hip size before you begin shopping. Buying a set of panties that is too large (or too small) can result in extreme discomfort for the lady, as well as cause irritation. As such, finding a “perfect size” that fits your particular body shape is an essential part to panty shopping. After determining your particular size and needs, shoppers should also spend considerable time researching different brands as sizes can vary significantly between companies. Again, a proper fit is a vital component to panty selection, and will go a long way in making sure that your panties are as comfortable as possible.

Panty Styles

Now that we have covered the basics of panty fabrics, as well as the importance of size, we can now turn our attention to the various panty styles that are available on the market. In the sections that follow, a detailed overview of each style is provided, followed by a subsection that discusses each style’s “suitability” for everyday use. When selecting a style, always examine “why” you are interested in this particular look. As with any clothing option, some styles are more preferable to women than others. Likewise, some women may find some of these styles to be extremely revealing or uncomfortable for everyday use.

Bikini Panties

Bikini-style panties offer an “in-between” option for briefs and thongs, and were inspired by bikini bathing-suit bottoms (as their name implies). Offering medium (moderate) coverage to the wearer, a bikini’s waistband usually sits between the bellybutton and hip (unless they are low-rise). They also have relatively high-cut leg openings and offer a fair amount of coverage in the back. Straps on the side of bikini briefs are generally thin, while the rear fabric sits relatively high on the cheeks. Bikini briefs come in a variety of colors and fabrics that are designed to fit nearly any preference. A string option is also available and is distinguishable by its thinner sides and higher-cut legs.

When to Wear Bikini Panties

Bikini briefs are appropriate for nearly any occasion. Considered highly-versatile due to their size and shape, bikini underwear can be worn with nearly any outfit. This includes skirts (regular or mini), jeans, pants, or dresses. Although panty lines are relatively invisible with this style, certain fabrics (and bottoms) tend to show more than others. So be sure to keep this factor in mind when choosing bikini panties for your wardrobe.

Boyshorts

As their name implies, boyshorts are modeled after men’s boxer briefs and maintain a rectangular appearance similar to hipsters. This style offers full coverage to the wearer, with most sitting below the crease line of the cheek. Some boyshorts even reach as far as the thigh in their length (depending on your particular preference). Generally speaking, these panties tend to sit at the hips with significant coverage on the side regions. However, two major exceptions to this rule can be seen with bootyshorts and girlshorts, which tend to show more “cheek” and sit lower on the waist.

When to Wear Boyshorts

Boyshorts are regularly described as one of the most comfortable styles of panties on the market, with numerous fabrics to choose from (including cotton, nylon, and microfiber materials). As a result, they are great options for sleepwear and athletic attire. Seamless versions work great with skirts, dresses, and tighter-fit clothing. It should be noted, however, that normal boyshorts are prone to show panty lines. As a result, they should typically be worn with loose-fitting jeans, skirts, or pants if this is an issue you wish to avoid. Nevertheless, women seeking a full-coverage design can’t go wrong with boyshorts, as their total cheek coverage offers both a comfortable and modest style that is hard to beat.

Hipsters

Hipsters are often described as a mixture between bikinis and boyshorts. Offering a good deal of coverage, the hipster style maintains a wider waistband that tends to hug the body and hips (as their name implies). Often described as a “square cut,” hipsters are usually accentuated by bikini-style leg holes, along with full coverage in the rear. Generally speaking, these panties often sit low on the hips with the openings sitting just below the crease-line of the cheek. They also come in a variety of colors and fabrics that are tailored to fit nearly any individual’s preference.

When to Wear Hipsters

Hipsters are appropriate for nearly any occasion, and fit a wide-array of clothing options. They generally offer full coverage to the wearer, and are considered extremely comfortable by modern standards. Due to their low-cut features, panty lines are also less visible with this particular style. For these reasons, they are appropriate for almost any outfit, including dresses, skirts, tighter pants/jeans, and shorts (depending on their length).

Tap Pants

Tap pants are a sexy version of the boyshort that were designed to be relatively loose. Originally developed for tap dancers (hence their name), this panty style is often designed with delicate fabrics (such as silk or lace), making them extremely comfortable alternatives to other styles. Tap pants offer full coverage to the wearer (both front and back). In addition to their loose-fitting design, leg openings are usually quite open on this style with the waistband being the only piece of fabric that hugs the skin.

When to Wear Tap Pants

Despite their relatively longer length, tap pants are traditionally worn with skirts or dresses due to their loose-fitting design and lack of panty lines. Due to their extreme comfort (similar to men’s boxers), they are also well-suited as sleep attire.

Briefs

Briefs refer to standard underwear for women. Offering great coverage, briefs sit on (or just below) the bellybutton, and come in a variety of fabrics/materials. While similar to bikini underwear in many ways, briefs tend to have extra coverage along the hip, with additional material also appearing in the legs and rear. This style is also quite thick, and can provide a great deal of support to the tummy area when worn properly.

When to Wear Briefs

Briefs can be worn with any clothing option, and are widely considered to be one of the most comfortable options on the market. Their full-cheek coverage is also a great choice for individuals that prefer modesty over sexiness. However, due to their thicker fabrics, briefs are prone to show panty lines around the edges. For this reason, they are best suited for jeans and thicker clothing. It is also important to note that individuals (when selecting briefs) should attempt to find a pair that won’t bunch up, or “ride up” in the back.

Hi-Cut Briefs

Hi-cut briefs (or high-waisted briefs) are an extremely comfortable style of panties that sit just below the belly-button. Hi-cut briefs offer exceptional coverage to the back and front, and provide additional tummy support/shaping. Possessing wider leg openings, hi-cut panties also give the appearance of “longer legs” due to their relatively thin sides. Generally speaking, hi-cut briefs are simply briefs that sit higher on the waist. And while this panty style experienced a lull in popularity for a short while, it has recently experienced a dramatic revival in recent years as women come to recognize their overall comfort and support.

When to Wear Hi-Cut Briefs

Hi-cut briefs are a great choice for outfits that involve high-waisted bottoms. They are also great for providing a comfortable layer between your skin and high-cut jeans that normally cause discomfort. As a result, this particular style is highly suitable for everyday usage, and can be incorporated into a number of outfit options. As with regular briefs, however, it is important to note that this particular style can show “panty lines” around the edges. For this reason, they are best-suited for jeans, thicker clothing, or loose-fitting dresses and skirts.

Full Briefs

As their name implies, full briefs are designed for maximum coverage to the wearer. Classic styles typically sit high on the waist, and are designed with thick sides along with a lower leg line. Sometimes referred to as “granny panties,” full briefs provide a great deal of support to the wearer, especially along the tummy section and lower back. They also provide a great deal of protection against rougher fabrics (such as jeans and denim), affording women a greater degree of selection in regard to their wardrobe preferences.

When to Wear Full Briefs

Full briefs are generally designed for women who desire full coverage and support. As such, they are suitable for nearly any occasion and can be worn with dresses, skirts, and jeans. Due to their design, however, women should note that this particular style is more likely to show panty lines with tighter-fitting attire. For outfits that are more form-fitting, individuals will be better-served by “cheekier” options such as the thong, tanga, or bikini-cut styles.

Brazilian Briefs

Brazilian briefs, also referred to as “Brazilian knickers,” are a cross between the bikini and thong styles of underwear. These panties tend to sit low on the waistline, and possess wide sides along with minimal coverage in the back (providing a “cheeky” appearance to the wearer). Brazilian briefs are considered extremely sexy in the realm of panties, while simultaneously giving the appearance of regular briefs in the frontal region. For individuals wanting to transition (slowly) from bikini to thong, this style may be a perfect choice.

When to Wear Brazilian Briefs

Brazilian briefs are usually suitable for any outfit due to their comfort, and lack of visible panty lines for the wearer. And due to their coverage on the sides and front, they are even acceptable for jeans as they provide an extra layer of protection against the harsh feel of denim on the body. It is important to note, however, that this particular style has a tendency to “ride up” on the wearer, making them an uncomfortable choice for some women. To avoid this issue, always select panties that are properly fitted to your specific size. Likewise, choose fabrics that fit your particular tastes in regard to comfort.

French-Cut Panties

French briefs are similar to normal briefs, but possess wider sides that wrap around to the back. Generally speaking, French-cut briefs offer minimal coverage in the back as the bottom zone of the cheeks are exposed. Nevertheless, they offer considerable coverage in the front as they sit at the wearer’s natural waistline while hugging the natural curve of the legs. While some ladies look at this style as “granny panties,” their extreme comfort is difficult to beat in the realm of underwear and should definitely be a part of every woman’s attire.

When to Wear French Briefs

Due to their coverage, French briefs are suitable for nearly any outfit. They are extremely comfortable, sit securely along the hips, and are highly-suited for tummy control. In spite of these clear positives, however, it is important to note that this particular style is generally not suitable for low-rise pants (or shorts), as the top portion of your French briefs will be highly visible. Likewise, visible panty lines can be an issue with this style as well (depending on the particular fabric that you choose).

Cheekies

Cheeky panties are often described as a “cross” between the thong and bikini (similar to Brazilian briefs). Sometimes referred to as “cheekies,” the thong-like origins of this particular style are clearly evident upon first glance as these panties tend to reveal more of the lady’s lower bottom. Likewise, they follow a similar design to traditional bikini-cut patterns, but are slightly more revealing and “flirty.” Due to their coverage and thickness, this particular style is also incredibly comfortable to the wearer, and will provide your cheek area with a great deal of support. As a result, this style rarely “rides up” on the wearer (as long as a proper fit is obtained by the lady)

When to Wear Cheeky Panties

Cheeky underwear is a highly practical panty style that is suitable for nearly any occasion. They can be worn with dresses, skirts, and even jeans (providing an extra layer of protection against the rough feel of denim). Cheekies are also well-suited for tighter-fitting clothing as panty lines are virtually non-existent with this particular style. This is due to their back panels, which are far narrower than traditional panties, allowing them to practically “disappear” under your pants and skirts. Likewise, their low-cut design makes them a perfect choice for low-cut jeans.

Tanga

Tanga underwear is an extremely comfortable panty style that offers moderate to minimal coverage for the wearer (depending on your overall preference and style). Often described as a cross between the bikini and thong (similar to the cheeky), tanga underwear showcases much of the lady’s rear, while still maintaining a sense of coverage. They are also slightly narrower than a traditional bikini, providing minimum coverage on the front and sides for the wearer.

When to Wear a Tanga

Tanga style panties are appropriate for nearly any occasion due to their skin-hugging design and lack of panty lines. As such, they can be easily incorporated into nearly any outfit, with dresses and skirts being among the most popular combinations with this style. Due to their “minimal” style, however, it is important to note that tangas can be uncomfortable under jeans and rougher materials, as more skin will be in contact with these particular fabrics (leading to irritation and discomfort in your more sensitive areas).

Thong

Thong panties are one of the most sought-after forms of underwear, and come in a variety of patterns and fabrics. Although they look like normal panties from the front, a thong narrows to a thin piece of fabric in the back where it sits snugly between the cheeks. As a result of this narrowing, waistbands are usually quite narrow in appearance. While they are considered unconventional (due to their minimal coverage), a thong prevents the appearance of panty lines with tighter-fit clothing. They are also considered extremely sexy by modern standards.

When to Wear a Thong

Thongs are appropriate for nearly any occasion. Plus, many women consider them to be one of the most comfortable style of panties available on the market. In more recent decades, they have even become popular as swimwear. Depending on your particular tastes, however, a thong is most often worn with tighter clothing (to prevent the appearance of panty lines). You should also consider wearing a thong with shorts, dresses, and skirts. They are also highly-appropriate for fabrics that are more see-through, such as white jeans, tights, and leggings. In these latter situations though, it is important to note that the wearer should select a color option that matches your outer layer to prevent your thong from being visible.

G-String

Similar to the thong, G-strings (also known as V-strings) are incredibly minimal in their coverage areas. Often described as the “loin cloth” of the panty realm, the G-string offers only a small amount of coverage to the front (usually a triangular piece of fabric at most), whereas the back usually consists of a single string that sits between the cheeks. Occasionally, designers will adorn the top of the back piece with a pretty bow, ring, or other detail to add to its “sexy” factor, or feel.

When to Wear a G-String

Due to their minimal coverage, G-strings can be worn with a wide-array of outfits as panty lines are virtually non-existent with this style. For these reasons, the G-string is often worn with form-fitting attire such as skirts, dresses, leggings, and tights as they give the appearance of a “no-underwear” look. Nevertheless, many women tend to avoid wearing G-strings with jeans or denim shorts as there is no protection offered against the fabric (making them incredibly uncomfortable). Moreover, the G-string is usually quite uncomfortable (when compared to other styles on the market). Be sure to keep this in mind when selecting this style.

C-String

As if G-strings weren’t small enough, designers decided to create a new form of panties designed for absolute minimum coverage. The result was the C-string; a single-piece item devoid of waist bands that tucks neatly into the crotch and bottom area. C-strings are the closest a woman can get to going “commando” while still maintaining a sense of coverage. Often described as an “extreme thong” by designers, the C-string is held in place by a curved wire that sits between the butt cheeks.

When to Wear a C-String

The overall purpose of the C-string is to provide women with a sense of coverage while simultaneously avoiding visible panty lines for their clothing. As a result, the C-string is great for tighter-fit clothing. Nevertheless, it should be noted that women maintain radically contrasting views in regard to the overall comfort level of the C-string, with some loving it and others downright hating its feel. With no waistband for this particular style, many women also fear that the C-string is capable of sliding off during the day, resulting in a potentially embarrassing situation. For these reasons, great care should be taken when selecting this particular style.

"Peekaboo" Panties

“Peekaboo” panties, also known as “crotchless underwear,” is a style of underwear known for their split front. Peekaboo panties come in a variety of styles, including thong, boyshorts, or briefs. This particular style is highly impractical, as they offer virtually no support or coverage to the wearer.

When to Wear "Peekaboo" Panties

Peekaboo panties are usually reserved for “sexy” occasions, as they are not practical for everyday use. With virtually no support or coverage (especially in the front), the “peekaboo” style is best-suited for special evenings at home with your significant other. As such, wearing this particular style with jeans and other materials is not recommended, as the front opening can lead to serious irritation (or injury) after prolonged contact with rougher materials (such as denim).

Questions and Answers

What is the Most Comfortable Style of Panties?

If comfort is your number one priority for panties (rather than style/appearance), then you will be best-served by more traditional pairs such as briefs. To date, briefs (and their variations, including high-cut options) are recognized by women as one of the most comfortable pairs of underwear on the market. Of course, this assumes that a proper fit is achieved before wearing, as panties that are too small (or too big) will be problematic to the wearer.

Boyshorts are also cited as extremely comfortable by women, due to their coverage area and relaxed feel. Likewise, a number of women have also cited “cheekies” and “hipsters” as extremely comfortable as well. At the end of the day, however, comfort is a subjective term that is relative to the individual wants and desires of a lady.

What is the Most Comfortable Panty Fabric Available?

Of all the options available on the market today, cotton continues to be one of the most comfortable fabric choices for panties. Although other (more softer) fabrics, such as silk, are incredibly smooth and cool to the skin, prolonged contact with these type of fabrics can result in excessive “rubbing” that can leave your skin sore. Likewise, a number of softer fabrics are known to trap heat and moisture, leaving a lady in an uncomfortable position.

What is the Most Affordable Panty Option?

As of 2021, cotton-based panties continue to be one of the most affordable options on the market. This is due to the fact that cotton is both cheap and easily produced (harvested) worldwide. This is subject to change, however, as the price of cotton has steadily risen in recent months due to shortages.

What is the Most Expensive Panty Option?

To date, some of the most expensive panty options on the market include both silk and wool-based fabrics. This is due, in part, to shortages in materials as well as growing demand amongst consumers. As with all fabrics though, this is subject to change in the future as consumer desires are evolving every day.

Which Panties are Suitable for Everyday Use?

Of the options listed above, thongs, boyshorts, hipsters, tangas, and briefs (including all their variations) are among the most suitable for everyday use. These options can be incorporated into nearly any outfit, and will provide you with a great deal of support and protection from harsher fabrics (such as denim). Of course, “suitability” is a relatively subjective term in regard to clothing. As such, only you can know what panty option is best-suited for your particular needs.

Concluding Thoughts

In conclusion, panties come in a wide array of colors, patterns, fabrics, and styles. With this extensive selection and variety, women are afforded great flexibility in the style and options they choose. From the “sexy” thong and tanga, to the more modest bikini, panties continue to be a vital component to nearly any wardrobe. As a woman, your options are limited only by the imagination, as well as your sense of style, comfort, and particular desires.

Works Cited

Articles/Books:

• Victoria's Secret "Panty Guide." Accessed: June 23 2021.
• Fresh Pair "Panty Guide." Accessed July 5 2021.
• Fruit of the Loom "Panty Size Guide." Accessed: June 4 2021.

Images/Photographs:

• Wikimedia Commons
• Pixabay

This content reflects the personal opinions of the author. It is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and should not be substituted for impartial fact or advice in legal, political, or personal matters.

© 2021 Rachel Anders

I love keeping up with internet trends and watching YouTube in my spare time.

The Decision Should Be Ours

If you don't want to go braless, you enjoy wearing a bra, or it enhances your life, that's fine. But for many women, bras are holding us back. If someone wants to give up bras, it should be socially acceptable for them to do so, which is why I'm giving a list of reasons why giving up bras can be a good thing. It has improved my life. I will never wear them again.

1. It Improves Circulation

The tipping point for me, when it came to giving up bras was when I was becoming winded walking around wearing them. They were just squeezing my rib cage so much that they felt like a vise and were hindering my movements.

Granted, maybe if I got a bra that was a different size, that could have fixed some of this, but I was tired of being held back physically by something I didn't deem necessary.

I had stopped wanting to leave the house anymore because it meant putting on a bra and suddenly having breathing difficulty again. I didn't want to stop living my life because of a piece of clothing. And I was scared it was cutting off my circulation in a way that wasn't healthy for me.

While this point won't apply to everyone, I think not wearing a bra can improve circulation in the body for a lot of people.

2. Self-Acceptance

Society judges everything about a woman's chest. It's not big enough, small enough, round enough, high enough. They make bras to minimize, squeeze, pad, and shape all these problems. But what if we just choose to accept our bodies how they are instead of hiding them shamefully? Not wearing a bra, at least for me, is a way of proudly accepting my body the way it is and not forcing it to conform to the shape everyone else wants it to be.

3. It Saves Money

Bras are expensive, especially the larger your bra size. For me, bras were costing $50–80 per bra. None of the rest of my clothing was that expensive, so giving up wearing bras is saving me a lot of money.

4. Bra Sizes Are Confusing

Our tatas seem to change size regularly. Lose five pounds, gain five pounds, or even just have your period and you are a different size. I got measured "professionally" a few times and the people measuring seemed confused when the bras they measured me for didn't fit. Many of the people doing the measuring don't seem to be properly trained. I also tried measuring myself and just wound up confusing myself.

I'm pretty sure the entire time I was wearing bras, I was always wearing the incorrect size. And even if I had landed the size right once, it changes so much that it probably wouldn't have been the right size for long.

Bras are at their best when they're fitting, which I feel they rarely do.

5. No One Notices a Difference

I thought everyone would notice that I no longer wear a bra. I felt ashamed the first time I stepped outside without one. But if they do notice, they don't say anything and no one stares either. So maybe it's not as big of deal as everyone says it is.

6. It Feels Empowering

Yes. I am a feminist and not wearing a bra feels like I'm flipping off the patriarchy. Don't get me wrong, though, you can wear bras, too, and be a feminist. That's the whole point of all of this. Bra wearing should be about what's comfortable for the woman, not what's comfortable for society. That's the part that is empowering.

7. Comfort

Nothing feels better to a woman than taking her bra off at the end of the day. Why not feel that way all day, every day?

It's like wearing headbands. I used to like wearing them, but it wasn't worth the tight squeezing headache I'd get at the end of the day from it. Maybe eliminating a piece of clothing that clings to the body this hard could make life a little less annoying and help improve your mood. It can be really uplifting to spend your day actually feeling comfortable.

8. There Are Alternatives

Even if you kind of like aspects of bras and what they cover up and shape, you can replace those things with less restrictive clothing. There are shirts that comes with cups that help holds things in place and cover things up, without squeezing so hard. Loose fitting clothing and hoodies can sometimes hide things as well, but they are so much more comfortable than bras.

9. It's More Hygienic

Let's face it: people who wear bras rarely wash them. This is not because they're gross people. It's because of a combination of factors, like that bras are too expensive to own very many and it's too much work to wash an item of clothing every day that you wear every day. We can't let bras sit in the dirty clothes like regular clothing does when we own so few pairs of them.

Combine this with the fact that bras rest so tightly against the skin that they get covered in sweat every day. Not wearing bras is more hygienic and probably smells better as well.

10. Bras Produce Too Much Heat

Wearing restrictive clothing like this, when it's the middle of summer and already suffocating, is too much. If you're already sweating, a bra makes things that much worse. It can get so bad that some people use deodorant underneath their bras. Wouldn't it also make sense to just give up wearing bras altogether?

No One Has To Give Up Wearing Bras

I think every woman should make the decision whether or not she wants to wear bras for herself. I'm just saying that it's a healthy alternative to go without them if it's what makes you more comfortable.

© 2021 EB Black

Comments

Umesh Chandra Bhatt from Kharghar, Navi Mumbai, India on March 01, 2021:

Well presented. Useful.

Wife, Mama, Oregonian, coffee lover, chronic illness warrior, and entrepreneur.

What Is a Minimizing Bra?

First of all, what is a minimizing, or minimizer bra? Simply put, a minimizer bra is designed to make large breasts appear smaller, reducing the overall appearance. Usually, minimizer bras separate the breasts to avoid the unfortunate "boob loaf" look that most well-endowed women are familiar with.

Finding the Most Comfortable Bra for Large Breasts

In my post-pubescent life, my DD’s have caused me more inner drama than just about any other part of my body. For whatever reason, I just don’t love having larger breasts. Throw in a pregnancy and months of breast feeding and the girls are just sorta large and saggy. I know lots of women who would kill for larger breasts, but depending on your style and preference, it can be tricky to find suitable bras and often, the pretty ones from Victoria’s Secret can make your boobs tough to see over

In my experience, many “minimizer bras” give me a weird shape, sort of like the iconic “bullet bra.” I’m sorry, but who thought this was a good idea? I don’t want my girls to enter the room that long before I do.

My *ahem* biggest issue (no pun intended) is that because I have a long torso, and prefer flowy shirts, I need bras that keep the girls reigned in a little closer to my body for a narrower profile.

Bra’s like this are much harder to find. I've tried out dozens in the last few years (and even gone so far as to alter a few with my sewing machine at home!) Because few things in life are less fun than trying on bras, I believe that you, too, can benefit from my quest for the most comfortable but also slimming bra in the world.

Here are my top three favorite bras for ladies who want to keep things “under wraps.”

#3 The Icctbro Seamless Yoga Bra

The Icctbro Seamless Yoga Bra is a great option for everyday wear. It looks good under just about everything, and the underneath part comes low enough that it doesn't ride up or roll like many bras made of this material. The wide straps are especially great if the effect of gravity on your boobs gives you neck pain at the end of the day.

It is not lined and does not have underwire, but it is surprisingly supportive! I find that it's comfortable for many activities, from lounging to light exercise. It's similar to the True Body bras that are so popular right now. One downfall of this bra is that the straps are fairly close together, so if you're wearing something with a wider neckline, they will show. It also doesn't breathe as well as bras made from natural fibers, so you may find yourself sweating a little more.

63% of the reviewers on Amazon gave it 5 stars. They run small, so buy a size up!

#2 The Hanes Underwire T-Shirt Bra

If you're looking for a bra to narrow things but still give you two separate breasts, the Hanes Underwire T-Shirt Bra is a great option for wearing under any shirt that has an unusual neckline or tank tops with narrow straps. It's lightly padded but still supportive, and it won't give you a weird, pointy shape.

I love this bra for wearing underneath dresses with empire waists or anything where I need a little more definition. You also have the option of hooking the straps together in the back depending on the shirt you're wearing.

#1 My Absolute Favorite, Ride or Die, Life-Changing Bra

The Ambrielle Smoothing Solutions Lace Bralette is my absolute favorite for everyday wear. It is comfortable, supportive, and cute. One of my favorite features is that the straps ride far enough out onto your shoulder that it works under almost any neckline, and if a strap does show, it doesn't scream "GRANDMA BRA!" It's breathable, soft, and comes in a variety of colors. I own four and wear them at least five days a week.

This is a bra that is comfortable enough to sleep in as well as supportive enough to live your life in.

Maina Ndung'u is a fashion enthusiast and has been a fashion consultant and blogger since February 2015.

We all seem to be reluctant when it comes to buying sports bras. Firstly, they are expensive. Secondly, we have the notion that they might not be necessary. However, any activity must have its own toolkit. The big question is, must you wear a sports bra when working out?

In this article, we shall answer these questions:

1. Why ladies exercise without a sports bra.
2. What happens if you don’t wear a sports bra?
3. Can you wear a normal bra for exercise?
4. What are the qualities of a good workout bra?
5. What can you use instead of a sports bra?

Working Out Without a Sports Bra

Not wearing a sports bra during exercise is not unusual. But why do ladies work out with no sports bra? Some reasons are highlighted below:

• Not willing to invest in a sports bra
• Girls with small breasts think they don’t need a sports bra
• Some women use built-in support
• Using a normal bra instead of a sports bra
• Lack of awareness
• The fear that sports bras are uncomfortable
• Uniboob or flattening effect

The Result of Exercising Without a Bra

Working out without any bra at all can have devastating consequences on your breasts. Each breast is an independent external organ that is connected to the body only by skin and delicate ligaments.

When your body bounces back and forth, the contents of the bust, which is mainly fat and fluids, move in all directions to stretch this natural support. During and after exercise, you can feel pain and discomfort within the bust. This pain can spread to the shoulders and upper back.

With repeated exercise with no bra, there are long-term consequences. These supportive tissues, including the skin, are stretched and cannot return to their original shape. This leads to sagging breasts and stretch marks.

Can You Wear a Regular Bra When Working Out?

Ordinary bras do a very good job of supporting your bust against gravity. But this is possible only when your body is not bouncing. During high impact activities like running, a normal bra cannot prevent your breasts from bouncing back and forth.

Research has shown that your performance in sports can be affected by the type of bra you wear. In the long run, women who wear the wrong bras to workouts can have low morale. This might lead to frequent absenteeism. In extreme cases, such ladies may quit sports altogether.

What Kind of Bra Should You Wear for Exercise?

It all depends on your breast size and the type of exercise. There are basically two types of sports bras: compression and encapsulation.

• Compression sports bras work by pressing the bust against the chest. They are good for small breasted women. Those with medium-sized chests can still use these types of bras when doing low impact activities.
• Encapsulated sports bras work by surrounding each breast individually as in a normal bra. They are more effective in deterring breast movement during exercise.

Some sports bra manufacturers make sports bras which combine both encapsulation and compression. These are even more efficient than encapsulation alone bras.

Sports bras are also categorized according to the impact level that they can handle. There are low impact, medium impact, and high impact sports bras. You should match your activities to the right type of bra. Because sports bras are made specifically for exercise, there is no need to risk wearing any other type of bra. It’s always better to be sure rather than sorry.

Sports Bra Alternatives

There are no proper sports bra alternatives. However, you can use plan B when you can’t easily locate your workout bra. I must emphasize that the following alternatives are not meant to replace your sports bra.

• Bikini top
• Stretch tank top
• Ribbed crop top
• Tank top with a built-in bra
• Push-up bra
• Men’s compression vest
• Under-wire full figure bra
• Combining two bras

Note: Only use these in case of an emergency. Be careful not to get used to exercising in them.

Fitted Sports Bras Are a Must

It’s very clear that the majority of athletes cannot run or jog without a properly fitting and comfortable pair of shoes. Reason being that a pair of running shoes is vital. But we sometimes assume that a sports bra is not. And we are all wrong.

The true state of affairs is that a properly fitting sports bra is an indispensable part of an active woman’s toolkit. You should, therefore, make sure that you are wearing the correct sports bra when working out.

Comments

Maina Ndungu (author) from Thika, Kenya on September 17, 2018:

Thanks renee21 for your feedback. I hope you're now surer than ever that you do the right thing by wearing a sports bra during workouts.

Tori Leumas on September 17, 2018:

This is a great article. I like to workout, and I always make sure I wear a sports bra when I do.

Liz's advice, on finance, credit, frugal living practices, & anything monetary, is from the 'school of hard knocks,' research, & experience.

Why Should You Mend Socks?

Most of us are struggling to save a buck (or a few) wherever we can, and socks can be expensive! So why not make them last as long as you can?

There’s no need to toss out a pair or a single and end up with odd socks, just because of a little hole.

Most socks first develop holes either in the bottom of the heel or the toes—spots well-hidden inside your shoes—so no one will be the wiser that you’re wearing patched-up clothing.

That might be especially important if you’re trying to make a good impression, so you might as well spend the bucks on more visible items and mend the underwear and socks!

Unless, of course, you plan to be in an accident and then your mother’s advice about having clean underwear applies (although she never mentioned mended undies)! Of course, 'plan' and 'accident' are mutually exclusive terms!

Yankee Heritage

This is a life skill I learned while I was still quite young; certainly before my mid-teenage years. My mother was born and raised in Massachusetts; a true Yankee. My dad was born in New Hampshire, but the family came to California when he was still a young boy.

I grew up with the Yankee philosophy of being frugal and hearing and learning about all kinds of ways to save money by making ordinary household things last longer. Much of this advice pertained to clothing.

Both of my parents lived through the 10 years of the great depression from 1929 to 1939. I remember Mom telling that she and her brothers often had to cut out cardboard insoles to put in their shoes as a temporary fix for holes, as they could not afford to go to the shoemaker for repairs.

My mother's family was relatively lucky; her father was a bus driver, and so kept his job, as people who perhaps lost their cars to the financial meltdown, then had to ride the bus. All the same, times got rough.

My father was a young adult by this time; though he never spoke of that era much. Interestingly enough though, he too worked in public transportation, as a streetcar motorman during those years.

Darning: An Old Skill Revived

They used to call it darning socks. The practice goes back many, many years before my time.

Along with the cardboard shoe insoles, darned socks were a fact of life. Darn those socks!

It is really not at all complicated; it’s a simple skill that anyone can learn, including children old enough to handle a needle and scissors.

The Right Thread

First, you’ll need the right color thread to match your socks. Mended though they may be, unless you’re trying to be funny for a costume, you don’t want yellow darning on black socks.

We used to buy specially-made thread, called darning cotton, and it came in just four colors: white, black, gray and brown—because "in the olden days," those were the only colors of socks!

New Colors of Socks, New Threads!

I still have what’s left of the ball of white, but for other colors, I have found that embroidery floss works very well. You see, darning cotton is a multi-strand thread, and you separate the strands to use the material. There are four strands, but you only use two. This also makes your thread last twice as long.

If you are using embroidery floss, that is a 6-strand thread, your thread will last three times as long!

Comfort is another reason for using either of these types of thread, for they are softer than thread meant for machine sewing. They are also thicker, which means fewer passes with the weaving.

Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without."

— Yankee Saying

Note the Larger Eye

Tools You'll Need

• Darning Needle: You’ll need a medium-long needle with an eye large enough to thread two strands of thread. Remember, both old-fashioned darning cotton and embroidery floss are thicker than regular sewing thread for your sewing machine; that's why you need a needle with a larger eye to be able to use a double strand.
• Scissors: Keep a pair of scissors handy, and you’re good to go. If you prefer to use a thimble, that’s a good option, and you’ll see why later on.
• Darning Egg: A what? No, not a real egg: a darning egg. It’s a specially-made wooden ball or egg-shaped piece of solid wood with a handle. This type is good for small to medium-sized socks. Sometimes, the shape is more like a drum, or filled-in embroidery hoop; these types also often have an actual hoop that fits over the sock to keep the material from sliding about or bunching up as you work, as that is important. This style is a great option for beginners. (See photos, below, for an example of both types.)

Larger Mending: Sometimes Undies, Too

The drum type is also a good choice for larger socks, such as men's sizes. It is also a good choice for larger holes, although it is better to fix the holes before they become large. Alternately, it can be used for holes in knit undies, such as winter 'warmies' (aka, long johns), or some kinds of panties.

Both types of darning eggs have handles, usually detachable. You don't really hold it by the handle as you work, though, as you need to keep your hand around the work area to keep the material pulled tautly.

The handle itself used to be used for inserting into the fingers of gloves to mend those. But since not many folks wear gloves anymore, that has rather gone by the wayside. However, the handle end can be useful for tiny socks, such as baby and toddler sizes.

Don't Have a Darning Egg?

If you don’t have a darning egg, you can substitute some other items.

• a smooth, egg-sized rock,
• the handle end of a flashlight,
• a larger pill bottle, such as a round vitamin bottle,
• a billiard ball,
• or anything along those lines.

If you like this money-saving tutorial, it might be worth your while to hunt through second-hand or antique shops for a real darning egg.

Warning! Do Not Use a Lightbulb

One darning-egg substitute I have seen suggested, I absolutely do not recommend, is a light bulb!

You do need to hold a fair amount of firm pressure to keep the sock from sliding about as you work, and it would be too easy to squeeze a bit too hard, break the light bulb, and cut your hand.

Begin the Process

For probably obvious reasons, you want to darn the sock after it has been washed.

Start by turning the sock inside-out. Insert the darning egg so that it rests right under the hole, and stretch the sock tight over the egg.

Thread your needle with a double-strand of your chosen thread color, anywhere from about 12 to 18 inches long (depending on how large the hole), and pull it through to not quite doubled over. Leave the end loose; do not tie a knot. That would make a very uncomfortable and sharp-feeling lump under your foot!

You want the trailing end to follow your work, but you don’t want to use 4 strands—keep the trailing end just long enough so it won’t pull out of the needle.

Now, beginning at one edge of the hole, work the needle in and out of the existing material along one edge, and take a stitch or two over the top to anchor the thread without a knot. As you work, be sure and keep the sock pulled taut over the darning egg.

Note: For the photos below, I've deliberately used a sharply contrasting thread, to show the process better. I've also worked the weaving a little looser than normal, for clarity.

First Stage

Next, begin working back and forth, catching the sock material at the edge of the hole, turning the work 180 degrees around and catching the other edge, back and forth, until you have created a series of parallel threads bridging the hole.

(If you prefer, and it is easier for you than continually turning your work, you can simply change hands with the needle as you go back and forth. For me, that's awkward, as I'm not ambidextrous.)

Second Stage

Next, turn the work 90 degrees, and begin weaving in and out of the threads you just laid down, under/over/under/over and so on, until you reach the opposite side.

As before, catch the edge of the material, turn the work 180 degrees, and work back to the other side the same way, only going opposite under-and-over stitches.. Where you went under on the last pass, go over, and so forth. (Again, if you prefer, you can just change hands back and forth with the needle instead of rotating the work itself.)

As you work, you will count the double-strand of thread as a single as you do the weaving, working over and under both strands together, not going between them. This makes the mend stronger. Repeat this process until you’ve filled in the hole.

Keep the lines of weaving as close together as you can manage. (For larger holes, or heavier socks, I will sometimes add a third pass going on the diagonal, but that is not mandatory.)

If you make a mistake, and go under or over two in a row, it's not that big of a deal; sometimes it happens.

Finishing Off

Finish off by once again taking a couple of stitches on top of each other into the original sock material, and snip off close to the work. Voila! You’ve just darned a sock!

For added comfort, to soften the mend and help it blend better into the feel of the original material, you can hammer the mended area all over, and especially at the edges where the darn meets the sock, using either your thimble or the handle of the scissors.

Remove the darning egg (or whatever substitute you've used), turn the sock right side out, and you're done!

Turn it Right-Side-Out, and You're All Done!

© 2018 Liz Elias

Comments

Liz Elias (author) from Oakley, CA on June 26, 2018:

Hi Peg,

Thanks, I'm glad you found this to be useful and doable. Good luck with trying your hand at this skill. It really isn't difficult; just takes some patience.

Peg Cole from North Dallas, Texas on June 25, 2018:

Loved this great tutorial on darning socks. I've done some patching on clothes and mending but not on socks. Your photos and explanation are easy to follow and quite doable.

Liz Elias (author) from Oakley, CA on June 19, 2018:

Hi Sherry!

Thanks for stopping by. I know--the elastic goes a lot of the time--and usually to your otherwise most comfy socks!

Danged cheaply made low-quality imports!

Sherry Hewins from Sierra Foothills, CA on June 18, 2018:

I have sometimes repaired a sock, but usually it seems to be the elastic that wears out first.

Liz Elias (author) from Oakley, CA on June 18, 2018:

Thanks very much! I do believe it is necessary to conserve when and where we can. I still mend clothing, although I admit it's not a much-loved task, and tends to accumulate until the stack is unwieldy! LOL

But, I did just get my sewing machine repaired and tuned up, so no more excuses for me! ;-)

C E Clark from North Texas on June 18, 2018:

As I was perusing your articles, this one caught my eye right away. It brings back memories of my mother darning our family's socks at least one day a week. There were 7 of us including my parents and that meant a lot of socks to be mended. She also patched shirts for my father and brothers whose elbows often wore through the sleeves after a while. When a shirt was no longer worth patching she made handkerchiefs out of it -- Kleenex hadn't made its debut yet

Seems like everything in our society is disposable these days. I think this is a wonderful article that can not only save money, but also space in the landfills across this country if people will just follow your directions.

Suzie from Carson City on May 26, 2018:

Dizzy,,,,,,I admit to being a dinosaur in numerous ways. I just realized one day, that knocking myself out to "keep up with the times," (so-to-speak)....is not one of life's necessities. I always seem to go back to one of my Dad's favorite, common sense remarks: "If it ain't broke, don't fix it." I translate that into the things we do also. I'm a creature of tradition and ceremony. I'm guessing you are as well. Some may mistakenly think we're "weird".....don't believe it, Dizzy.....we are "UNIQUE!" Have a peaceful Holiday week-end! Paula

Liz Elias (author) from Oakley, CA on May 25, 2018:

Thanks Paula!

I know there are a few of us "dinosaurs" still lurking in the shadows of frugality! ;-)

I, too, try to mend as many things as I can, but I confess as I get older, it takes me longer and longer to just get around to doing it. LOL

Recently, I "salvaged" a couple of T-shirts that had huge holes in the underarm seams, and ripped partly into the fabric. Rather than try to pull it all together, I simply cut the sleeves off, along the outside of the original seam line, and, presto! 2 "new" sleeveless shirts! HA!

Thanks again for stopping by and your input.

Suzie from Carson City on May 25, 2018:

Dizzy.....Great Instructions for a very useful project. Our Mom darned socks, just as she patched, hemmed, stitched up & somehow repaired any item of clothing. It was par for the course that my sister and I learned how to do it all.

With the reputation I have as a penny-pincher and all around frugal lady, I still darn socks. Of course, I only darn the really expensive socks that I feel are worth my time. When I buy a pack of 6 pair for 8 bucks for my grandkids, those are definitely the throw away kind!

I'll bet a lot of people will appreciate this article.!

Liz Elias (author) from Oakley, CA on April 16, 2018:

Hi Shauna!

The tools I have were handed down in the family; the darning eggs I pictured were my mom's. They may have come down from her mom before her.

I'm glad you enjoyed the article; it isn't difficult, and doesn't take all that long to do, especially if the hole is still small. Thanks for chiming in.

Shauna L Bowling from Central Florida on April 16, 2018:

This is quite interesting, Liz. I don't wear socks very often, living in Florida, so I rarely wear them out. My son, on the other hand, wears socks every day, most of which have holes in them! I just throw them away. If I had the patience, I might think about darning them, but probably not.

I had no idea there are actually tools out there just for darning socks!

Doris James MizBejabbers from Beautiful South on April 14, 2018:

Now that is real Yankee ingenuity! I've worn many a repaired sock when I was a kid, and my mom taught me to sew them myself. I have narrow feet and my shoes rubbed up and down on my heels which resulted in lots of holes. Mom called it "darning" but we didn't weave the sock like that. First, we were so poor that we couldn't blow money on a darning egg, so we used the forbidden light bulb. We cut a patch from a similar sock that was deemed unrepairable, turned the sock wrong side out and inserted the patch and pinned it on. Then we removed the sock, turned it right side out, slid it back onto the bulb and stitched the patch around the hole. Then we cut off the excess fabric from the underside. The result was a little circle on the heel of the sock that sometimes showed and sometimes it didn't.

After wearing so many patched socks in my lifetime, I say "thanks" but I'll just blow money on some new ones. LOL I really enjoyed reading about your method though.

Eric Dierker from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A. on April 14, 2018:

My much younger wife and son did not believe me about cardboard shoe hole repair and mending socks. So I mended two pair and did not tell them for two weeks. I normally do not do it but love the concept for our ecology concept of use and reuse before recycling.

Larry W Fish from Raleigh on April 14, 2018:

I usually wear my socks with holes in them until they cover half my foot. Then my wife yells at me to buy new ones, hahaha.

Mary Wickison from Brazil on April 14, 2018:

I mend a lot of our clothes but socks I usually throw away. I will definitely try this method to resurrect them. I like the idea of using embroidery thread, that wouldn't have occurred to me.

Thanks for the useful article.

Bill Holland from Olympia, WA on April 14, 2018:

I have a confession to make: I am almost seventy years old and I have never mended an article of clothing....no clue how to use a needle and thread...so I read this with some interest. :)

Maina Ndung'u is a fashion enthusiast and has been a fashion consultant and blogger since February 2015.

A halter dress or top is a stylish and ideal way of making a statement at an outing. It’s a good way of showing off your shoulders without the risk of falling straps. But these clothes come with the challenge of revealing bra straps and hooks. What kind of bra do you wear underneath such outfits?

A regular bra is considered to be an item of underwear. While exploring the types of bras that you can wear with a halter outfit, the answer lies in looking for a bra that is not ordinary. There are many options. However, you have to strike a balance between support, coverage, and discretion. Below are some of the most practical choices. Find the one that suits you the best. Choose from:

1. Halter Neck
2. Strapless
3. Halter Bralette
4. Criss-Cross or Strappy Back
5. Bandeau or Tube Top
6. Adhesive
7. Adhesive Silicone Cups
8. Convertible or Multiway

1. Halter Neck Bra

A halter bra is perhaps the best option for wearing under halter outfits. The two seem to be made for each other. Wearing a halter bra also ensures no pressure or coverage to the shoulders.

If your dress has a very low back, wearing a bra with hooks and eyes in the back may look ridiculous. In that case, opt for a halter sports bra.

2. Strapless Bra

A strapless bra is used not only for strapless outfits but also for the majority of halter necks. A lot of them are convertible and so will have detachable straps. For better support, choose a bra with a wider band.

Some strapless bras are high-neck in style. Therefore, be sure they can match your top or dress. If your dress has a deep-plunge neck, opt for another type of bra.

3. Halter Bralette

Bralettes are designed mostly to cover and not necessarily support the bust. They usually don’t have wires, hooks, padding, or lining. However, they still offer some support.

Though bralettes are normally worn by teen girls, they can still be worn by ladies of any age. The lack of wires and clasps is an advantage to women looking for utmost comfort.

A halter bralette is perfect for wearing under halter outfits if comfort is what you are after. The smooth and soft make ensures no pinching or red marks.

4. Criss-Cross or Strappy Back Bra

Some criss-cross and strappy bras are designed for sports and leisure. They are therefore ideal for wearing as outerwear. You don’t have to worry even if they show underneath other clothes.

The straps of some cross back bras not adjustable. If they have an adjustment, it will be at the front and not the back. Because they usually have an ordinary bra band, they might not be perfect for some low back dresses.

5. Bandeau Bra or Tube Top

Bandeaus and tube tops are pullover garments that are made of stretchy material. They have no hooks although some have detachable straps. Because they have little shaping, they don’t offer much support.

These garments are designed to show underneath clothing. They can be worn under virtually any clothing. If you match a bandeau properly with your halter outfit, it can be fun, comfy and exciting.

6. Adhesive Bra

Adhesive bras are made to stick-on to your body to offer you some coverage and some bit of support. They may not be perfect for women with a big bust. But they are perfect for keeping out of sight.

For halter outfits, choose a bra with sticky cups and not wings as these will be visible under the armpits. If your dress has a plunging front, you can use adhesive cups or an adhesive bra with the clasp open.

The front hook can help you show some cleavage. If adhesive bras do not support you enough, choose one with a detachable halterneck strap.

7. Adhesive Silicone Cups

These reusable sticky cups are hardly visible under filmy clothes. They are a great option if your halter dress or top is made of thin material. The outcome is smooth look.

If your dress is low back and deep front plunge, adhesive cups may be your best choice. Another advantage is you don’t feel like you are wearing a bra at all unless you fit the cups badly.

8. Convertible or Multiway Bra

Convertible bras come with exchangeable straps that enable you to switch among ordinary, T-back, strapless, criss-cross and halter neck. If you have a small bust, you can remove the straps and use the bra as a strapless. For busty women, a halter style will enable you to get good breast support.

Some of these bras have more strap options than others. Before buying, be careful to check whether the bra will cater to your needs. If you feel that no strap arrangement suits your outfit, you can buy clear replacement straps.

More Tips for Full Coverage

If your dress is likely to slip and show your bra or straps, consider using fashion glue. The two-sided fashion tape is also a good idea.

Use pasties or medical tape if you want to go braless. You can also choose an outfit with built-in support. These clothes are custom-shaped, lined, and form-fitting around the bust area.

Choose the Best Style for Your Needs

There are numerous bras to wear with halter-neck outfits. There isn’t a single one that is perfect for everybody. It’s your decision to pick the one type of bra that best appeals to you.

Maina Ndung'u has been a fashion consultant and blogger since 2015. Fashion is one of her biggest interests.

A bra offers you coverage and support to make your clothes look better on your body. But there comes a time when you feel you can’t wear a bra with a certain outfit. There is nothing wrong with wearing a dress without a bra. It only takes choosing the right clothes and using some tricks in order to still look good.

Why Wear a Dress Without a Bra?

These are some of the reasons why women choose to wear a dress without a bra.

• Dress has a deep-plunge front
• Bodice has a lace back, front, or side
• Dress is hard to wear with a bra—for instance, strapless and backless dresses
• If wearing a bra results in marks, scratches, and bumps
• Weather is too hot
• Some ladies feel comfortable when going bra-less
• You want a bra-less look

When going bra-less, some ladies require some kind of support while others need to cover their nipples. A good number of them will need both. Regardless of your requirements, below are the 10 most suitable ways of wearing a dress without a bra and still look good.

1. Choose a Dress With Built-In Support

Some dresses do not necessarily need a bra because they come with built-in support. This can be a shelf bra, elasticized lining, or bra cups. Because of breast size issues, these dresses don’t have specific bra sizes. A particular dress size is meant to fit several breast cup sizes.

Most halter-neck style dresses will fall into the category of dresses with built-in bras. This is because they do not pair well with ordinary bras. Some other varieties of backless dresses have in-built support as well.

If your dress can go well with a tank or camisole, wear a no-bra camisole underneath. The built-in bra of the camisole will keep you well supported and covered. Most of the camisoles/tank tops might not be suitable for you if you have a large bust.

2. Sew Bra Cups Into Your Dress

Take an old bra or buy a cheap one and remove the cups. You can also remove the front and use the cups without separating them. Alternatively, you can buy custom sew-in cups.

If you are good at needlework, this should not be a big challenge. Otherwise, you can take your dress to a seamstress and have the work done. If you do the work yourself, first fix the cups temporarily and try the dress on before securing them.

3. Breast Petals/Pasties

Breast petals are disposable sticky flowers that fit over your nipples. They are perfect for concealing the outline of your nipples when going bra-less. They are designed to go well with virtually any type of outfit.

Non-sticky breast petals are also available if you don’t want to deal with adhesives. Their main advantage is that they are reusable. However, they require tight-fitting clothing in order to stay in place.

4. Tape Your Bust

There are a number of tapes that you can use to shape and support your breasts. Medical grade tapes (like band-aids, athletic, or surgical tape) are mostly recommended because they are gentler on the skin. They also come off easily with warm water.

If you must use duct tape, you may need to apply some kind of padding to cover your nipples. This is done to avoid allergic reactions or pain when removing the tape. You can use a piece of cloth or adhesive pads. When using a band-aid, place the padded area over the sensitive parts of your bust.

You can tape your bust either horizontally or vertically, depending on the situation. If you want some cleavage, tape across the breasts. If you are busty and want more support, taping vertically will be better for you.

5. Body Adhesive/Hollywood Fashion Glue

You can apply a body adhesive on your breasts to prevent any movement from your dress or bra cups. This kind of glue is very useful with strapless, low neck, and thin strap halter-neck dresses. It’s a sure way of avoiding any chance of your clothing slipping and showing too much of your bust.

Because fashion glues are meant to be spread directly onto the skin, they will work with almost all skin types with no allergic reactions. A double-sided fashion tape will also work the same way as body adhesive. These types of adhesives work well with clothes that fit well.

6. Adhesive/Stick-On Silicone Bras

There are many types of adhesive bras. Some will stick onto your breasts, while others have sticky wings and no adhesive on the cups. The ones with adhesive wings seem to offer better support. They are hence a better choice for ladies with bigger breasts.

Unlike stick-on pasties, sticky bras are washable and reusable. Some are made of ultra-light materials and are liked by women who are fond of the no-bra feel. Types which are heavier offer better shaping but are a bit uncomfortable.

Stick-on bra cups are separate cups that you fit individually on each breast. They are separate but have an optional center closure. They are perfect for wearing under deep-plunge outfits.

7. Body-Shapers and Bodysuits

Body-shapers and bodysuits come in different styles. Some have straps but do not cover the bust area. The rest have breast support regardless of whether they have straps or not.

A body-shaper with built-in bust support not only smooths your torso but is also ideal if you want to dress without a bra. If your dress is low-cut on the front or back, you will always find a body-shaper that is suited to it.

8. Bandeau Bra/Tube Top

A tube top or bandeau is a form of pullover strapless bra which lacks many features of a normal bra. It has no wires, hooks, or straps. Recently, some varieties have been made to include detachable straps.

Like other strapless bras, bandeaus do not give as much support as regular bras. Rather than lifting the breasts, they mostly work by compressing them. Busty women who need more support should look for ones which are longer on the lower side.

While tube tops have their limitations, they do not create embarrassment when they stick out of clothes. You can wear a bandeau with low-cut armholes or a plunging neckline and not worry even if it shows. For better nipple coverage, choose a bandeau with thicker fabric or lining on the bust.

9. Breast Lift Tape

Breast lift tape is a reusable piece of tape that raises the breast without covering the nipples. Rather than support from underneath, the tape pulls the breast from above. This kind of tape is strong enough to support your bust even when dancing.

Some breast lift tapes are packaged with nipple covers. Otherwise, you have to order pasties separately. Most of these tapes are meant for cup sizes A to D.

10. Go Bra-Less

If you don’t want to use any of the above bra alternatives, you can still go completely bra-less and still be comfortable.

Here are a few points to consider:

1. Opt for clothes with flowers and patterns—neutral colors tend to show the outline of the nipples.
2. Choose dark-colored tops. Light-colored tops are especially bad if they get wet.
3. Wear tops with thick materials rather than thin.
4. If your top is of thin fabric, consider wearing layers.
5. Don’t wear clothes with materials like cotton, which absorb moisture.
6. Avoid low-cut blouses as they might show your breasts when you lean over.
7. Avoid tops with big arm-holes.
8. Never go bra-less for formal occasions.

If you choose to go bra-less with an intention of showing off your bra-lessness, you have to be really confident. Don’t do anything that may suggest that you are self-conscious. A good example is crossing your arms over your bust.

The key point when choosing a dress to wear without a bra is your attitude. Avoid outfits that make you feel embarrassed or uncomfortable. Opt for a dress that makes you feel attractive, and also fits your shape and style. Once you are sure you’ve made the right choices, go out in confidence and enjoy your outing.

© 2018 Maina Ndungu

Maina Ndung'u has been a fashion consultant and blogger since 2015. Fashion is one of her biggest interests.

Backless dresses necessitate the use of custom backless or low-back bras. But these bras are mostly expensive, hard to get, and sometimes don’t offer the required support. That’s why wearers need to craft ways of wearing low-back dresses with the ordinary bra.

Here are simple bra hacks that you can use with your low-back clothes and get good support. At the same time, you will not compromise on the backless look. Scroll through the list and select the option that seems best to you. You can also try different options for different outfits.

1. Bra Strap Converter

A bra strap converter links to your bra closure to pull down the middle of the band by up to 10 centimeters. This enables you to wear some backless outfits while still giving you support and hiding the band.

When using a low-back bra converter, the bra hook part links to the eye part of the converter and vice versa. The converter strap then wraps around your belly to close near the navel. this type of bra converter might not work well with some very thin clothes as the outline will show around the abdomen.

2. Clear Back Bra

A clear back bra is very similar to an ordinary bra. The only difference is that the straps and part of the band are made of transparent non-stretch plastic. The straps are also thin so there are barely any visible lines.

The band closure is not in the middle of the back but on the side. Straps are usually set wider than other bras so that they are not likely to show despite them being invisible. If you want support in discretion, this is the ideal solution.

3. Clear Bra Band Replacement

A bra band replacement is used in place of the existing band. Removing the current band to fix the clear one requires diligence so as to ensure the bra will still look good. You can do it yourself or use the services of a dressmaker.

The clear bra band replacement transforms your regular bra so that it looks just like a clear back bra. As a result, it becomes suitable for all backless clothing. Replacement shoulder straps are also available.

4. Convert Your Ordinary Bra (DIY)

You can make your own low-back bra converter. All you need is your bra, a piece of elastic, and the hook and eye closure from an unused bra. Here are the steps:

• Sew the hooks onto one end of the elastic to the eye part to the other end of the elastic.
• Wear your bra unclosed and fit the hooks of the elastic to the eye side of the bra.
• Wrap the elastic around your torso and do the same to the other end of the elastic.
• Massage the bra in different places to ensure a perfect fit.
• Adjust the elastic length if needed.

5. Sewn-In Bra Cups

If your dress is super low back that even a bra strap converter won’t work, you can sew bra cups to your dress. This method works well with dresses which are form-fitting, halter or have wider shoulders. Take you old bra and the dress to a tailor and have the work done.

If you want to do the work yourself, first attach the cups temporarily and try on the dress before sewing. This strategy might not work if you are D-cup and above.

4. Multi-Way Bra

Because of its detachable straps, a multiway bra can be configured in different ways. This enables you to wear it under almost anything. When the straps cross at the back or mimic a halter style, the bra seems to be part of the dress.

Convertible bras are perfect for dresses with a wider opening. But the back should not be too low. With a completely open-back or super-low dress, a multi-way bra’s band closure will be visible.

7. Wear a Matching Bra

It is utterly cute to show off a cute bra. You can wear an attractive bra with a backless dress and still look fashionable. If the look is good for you, it will most likely look gorgeous to other people.

Some of the bras you can use in this way are halter and strappy styles. To look even more stylish, ensure that the bra matches the outfit. Avoid poor quality dresses as they will make you look odd even if the bra is nice-looking.

Whatever you wear under your backless outfits, the key is to feel comfortable and look good. If you can’t get the necessary support from backless bras, these tips will help you wear your backless dress with a normal bra. You will therefore be supported and still look elegant.

© 2017 Maina Ndungu

I have been a professional Los Angeles-based fashion/feature writer for over 10 years. My personal style is eclectic and uniquely retro.

Bohemian Glamour in the Southland

The Thrill of the Find

I don't care how much money I have or how much time, I never tire of discovering a new shop. The only thing that can compete with that is rediscovering an old one. After over 20 years as a professional fashion/feature writer for various magazines, newspapers, and the internet, you'd think I'd be blasé about store profiles. With each journey spent walking in a new part of town, that attitude has never surfaced, instead the opposite has happened. My senses awaken, my eyes look for something alluring, my ears listen for pleasant music or conversation and my nose sniffs for the delectable. With each visit I become more enthralled, discriminating and reminiscent of my journalism internships with Florence News and Vintage! Newsletter. Like ghosts that refuse to leave a favorite haunt, the memories of Forte La Vogue and Aaardvark's Odd Ark come back to me. At times an old movie, book, or photograph will cause my nostalgia, motivating me to play catch up. Recently, I saw Cabaret on T.V. and I immediately thought about Pure Delish, the adult entertainment and lingerie store I first profiled in 2011. Located on a lovely palm tree lined stretch of Washington Blvd., in Culver City, California, it always reminded me of Christopher Isherwood's book The Berlin Stories. Decadent and worldly as one of his main characters, Sally Bowles, it was calling my name again. So I went back to see what was going on with them.

Surrounded by Magic

The Old Brick and Mortar

I imagined we'd discuss the state of retail today, how things have changed since I last visited, and what their secret was for success. Then we might recall the good old days of shopping in person, at a "brick and mortar store," where customer service was a priority. Friendly and knowledgeable, in their pink and white striped uniform, the manager Lauren told me, "Halloween is one of our biggest seasons." I was pleasantly surprised to hear this, since not only is it one of my favorite holidays, Pure Delish also uses it to tie-in with their website.

Following a recent renovation their pastel palette seemed to have matured into mauve, black and white. Child-like and sweet, co-owner Kat Petrovski said then, "I wanted it to look like Dylan's Candy Bar. While "people will still smile as soon as they walk in," now it won't be because it's "cute and funny" but because it's "sultry and sophisticated." To direct foot traffic throughout the whole store, the cash wrap desk was transferred from the front to the rear. Now customers can linger over pantyhose, negligees, and other items in well organized sections. All is not serious grown-up merchandising, however, because Petrovski incorporated her passion for "cute" with fun props. A large and dashing red gummy bear, wearing a small black top hat guards the entrance next to a container of equally huge striped lollipops. On the nearby pantie display table, a small purple gummy bear watches over the wares, and in a cozy seating area, an adorable lavender couch, accented with a donut and cookie pillow set beckon softly. This alone makes it worth a visit.

A Nice Arrangement

Retail Then and Now

When I look at how far retail has come, it's hard to imagine that it was first developed as an industrial phenomenon about 1,000 years ago in Egypt, Greece, and Rome. Initially known as "trade" merchants, in the common marketplace, sometimes sold goods they created and those made by other artisans. The closest we have to that now is the flea market and the art show.

In the 1800's, the general store appeared in the United States where assorted goods were sold under one roof. A proprietor, with a keen mind and outgoing personality, could become successful by thoroughly knowing how to merchandise his inventory, and making it available to his customers consistently.

By the time the department store came along, shopping had been transformed from a chore into entertainment by such innovators as Aristide Boucicat (July 14, 1810-December 26, 1877) of Paris' Le Bon Marche and Henry Gordon Selfridge (January 11, 1858-May 8, 1947) of Selfridge's in London, England. Aesthetically appealing and emotionally fulfilling for the client who could be waited on respectfully, it was finally possible to "purchase a complete outfit and accessories in one place." For those walking by, with small budgets and prolific imaginations the department stores were just as valuable for them.

Window shopping became an inspiration, as a new diversion, that could lure in future customers with attractive and artful presentations. By arranging new or seasonal merchandise in fantasy vignettes, complete with mannequins and other props, a visual was achieved worthy of a brimming wish list. Around 1825, John P. Bakewell invented the "glass pressing machine," a device leading to the production of glassware thereby reducing its cost of production. Larger "display or shop windows" could also be created for progressive retailers eager to showcase that season's current trends in order to stimulate sales. Francis Place, a tailor in England's Charing Cross Road, was the pioneer of this form of advertising.

Part 1960s/1970s Biba, part 1980s, Heaven the way Pure Delish coordinated their front window displays, on the day I revisited in October 2016, took me back to Berlin again. This time I saw not only Cabaret but Helmut Newton's risque photos as well. Ethereal, but accessible, the sheer pink top I saw on one mannequin and the smoky black two-piece on another would've looked perfect on a '70's Vogue supermodel. It's this kind of classy interpretation, that places this store ahead of Trashy Lingerie, Victoria's Secret and its other competitors.

Lingerie's Gone Mainstream

A New Kind of Retail

Described as a "specialty adult sex shop," that's been around since 2000, they're fortunate enough to be part of a growing wave of erotica, that've made literature like Fifty Shades of Gray and the Crossfire series popular. Combining the elements of a boutique with the technology of the internet, Pure Delish, has resolved the problem of making a trip there as thrilling as shopping online. Whichever you choose, it'll be an adventure worth repeating!

Their positive rep, in today's struggling retail scene, didn't come without drama. Initial opposition, from the community, about their customer base within the adult entertainment field, led to an urban battle that eventually subsided once opponents got to know Petrovski and her staff. The benefits this type of business offers can also be seen in how mainstream lingerie, as a fashion staple, has become. Historically, while it has changed significantly since the 1700s when "stays" were used to mold the body to where we are in 2017 when corsets have been transformed into waist-cinching belts designed by Miuccia Prada and other designers lingerie has even reappeared on the catwalk in '90's era slip dresses.

Now as we experience an unstable, but exciting, chapter in retail it's important to note that stores like Pure Delish succeed because they continue listening to their customers and maintain high standards.

Pure Delish is located at 11160-A Washington Blvd., Culver City, California 90292. For more information please call 310-836-2570 or log onto their website, www.puredelish.com. Their store hours are: Monday and Tuesday (closed), Wednesday, Thursday and Sunday (12:00-8:00 p.m.) and Friday and Saturday (1:00-9:00 p.m.).

What's Your Shopping Style?

Middle-aged women are forgotten about by retailers. I offer help with clothing choices, skincare, and healthy eating for the mature woman.

Where to Find the Best Bras for Older Women

Ladies, I know we all have our favorite bra — you know, the one you're probably wearing right now. The elastic may have stretched, and it doesn't seem to fit as well as it once did, but it is still the first one you grab when you open your top drawer. But, now it's time for a change.

Let's look at a few bras on the market that are targeted to the mature woman. That doesn't mean they aren't attractive. Don't think they're all going to look like something you used to see on your grandmother's clothesline. Styles, fabrics, and adornments have all improved, and we are now being offered bras that are not only comfortable but pretty as well.

I'll show you a couple of my favorites and tell you how to get the perfect-fitting bra no matter what size you are at the moment.

Bra Shopping

Bras are not one-size-fits-all. They're not even one-style-suits-all. So, in order to select the perfect fit, we need to look at our own body shape and size and consider the occasion when we want to wear it. Is this going to be worn under an evening gown at a party, or do you want something for everyday wear? Breasts come in all shapes and sizes, and what works for your best friend or sister might not be best for you or your situation.

Different Shaped Boobs

If you've ever changed clothes in front of other women, then you know that boobs come in all shapes and sizes. According to recent research by the company Third Love, there are seven different shapes of breasts. Below is a table that lists the different shapes and the styles of bras that are most suited to that shape.

Best Bra Styles Based on Breast Shapes

If you can't go to a lingerie department to get measured by a professional, you can do this at home.

You should use a tape measure but if you don't have that, a piece of string and a ruler will suffice. To get the best measurement you'll want to be wearing a bra that isn't padded.

Let's start with the band size. This will be your under bust measurement. Using your tape measure or string run this around your back where the band is and finish in the front. If the number is a 35 and a half, just round up to 36”. Don't get confused this is not the size of band you need. Take a look at the chart below.

Under Band Size In Inches

How To Find Your Bra Cup Size

To find the cup size, we now need to measure around the fullest part of the bust. As before, round the number up if you are a half size. The tape measure will be at the bottom of your shoulder blades. You may find it easier to stand in front of a mirror to do this accurately. Keep the tape measure level and flat. We will now subtract the number of the band size from the bust measurement. For example: If your bust measurement was 38 and your band measurement was 35, the difference is three, which using the chart below, you would require a C cup. Use the table below to determine what cup size you are.

Determining Your Cup Size

Finding the Perfect-Fitting Bra

For the perfect fit, we need to check the band, the cups, and the straps.

Band Size:

The band is responsible for supporting 80% of the weight of your breasts.
When you put your bra on, please take a good look at how it fits. If you stand with your side to a full-length mirror, the band should be level. It should not ride up on your back. If it is, you need a smaller band size.
There should be no puckering along the sides.
The center should lie flat between your breasts, not leaning out nor in. If it is tilting forward, this indicates you need a bigger cup size.
The bottom should not impede your breathing or be low down on your rib cage. It should be right under the breasts.
To have a comfortable band, it shouldn't be too tight, and you should be able to pass two fingers underneath it.
When trying the bra on, check for any red marks that could lead to irritation and soreness after wearing it all day. This is another reason to take your time and get the correct fit.

Cup Size:

Once you know the correct band size, let's look at the cup size.
Are you a B, C, D, E, etc.?
There are also double digits, such as DD or, in the USA, DDD. These are incremental measurements for those who are in between sizes. It is similar to going up a half-size in shoes.
Once you have fastened the bra, lean forward, allowing the breast tissue to fill the cup. Check on the side at the seam to ensure all the breast is in the cup and not pinched under the seam. Do this on both sides.
Now, look at yourself in the mirror. Does your cup runneth over? By this, I mean are your boobs spilling out and giving you the 'double boob' look? If so, you need a larger cup size.
If the fabric on the cup is puckering with gaps and not smooth, then you need a smaller cup size.
If you prefer an underwire, then it should not dig in under your arm. If it does, go up a cup size.
Most women have one side that is larger than the other. If this is the case, buy for the larger size.
If it is a significant difference, consider using a silicone/gel insert inside your bra to even out your breasts. If you haven't tried inserts before, they're pretty comfortable and solve the problem.

Straps:

For the perfect fit, the straps should be wide enough to support your girls without causing indentations on your shoulders.
The straps support 20% of the weight, so they need to be up to the job.
You should be able to pass two fingers beneath the straps to achieve the correct fit. Adjust the straps accordingly, but don't allow the band to rise across your back.
If the straps are digging in or leaving a red mark, you should go down a band size. For example, if you're wearing a size 38, go down to a 36. Remember, the band is the primary support, not the straps.
The straps can be adjusted to hoist your girls into position, but don't overdo it. You don't want them pulled or strained; they should be supported and coddled.

Selecting The Best Bra Closure

• If you have always bought a rear-closing bra, maybe it's time for a change. I am a fan of front clasps, but they also make ones with a zipper or hooks and eyes.
• These are an excellent choice if you have reduced mobility in your arms or shoulders. Sometimes, you have to be a contortionist to get in and out of bras, but that isn't the case with a front-closing design.

Pull-Over Design

• Most compression-style bras have no closure, so you have to pull the bra over your head.
• These are fine for small-chested women but aren't suited, in my opinion, for full-size women, especially if comfort is required.
• It's quite a workout getting it off, too. And getting a snug one off a sweaty body is... well, let's just say Houdini would have struggled.

Rear-Closing Design

• For rear-closure bras, you should buy one that fastens comfortably on the loosest closure setting so that as the elastic stretches over time, you can get more life out of it by moving to the next row of eyelets.
• Whether you fasten yours in the front and then spin it around or hook it behind your back, this type of closure was the norm for a long time.
• Check for the number of hooks and eyes. Two is okay, but three is better, especially if you have a fuller figure.
• If you have a nickel allergy, be sure there is an extra piece of fabric between the metal hooks and eyes and your skin. Most good-quality brands have this as standard.

Ask for Assistance in the Lingerie Department

The next time you are in the lingerie department, ask if they have a bra fitter. These ladies know their stuff and will tell you what your correct size is. I used to buy the same size I bought when I was in my 20s, but when I hit 40, I went in to be measured.

The difference in the comfort level was unreal. I had always been purchasing a 34B since I was in high school. Two kids and 20 years later, I was still buying the same style and size. Only when I was fitted for a bra did I realize I needed a bigger cup and a smaller band. Somehow, over the years, my size changed to a 32E.

Picking a Bra for the Right Occasion

At the end of the article, I'll tell you about a couple of bras that I personally like for every day use, but depending on your upcoming occasion, you still have options to consider.

• If, for example, you have a backless dress and need a backless bra, there are several to choose from, including those that are secured around the waist or at the neck.
• There are also self-adhesive bras that offer coverage and add a little bit of lift. I would only consider using these if you aren't doing too much dancing. They generally work well under tube tops.
• Along the same lines, you can buy body tape, which will provide you with needed support. This is a better option than your partner's duct tape (gaffer tape) as it is gentle to the skin.

As we age, our breasts change (as you're aware). It isn't only through breastfeeding. Weight gain and loss also have a big impact, and if you have been on a diet, you know one of the first places where you see a reduction is in the breasts.

My Favorite Styles

It used to be that after a certain age, you were expected to have a 'mom bra.' These were unattractive, thick-sided styles that looked more like they had been designed for military use and less like something you'd find in the lingerie department.

But, I think we can all agree that when we hit 40 or even 50 that doesn't mean we stop being feminine or stop wanting to look pretty. Thank goodness, manufacturers have finally realized that there is a huge market of women crying out for comfort and feminine styling. The manufacturers also know that we demand and pay for lasting quality.

1. Playtex Women's 18-Hour Ultimate Lift and Support Wire-Free Bra

One bra does not suit all occasions, however the Playtex Women's 18-Hour Ultimate Lift and Support Wire-Free bra is one of my favorites for everyday wear. I am a nightmare to go bra shopping with, but I know what I like and what I don't. This one fits the bill.

• For starters, I love the smooth cups. This make it suitable for wearing under T-shirts and tight-fitting clothes.
• I have always worn an underwire, and this is as close as I can get without one.
• The center piece sits perfectly on the sternum and stays put.
• The first time I bought it, I was unsure about the straps. I normally prefer thinner, feminine straps. But, let me tell you, I don't think I have ever had a strap slip down on this one because they sit close to the neck.
• The band width is something I always check. Ones that are too wide rub in my armpit area, and if they're too thin, flab (loose skin) spills out. On this one, the width is perfect for me.

2. Wacoal Women's Plus Size Awareness Underwire Bra

The Wacoal Plus Size Awareness Underwire bra encompassed pretty much everything I love in a bra. Not only does it make me feel pretty, but it also makes me feel special.

• It definitely isn't the cheapest bra one can buy, but, when you reach a certain age, sometimes you've got to say, I deserve this.
• I love an underwire as long as it is comfortable, and this one is.
• For me, wearing a quality-made bra isn't so much about how it makes me look to other people. There are a lot of bras that can give a smooth, outwardly profile, but this one feels good on my skin and makes me feel good in my heart.
• I believe in the company's ideals, and in its support for cancer awareness.
• Wearing this is just one of the ways I feel I am making a difference to benefit causes which affect women.

There you have it, ladies. Now you can confidently buy online or in a department store knowing which bras best suit your shape and the occasion.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

Questions & Answers

Question: I'm in my late 60s, and find that my once DD breasts have shrunk down to a B, which is okay by me! The problem is that it's all weighted at the bottom, so the upper half of the cup is wrinkled as it's more or less empty! I could probably take tucks in the upper part, but is there a better solution?

Answer: Before you opt for surgery, I would strongly suggest you try inserts, they're quite comfortable. You would place them in your bra under your arm. It will gently push the upper part towards the center.

You can also select a bra that has a more coverage. In the chart above, it says that for 'bell shaped breasts' a full coverage works best.

There are many full coverage bras that are both pretty and comfortable.

Question: I am 66-years-old. I have large breasts and need back support, uplift and high cut cups so that I stay in my bra. What kind of bra do you suggest?

Answer: Near the bottom of this article, there is a link to a Playtex bra on Amazon. It is under the heading, 'my favorite styles' and is number one.

Although that is a great bra, and may suit you, I think you would be better off with the Playtex Women's 18 Hour Original Comfort Strap Bra #4693.

The reason I think you would prefer the original style, is the straps are wider, and the cups come up higher. This should eliminate spilling out, and the wider strap at the back will help with support.

Question: My bras leave red, super uncomfortable marks underneath my breasts. By evening I want and need to remove my underwire bra. I've worn good brands for years. Can you offer any help?

Answer: A few different reasons could be causing the red marks. It could be that your bras are too tight and are digging into your skin.

Another possibility is that your bras could be too loose and as you move throughout the day it could be rubbing and causing irritation.

Another thing to check is whether you have changed laundry detergents. Because the bra is next to the skin the entire day, and because it gets pretty warm under the breasts, it could be causing an allergic reaction to your detergent.

It could also be the underwire itself. If you have a nickel allergy, it might be that through washing, the protective coating on that wire has worn away in places and is causing a reaction. If you have a sensitivity to nickel, and many women do, that may be the culprit.

Question: I am 60 years old. I’m planning to wear an off the shoulder gown for my daughter's wedding. What kind of strapless support can I use that won’t slip down?

Answer: There are many choices however the fact you're asking tells me you know the potential of a fashion failure.

Let's look at a few ideas for you to consider. You don't say whether your breasts are large or small. If they are small then you can wear a compression style. Some of these will still have an underwire.

There are also some styles that have molded cups. These can be quite comfortable. It's worth trying a few different ones on. You want it to sit just under the breasts and not impede the rib cage.

Another option that will give you extra piece of mind is a long line bra or a bustier. There are also bodyshapers that come with a strapless version.

Question: My 70-year-old sister is in a nursing home with dementia and has gained a lot of weight. I imagine she is 275-300 lbs. She won’t wear a bra, but the facility wants her too. When I measured her a few months ago, she was 54 inches around her bust. I’m at a loss how to purchase a bra for her. I don’t know what to do. Do you have any suggestions?

Answer: I can tell that this has been causing you stress. You want to do what's best for your sister and abide by the wishes of the nursing home.

The good news is there are bras out there in her size. You'll need to take another measurement to determine what size band she'll need.

You have 54" inches around the fullest part of her bust. Now measure underneath the breasts, continuing under the armpit and around the back until you make a full circle. You'll want to be on the rib cage. Keep the tape measure flat.

When you have that number, subtract it from the first. Here's the chart.

3" = C

4" =D

5"=DD

6"= DDD, or F

7" = G

You would continue with this until it meets the difference. Some manufacturers go up to a J cup. Remember, when it is a double or triple digit, it is just an incremental measurement, like the half sizes of shoes.

Another thing to consider is you can buy extenders up to about 6 inches. For example, if you find the perfect cup size, you can purchase an extender which has hooks and eyes at both ends.

Amazon allows you to return the bra (free returns) if it's not correct.

Glamorize makes bras in plus size that get good reviews and are reasonably priced. Search for this bra on Amazon: Glamorize Women's Plus Size Magic Lift Full-Figure Support Bra #1000. I think it would be ideal for your sister. The straps and back are wide, and there is good coverage on the front.

Let me know how you get on.

Question: So where can I buy these bras? I put tear drop bra in a search and didn't get the results I wanted.

Answer: The words, 'tear drop' are in reference to the shape of breasts. In the table above, I've listed the different shapes of 'boobs' and the styles of bras that best suit them.

For tear drop shaped bras, a plunging bra is your best option. It will lift the lower part of the breast creating a fuller look.

You can buy a plunging bra on Amazon via the link in this article. Maidenform do plunging bras that offer quality and value for money.

Question: I’m looking for a bra for my 78 year old mother. Her breasts sag down and come out of her bras. She is extremely embarrassed. We’ve tried several styles and even went to a bra boutique. No luck. The Playtex bras you mention start with band size 36. My mom is a size 32. Do you have any advice?

Answer: Yes, there is a Playtex style that comes in size 32. It is the Playtex Cross Your Heart bra. https://www.amazon.com/Playtex-Womens-Cross-Lightl...

Because this has a slightly wider band, it should stop any movement.

Also, Glamorise do bras in smaller band sizes but still with a good amount of coverage and support.

It's also worth noting, that Amazon allow returns so she can try them on at home, and return those that don't fit correctly.

Question: I am a thin, going on 50, mother of 6, with teardrop-shaped breasts. I need the lift but also have very dense breasts. This causes some bras to be extremely uncomfortable, almost painful. Would you have any suggestions regarding comfortable bras for a lady with very dense breasts?

Answer: Your best bet will be to try several different styles. I imagine what is happening is that as the breasts are being lifted, the dense breast tissue is being positioned in an awkwardly, perhaps pinching or leaning in on itself. Although in the chart I list a plunging bra is recommended for the teardrop shape, a balconette may be worth trying. Don't discount the idea of wearing an insert. That will add volume but without pinching. Although you said you're slim, teardrops are similar to bell-shaped although this is normally for larger ladies. A full-coverage bra may help you find comfort. With normally wider sides and straps you'll get more support.

Question: I live in rural France and have to order bras. Recently I bought some Wacoal bras online using the size chart, but when they arrived, they were uncomfortably tight around my rib cage. The bra size was 100D (French size) which by the chart were supposed to be 83-87cms which corresponded with my measurements. The bra only measured 70.5cms. Is something wrong here?

Answer: It sounds like you were just sent the wrong size. Send it back and tell them your size. Also if there are reviews on that bra, see if that style runs smaller. To me though, it appears to be just a packing error.

Question: Has Wacoal changed manufactures?

Answer: You should contact Wacoal for that information. Depending on where you are in the world, you can type Wacoal followed by your country. At the bottom of their page, they have a FAQ and a 'contact us' link.

© 2016 Mary Wickison

Comments

Mary Wickison (author) from Brazil on June 15, 2019:

Hi Lorelei,

I know exactly what you mean. The same thing happens with cosmetics as well. You find the perfect one, and poof the next time you look, they no longer make it. It can be so frustrating.

Buying multiples is a good idea because as we wash the bras, they begin to stretch.

Another thing to keep in mind, is our body is also changing shape. As we age we may stoop more, sometimes we are gaining or losing weight, and gravity takes it toll on us.

If a bra has been discontinued, you may be able to still find it in a factory store or on online sites like eBay.

Thanks for reading and your comment.

Mary Wickison (author) from Brazil on June 15, 2019:

Hi Marlene,

To say how long we spend in them, an uncomfortable bra can be torturous.

For both yours and your husband's sake, I hope you get one that fits well. I'm pleased you found the information useful.

Lorelei Cohen from Canada on June 15, 2019:

Definitely a task that this larger upper woman does not enjoy. It is usually a trial and error process and when I find one that works I purchase it in multiples lol. Amazing how when you find a style it disappears to be replaced by a new and improved model that in no way measures up to the older style. To other women with this unique problem "happy hunting".

Marlene Bertrand from USA on June 15, 2019:

I have never had a bra that I could say I was happy with. I just settle and live with what I end up with after hours of shopping and watching my husband fold his arms and do the foot shuffle as he waits for me to make a decision.

I can see by your guide that I have been shopping for a bra all wrong. Thank you so much for your valuable tutorial. I took notes and hope that my next bra will be one that I will rave about.

Nancy Dawson on April 15, 2019:

Thank you for your response to my email about the Wacoal bras that were too small around the rib cage. I got three of the same size from two different vendors and all were too small by 16cms and the size on the label was correct. Your comment was that it sounded like a packaging error. I am glad to know that it wasn't my naivety and I am justified in returning them. It's also likely that these bras are from a defective batch.

Mary Wickison (author) from Brazil on April 09, 2019:

I'm sure there is. Sometimes it takes trying on a few to find the perfect one. This can be so frustrating, can't it?

In my article I mention that the band should be taking 80% of the weight. If the straps are slipping off a few things could be causing it. The band could be riding up in the back allowing the strap to slide off.

I'm assuming you've already tried adjusting the straps to tighten them. The problem happens after we've washed it a few times, we don't realize they could have loosened and may need to be readjusted.

Also it could be the style, opt for one that has wider straps that sit closer to the neck. Bras such as balconette are pretty but often the straps are right out near the edge where the shoulder connects to the arm. It's an accident waiting to happen.

Another problem could be slouching, I am guilty of this. When we lean for our shoulders fall down and inward giving the bra strap and easy route.

When this happens again, reach around and feel if the back is riding up. It could be you just need to wear it on the tighter setting. Or you will need to go down a band size.

I hope this helps.

Bethalee Klopfleisch on April 09, 2019:

I have narrow shoulders and larger breasts. The straps always slip down. Is there a good bra for this?

Linda Lum from Washington State, USA on October 02, 2018:

One chin vs. two armpits and legs? I don't think so.

Mary Wickison (author) from Brazil on October 02, 2018:

Bill is a star!

Although shopping for bras can be complicated,

I think men make up for it when they have to shave daily.

I wouldn't want to do that.

Thanks for your kind words, I'm glad you liked it.

Mary Wickison (author) from Brazil on October 02, 2018:

Hi Nell,

If you can't find one locally, buy online. I know Amazon offers free returns. Then there is no hassle of waiting for a changing room, or those dreadful fluorescent lights and full length mirrors.

Glad you found it useful.

Linda Lum from Washington State, USA on October 01, 2018:

I think it's funny that even on this, Bill felt it was his duty to comment. What a loyal friend. This is a great article and really well written. If men only knew the pains we go through (shopping for undershirts isn't nearly as complicated, is it?).

Nell Rose from England on October 01, 2018:

You wouldn't even imagine how topical this is for me! lol! I bought a new one the other day, but couldn't get my size. I was a double D, but had to make do with a D. My stupid town is useless! I will have to go the next town to get a decent one. Great advice.

Hollie Bundy on June 07, 2018:

I'm plump to be nice and sit at a computer most of the day, by the end of the day my bra straps bunch up on the sides and front, cutting into my skin but the back is always fine. I'm guess it's due to the plumpiness pressing on it.

Is there possibly another reason?

Also I have a pinched nerve in my neck and it's worse on one side, so I'm aching or worse by the end of the day. Is there a better strap to use in this situation? I'm currently using a wide strap but the weight pulling down in front has the elastic part sitting on my shoulder instead of the padded part.

Oh and the cup part fits like you described above.

I have the worst time finding a bra that works.

Thanks!

Shauna L Bowling from Central Florida on December 04, 2016:

Thank you for this information, Mary. My body has definitely changed over the last several years. I've yet to find a bra that is comfortable. To me, if I'm aware I'm wearing one, it isn't fitting properly.

Now I know what to look for. I'll take your advice and seek the help of a bra fitter the next time I go bra shopping.

Very well presented article!

Mary Wickison (author) from Brazil on October 18, 2016:

Hi Dora,

With the different shapes and sizes we can now see why it can be difficult to find the perfect bra. Imagine trying to design them!

It helps to be measured, although ordering through Amazon allows for returns if it doesn't fit well.

As always, thanks for reading.

Mary Wickison (author) from Brazil on October 17, 2016:

Sally, that is disappointing to hear. One of the places I used to go, there were two lines, one just to try on and the other were women waiting to be measured. The line to be measured was always the longest as the the lady who was the fitter would make sure you left with the perfect bra. I think she had been there 30 years or so.

Maybe you can try a different place who are more supportive of your needs. No one deserves to be wearing an uncomfortable bra.

Dora Weithers from The Caribbean on October 17, 2016:

Never knew there so many different shapes. Learned something new about the straps also. Whenever it is possible I asked to be measured again when I'm making a purchase. Thanks for the tips.

Sally Gulbrandsen from Norfolk on October 17, 2016:

I did that last year and to be perfectly honest they had little in stock and were not very helpful, except to say that they would pass on my suggestions to the manufacturers.

Mary Wickison (author) from Brazil on October 17, 2016:

Hi Sally,

If you have a lingerie or department store who has a bra fitter, I would suggest you go there. Trust me there is a bra out there with your name on it which will suit you.

It could be a different style than you normally buy but there will be one. Also, I didn't mention this in my post but there are sizes called 'sister sizes' which are similar to your current size but are a little bigger or smaller in the cup as the band size alters. It could be a slight adjustment in choice of bra, cup size or band size is all you need to find that perfect fit.

Bill Holland from Olympia, WA on October 17, 2016:

Nothing I say here will be helpful or enlightened, so I'll just shut my mouth. Have a great Monday!

Sally Gulbrandsen from Norfolk on October 16, 2016:

Very useful info. I know I can always get the cup size correct but it is almost impossible to find a bra which fits perfectly around my frame without cutting into my back. I hate the little add-on bits of fastening you can buy. I just wonder why the manufacturers don't start listening to their customers and make the fastener more adjustable than they are already.

I'm a writer, traveler, and beauty fanatic. I love writing fashion and beauty reviews and how-tos.

Do your bras:

• Ride up in the back?
• Have straps that slip off or dig into your shoulders?
• Chafe underneath your arms or breasts?
• Pull away from your chests at the gore (the piece of fabric between your breasts)?
• Poke you with underwires?
• Give you a shape you don't like?
• Fail to help prevent backaches, headaches, or shoulder pain?
• Gape or wrinkle in the cups?
• Cut into the top of your breasts?
• Leave what look like rolls of fat underneath your band, under your arms, on your back, or on top of your breasts?

If you said yes to any of these, you might be one of the 80% of women who isn't wearing her ideal bra size. A bra that fits properly is one of the simplest and healthiest (yes, healthiest!) ways to look and feel better in your clothes, and the right bra can be the difference between living with backaches and chafing and living confidently and comfortably.

What Cup Size Means

Myth: Cup size = breast size. A is tiny, DD is huge, and anything above that is fake!

It's easy to see where this myth comes from. Most major bra retailers, like Victoria's secret, carry DD or DDD as their largest cup size, so it stands to reason that just about everyone should be at or below that cup size, right? And mostly below, because DD is huge.

Truth: Cup size is meaningless without band size.

The cup letter signifies the number of inches between the band size (right under the breasts, where the bra band hits) and the breast size. A "huge" DD just means there's a five-inch difference between a tight measurement under the breasts and a comfortably not-too-loose, not-too-tight measurement around the fullest part of the breast. That doesn't mean each breast sticks out five inches from the chest. It means the total circumference of the part of your ribcage that includes your breasts is five inches larger than the part of your ribcage that does not include your breasts. That's not such a big difference!

So as the band size increases, the size of the cup does as well to accommodate the wider band. (Breasts that are five inches bigger than a 36" ribcage are going to be a lot bigger than breasts that are five inches bigger than a 30" ribcage, right?) So the cups on a 36DD bra are not the same size as the cups on a 30DD; they are, in fact, three sizes larger. The cups of a 36DD bra and a 30G would actually be the same, or the cups of a 30DD and a 36B.

This is why you may have been able to wear a bra that wasn't the ideal size for you; if you're really a 30E, a 34C, or a 36B would have the same cup volume, but the loose band won't provide the support you need.

Note: US bra-makers use DDD for the cup one size bigger than DD. UK bra makers use E, instead. Since UK bras do a better of standardizing their sizes, most bra calculators and guides, including this one, use primarily UK sizes.

What Band Size Means

Band size is much more simple. Band size is the number of inches around your rib cage, right where the bra band should sit, rounded to the nearest even number (for example, 31.5" inches becomes 32"). Besides that rounding, don't add any inches. This is one of the biggest myths of bra measuring! Major bra retailers such as Aerie and Victoria's Secret will tell you to add up to five inches to your ribcage measurement to determine your bra size, even though their own bras aren't designed to fit best that way!

Some Victoria's Secret stores even measure above the breasts to get your band size. Why would you measure to fit a part of your body where the band doesn't go?

Why Are So Many Women Wearing the Wrong Size?

There are three main reasons so many women are in the wrong bra size.

1. Bra design has changed through time. The "adding five inches" technique was originally developed when bra bands weren't nearly as stretchy as they are now. Someone with a 32" ribcage in a 32 band with no stretch wouldn't be able to breathe, so adding inches made sense. Now, bra bands are made to stretch.
2. It's cheaper for retailers this way. Measured properly, most women fit into 28-40 D-K bras (yes, really! Keep reading.) That's a lot of sizes. It's much cheaper to only produce bras in 32-38 A-DD. Measuring techniques that convince women they fall into one of these sizes put the maximum number of women in a narrow range of sizes, so retailers make more money.
3. Stigma about bra size is really pervasive. The stereotype that a B or a C cup is "normal" means that a lot of women feel comfortable with those numbers. Going to a larger cup size is a scary prospect in a society that judges women on the size of their breasts. A lot of women are afraid that, if their bra is a larger cup size, people (people who don't understand what cup sizes mean!) will think that they're "faking" having larger breasts. Or, they're worried that wearing a large cup size means their breasts are abnormal, which can be a hard mindset to overcome for women who have been taught to be self-conscious about their breasts.

But the truth is that no one has to know your bra size but you. It's just a number and a letter. It's not a judgment. Figuring out your bra size doesn't change anything about what size your breasts already were. Nothing's changing but the piece of clothing.

What's the Proper Way to Measure?

Measuring is easy. Grab a cloth tape measure. If you don't have one, a piece of yarn or string or even a shoelace held up to a ruler works just fine too.

You want to take these measurements without a bra on. Otherwise you're just measuring the bra and not yourself.

You need the following five measurements:

1. Snug underbust. This is around your ribcage where you want the band to hit. For this measurement, hold the tape nice and snug, about how you want your band to feel on you.
2. TIght underbust. Otherwise known as the "Break the Tape" measurement. Measure the same part of your ribcage, but this time pull the tape as tightly as you can, like you're trying to break it. Don't worry, your bra won't actually fit like this! This is just a measurement of how much "give" you have around your ribcage.
3. Standing bust. Stand straight up and measure around the fullest part of your bust. Measure loosely enough that you don't push down your breasts at all, but not so loosely that the tape is slipping around. Use a mirror or a buddy to make sure the tape is level all the way around.
4. Leaning bust. Lean forward 90 degrees, so your back is parallel to the floor. Measure around your breasts again. Remember to make sure the tape is still level all the way around.
5. Lying bust. Lie down flat on your back, slip the tape underneath you, and measure around your breasts one more time.

That Can't Be My Size!

Most likely, your result is a much smaller band size and a much larger cup size than you've been wearing. It's okay to be a little sticker-shocked, especially if you're looking at a size you've never seen in a store. But remember what you've learned about cup size myths...

And chances are, your new size is easier to find than you'd think.

Where Can I Find Bras In My New Size?

There are actually a ton of brands that make cups in smaller band sizes and larger cup sizes than places like Victoria's Secret. To name just a handful, bra companies like Freya, Panache, Wacoal, Natori, Chantelle, Betsey Johnson, and Jezebel make bras in a large range of sizes that fit most women.

You could order bras online directly from their retailers, from some department store websites, from speciality retailers like brastop.com, or from Amazon.com. Amazon has a huge selection of bras, many of which are available through Amazon Prime, which offers free shipping and returns, which is great for when you're still figuring out what fits you.

If you prefer to try something on in-store, research bra boutiques in your area to see what sizes they carry, or seek out a Nordstrom or its budget little sister Nordstrom Rack. Nordstrom is the best major store for larger cup sizes, and most of the people who work there know how to do a proper fitting if you want them to check you. Plus they hang your bras back up for you after you try them on, which is nice. Those hangers are tricky.

How Can I Tell If My Bra Fits?

Always look for bras that fit properly on the loosest hook, so you can use the other ones as the bra stretches with age. If the band feels too tight, turn the bra around so the cups are in the back and try it on that way. If the band feels right that way, go up a cup size. Otherwise, try a bigger band size.

This Bra Is Supposed to Be My Size. Why Doesn't it Fit?

The calculator isn't infallible! Try on the sister sizes (a cup size up and a band size down, or a band size down and a cup size up) of the size it gave you, and try the same band size but with a different cup size, too. The most important thing is that you're comfortable, even if that means you're not wearing the exact size the calculator recommends.

Most likely, though, it's just that that particular bra is wrong for you. There's a lot more to finding the right bra than just knowing your size. Breast shape plays a huge part in determining what bras fit the best, as does knowing what your personal preferences are in terms of cut and shape. This is a great guide to breast shape.

And before you judge if a bra fits you, always remember to swoop and scoop—gather ALL of your breast tissue and fit it into the cups. Reach under your arms and underneath your band and scoop everything in.

Is it Worth It?

Only you can answer that. If you're perfectly happy in your current bras, there might not be a need to switch. What you wear is no one's business but your own!

But a lot of women find that the difference in the way their bodies feel and the way their clothes look is legitimately life changing. The first time I put on a bra that fit me, I gasped.

So what do you have to lose by trying it? And remember, if you change your bra size, no one but you needs to know. But if you're like me, you'll end up preaching the "braspel" to anyone who'll listen.

More Information:

There's no better source for bra fitting information than the subreddit A Bra That Fits. They'll answer your questions, check your measurements for you, and even recommend bras they think will work!

There are a ton of great bra blogs. My favorites are A Sophisticated Pair and Bras I Hate and Love (no longer updated, sadly, but still full of good posts).

Bratabase is an awesome resource for seeing what bra sizes really look like.

And if there are any questions I can answer, let me know in the comments! Happy fitting!

Always Listen to Erica!

Comments

Liz Elias from Oakley, CA on May 25, 2018:

Very interesting. For years, and years, and years, we were told, "To correctly measure for a bra, measure yourself over a well-fitting bra!" What the heck? If the bra fit well, or wasn't worn out, I wouldn't be in the market for a new one anyway now, would I?!

Bras are my least favorite piece of clothing. I find them uncomfortable and restrictive. Plus, I despise underwire bras; they always, always, always poke me, yet, I find non-underwire ones nearly impossible to find anymore.

Not only that, bras are ridiculously expensive! I'm on a fixed income. I can't afford to spend $30+ on one undergarment. And when you buy cheap ones, well, we all know the saying about getting what you pay for. Besides, they are 'fussy' in their laundry care. Anything I can't toss in the washer and dryer, I leave in the store. I have neither the time nor the inclination to do hand-laundry.

I haven't quite taken to burning bras, but for quite a few years, now, I've stopped wearing them at all, in favor of the far more comfortable "bra-tank" style tank tops.

They have a double layer of fabric with an elastic underband in the bra area; otherwise, they look like any other summery tank top, and can be worn as outerwear...which I do in the summer. (Besides, for the price of a single 'good' bra, I can buy 3 or 4 of these tanks at KMart, and they last me for many years.)

In winter, I wear them instead of a regular bra for an extra layer of warmth.

As to 'sagging' and 'support,' pffft...I'm 70 years old. I don't give a rat's butt about that aspect.

All of that said, I did find your article very interesting, and at least for grins and giggles, I'll try out your size calculator link.

Diane on October 01, 2017:

"size 44 or 46 IS my dilemna.the cup is C

Vani on July 22, 2016:

Hi...

This was really interesting one.

I used to wear 34 size bra. But that is not comfortable to me. My breast is too large like 38 cup size. But I couldn't able to wear 38size bra. Because that was too loose and I couldn't hook it.

So shall I try minimisar bra?

What is the solution to larger breast.???

Hannah Moskowitz (author) from New York on October 20, 2014:

Snake--Totally. I couldn't believe how different my clothes looked.

Snake on October 20, 2014:

Amazing. This was a game changer.

Hannah Moskowitz (author) from New York on October 19, 2014:

Absolutely. Bratabase is a great resource for looking up specific bras--it'll show you comparisons between different bras and measurements of all the different dimensions of the bra to the centimeter. But there's no substitute for trying on.

Lynsey Hart from Lanarkshire on October 19, 2014:

Great hub, and greatly delivered. The graphics are all perfect to illustrate your points. My last check of size showed I was a 40E, but I suspect that wasn't accurate, as even the bras they tried on me doesn't fit. One thing they told me though is that there is no one size for all bras, as they are all made differently. Try before you buy! :-)

Hannah Moskowitz (author) from New York on October 19, 2014:

If you can't hook up a smaller size, yep, it absolutely sounds like you're in the right band. Luckily, 38 is a common size. Have you had trouble finding the size you need? (Also, I've got a little waist and big hips, so trust me, I understand curves!)

peachy from Home Sweet Home on October 19, 2014:

my waist size is 26 but my breastbone is large, I have to wear bra size 38 instead of 34 or 36. It seems that I can't hook up with those size.

Hannah Moskowitz (author) from New York on October 18, 2014:

Yes! Never feel bad about your size. It has nothing to do with you as a person; it's just the amount of fabric and wire that happens to make you the most comfortable.

Snakesmum on October 18, 2014:

As someone who has often had problems finding the right size bra, I found this very interesting. Now I know what to look for when I shop for my next batch of bras, and I won't feel bad about the size anymore. :-)

Meredith is a collector of lingerie. She's determined to help every woman in her quest to find the perfect undergarments.

Top Minimizing Bras: Give Yourself a Lift

Hands up if you’ve ever experienced any of these scenarios:

1. You find a shirt that fits perfectly, except the buttons are popping off
2. You notice permanent grooves in your shoulders where your bra straps reside
3. You feel frustrated that you don’t feel comfortable wearing certain styles of clothing because of your ample chest

If any of the above sound familiar, you must own a minimizer bra. No, scratch that, you must own more than one. This little feat of architecture will save you a whole lot of grief when getting dressed (and it just might be your dream bra).

So, What Is a Minimizer Bra and What Will It Do for Me?

Simply put, these bras are designed to manage your breasts and make sure they behave. They function on the simple idea of redistribution. This bra is not going to squash your cleavage, nor leave you breathless; it simply directs your assets towards your chest rather than away from it. You see, most bras are designed to do the opposite—to push breasts forward and lift them up. But if you have an ample bust, you don’t need to worry about doing that. What you need is help with management so that the girls don’t take over the show and decide which outfits you’re wearing.

Wearing a minimizer bra can actually change your silhouette. The Best are designed to reduce your bust by one full cup size—which translates to your silhouette being a full one inch smaller. They will create a streamlined effect, making your clothes fit better—no more button gaping! They will also make you appear slimmer—reducing some of the bulk attached to your chest. Plus, are designed to be comfortable; they’re available with and without underwire, and usually feature a strong back clasp and easy-on-the-shoulders straps. Convinced? Let’s take a look at a few.

1. The Best For Comfort & Coverage: Vanity Fair Smoother Minimizing Bra Review

Supportive, comfortable, smooth… the Vanity Fair Smoother is one multi-tasking bra.

It features molded cups designed to lift and shape your bustline, yet still give a natural look. The cups are lined for full coverage in the event of—shall we say—chills. The Beauty Back also has a perfectly smooth cup so you can wear it under any type of clothing, even t-shirts. Another reason this bra earns its ‘smoother’ name is the wide back band, which is smooth and eliminates the dreaded "back rolls."

Above all, this minimizer bra is best known for comfort; it is completely wire-free, which is great if you dislike underwire. The straps are wide, offer a bit of stretch, and are completely adjustable—not stopped halfway like some undergarments—which is a really nice feature for flexibility. Reviews are overwhelmingly positive and most focus on how comfy the bra is—it is quality at an attractive price. Definitely worth trying!

2. Best Minimizing Bra With Lift: Glamorise MagicLift Support

If a bra that lifts is a top priority to you, consider the Glamorise MagicLift Minimizing Support Bra It is designed to do three things: lift, separate, minimize.

This bra sits higher up on the chest, and keeps your assets lifted and out front, yet under control. Keep in mind, this bra doesn’t work well with low necklines—so plan your outfits accordingly. But it will make your chest look great and reduce your bust by at least one cup size. MagicLift bras are designed with a unique "criss-cross" design that is meant to lift and separate all at once.

The best thing about this minimizer bra with lift is the wire-free construction thanks to an inner-bust band—that provides all the support you need without sacrificing comfort.

The cups are not molded but rather lined with cotton; the straps are wide, cushioned, and positioned to take strain off your shoulders. The back features a sturdy 4-hook clasp.

Overall, this is a hardworking bra that will keep your assets at attention. If you need further proof, just glance over the hundreds of great reviews. This bra is Glamorise’s number one seller; that says a lot.

3. Celebrity Favorite: Wacoal Elegance Hidden Underwire—A Sexy, Superstar Performer

No minimizer bra roundup would be complete without a Wacoal.

This has long been regarded as the top brand in this category; so good, in fact, that it has been featured by both Oprah and The View as the best reducing bra.

Wacoals are on the pricey side, but for good reason; investing in one means treating yourself to quality, comfort, and style. The brand offers several types of undergarment but my favorite for this round up is the Embroidered Underwire Minimizer, which is both beautiful and performs perfectly.

This bra does have underwire, but it is hidden—sandwiched between interior layers so it promises not to dig in. It is not lined. It is lacy. In fact, looking at it you’d never guess that it is designed to wrangle a substantial bustline. Yet it gets spectacular reviews for doing just that—all while looking pretty. You really can’t go wrong with a top Wacoal minimizer bra—treat yourself!

4. Your Go-To Favorite, Bali’s Best: "Passion For Comfort" Seamless Minimizer Underwire Bra

Bali is the other brand that has earned a name for itself as a maker of top minimizer bras.

The Seamless is a perpetual favorite—and for many well-endowed women it is their staple undergarment—reliable, comfortable, and goes with anything—the perfect T-shirt bra.

This bra does have underwire, yet it is extremely comfortable. It provides great lift and support and is made of extremely soft fabric—and better yet, it’s tagless. The cups provide full coverage along with the comfort of a soft lining. My favorite thing about this bra is that it looks like a regular, comfy bra—not armour.

To top it off, this minimizer bra with lift is quite inexpensive—definitely a staple piece.

5. A Strapless/Convertible Bra To Best Control Your Tatas: Lilyette Tailored Minimizing

No woman’s wardrobe is complete without a great strapless bra - and here is the ultimate strap-free option. The Lilyette Tailored Minimizer offers unprecedented support and control, along with comfort and versatility.

This top strapless minimizer bra is known as a ‘convertible’ because it comes with optional straps that can be worn in halter, criss-cross, and demi-styles. But most women hail it as the perfect strapless - no easy feat for a bra designed for large busts! This gravity-defier manages to lift, separate, and reduce your chest—all while avoiding the dreaded uni-boob. It gives full-cup coverage and passes the ‘bounce’ test with flying colors.

A surprising feature of this bra is its comfort level. Despite the underwire, many women report it as being the best, most comfiest minimizer bra they’ve ever worn—and many love that the strapless design means they don’t get shoulder strain. It is made of smooth material with the perfect amount of lining - not enough to add unnecessary padding, but enough to provide coverage under clothing.

A 4-hook-and-eye closure makes The Lilyette reliable under any circumstances; and it does not slip, thanks to a silicone "grip" lining the inside of the lower band and the top edge of the cups. Many reviewers note a visible reduction of 1-2 cup sizes—in that regard, it’s likely the best strapless minimizer bra on the market.

Overall, this unit is comfy, versatile, supportive, and keeps your assets under wraps while still providing that curvy silhouette you love. It’s a must-have for any well-endowed woman.

A Great Selection Of Minimizer Bras - Worth The Effort

When all is said and done, buying a minimizer bra is much like buying any other undergarment; there’s no perfect fit across the board. I encourage you to first get yourself properly measured; then, try out a few bras (remember, you can always return them if purchasing online) and see which ones fit best. It’s worth the effort; a minimizer bra will certainly change your feelings about getting dressed, and if it makes you feel comfortable and confident—well, that’s priceless.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on minimizer bras and these brands—have you tried any? Do you love them? Do you hate them? Do you have a favorite to recommend that I haven’t mentioned here? Please share your thoughts in the comments!

Comments

Jennifer Kessler on October 02, 2018:

Love the Lilyette Tailored Minimizing for its support and surprising features. Thanks for your tips! Another Lilyette minimizer bra that works is the Lilyette Enchantment Three-Section Unlined Minimizer Underwire Bra. Check it my 10 top picks for more details https://shelovesbest.com/best-minimizer-bras-for-l...

MizBe on October 17, 2016:

I took your poll and said I'd never worn a minimizer, but then I discovered that I own the Wacoal. A friend of mine bought a known minimizer and she looked like she was wearing a wrong-size bra (not good), so I swore I'd never own one. I do like the Wacoal Hidden Elegance, though.

Meredith is a collector of lingerie. She's determined to help every woman in her quest to find the perfect undergarments.

The Best Plus-Size Strapless Bras

For well-endowed women, bra shopping can be a real challenge, especially when it comes to strapless ones. Whether you are dressing for a special evening out or a regular day at work, the last thing you want is to feel uncomfortable, unsupported, or—worst of all—petrified that one of the girls is going to pop out. Often, women with large breasts, whether petite or plus size, believe there is no suitable strapless bra for their size. Yet they are an essential part of any woman’s wardrobe and definitely allows the most versatile wear.

Luckily, there are some truly amazing options out there—many designed to fit best with cup sizes C, D, DD, and up. You’ll be impressed at the comfort and support they offer, even for large busts. I’ve compiled a short list of the very best; hopefully, there’s one here for you.

I should note here that each of these below options are convertible, meaning that it comes with straps which you can attach if you desire. This allows you to wear it in different ways.

Let’s get to it!

Sizing

As with any other type of garment, sizing can differ greatly from one brand to another, and even from one style to another within a brand. Sometimes it’s a guessing game to figure out which size is best in a strapless bra. Plus, different manufacturers work with different size charts—UK makers, for example, use the cup size F to denote the same size American makers call DDD.

Fitting Tip:

When trying on a strapless bra, especially for larger breasts, it's best to lean forward and adjust your bust so that the girls are sitting correctly in each cup. Then, stand up. This way you will get the most accurate idea of how well it fits.

• The best thing to do when trying to figure out the correct size is to make sure you know your measurements. Then, compare them to each manufacturer’s sizing guidelines carefully.
• Also remember, if you order online, you can always return them if they don’t fit. So, when in doubt, it’s worthwhile to order two sizes to try.

1. Wacoal’s Red Carpet

If you’re looking for a strapless bra for D or DD cup that won’t let you down (pun intended), consider the Red Carpet Full Figure by Wacoal.

This bra consistently gets the best reviews, with the general consensus being, "I can’t believe how well it stayed up, and how comfortable it was!"

• The material is seamless and matte, so it will be smooth and invisible under any outfit.
• The main features of this Wacoal are designed for comfort and staying put. The underwire support is cushioned by well-designed padding, which makes it extremely comfortable to wear, even for a long day.
• For staying power, the bra is lined with silicone around the band and also at the top of the cups, gripping the skin without creating sweat.
• Larger-breasted women will appreciate the extra boning on the backside, creating extra support and distributing the weight of the bust.
• It comes in black, nude, ivory, and cappuccino. A nice set of options for women of all skin tones.

This is your best option for those special events where you need to be comfortable and assured that your C, D, DD cup or larger breasts will be supported and looking their best.

2. Wonderbra

The Wonderbra Ultimate Strapless Bra is great for two things:

1. Lower-cut necklines
2. Displaying your assets in a tasteful manner

• This bra is a sweetheart style, meaning that it dips lower in the center band, which makes it very versatile for all kinds of dresses.
• It is comfortable, too; many women find it even better than a regular bra.
• It reviews well and stays put, no matter what. It features grippy lining around the band to help avoid slippage, and has a three-hook closure at the back, offering plenty of support.
• This is a great strapless bra for C and D cups in particular, and many reviews prove that even women with larger bust sizes than that love this style.

3. Longline Style (Bustier Option)

If you’re dressing for an occasion and you want the girls to be looking their finest, consider a bustier option rather than a strapless bra. This style is also known as a longline and is among the best for support, offering plenty of one crucial thing: boning. Boning is what helps this bra to defy gravity.

• Having a bustier style also gives you more shaping through the upper body. This is great if your dress style is nipped in at the waist.
• It's also very secure—one review described it as a fortress, so you can be sure the girls are going to stay put!
• One thing to consider with this one is that both the cup and the center provide expansive coverage, coming up quite high on the breast. This may be an issue depending on the cut of your dress or tops. As well, this bra is a lacy material, which is sexy but may create lines underneath a silky material. Keep those things in mind.

Overall, The Goddess is a sturdy, dependable strapless bra, made to handle any large bust, and it’s sexy— perfect if you want to feel a little luxury underneath your best outfit.

4. Le Mystere's Soiree

The Soiree, by Le Mystere, offers the whole package—it’s attractive, holds things where they are supposed to be and won’t slip down thanks to a silicone component in the band.

Reviews of this strapless number report that this works very well, and does not slip even after many hours of wear.

One thing I really like about this bra is the back band. It is nice and wide, which is supportive and secure but has the added bonus of making a smooth appearance from the back. It’s a nice feature that isn’t always present, even on some of the best strapless bras for larger breasts.

• The cups on this bra offer a little wider coverage than similar bras like the red carpet—something to consider when planning your outfit.
• Also keep in mind that the sizes listed are actually European sizes, which are slightly different from those for North America. The bust sizes for this strapless bra are smaller than you’re used to, so keep that in mind, best to size up on both cup size plus the band when you order.

5. Lilyette’s Tailored Strapless

I’ve saved the best for last: meet the Lilyette Tailored Strapless, your ideal bra. This one has it all; it is extremely comfortable, unfailingly supportive, and is definitely going to keep your girls in line.

• This bra is specifically designed to reign in your bust—it is called a "minimizer" for that reason. This is great if you are at all self-conscious about your chest, and even better for making sure your breasts won’t move or bounce. However, it still manages to do this while providing lift and separation.
• This one offers a nice, wideband, which has a smoothing effect. Also, four hooks at the back closure add security to your outfit. Best of all, it is comfortable. So comfortable, in fact, that many reviewers call it their go-to for everyday wear, whether or not strapless is required.

You’ll wear it anywhere; trust me, this is the ultimate strapless bra for large breasts.

The Best Strapless Bra for Your Size Can Be Found!

I hope this has been helpful in outlining some of the best options for your breasts. Although it can take some searching to find the right one, it’s a worthwhile investment for your wardrobe, your confidence, and your back. Once you find the perfect fit, take my advice and buy three more.

Now I’d love to hear from you. Do you have a favorite strapless bra? Do you find it challenging to find a comfortable one that fits? Perhaps you have sizing tips to offer? Please share in the comments. Thanks for reading!

Comments

Jennifer Saylor from USA on January 18, 2018:

Wearing off shoulder is a trend these days. To wear it perfectly, a supportive bra is really essential. Though many of us don't know the right size and thus unable to pick it well. Thanks to this post for such amazing guide. I am sure it will help to get the shape.

April on April 21, 2017:

I got two cups in Ross I love my girls I got a couple I am very lucky I'm a feminine woman and a girl

Meredith (author) from The Fitting Room on February 27, 2015:

Thank you!

Sia from United Kingdom on February 25, 2015:

Very useful article!

Maina Ndung'u is a fashion enthusiast and has been a fashion consultant and blogger since February 2015.

Most women around the world think they need to wear a bra. But do they? What are the advantages of wearing a bra? Although there is nothing wrong with either wearing or not wearing a bra, there are many factors to consider before making a decision.

Breasts contain mainly fat, glands, connective tissue and fluids. These contents are supported against gravity by tissues and the skin that covers them. When you’re sitting or standing, there is much strain on these elements. As you walk or exercise, the tissues inside the breast may experience tiny injuries, causing pain and discomfort. The weight of a large bust may be too much for the chest to support comfortably.

What Is the Purpose of a Bra?

The whole point of wearing a bra is to redistribute some or all of the weight of your bust onto the shoulders and waist area. When a bra is properly fitted, about 80% of this weight is carried by the band, and the remainder by the shoulders.

When a bra fits poorly, most of the weight is on the shoulders. This might cause headaches, or pain in the shoulders and neck.

9 Reasons to Wear a Bra

Women and girls wear bras for a variety of reasons. Below are some things bras do.

1. Hide nipples
2. Delay (but not prevent) sagging
3. Prevent bouncing of breasts, and thus avoid pain and discomfort
4. Make some clothes look better
5. Help show cleavage
6. Control sweating under the bust
7. Enhance beauty
8. Prevent backache and spine issues in busty women
9. Act as underwear (adding insulation and reducing friction) for the upper part of a woman’s body

What Happens If You Don’t Wear a Bra?

Not wearing a bra is not bad, per se. Some women are bra-free at home. But if you don’t wear a bra in public places, though you might feel delightfully free, the following issues may occur:

• You may feel the need cross your arms over your chest.
• You sweat under the bust.
• You may become more self-conscious about your bust, which may affect your concentration.
• You might notice other people's breasts and bras more than usual.
• You sometimes feel pain in the chest.
• Depending on your bust size, you may experience discomfort as you walk.
• You may get in the habit of wearing layered, dressy clothes, or opt for those with attached support.
• At work, other people might start seeing you not as professionally dressed.
• When you go to social gatherings, other guests might treat you as unfashionable and backward.
• Some people might see you as sexually provocative.
• Some fashion outfits won’t fit you and you may have to abandon some of your clothes.
• Showing your cleavage might be more difficult.
• You might have the inclination to wear baggy clothes.
• If you have a huge bust, your posture might change as you lean back to balance yourself.
• You experience a sense of freedom.
• Some things you used to do, like climbing up and down the stairs, might become uncomfortable.

When Should You Start Wearing a Bra?

Most girls start developing their chests when they are 10 or 11 years of age. Some start as early as 8, while others may start developing as late as 15 years old. So, age has little to do with when you need your first bra.

Some designers have manufactured bras for girls as young as four years. But do girls that young really require a bra? What makes a girl know that she’s ready for her first bra? Below are indications that you, or your little one, may need a bra:

• Your chest is no longer flat.
• The outline of your bust starts to show under your tops.
• You become self-conscious when others look at your chest.
• You can feel your bust bouncing as you walk.
• You change your posture and lean forward to try to hide your growing bust (which might lead to long-term posture issues).

When Should You Start Wearing Supportive Bras?

When small girls start wearing bras, they normally wear the camisole or padded varieties. Since their chests are too small to need support, they wear a bra simply to feel good and grown up. But how do you know that your bust has reached the point of needing to be supported?

You may say it’s when the breasts start sagging. But to what degree to do they have to sag? Is it one millimeter or three inches? One specialist came up with the most widely accepted method, called the "pencil test." He argued that if the breasts can’t hold a pencil placed under them, they don’t need any support as yet.

My own opinion is that if it won’t hurt to wear a bra, then there's no harm in wearing one early. But, a bra on a flat chest does not make any sense.

Is It Necessary to Wear a Bra During Pregnancy?

Wearing a bra while pregnant is not harmful. It's not mandatory either, but there are some reasons why a woman might want to wear one.

5 Reasons to Wear a Bra When Pregnant

1. Your bust might grow more sensitive in pregnancy and feel uncomfortable against outer clothing.
2. As the pregnancy progresses, your bust may become bigger, heavier and softer in an unpredictable manner.
3. Breasts may become painful if no bra is worn.
4. When labor nears, you may start leaking some milk.
5. Women who don’t wear bras in pregnancy sometimes find it hard to wear them after childbirth.

Best Bras to Wear While Pregnant

During the first two or three months of pregnancy, your bra size doesn't change much. This means you can put on your normal bra. However, a bra on the roomier side is a good idea as you might not notice your bust becoming bigger. Underwire bras can be particularly uncomfortable with the increased tenderness and sensitivity.

The perfect bras during pregnancy are:

• Support vest tops
• Maternity bras
• Sports bras
• Nursing bras

Expectant mothers should take a bra measurement at about 10–12 weeks, and then at 2–3 months before delivery. A maternity bra is ideal in pregnancy as it has more adjustments at the back of the band, wider straps, soft cotton lining inside the cups, and it also extends 1–2 cup sizes. If you really want an underwire bra, flexible wire maternity bras are available. They should not be worn to bed, however, as the wires may put unnecessary pressure on your chest, thereby causing pain.

During the last few months of pregnancy, some women may choose to use nursing bras. This is a good move, as the bras will still be useful even after giving birth. They also give confidence to those who are worried about colostrum leakage.

During this period, nursing pads can also help. They are used inside the cups and can be re-usable or disposable. Bra extenders are available for those whose cups still fit but whose band size has grown. If you can't find your bra size in your area, you can always look for outlets that take orders, or buy online.

Under whatever circumstances, wearing a bra will not stop sagging or floppiness. What type of bra you wear, how long you wear it, and when you go without it depend on your own specific needs. Because a bra is not a medical necessity, listening to your body is the key to feeling comfortable. If you don’t feel like wearing one, you don't need to; but if you feel like you need to wear it, it will probably ease some pain or distress. Whether you wear one or not is solely up to you.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

Questions & Answers

Question: What bra is best for a small breasted woman?

Answer: You can try a bralette or a padded push-up bra.

© 2014 Maina Ndungu

Comments

Marcy on July 07, 2020:

Let me make it a little more what I meant. I was already wearing a 38 size bra when I was 8 and 44 size bra at age 10.

Marcy on May 19, 2020:

I notice that some of those young girls ask if it's too early for them to wear bras because they're under thirteen when they have larger than thirty size busts. They be wearing bras. I had a fourth size at age ten.

Maina Ndungu (author) from Thika, Kenya on February 12, 2020:

You're correct Trudy Lu.

According to experts, wearing a bra may prevent stretch marks but not sagging

Trudy Lu on February 12, 2020:

I've had 2 reconstructive surgeons tell me that wearing a bra does not prevent sagging in any way, shape, nor form. I'll wear one to church for modesty but that's about it. I wear a 34DD and am a size 2-4. Wearing a bra just makes them appear too large. Yes, they're fake. The real ones tried to kill me

Anonymous on July 19, 2018:

Alot of the reasons for not wareing in a bra sound like an option an based on social norms. In my experience not wearing a bra is easier on my back and shoulders where when I do wear a bra it is painful. I am also big breasted if that counts for any thing but I go with out a bra because I prefer comfort over social norms.

WitchyD on July 14, 2018:

If you're larger than a B cup, yes, in public you do!

But my bra comes out through my sleeve as soon as I get home in the evening and they can be free! (Feels so good too honestly!)

Stalin Matthews on May 01, 2018:

Bra is a very good and sexy undergarment. It supports women's breasts and feel comfortable.

Tatsu on December 18, 2017:

I agree with Nelle. Also my breasts hurt MORE when I wear a bra during pregnancy, and I have never felt the need to cross my arms in front of my chest. I actually feel more confident! And I've never experienced negative reactions or comments at work.

Nelle on September 24, 2017:

You address that there is nothing wrong to choose whether to wear a bra or not, but in your "reasons" why some people choose to not wear a bra, it seems like you're shaming and focusing on the negatives. For example, when you list why to wear one, it says to "enhance beauty" and on the list to not wear it talks about feeling ashamed and people staring :/

Sacarlet on September 24, 2017:

I'm going to be 11 in a couple of days, my chest size is around 33 do I need to wear a bra?

banana on April 02, 2017:

I was just wondering about the pencil test, do you have to the pencil above or under your breasts?

tanu on March 01, 2017:

i am still 12 years old my chest size is only 28 do i need to wear bra ? of which size?

Pam on January 05, 2017:

I'm 15 year old.I'm not still using a bra.but I used to wear simple slips.l used to be naked while sleeping.l've checked by breast size and found it's 33c.Do I've to wear a bra???

mkm on August 08, 2016:

hi, I never wore a bra

I feel better without them, and I think this Science is right to say that for younger women, doing this would lead to increased collagen production

there is one problem, parents say that my chest is bigger that it has to be since mother's a flat and sister has a bra to make her chest smaller.

they told me but I didn't wear bra so my mother got angry and things happened

hadiyaa on June 05, 2016:

mine is so small.....im nw16...i need a bigger one ......

Maina Ndungu (author) from Thika, Kenya on December 25, 2014:

Indeed Peachpurple,

One major reason that women and even girls wear bras is to create the illusion of a normal chest. In other cases, a woman may not go out without a minimizer bra if she has the notion that her bust is too big.

peachy from Home Sweet Home on December 25, 2014:

asians women do wear bra compare to western women because our small frame build and flat chest

As a big-breasted woman, I know firsthand the perils of searching for the perfect bra.

The Best Bra for a Big Bust

As a big-breasted woman who fits comfortably in 40DDD, 42DD, and 44D sizes, I know firsthand the perils of searching for the perfect bra. The best bra for my fuller cup size is the Cacique Plunge Bra, by Lane Bryant.

What Matters Most?

• Fit
• Look
• Feel

If a bra fits perfectly, looks great under a T-shirt, and feels fabulous cupped around the breast—color and price are the next features to consider. For me, I'm willing to compromise on color and price in order to get a great fit, look, and feel.

Get Measured!

When purchasing a new bra, one of my rules of thumb is to first get measured. You can either measure yourself (see video below), or you can ask the salesperson to do it for you. Never buy bras from a salesperson who does not know how to properly measure you, or at a store that does not offer that service to its patrons.

My Two Favorite Bras: Prices

What Do Big-Breasted Women Need in a Bra?

Without a doubt, big-breasted women need more support from their undergarments. Beyond that, there is much debate regarding several features:

Age-Old Debates

• Underwire: yes or no?
• Straps: wide/padded, spaghetti straps, or something in between?
• Clasp: front or back?
• Midriff fit: snug or looser?

My Recommendations

As a big-breasted woman who has a physically challenging career, I suggest the following for the best fit:

• Underwire: Yes! I never, ever, ever buy a bra that does not have an underwire-supported cup. The underwire not only helps hold the cup in place throughout the day, it also keeps the elastic band from creasing and tucking itself uncomfortably under the breast tissue.
• Straps: Wide and adjustable. For cup sizes larger than D, the most supportive straps are at least one inch wide. No spaghetti straps, please! Also, I would never wear a bra that cannot be adjusted at the shoulder straps,
• Clasp: The middle of the back provides a more secure fit, in my opinion.
• Midriff: Choose bras that fit comfortably around the midriff and do not bind or cut into your skin.

How to Measure Your Bra Cup and Band Size

Back Pain vs. Bra Price: Do You Have to Choose?

As every woman who has ever gone bra shopping knows, bras can be super expensive. High price tags mean that women often choose a bra that doesn't fit quite as well in order to find something that doesn't break the bank.

While this is completely understandable, it can sometimes lead to serious problems. Badly fitting bras can cause chronic back pain, which is unfortunately prevalent among America's working women. Wearing an ill-fitting bra may cause unnecessary back strain, neck and shoulder pain, and circulation issues.

This article linked above suggests that bigger-breasted women should look for bras that have "extra-soft, cushioned and wide load-bearing shoulder straps to ease pressure, and which don't dig in." Furthermore, shoulder straps should be fully adjustable, and clasps should be located at the back because they offer greater support.

Connection Between Wearing Bras and Sagging?

Plastic surgeon Dr. Broumand has suggested that wearing a bra may contribute to sagging. He says: "For younger women, not wearing a bra will lead to increased collagen production and elasticity, which improves lift in a developing breast. Also, tension on the connective tissue and ligaments supporting the breast can be beneficial to prevent sagging."

For older women, however, Dr. Broumand recommends bras. He notes that aging breasts naturally begin to lose elasticity and produce less collagen. At this stage, wearing a properly fitting bra is medically beneficial due to its supportive properties.

My Favorite Strapless Bra

Hands down, my favorite strapless bra is manufactured by Modern Movement, and it can be purchased at the Dillard's department store or online.

It is completely seamless, made primarily of nylon and spandex. It looks fantastic under sundresses, and the smooth lines aids in the overall appearance of my tube tops, tanks, and off-the-shoulder knitted tops. It is safe to say that in the summer months, I do not travel anywhere without this bra.

Because the cups are cut fuller, I can purchase a band size smaller than I normally would. I wear a 42DD in my (non-strapless) Cacique plunge bra, but I wear a 40DD in the Modern Movement brand. This keeps me looking like a lady all night and not like some fool who is constantly trying to hoist her boobs up from underneath her outfit. An ill-fitting strapless bra can be a miserable experience for the wearer—and comic relief for everyone else.

What to Look for in a Strapless Bra

• Fit: A good strapless bra will not fall down with movement. It should stay in place while walking or moving briskly. Most bra manufactures recommend going down in band size and going up in cup size to get the proper fit on a strapless bra. Adding silicone cup pads in the cups also aids in the overall support of the breast tissue.
• Construction: A good strapless bra for fuller women should have at least three back hooks in back. The stronger the band, the firmer the fit. If you wear an F or G cup, the strapless bra should have no fewer than four hooks and eyes in the back.

The Importance of Knowing Your Cup Size

Ladies with cup sizes larger than D are subject to more challenges than women who wear the smaller cup sizes. One problem is that manufacturers do not have a universal size chart for bra cups DD or larger. Ladies wearing an E cup size in one manufacturer's bras might be a DDD or F in another manufacturer's bras.

If you don't know how a certain brand size fits, I recommended that you ask for the manufacturer's bra cup specification size chart. For most major brands, you can find it online. If your breasts bulge either over the top of the bra or out of the sides, it is too small for you.

For example (compared to similar shape and style): Modern Movement's 40DD is the same size as Cacique's 42DD. Delta Burke Intimates bra size 40D is comparable to Maiden Form's 38DD.

More Great Info on How to Find the Best Bra

• 24 Best Plus-Size Bras 2021 - Oprah Daily
  Whether you're looking for a plus-size bra with full coverage, a push-up with lift, or a bralette with no underwire, we've found the best options on the market.
• 13 Best Bras for Large Breasts - Good Housekeeping
  The best bras for large bust sizes and heavy breasts based on factors like comfort, support, and appearance. These styles have large cup sizes for big boobs.
• Best Bras for Big Busts - Harper's Bazaar
  If you are looking for a beautiful lace bra, a balconette, a molded cup bra, or a bralette, we have you covered.

Comments

Kathe Jones from San Francisco Bay Area on October 22, 2017:

First of all, let me say that I love and respect women who have big boobs. Although I am not a woman, I do like to have a large bust at Halloween. (I like to wear a 48DDD bra) Therefore, it is very helpful to know which bras work best with my breast forms to avoid sagging "breasts" Thanks so much for this information!

Zimkhitha from South Africa on April 02, 2014:

Bravo! girl...us with them air bags do not always get this kind of assistance. Try asking for a shop assistant for bra help and they ask you if you are pregnant...really now!

Julie Grimes (author) from Columbia, MO USA on March 02, 2014:

You are so awesome!!!

Robert E Smith from Rochester, New York on March 01, 2014:

You knew that sooner or later I would have to comment on this hub just for the fact it said boobs, haha. As usual Julie, you make things interesting (even without the pictures, it would have held my interest). Anyone that truly knows me knows that I learn as much as I can about women in general so I am an asset to my woman, my wife. So I read about bras and woman's health and anything I come across to get wiser. My wife always laughs because so far everything that she has faced in 16 years of marriage, I have read and retained something about it. Well, thanks again for another interesting article. Love ya Lady. Bob.

Julie Grimes (author) from Columbia, MO USA on November 19, 2013:

Hahaha! You're too funny frog.

The Frog Prince from Arlington, TX on November 19, 2013:

I always look good in red! LMAO

Nice write and I now know what a man needs to know.

The Frog Prince

I love boxer briefs and I enjoy sharing tips in looking for this type of underwear for women.

One Woman's Impassioned Quest

Maybe you hate teeny panties. Maybe you are an athlete. Maybe you are of larger size. Maybe you are trying to create a comfortable DMZ between your thighs. Maybe you are tired of getting overheated in synthetics and microfiber. Maybe you are tired of all the extra fabric that comes from pouches.

Whatever the case, you are like me. You are a woman who is on a quest to find real boxer briefs made for a woman's body, made from cotton fabric, with a genuine long-leg. And not some deceptive keyword stuffed web page trying to sell you an annoying panty, boy short, or piece of shaperwear.

This is it my sisters! I am on the quest to find real women's boxer briefs. I'm going to put my money where my nether regions are and actually buy some of these things and wear them until we find what we are looking for.... Are you with me?!

In my personal history, I've worn very nearly every style of underwear known to woman-kind. Some of that comes from the eras in which I've lived and some from being a person who is interested in costuming. What's both surprising and not is how often the undergarments worn by women are not all that comfortable.

I don't know exactly when I first tried on a pair of men's boxer briefs, but I can tell you that the style was probably only a year or two old, that the brand I tried was Calvin Klein, and that I got them while doing a spate of outlet shopping with my mom. In short, they were super cheap and it seemed like a fun thing to try. I wanted something to wear under a sarong while camping that wasn't outerwear-shorts and would keep my thighs from chafing.

Those boxers did the trick and I must have shown at least a half dozen women my underwear during that week of camping. They'd say, "I just can't wear a sarong even though it's boiling out, my thighs would kill me." I'd peel back a sarong flap to flash a bit of boxer leg and the reaction was always the same. "Ooooh, that's so smart!"

So, roll forward in time... I still like the concept of men's boxer briefs but they have a few fit issues. They presume I'm a taller human (the one time I met former Squidoo community head Megan Casey, her first words were, "Oh my god, you're a peanut!") and they presume I have boy stuff that needs a pouchy space between my legs. But at the same time, I am after that longer leg you get with a proper boxer brief. And I'm cheesed at all those people on the internet who keyword stuff or name things that end right at the thigh crease as being boxers. My thigh poochies curse you!

When you look at the pictures included here, you see the most-typical items which are referred to as boxer briefs online. The girl version certainly is brief, so brief the boxer part seems to be missing. And thus, an underwear quest was born...

An Underwear Dictionary, or How a Costumer Thinks of Underwear

Not only did I major in costuming in my undergrad years, but I spent seven years working for a company that made lingerie. Between classes where I had to memorize a ton of names of historical garments and then working in a professional manufacturing setting, my take on underwear comes with words that mean certain things. I'm going to share some of those words and interpretations with you here because you will better understand what I'm talking about later. Your personal experience and vocabulary may vary.

• Bikini: This is a triangle of fabric in front, full-coverage in the rear and fastens across the hips with thinner straps
• Bloomers: A period-style of underwear that is loose cotton, fits up to the natural waist and goes down to or just below the knee. Slightly puffy-cut legs and often finished with a gathered knee and a ruffle.
• Briefs: These often bear the nickname "granny pants" these days, as they refer to underwear that rises to the waistline and covers the entire rear and hips. Mostly white.
• Boxers: The male style of underwear that is like a pair of shorts. These used to be just plain white (old school military) or plaid and baggy (yay, 80s!) but modern variants tend to take their styling from athletic wear and often some in knits now.
• French-Cut: This refers to women's underwear that has a very high-cut leg opening, offering a very narrow front and leaving the entire thigh crease open.
• G-String: When I worked for a women's wear company, this meant our tiniest panties which were a small triangle of fabric in the front, and about 1/4" elastic used to make side and backstraps. Almost no coverage.
• Pettipants: More of an underwear cover than underwear itself, these are frequently ruffled and worn by square dancers and other performers to hide their actual underwear but meant to be seen under skirts when twirling.
• Thong - If you hear me talk about thongs, I am speaking of small profile underwear that is most-often entirely crafted from fabric but also entirely edged in elastic for the snuggest fit. The backstraps on these tend to be the 1" width mandated in the states of Texas and Florida as required for "dancers."

Test #1: Focxers

imported British boxer briefs, designed by women for women

Maybe it was because it was late at night and maybe it was because it was the night before my birthday, but the very first pair of women's boxer briefs I'm tested were made by Focx in the UK. Part of why I started with these was that they were the first thing I found after a few hours of web hunting that entirely fit the bill. Designed for a woman's figure, cotton, a true boxer brief cut.

These are the original style by Focx, they have a note on their website that the new cut is a bit longer in the leg. I got these because they were on sale, and between the exchange rate and shipping, these are still some pricey pants. (In England, "pants" are underwear and "trousers" are outerwear, in case you didn't know.) These do have a fly like men's underwear, but the ladies who make these call it a "keyhole" and it lines up for female anatomy.

The sewing and seaming is excellent. I tend to live in jeans and don't own a car, so comfort and non-bunching while walking is an extremely big deal to me. These boxers didn't slide down, and they didn't ride up too much. I'd say a 9 out of 10 on holding their position. When I'm not walking around I tend to be parked on a ball chair in front of a computer, and that's a great way to test bunching. Not bunchy at all, yay!

I've owned these long enough to go through a few seasons, and can report on their fit under jeans. It's great. They are fine in my skinny jeans, or the fleece-lined babies I pull out to get through the depths of winter.

If you can bear the expense (these are still way cheaper than bras for busty gals), I recommend you give a pair or two of these a try.

Test #2: Comfort Choice Boxer Brief

Ordered from Roaman's

I gave up wearing white underwear when I went off to college (and I'm not a pastel pink panty girl either), so I had to hunt a bit to find the Comfort Choice boxers in black. It wasn't too hard given I had an actual brand name to guide me.

These are thinner cotton than the Focxers, with a higher waistline and a slightly longer leg. I'm very tubular/apple-bodied and I can see how some sisters who are very strongly hourglass-shaped might not get a good fit from these. They are really straight-up-and-down. The waist band is quarter-inch covered elastic. If you like a lower rise in your jeans/trousers, you'll find that not only do these boxers come up higher than the waist on your pants, but they then start to roll down.

These boxers are less bulky in the crotch than the Focxers with their keyhole.

Test #3: Girls Will Be Boys

A US-based underwear manufacturer

I found the GIRLS WILL BE BOYS (GWBB) brand thanks to a recommendation in the comment box at the bottom of this article and went to check them out right away. Right fiber, excellent color options, appropriate sizes, prices pretty much par for the course.... so I ordered two pair in purple. Shipping was fast (items were in stock) and packaging was good.

These are some of the closest in boy-style and yet they do entirely away with any sort of front pouch or opening and really, that's sort of nice for reducing bulk in the crotch. Waistbands do not roll down, but they are that screaming advertising logo all the way around that ultimately makes me wish it wasn't there. Legs are a touch longer than original Focxers but fit well and do not ride up too much under those skinny jeans I love.

This company wins on color options (lots of great solids) and they are domestic, which saves me gazillions on shipping from overseas. As of now, this is my go-to underwear.

The Valley of Fire Three-Way Challenge - Whatever You're Thinking, It's Just About Underwear

Here's a literal field test report from the spring of 2014, in Nevada's own Valley Of Fire State Park. This is the Silver State's oldest and most-lauded state park. I've been camping here with a group in (mostly early) May for a decade now. At first I was just attending this four-day fire circle gathering, but now I also volunteer and hold multiple roles of responsibility and oversight. And this year, as one of any number of new things I try each year to make my experience more pleasant, I compared the three styles of women's boxer briefs across three weeks in a climate totally the opposite of what I live in, in super-active conditions.

I spent a week and a half at my fave women's retreat, then spent a handful of days in Las Vegas, and then hit the desert hard for pack-it-in-pack-it-out, with wild winds, temps and sand, sand, sand. The lowest temps I was outside in may have gone as low as the upper 40s, with that being driven by intense wind. I know the one last April Saturday I was in Las Vegas, and out walking around slightly lost, it hit 100. That just sucked. My Seattle-attuned-body just gave me the finger all day. It didn't matter how much water I drank.

I wore cut-off shorts, skinny jeans and had long underwear to supplement the shorts as an option. I had a garment that could be either a skirt or a shirt, and did both with it. And I had a couple sarongs. I had some boy cut panties for a couple nights where it was all about the psychedelic yoga pants (bet you didn't know I was one of those, did you?) but for the most part, I was wearing boxer briefs. In the end, no pair ever gave me a total fail. This means I never had to stop what I was doing and "fix" my underwear or change out of a pair that had turned hateful. And given that we had limited bathing available, that's important.

Under my cut-off shorts, all variants of boxer briefs were perfect. Just really happy campers. If I decided to suddenly jump into the leggings/long-underwear under the shorts, the GWBB did best and Focxers did the second best. The ComfortChoices' just aren't fitted enough to stay *perfectly* smooth under so other fabrics and they bunched enough I made sure to not wear them when I was doing a lot of pants layers.

Because my Focxers are the older style with the shorter leg, they can actually do okay under those fancy yoga pants of mine. The bold pattern distracts from any line left by the boxer leg, which is really slight anyway.

Under the thrift-store, I'm-going-to-the-shower-or-its-boiling dress, I actually liked the ComfortChoice the best as they were the most leggy and lightest in the heat of the day.

For sarong wear, the bold logo waistband of the GWBBs makes them more of a style liability unless you want to advertise. To me, I don't mind if a logo waistband shows above jeans, but I don't want it with a sarong. So the ComfortChoices, with almost no waistband, worked well for pairing up that way.

Fellow Underwear Questers, Tell Us Of Your Adventures! - Have you triumphed? Or has the grail eluded you still?

Dy on July 25, 2020:

I've been looking for women's boxer briefs for a long time now...

I'm no a fan of chaffing thighs myself and since I prefer men's low rise jeans since it's easier for me to find a size that isn't too expensive...

and the fact that I hate that women's pants have either too small of a pocket or none at all, men's jeans are my go-to...

I I don't like the bunching of the fabric in my crotch that men's boxer briefs does since I've had accidents of those getting stuck in my fly and ruining the underwear so I just ended up wearing brief style panties and a bike shorts under my jeans/pants/shorts...

and I don't think I need to tell how uncomfortable it is wearing layers during summer where temperatures ranges from 34-37 °C...

TomboyX and other sites are just too pricey and not to mention it'll probably double the price if I add shipping since I'm from the Philippines...

and they don't make women's boxers here!!!

I wish there are available Women's boxers briefs here...

and one's that doesn't cost as much as a mobile phone...

Rebecca of Missouri on June 26, 2019:

I've tried TomboyX and a few other off brand versions as well. My main issue is the ride-up factor.

I'm small, straight, and athletic.The leg bands might start out relatively tight but the end of the day always has the legs right up in my creases and unmentionables.

I'll be checking a couple of these out to see if I have any better luck.

Jean of Missouri on May 04, 2019:

I found a website called Underworks and they have cotton with 8 inch inseam legs.

The price is reasonable also! :)

Jean of Missouri on May 02, 2019:

I searched Focxser and could only find Foxer????’

Plus Size Boxer Briefs for Women! (originally for men) on January 21, 2019:

Given that this is one of the first pages that comes up when searching for women's boxer briefs, I figured I'd share my new solution!

I used to get the Hanes Premium Women's Boyfriend Cotton Boxer Briefs from Target, but then they changed everything about them and they were no longer a good fit for me. The special sites like TomboyX are super expensive and the cheaper sites don't have much in the way of plus size.

Then I found my (almost) holy grail! I purchased "Fruit of the Loom Big Men's Soft Fabric Covered Waistband Boxer Briefs, 4-Pack" from Walmart (comes in a 4 pack around $16-$19 USD, I got size 2XL and I wear size 16 or 18 in jeans). I believe they're now listed on the Walmart site as "Fruit of the Loom Big Men's Dual Defense Soft Covered Waistband Boxer Briefs Extended Sizes, 4 Pack." The only problem I have now is that it's hard to wear a pad with wings with these boxer briefs because the inseam is a little too long for the pad to stay in place. Still looking though!

flo on October 04, 2018:

Hi, do you think that underwears from the kid section would be less pouchy ? I'm quite small so...

Jen on August 02, 2018:

There is a new company that has super soft boxer-briefs. Vennin Clothing and they are Canadian made. I tried Tomboyx and I liked them, but they just seemed so plain and unsexy on me ha ha.

ClaireC on July 22, 2018:

Hanes now has women's boxer briefs in both 'boyfriend' and "mid-thigh" versions. The 'boyfriend' ones are longer than typical "boy shorts" but the "mid-thigh" ones are the way to go. Cotton, good fit. You can find them at Target.

Pattycakes on July 12, 2018:

Tomboy is by FAR the best! Comfortable, no roll waistband, legs that don’t ride up.

Amy on February 01, 2018:

I purchased vlez underwear and I couldn't be happier. They are so comfortable and incredibly soft. Reasonably priced.

Alex on December 04, 2017:

Try TomboyX. They're a little pricey, but the product is great and they have a wide selection of lengths, fabrics, and prints. They also come in extended sizes

Christina on November 07, 2017:

Boxers are for boys

Berta CD from MA - USA on October 25, 2017:

I wear women's satin panties every day in a plus size to fit my 50-52 inch waist and 52-54 inch hips. Lady Grace and Catherine's were great locations to make such purchases but they no longer offer them. Where can one who loves to wear what women no longer seem to want to wear find panties, in my plus sizes, made of this exquisite feminine fabric? Having worn those miserable "tidy-whitie" male cotton restrictive briefs for many years I will never wear them again now that I've enjoyed the comfort, feeling and coolness of satin or super silky nylon panties.

10/25/2017

Jennider on October 20, 2017:

I Need boxers to cover my thighs so they don't rub together but I am having trouble finding what i like I need waist 47 inches, inseam 8, length 14 (or covering thighs), cotton fabric. I am 4'8 in height. I prefer colors like white,black,grey

NBetty on September 13, 2017:

I love wearing longer boxer brief undies---panties irk me like a tag at my neck. My biggest issue is that I can never find them in my size. Women's/Juniors' are always too large and girls' sizes fit but their "boy shorts" are usually nothing more than panties that are 1/4 inch longer. So, to solve this, I've been wearing boys' boxer briefs and they are perfect. However, I have been wanting to find something more feminine, so I must thank you for this article. Hopefully, I'll find something that fits.

Joselyn on August 13, 2017:

Tomboyx brand. Best around. A bit on the spendy side but comfy as hell and worth it. I own nothing but tomboyx now and won't wear anything else. PS just a customer not paid for the recommendation or review.

Just Someone on June 03, 2017:

I am plus size... size 16-18w in jeans and 2-3x in tops. All my weight is in my stomach and thighs/butt but more stomach. I finally got fed up w/ women's underwear a few years ago. I tried the "boy shorts". what a joke. I was sick of the chafing. I bit the bullet and bought a package of men's boxer briefs and I have not looked back since. Some are too tight in the leg because the don't stretch, but I deal w/ them. I will only wear my women underwear for a dr. appt. or if I'm dressing up. (which never happens because not only do I work in a male dominated industry, I own no nice clothes, no shoes and no dresses. ;) I looked at the underwear you posted about. The Tomboyx costs $27 for ONE pair? and the comfort choice plus size only goes to 15. I'll stick w/ my mens boxer briefs, $16 for 4 or 5 pair. I'll never be uncomfortable again. Now let's just hope I dont' end up in an ambulance for anything. LOL

Becky on February 06, 2017:

I found this while looking online for girls underwear. I was hoping someone would be fed up with the current choices for their little girls like I am. my 5 year old is always picking at hers and I just wish I could find something to make her comfy.

peglomaniac on January 24, 2017:

How long I have waited for this sisterhood!

I have two wonderful pairs of ladies boxers that are fairly short, but loose fitting that I purchased in about 2009 or 2010. Had I known the shortage that was about to ensue, I would have purchased every pair on the shelf!

Thank you Rae for this enlightening post.

What I am looking for is boxers that are loose fitting and not plus size ... if we're talking true dressmakers size, I am about a 10, but the fashion world has me at anywhere from a 6 to a 14! Grrr.

Anyway, if anyone has any advice on where I can find, or the name of loose fitting women's boxer shorts, I'd love to hear from you.

I am currently hooked on longer legged boy shorts (which are generally snug fitting) only because they seem like the next best choice but I wan't a loose fit. Short or long does not matter, just so long as they're a loose fit. :)

Annika on January 11, 2017:

It's annoying we have to spend a lot of money just because we want comfortable underwear...

CM on January 06, 2017:

Here's MY story,

I have been wearing men's boxer briefs for years. Usually Jockey micro fiber. Women's underwear SUCK!! And women's boxer briefs are impossible to find that aren't too short, too long, or completely made of cotton. I like the micro fiber, moister wicking materials. I want them to come just above mid thigh and to not roll up, AND I would like some in white ( also impossible to find). I did find some Under Armour that I LOVE but, of course, they stopped making that style. SO my search continues. Thank you for your research. I am glad that I am not alone in this HATE of women's traditional underwear. Who invented these anyway??? A MAN.

Breanna on January 02, 2017:

Try tomboyx brand. They offer many different lengths and colors for women

Mandy on September 12, 2016:

I have a very strange body shape, my boobs and hips are about the same measurments but my waist is 10inches smaller and I have no gap between my thighs. This makes any kind of bottoms hard to fit and as a result I can't wear anything that sits on my hips cause they don't stay up. I can only wear "granny panties" but it's impossible to find anything with a long leg to wear in summer under my skirts. I'm doomed to wear bulky bike shorts which actually make me feel hotter. Hopefully I'll find something from the brands you've suggest, if not I may have to try wearing guys undies. Perhaps you should make some suitable undies, I'd pay to get them posted to Australia :D

tomboy1 on June 07, 2016:

Very nice article, I have been in the same predicament, have you heard of Foxers, they have a bunch of different styles that are made of soft cotton.

Nancy on August 05, 2015:

Women Within Fitted Boxer Briefs, also their Bike Shorts {the latter go nearly to my knees!!)--cotton/spandex & tagless!!!

indasaid on June 10, 2015:

Great post Rae. Spent most of this morning looking for womens boxer briefs. It's hilarious to google and find so many womyn on this same quest. Can't wait for my TomboyX to arrive. I then found GWBB; so glad to find them reviewed here. I'll likely try GWBB next (and maybe even Focxers).

Happyrocker on March 25, 2015:

Thank you for your research! I'm going on a cross country motorcycle trip this summer and have been searching for real, cotton women's boxers that breathe and reduce the whole rash, infection war that is so common with the polyester 'pretty' underwear that were designed to look pretty- never functional !

Rae Schwarz (author) from Seattle, WA on November 12, 2014:

boxergirl, it's my dream to someday not have to wade through tons of keyword spam to find good underwear. Then again, I'd like to not have to hunt for good underwear at all. They should be easier to find!

Rae Schwarz (author) from Seattle, WA on November 12, 2014:

DT, it just got cold enough for it to be necessary to wear long underwear under my jeans and over my boxers now. Sheesh...

Rae Schwarz (author) from Seattle, WA on November 12, 2014:

crystalwriter, I am still on the hunt for new styles and new brands if people think there's something worth looking at out there... It's obvious there are a LOT of us who are looking for this type of underwear.

Rae Schwarz (author) from Seattle, WA on November 12, 2014:

Thanks for the feedback, Phantom! I have lost some weight over the last year and need to get some new sizes and see which styles fit me the best with my new size and shape.

boxergirl on November 08, 2014:

Thanx for this read. I was really surprised when I searched this so much would pop up. I'm going to definitely look for these brands. Thanx again. ...

DT on November 08, 2014:

well.. I took the the challenge ordered a couple pairs of boxers..I feel ir pain .. Lol I just don't understand why it's so difficult for women to get comfortable boxers lol

Crystal A Murray from Corydon, Indiana, USA on September 29, 2014:

Thank you for all this research. I've been considering having some underwear custom made just so I could get all cotton and no elastic in the leg band areas where it causes a rash. Boy shorts have worked somewhat but always ride up. I don't know which I'll try first, but since I tend to stay in pajamas just to keep from wearing underwear, I'm willing to invest in whatever I can to find comfy undies. Now, if you can only find me a bra that doesn't roll, bunch, ride, etc., and has a nice thick coverage in the front, so I can wear shirts around my boys without feeling like I have to keep my arms crossed. :-)

PhantomFan on September 24, 2014:

I tried two of the bands that you recommended. The first one was the Comfort Choice boxer briefs. They feel more like shorts and are very comfortable to wear. I also tried the GWBB ones and was very surprised at how comfortable they are. They are shorter than the Comfort Choice briefs but they were still very comfortable under the heavy duty tactical pants that I wear for work. I had been wearing spandex under my pants, but it was hot and I started looking for something cooler. I'll buy both brands again.

Rae Schwarz (author) from Seattle, WA on July 26, 2014:

@mccall57: Yay! That's exactly what I want to hear! And the fact that I've ground tested a few pair out in your precise neck of the desert sure can't hurt. By the way, I think have a line on a style variant with some elastic around the leg hole... So check back in a few weeks.

mccall57 on July 25, 2014:

I got online today expecting to do a couple hours of research looking for the same thing and was happily surprised that this link was in the first 5 that popped up. You have done the research and test sampling for me! I now have a place to start. And I actually live in Las Vegas- those chafing thighs are not fun under work dresses and slacks. I can't wear those spanxy things unless I want a very uncomfortable rash in a very inconvenient location. Finding a product that is lightweight stretchy cotton, not bulky, long enough legs to cover thighs but short enough to not show under a dress hem, and not roll around the waist- I thought it would be an impossible task and was trying to figure out how to make my own! Thank you for a great place to start!

Rae Schwarz (author) from Seattle, WA on June 24, 2014:

@BestRatedStuff: On-body testing is the way to go! Plus I just have some great underwear now.

BestRatedStuff on June 24, 2014:

What a great idea, thanks for trying them out and giving us a good idea what to expect.

Rae Schwarz (author) from Seattle, WA on June 05, 2014:

@ijleague: The websites for everything is listed.

ijleague on June 05, 2014:

OMG! where can i get them..?!?

susan-w-miller-37 on April 16, 2014:

GWBB make the best! You have to check them out.

stylefit12 on April 16, 2014:

Girls Will Be Boys Women's Boxer Briefs are awesome! I finally found a comfortable yet stylish pair of underwear!

Rae Schwarz (author) from Seattle, WA on March 11, 2014:

@Brandy910806: Wow, I had not heard of them. I just put in an order. I'm curious to see how these do....

Brandy910806 on March 11, 2014:

Type GWBB in the google search bar. It stands for girls will be boys. You will love the boxer briefs they have! I just ordered some... They haven't come yet.. But let me know what you think!

Rae Schwarz (author) from Seattle, WA on March 01, 2014:

@prchrgirl: I am hoping to test some new candidates for comparison soon!

prchrgirl on February 22, 2014:

thanks for sharing. have you tested any more?

Lynsey has completed courses in corsetry, dressmaking, and pattern cutting and enjoys sewing in her spare time.

Corsets Are Timeless!

In essence, corsets have been worn for thousands of years, and the concept of restricting the waist and shaping the female figure is an ancient one. Evidence of similar garments have been dated to as early as 2000BC.

Still, the popularity of corsets didn’t really begin until the 16th century and, in one way or another, has continued until the present day. Let's explore the changing style of the corset from then until now.

16th Century

This time period began the popularity of Corsetry which evolved from the French word “cotte.”

Some of the earlier corsets were extremely uncomfortable to wear, as the boning was often made of iron. However, as their popularity grew, production methods changed somewhat to allow for more comfort, and the iron was replaced with wood or whalebone. The cut of the pattern was altered to allow for more movement of the legs and comfort while sitting down.

Even as the technology improved, the corset remained a controversial item of clothing, and some women blatantly refused to follow the fashion and wear one. Mary, Queen of Scots, was known for refusing to wear a corset.

These style corsets are often referred to as either Tudor or Elizabethan, named after royalty. You will find this is true throughout the historical periods.

The typical features of this corset included short sleeves, which could be detached in some cases, and a squared neckline, to allow the garment to remain unseen underneath the cut of the dresses that were fashionable at the time. The corset was designed to flatten the stomach and push up the breasts, giving an enhanced décolleté. Typically, the body was longer at the front and shorter at the sides to accommodate for leg movement. There were also a lot of corsets that were front laced to allow ladies to dress themselves and allow easy access to replace the front busks, which broke easily.

17th Century

In terms of shape and structure, these corsets were very similar to the previous century.

There was a change in the neckline, which became wider to accommodate the off-the-shoulder dresses. Other minor alterations were added to the design, including wider armholes to allow the bodice sleeves to move freely.

The corset was still a piece of underwear; it would be scandalous to have it on show. Therefore minor changes were made to allow it to remain unseen under the period’s fashionable dresses.

There was the introduction of a bit more curvature to the corset, with the waist getting smaller and the introduction of a peplum waist or a slight flair at the waist.

18th Century

Typically, these corsets evolved into a more pointed V-shaped design than the previous century, although the overall design remained similar.

Their primary purpose was to lift and shape the breasts, reduce the waist, and promote good posture. There was a slight narrowing at the waist, hence the V-shape, and it still remained to be worn as a piece of underwear, only seen in extreme circumstances.

These corsets were very comfortable to wear, with little restriction. However, they did restrict bending at the waist. This is better for the back, so it was seen as a positive side effect.

19th Century

The main purpose of this corset was to support and shape the breasts. While they still slimmed the midriff, this was not the prime purpose. The waistline had risen to just below the bust line, and by the 1930s, the corset had taken on a more voluptuous, hourglass shape.

Interestingly, the hourglass shape of the 19th century is the most common type of corset shape used today. During the 1930s, the word “corset” was also used in English to describe the garment. The body of the corset was lengthier than previous centuries and no longer ended at the hips but flared out and ended several inches below the waist.

Thanks to the industrial revolution, corsets had begun to be mass-produced, and as a result, were cheaper to buy. While many corsets were still sewn by hand to the wearer’s measurements, there was also a thriving market for the cheaper, mass-produced corsets.

This is partly why they became so popular, as they were no longer a luxury item, restricted to the upper class. The use of spiral steel also meant that the shape of the corset were more feminine than ever and highlighted a women’s assets while making her waist appear tiny. During the mid-1800s, tightlacing and waist training became popular, with females everywhere trying to achieve a more attractive shape.

20th Century

The corset changed a lot within the 20th century. Technology was fast adapting, and newer and better ideas kept emerging. The corset evolved into an underbust garment designed mainly to reduce the midriff and hips and create a long, thin shape. The corset was very long and went all the way to the tops of the thighs, which restricted movement a great deal, and forced wearers to take small, dainty steps. This allowed them to appear more ladylike but severely limited their day-to-day activities.

In 1913, fed up with the boning poking into her, British socialite Mary Phelps Jacob invented the first brassiere, which she fashioned out of two handkerchiefs and pink ribbons. It was a hit and requests came pouring in for more brassieres.

This invention further impacted the corset development, and by the 1950’s, girdles and high waisted pants replaced many corsets. Basques became popular, as seen in the pin ups of that time, and they were generally a more comfortable, less rigid piece of underwear, although they were mainly worn for show.

Interestingly, this is when the Burlesque/Cabaret era became popular, with women feeling empowered and no longer ashamed to be seen in the near nude. Coincidentally, both of the wars during the first half of the century had encouraged people to live a little, and have more fun, and for the first time, corsets alone were beginning to be accepted as outerwear.

During the 2nd half of the 20th century, the corset trends seemed to revert to those of the Victorian period, thanks to their curvy shape and waist reducing capabilities. After the 60’s and 70’s, people were generally more liberated, and while still shocking, corsets could be worn as outerwear in some social circles.

Interestingly, the general style of the modern corset, right through to modern day has remained to be the victorian style, with the hourglass shape, ample bust and small waist. It has also remained to be strapless, and to lace at the back.

Not many changes have occurred to the original pattern, although modern versions may have a lower bust-line or be adapted to be under-bust varieties, as bras have replaced the need for up top support.

Contemporary Corsetry Corsets

Corsets remain to be a popular choice, even among the women of today. While it may no longer be worn for everyday wear, the corset is used to glamourize an outfit and is often worn for special occasions.

Waist training is still practiced, although it is not the primary reason for wearing a corset these days.

Thanks to modern-day technology, corsets can now be mass-produced and sold relatively cheaply, so most women own at least one. Unfortunately, due to the production scale, corsets tend to be made to set sizes from substandard materials and don’t flatter the shape or last more than a few wears. However, quality corsets are still made by hand, with quality materials, and typically cost at least a couple of hundred pounds.

There are two main markets for corsets in the modern-day, bridal and couture.

As the name suggests, the bridal market is aimed at brides and bridesmaids, and the couture market is more aimed at cabaret performers and fans alike.

Bridal Corsetry

Corsetry in bridalwear is growing ever popular as the corset gives the bride a more flattering shape for her wedding day; those are all important photos!

It also gives more support to the bustier ladies, as many wedding dresses are now strapless.

Typically, the Victorian corset is used, but there can also be Elizabethan variations. Naturally, both have evolved to fit the purpose. The Victorian styles are usually altered to be shorter in the body to ease movement and comfort throughout the day. The Elizabethan variations often have the straps removed for a squared bustline and accentuated V-shaped waist.

Depending on the dress designer, and the client’s body shape, both periods can be combined to get the curvy figure and the straight-looking bustline.

Some designers make a corset feature and show the stitching and boning channels as part of the overall design. In contrast, other designers choose to be more discreet with the dress's structure and apply a beautifully ornate fabric over the top to conceal the boning and general construction.

Cabaret Corsetry

Cabarets have been steadily increasing in popularity in Britain since the start of the 21st century and saw a big boom in 2006 with the launch of Club Noir, which holds various events and performances in venues around Glasgow and the rest of the UK.

Corsets have proved to be an essential part of the costume for most performers and are often used in several acts. Because of this, they are typically custom made to be true to size, or even slightly slack, so that they can be swiftly changed between acts without causing a sudden rush of blood to the head, which can happen while waist training or simply wearing a tight corset.

The corsets themselves are usually adorned with appliques and crystals, and the fabrics are typically lustrous and shiny. Typically, the corset type used is Victorian, with a slightly more plummeting bustline and often suspender hooks along the bottom. The Victorian corset is the best choice for this particular market because it accentuates curves and gives a beautiful hourglass shape.

Overbust corsets are the most popular style; however, some performers prefer an underbust corset, as this can be coupled with lots of different types of bras for a new look at every curtain. This individual requirement often spills over, and the artists often customize the garments to ensure that theirs is one of a kind.

It isn’t only the performers who create the demand for corsets; the audience is often encouraged to dress to impress when attending the shows, so any cabaret fans who are true to the cause often have at least one variation in their wardrobe!

Contemporary Corset Makers

While the mass production of corsets reduces the need for skilled corset designers, many designers utilize this piece of clothing in their fashion collections each year. This is probably because there are still people out there who strive for quality garments rather than cheap imitations.

Due to the increase in popularity, and the ever-growing number of celebrities who want to make a statement by wearing a corset, there will always be a demand for them. Rihanna and Lady Gaga are among a long line of pop stars who have boldly used corsets to attract attention. However, their choice of materials and decorations were more shocking than the garment itself.

Mr Pearl

While Mr Pearl may not be the most famous design, he certainly is one of the most talented corset designers.

As corsetry is his specialty, he has been commissioned to help many big-name designers such as Jean-Paul Gaultier, Thierry Mugler, John Galliano, Alexander McQueen, and Lacroix with their projects and collections.

He has an 18 inch trained waist and wears a corset himself 24/7.

He has had years of experience fashioning corsets, and hand finishes his corsets, so it's no surprise that he is Dita Von Tease’s favorite designer.

Dita isn’t his only fan; Kylie Jenner, Beyonce, and Jerry Hall are also very into Mr. Pearl's designs.

Vivienne Westwood

Vivienne Westwood, who rose to fame because of the punk era and her collaboration with The Sex Pistols, has a career spanning over half a century. She has used corsetry within her collections to represent sex, bondage, restraint, and fetish for many years and enjoys using the garments to evoke shock and intrigue.

She has received an OBE and then later a DBE from the Queen for her services to fashion.

One of Westwood's most famous pieces is a highly decorative beaded corset dress titled “The Queen of Sheba.” This piece was designed by Westwood and commissioned by Mr Pearl. The Victorian shape gives a curvy shape with a large bust and hips, creating the classic hourglass shape. The hand-sewn pearls show a naked female torso and muscle contours and is topped off with anatomically correct nipples. It has been worn by Linda Evangelista and Demi Moore.

Westwood is also one of the only modern designers to feature Elizabethan style corsets in her collections and often focuses on the fabric's pattern for a high level of detail. She likes to use tartan fabrics and high-quality silks and velvets, and the combination of sturdy construction and quality fabrics make for truly unique corsets.

Jean-Paul Gaultier

Jean-Paul Gaultier is one of the most famous fashion designers of modern times; it is shockingly to learn he had absolutely no formal training in this area. Instead, he landed a job with Pierre Cardin because he repeatedly sent design ideas and inspirational sketches. Even in his early years, he designed unusual, incredibly shaped clothes.

Gaultier typically uses the Victorian style when it comes to corsetry, although he has a tendency to alter the shape to make an obscure feature of a specific body part.

For example, the Conical corset made famous by Madonna in the early 1990s is more or less a Victorian style. Still, the bottom has been straightened to allow for freedom of movement, and the cups have been made into elongated conical shapes that are totally unnatural.

In general, the distortion of the female form is quite apparent in many of Gaultier’s corset designs, which is why he also likes to use Edwardian corset styles, which tend to highlight the hip area.

Gaultier is also fearless when it comes to construction materials, often opting for metallic fabrics or crafting designs from pieces of real metal. These are quite popular within the Steampunk movement, but not many people can afford such extravagant pieces.

As with so many of his corset creations, the trusty Mr. Pearl is usually always on hand to advise on pattern creation and construction.

What Is the Future of Corsetry?

I don’t think that the corset will fade away any time soon. With such a boom in popularity, due to the cabaret revival as well as the surge in popularity within bridalwear design alone, I believe that the corset will remain to be a part of the fashion for centuries to come.

There is also the influence of pop stars and other celebrities; for as long as there is a corset worn anywhere on a red carpet, they will remain to be desired by the general public.

Whether the art of corsetry will remain to be is another question. Due to the mass production of corsets and the desire to get a bargain, I think the corsetry art may die out. As sewing machines and computer-aided machines become more complex, there will be a limited need for skilled designers. I can only hope that there will remain to be a few die-hard fans who can appreciate the difference between a hand-crafted, perfectly fitted corset and a cheap synthetic imitation.

Hopefully, the designs of Gautier, Westwood, and Mr. Pearl will continue to inspire the masses and encourage the desire for quality corsets.

© 2013 Lynsey Hart

Comments

Lynsey Hart (author) from Lanarkshire on December 20, 2015:

Thanks Susan! I done a course on corset making and part of it was investigating the history of the garment. It was really amazing to see the contrast between modern day use and the traditional use. Thanks for stopping by, and for your comment!

SusanSaies on December 19, 2015:

What a fascinating look into this part of the history of women's attire!

Lynsey Hart (author) from Lanarkshire on January 11, 2015:

Hi POetryman! I do apologise, it appears your comment was initially marked as spam! I am not sure how! I also love the arty corsets. Thanks for your view and your comment :)

poetryman6969 on December 23, 2013:

Love the artwork on the corsets

Lynsey Hart (author) from Lanarkshire on August 31, 2013:

It is amazing to think of how long they have been around for! As well as the fact that the design really hasn't changed for over 100 years! The way they are put together hasn't changed much either, apart from the fact that you can get parts cheaper, which usually means they are of a lower quality! Thanks again for the comments! :)

Shelley Watson on August 31, 2013:

First time I've read about them. Very interested in history generally, and quite frankly was amazed how something I thought was simple had such an interesting history. Also found it's modern day usage in haute couture and in the on stage lives of celebrities entertaining.

Lynsey Hart (author) from Lanarkshire on August 31, 2013:

Thanks!!!! I'm glad you enjoyed it! Have you an interest in corsets previously, or is this the first you've read about them?

Shelley Watson on August 31, 2013:

What a fabulous, wonderful read. I so enjoyed this - thank you sparkleyfinger. Voted up, interesting and beautiful. Sharing and Pinit too.

Lynsey Hart (author) from Lanarkshire on August 19, 2013:

Thanks!I have a couple of corsets, and I am considering waist training as I lose weight, but it is the thought of the discomfort that puts me off! Thanks for the read and comment :)

freecampingaussie from Southern Spain on August 19, 2013:

I found this really interesting but am so glad we don't wear them these days as they look so uncomfortable!

Lynsey Hart (author) from Lanarkshire on June 09, 2013:

I agree! The longest I've been able to wear a corset was 4 hours! I was in agony afterwards. How anyone can do it 24/7 is beyond me, but I admire their determination! Thanks for the comments :-)

Rachel Vega from Massachusetts on June 09, 2013:

Oh! Painful, but sooo beautiful. I can't imagine wearing one 24/7 like Mr. Pearl, though! I wonder if he eats...? ;)

Voted up, beautiful, and awesome.

Lynsey Hart (author) from Lanarkshire on June 04, 2013:

Thanks!! Wee typo there, thanks for spotting it! I know, they look painful!

Beth37 on June 04, 2013:

Sleeves! My word, could these things get any crueler? I don't know how any of us are here now, it seems like women would have lost the ability to have children normally at some point. In the paragraph after 19th century, did you mean voluptuous? Anyhoo, great article.

I've been an online writer for over eight years. I love helping people feel more comfortable in their own skin!

What Kind of Underwear Should I Wear?

Should I buy briefs, or should I buy boxers? Should I choose to wear trunks, or should I wear jocks? Which type of underwear will look good on me? From the classic-full rise briefs to men's thongs and bikini underwear, this post is every man's guide to buying the right kind of underwear and avoiding a faux pas in front of girlfriends and wives in the bedroom, and mates in the locker room.

1. Low-Rise Briefs

Low-rise briefs are possibly the most popular and commonly worn underwear by men. This type of underwear is a slightly cropped version of the full rise Y-front briefs, which cover a larger area.

Low-rise briefs by popular brands, including Jockey, Hanes, Tommy Hilfiger, and Dockers come in various designs, colors, and pouch sizes.

Low-rise briefs: Who should wear this type of underwear?

• Body type: Low-rise briefs are the most common pair of men's underwear, which is why they are universally liked. Men of all body types can wear low-rise briefs without risking a faux pas. They won't look too out of place, even on guys who have a bulging tummy or guys who are extremely skinny.
• Style: Universal.
• Color: While choosing colors for low-rise briefs, men should stick to whites, blacks, and other darker shades like dark blue, dark green, or various shades of gray. Bright colors are best avoided.
• Things to know: None.

2. Full-Rise Briefs

Full-rise briefs are a classic men's underwear and extend to cover an area much larger than that covered by low-rise briefs. Full-rise briefs extend from the waist area right to the end of the buttocks while enveloping the sides with a Y-shape that is less prominent than smaller underwear.

Full-rise briefs are bigger than their low-rise counterparts but smaller than a boxer brief, which covers a portion of the thigh too.

Full rise briefs: Who should wear this type of underwear?

• Body type: Similar to low-rise briefs, full-rise briefs are popularly accepted as a type of underwear that will look good on most body types. Men who are obese or too skinny should avoid this type of underwear and opt for boxers if they find themselves less comfortable and confident.
• Style: Full-rise briefs attracted mass popularity a couple of decades back, but they are considered less trendy from a style perspective now. Teenagers and guys in their 20s should ideally avoid this style of underwear if they want to be trendy and not made fun of while stripping down to their underwear in the boys' locker rooms. Married men may prefer to wear full-rise briefs as underwear because they are typically perceived to be more comfortable than other options.
• Color: White is a classic color for full-rise briefs.
• Things to know: None.

3. Boxer Shorts

Boxer shorts are known to have received mainstream acceptance as underwear for men post-1950s. They are similar to shorts, except they are generally made from cotton and have an elastic at the waist.

Boxer shorts are a popular choice because they are a very comfortable type of underwear for men. They are available in various colors and patterns.

Boxer shorts: Who should wear this type of underwear?

• Body type: Apart from being one of the trendiest types of underwear for men of all ages, boxer shorts are also a perfect choice for any guy who has body image issues. This underwear will suit guys with a skinny body frame as well as guys with a heavy body frame. Boxer shorts will help men who find themselves embarrassed to strip down to their underwear in front of others in changing rooms or at the beach.
• Style: Boxer shorts are trendy and universal. They are a must-have any guy's underwear drawer. Professionals and guys who wear business clothes every day should avoid boxer shorts as underwear during the day because the crease of the excess material may show from the outside of formal pants.
• Color: As underwear, boxer shorts give a wide range of color and pattern options for the style-conscious man. This is the underwear in which you can veer away from solid colors and buy boxer shorts in tartan plaid and other printed patterns.
• Things to know: Guys who are into sports, athletics, or other activities that require a lot of movement should avoid wearing boxer shorts as underwear because they don't provide a pouch, support, or any form of compression.

4. Boxer Briefs

Boxer briefs are like boxer shorts except that they fit tightly like normal briefs. This underwear starts from the waist and at least covers more than half of the thigh. Along with jocks, boxer briefs are a popular pick among guys who are athletes or are into working out.

Depending on the brand, boxer briefs commonly have a pouch at the front for support and have strategically placed seams to stop them from riding up or gathering up at one place during movement.

Boxer briefs: Who should wear this type of underwear?

• Body type: Boxer briefs are unlikely to suit guys with very skinny legs because the underwear may sag around the thigh area. Guys who are obese may also want to avoid potentially embarrassing bulges at the wrong places because boxer briefs cover a large part of the body. It is a perfect fit for men with athletic body types.
• Style: Boxer briefs are symbolic of a personality who is athletic and always on the move.
• Color: Boxer briefs are available in various colors; however, black and other dark shades look better than others. Bright colors are best avoided.
• Things to know: Boxer briefs are a must in every fitness crazy man's underwear drawer.

5. Trunks

Trunks are seen as a hybrid between briefs and boxer briefs. They are shaped similar to boxer briefs, except their legs are shorter. They should not be confused with swim trunks.

Trunks as underwear score high from a utility perspective. They are comfortable and provide a lot of support at the same time. They are great for guys who are active, traveling a lot, or always on the run.

Trunks: Who should wear this type of underwear

• Body type: Unlike boxer briefs, jockstraps, and low-rise briefs, trunks don't look too shabby, even on men with larger bodies. Trunks will look good on most men, including guys with slightly thin bodies who may be avoiding boxer briefs from the fear of being conscious about highlighting their skinny legs.
• Style: Trunks are trendy and are a good alternative to boxers if you are fond of wearing low rise denim. If you wear your pants from your bottoms, trunks are a good underwear choice for you.
• Color: Trunks look really good in black and white. Men who like to be style conscious, even with their underwear, can buy trunks, which have a contrasting element against the black color of the fabric. For example, black trunks with a red elastic band look sexy.
• Things to know: None.

6. Jocks or Men's Bikini Underwear

Jocks, also known as men's bikini underwear, are the type of underwear models are often pictured wearing on ramps and billboards. A jock's design exposes more thigh and provides the bare minimum coverage on the front. It is like normal brief underwear at the back.

Jocks were originally known to be made as an accessory for guys participating in sports or athletics to provide extra support. However, they have become a popular underwear choice as more men found a liking to jocks and bikini underwear as a daily wear option.

Jocks and men's bikini underwear: Who should wear this type of underwear?

• Body type: Jocks or bikini underwear are designed in a way that they show more skin, leading to a common perception that only men with the best of bodies should ideally be wearing them.
• Style: Jocks are not the type of underwear that can be carried off by any guy. Only a man with truck-loads of confidence and attitude is likely to carry them off with style.
• Color: Jocks are all about putting up a great show. On the right body, they look awesome in many colors, including bright ones like red, sky blue, green, and orange. Wearing bikini underwear in everyday life is all about making a style statement, so bright colors and peppy design look cool.
• Things to know: Jocks are risqué for guys who have the slightest of doubts that they can't carry it off. It can be the cause of low confidence if a guy has stripped down to his jocks in front of a girl.

7. Thongs

A thong is a type of underwear which provides bikini-like coverage at the front but only has a thin strip of cloth at the back, leaving the buttocks exposed.

Thongs have not received mainstream popularity with men. Most guys like to avoid wearing a thong as a day to day underwear. Thongs are generally associated with a type of bikini or underwear women wear. There continues to be a social stigma attached to the concept of men wearing thongs.

Thong: Who should wear this type of underwear?

• Body type: There is really no benchmark when men wear thong underwear. It is a personal preference, and anyone can wear it.
• Style: Individualistic.
• Color: Thongs are an eccentric type of underwear for men. Guys who wish to try a thong really have no limits with color, fabric, or style.
• Things to know: Traditionally, men are not expected to wear thongs. Guys should be prepared to face a lot of jokes if they are caught wearing thongs by their school or college mates. An attempt to spice things up in the bedroom appears to be the only commonly accepted reason why a man would wear a thong.

8. Themed underwear

Themed underwear is men's innerwear that features prints of some of the most famous TV, cartoon, movie, and comic book characters. There are many options, including underwear with prints of Superman logo, Spider-Man webs, Mickey Mouse, Transformers, and Simpsons characters, among others.

Themed underwear comes in various shapes, sizes, colors, patterns, and prints. It is just not the geeks and the nerds who have a fancy for themed underwear. Couples who want to bring some fun and excitement in the bedroom also buy themed underwear.

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thongs for me everyday. wife likes them too

Per on November 04, 2017:

Thongs mostly for exercise and summer, mini briefs/bikinis for the rest of the time if it is not long john winter temperature.

Alden on July 25, 2017:

Low rise, bikini, or thongs for me.

Michael on June 23, 2017:

Full Rise briefs for me everyday of the week

Unknown on April 11, 2017:

...I am not sure about any other guy that might be reading this but for me I prefer thong underwear and I am straight

iguidenetwork from Austin, TX on June 03, 2013:

Very interesting topic... I haven't had any themed underwear yet but I'll buy some one of these days! :)

Charlotte Lenard from Oak Park, IL on April 19, 2013:

My husband would love this!

Derrick Bennett on April 19, 2013:

Very interesting topic. I'm more of a boxer shorts kinda guy.

Jimmy is from Scotland and has always had an interest in how different slang terms are used around the English-speaking world.

What They Call Underwear in Scotland

To make some extra money when I was a teenager, a very long time ago, I got myself a part-time job setting up stall and selling shoes in an open-air market. Every Saturday without fail I was there, in rain, hail or snow—I live in Scotland, and that is our typical weather.

To cut a long story short, the lady in the market stall next door sold ladies' underwear. To attract customers to her wares, every few minutes she would scream at the top of her lungs, "Knickers down today ladies!" Women and especially men would stop dead in their tracks and look around to see what was going on until the lady stall followed up with "All ladies' knickers half price today! Three pairs for a knicker." A knicker is a slang term for £1.00.

When I remember this, I starting wondering about how we all wear underwear on a daily basis, but all have different names for what we wear beneath our regular clothes.

Alternative Words for a Bra

• Dumpling Holders
• Booby Blankets
• Honker Hankies
• Titty Tamers
• Titty Tents
• Breast Bags

Slang Terms for a Lady's Bra

Most women would tell you that their bra is an essential part of their wardrobe, so much so that a staggering 83% of women would not leave the home without wearing one.

There are many nicknames for the faithful brassiere—some rude, some crude and some that are just downright funny.

A family friend who was breastfeeding her son came up with the name "Tupperware," for her feeding bra. When I asked her why, she replied, "Well, you open it up and the food comes out!"

Alternative Names for Ladies' Knickers

Slang Names for Ladies Knickers

There are many different types of ladies' knickers, and of course, they are also called by many different names such as briefs or panties. When the imagination is allowed to run wild, however, ladies' knickers become a thing of mythical legend with some wonderfully weird names.

Alternative Names For Male Underwear

Top 10 Funny Names for Male Underwear

1. Banana Hammock
2. Grape Smugglers
3. Ball Bags
4. Wiener Basket
5. Nut Huts
6. Budgie Smugglers
7. Snake Suppressors
8. Manhole Covers
9. Pecker Packer
10. Junk Trunks

Slang Term for Men's Underwear

Are you a boxers or a briefs types of guy? As with the ladies, there are many different types of men's underwear. In a recent survey, it was found that Australian men have over 80 different names for their underpants.

After Michael Hirschey gave Erik Kurtis Low a wedgie on May 8, 2003, Low fatally shot him. The prosecutor for the case said in his closing arguments “Receiving a wedgie is not a reason to kill somebody.”

How Do You Refer to Your Underwear?

These are the words that I've heard people use to refer to their underwear. However, if know of any that I've missed, please share your funny underwear names in the comments below—let's keep the list growing!

© 2013 Jimmy the jock

Comments

Clive Cussler on August 01, 2020:

I never understood...drawers??

Ace Ha on May 21, 2018:

Male underwear are called "skivs" around here!

Cheryl Fay Mikesell from Mondovi, WI on September 23, 2014:

How funny! Good one.

Hypnotherapist-uk from London, England on June 06, 2014:

At my uni they were referred to as under-crackers. Don't ask me why.

Escobana from Valencia on March 15, 2013:

Funny Hub Jimmy! And the Passion Killer seems to go both ways.

Whenever a guy strips and wears a ´tent´ my date has officially ended there and then. The truth is....my mother taught me to wear the biggest Sloggie you can get and I never changed that until I turned 32!

I´m turning 40 this year and boy oh boy....did I learn from my mistakes:-)

Up, funny and shared!

இڿڰۣ-- кιмвєяℓєу from Niagara Region, Canada on February 11, 2013:

I don't know if they say this just in Canada, but I've heard the term "gitch" or "gitchy yaw-yaw's".

Jimmy the jock (author) from Scotland on February 08, 2013:

Thanks for your coments Guys, I forgot about the German one lol, I also forgot, about the German name for mens Pants Ein Dickenhammocker

CarNoobz from USA on February 08, 2013:

@ rfmoran LOL Das ist GOOT! Goot one! Yah! lol

CarNoobz from USA on February 08, 2013:

Well that was....uh...interesting. lol I've never heard most of those (now I feel like I've been missing out).

My favorite: banana hammock. That's a keeper.

Lela from Somewhere near the heart of Texas on February 08, 2013:

Funny! I had heard of about half of these names. Keeping us informed of what to call our underwear is a serious job. Keep up the good work!

Russ Moran - The Write Stuff from Long Island, New York on February 08, 2013:

I recall the German word for a bra: schtopsdefloppin.

Jimmy the jock (author) from Scotland on February 07, 2013:

pstraubie48 thankyou for your visit and comment, depending on the size it can also be called an over the shoulder pebble holder lol.....jimmy

Patricia Scott from North Central Florida on February 07, 2013:

Fun to read...over the shoulder boulder holder I use sometimes...got that from the movie Beaches. a clever and humorous read.

thanks for the smile

Sending Angels your way :) ps

Jimmy the jock (author) from Scotland on February 07, 2013:

Thanks Linda, I really had fun writing this one.....jimmy

Linda Bilyeu from Orlando, FL on February 07, 2013:

Boomer-rang or slingshot for a bra. Some of those bras are huge and they could be used as weapons!!

Budgie Smugglers...Australian swimwear, similar to Speedos. Not much left to the imagination. Haha!

Fun hub!!

I enjoy writing articles that help women feel more comfortable in their own skin and clothing.

In a way, I think bra problems are like bowel movement issues. They happen to many of us, but we don't talk about them that much. A lot of women endure their bra discomfort in silence, while some others simply dump their troublesome bras into a wastebasket and visit Victoria's Secret several times a year.

Some bra problems can easily be rectified with little tricks and devices. There's no need for you to put up with the dissatisfaction of, or spend a fortune on these undergarments. Before making an attempt to fix your ill-fitting bra, however, ask yourself whether it's possible that your bra might have reached the end of its usability. If the answer is yes, there is no point trying to modify it. Also, ask yourself whether the discomfort is caused by the bra or your own body changes. If you have experienced substantial weight gain or weight loss, don't go through all the fuss, it's usually better to just buy new bras.

1. Your Bra Straps Keep Falling Down

This isn't just a matter of discomfort but also style cramping, especially if your bra straps are all well-worn and discolored. Bra straps have an expiration date, you know. Sometimes the band and cups might still fit perfectly well, but the straps themselves are awfully stretched out and look about a century old. Plus, having to pull the straps up every half an hour could almost drive you insane. To avoid this strap mishap, try these two simple tricks.

• Use a strap connector (aka "strap holder") to link your straps together in the back and pull them as far inward as necessary. This will form a racerback or a Y shape, which not only keeps your straps from slipping, but also prevents them from peeking through a blouse with a narrow back.
• Apply some clothing double-sided tape between the straps and your shirt fabric. This bra strap solution works quite well most of the time. If your daily activities involve a lot of vigorous arm movements, however, this trick might not be as effective as it normally is.

2. Your Bra Feels a Little Too Tight

This bra problem actually happens to some women once a month, either during their period or PMS. Your fluctuating hormones can cause your breasts to swell, and your favorite bra can suddenly become a little too snugly. Another typical culprit in this bra crime is, of course, weight gain. Your breasts, which consist of mostly fat, tend to proportionately expand along with the rest of your body as you add on extra pounds.

As I mentioned earlier, if your weight gain is quite substantial, it's wiser to just switch to larger bras. Adjusting the band size alone won't suffice; your breasts will still be suffocated under the undersized cups. If you have gained some extra thickness around the rib cage but the volume of your breasts has not changed much, however, bra extenders are an easy and affordable solution. No sewing is required. They simply attach to the hooks of your bra and can lengthen your band by up to two inches.

3. Your Underwires Are Digging Into Your Skin or Poking Your Underarms

Underwires are small pieces of metal, sewn under the cups to help lift and shape the breasts. They are supposed to make our busts look nicer, so to speak. Sometimes, these underwires can cause women such immense irritation and even pain. They can cut into the underside of your breasts, lay awkwardly against your rib cage or keep poking your underarms. There are generally three explanations for this:

• Your band size might be too small. In this case, you can conveniently modify it with the help of a band extender.
• Maybe the shape of the wires simply doesn't fit the natural form of your breasts and rib cage. The best thing to do is give your underwires a little bend and carefully adjust them until they contour to your bust more nicely. (This is the one and only scenario where I would advise you to alter the underwires of your bra. Otherwise, don't mess with them!)
• You may need to opt for a bigger cup size. If this is the case, there's not much you can do about it, except shopping for new bras.

© 2012 Om Paramapoonya

Comments

Om Paramapoonya (author) on April 23, 2013:

@patim - Thanks for dropping by, Junie :)

patim on April 22, 2013:

Ommy,

I haven't read your hub for a while and foud out this one is interesting indeed, very useful:)

Om Paramapoonya (author) on January 10, 2013:

@Peggy W - You're very welcome, Peggy. You're right; I think finding a perfect bra is oftentimes a much bigger challenge than finding a perfect pair of shoes or jeans!

Peggy Woods from Houston, Texas on January 08, 2013:

Interesting subject that literally affects so many of us in various ways. Getting a comfortable bra that truly fits well and does what it is intended to do is always a challenge. Thanks for the tips!

Om Paramapoonya (author) on January 08, 2013:

@laylafaith - You're welcome. Glad you find these bra tips helpful :)

Om Paramapoonya (author) on December 29, 2012:

@Emma Harvey - Glad you found these bra tips helpful, Emma! Thanks for dropping by. :)

Emma Kisby from Berkshire, UK on December 28, 2012:

Love these tips. I hadn't considered my bra was a little tight during my period, but it makes sense. I may try out the extenders - thanks! Voting up and useful.

Om Paramapoonya (author) on December 16, 2012:

@lindacee - I thought I was weird to have some sort of emotional attachment to my favorite bras! Now you just made me feel a little better (or a little less weird). lol Thanks a lot for dropping by, Linda. So glad to see you :)

Linda Chechar from Arizona on December 16, 2012:

These are such great tips, Om! It will save a few of my old favorites. Isn't it funny how we become attached to certain bras. lol!

Om Paramapoonya (author) on December 14, 2012:

@Kulsum Mehmood - You're welcome :)

@FullOfLoveSites - That's great! Glad you found these tips helpful :)

FullOfLoveSites from United States on December 14, 2012:

Thanks for sharing your solutions for bra wearing problems. I often have the #1 problem so I think I found the answer. Thank you.

Dr Kulsum Mehmood from Nagpur, India on December 13, 2012:

Thanks for sharing the ideas.

Om Paramapoonya (author) on December 13, 2012:

@moonlake - I've never tried using a rolled cloth, but yeah, it sounds like it could work. Thanks a lot for sharing your tips, moonlake.

@akirchner - Ouch! Sounds like your "old lady" soccer games got a little rough sometimes. Some sports bras actually offer nice extra padding, but I'm sure washcloths (or towels...or comforters! LOL) work just fine, too. Thanks for dropping by and sharing your story!

Audrey Kirchner from Washington on December 13, 2012:

Great ideas, Om--gotta love the bra bulge--yikes. I always wanted bigger boobs when I was younger--flat as a pancake--now I joke that since my kids, breastfeeding and "middle age" I need to go to the 36 "long" section to find my bras. Sad but true. I will have to try some of these tips. I like the racerback idea--a decade or so back when I was playing old lady soccer, I took a few hits to the boobs--not pleasant--so I started putting washcloths inside my sports bra--I said I was going to work up to bath towels but retired before I got to that high cup number~ In all seriousness....great info!

moonlake from America on December 12, 2012:

I wear underwire and I have found if you place a rolled cloth (soft cotton or flannel) about the size of a washcloth under your underwire and tuck it in. The underwire feels better and it can't be seen. Adjust strapes. This also lifts and makes a person look better. Enjoyed your hub voted up.

Jimmy is Scottish and has a dry wit, which some may find difficult to appreciate. He enjoys educating others with his various grooming tips.

When Should I Change My Underwear?

How often should I change my boxers, briefs or Y-fronts?

There are several schools of thought on this age-old question. Some people say that you should change them once a day, others say that you should change them twice a day.

Then there are those who argue that you should change your underpants four or five times a day as the need arises. And then there are those strange people who think that you should change them at least once a year, whether you need to or not.

How often you change your underpants is entirely up to you. It is a private and personal matter between you and your extremities. But this article might help you decide that a little better.

Changing Your Underpants Once a Day

If you are one of those people who change their underpants once a day, when exactly should that once a day be? Should it be:

• when you get out of bed in the morning?
• when you go to bed at night?
• at some point in between?

Deciding when that once a day should happen is the most difficult part. If you put clean underpants on first thing after you get out of bed, you have whole day ahead of you. Through work, rest, and play, you will be wearing the same knickers. You will sweat in them, you will have to use the toilet at some point, and you might get dribbles of urine in them—or even worse, skid marks if you are not a good wiper.

You will possibly or probably expel a little wind from the rear end—or to us common folks: "fart"—when you are wearing your daily pair of briefs.

Then you go home and either have a bath or a shower. When you are clean, do you put back on those underpants that you wore all day? Kind of defeats the purpose of washing yourself, doesn't it.

Then you wear them overnight in bed, where again, you will sweat. You might even—if you have an erotic dream—get some other body fluids on them. Thank goodness you will be changing them again in the morning.

No matter when you put your daily ration of underpants on during the day, you will put them through the same routine, but maybe just in a different order.

Changing Your Underpants Twice a Day

If you are one of those people who change their underwear twice a day, then you are slightly more in touch with your personal hygiene than those who only change once.

You get up in the morning and put on a clean pair. After your daily routine, you go home and have a shower or bath, and you put another clean pair on.

Of course, you face the same routine as the once-a-day guy. The only difference really being that you have more underwear in your laundry basket at the end of the week than he has.

It may really sound more hygienic, and it probably is to a point. Because through your daily routine, you are wearing the same underwear for 12 hours at a time. And 12 hours is a long time in the life of the underpant. Stains and smells have plenty of time to gather and have a little party together. At least they were clean when you put them on.

The Multiple Underwear Changer

There are some guys who take changing their underwear to the extreme. You will find these guys paying a visit to the toilet or changing room several times a day.

These guys have a problem and need psychiatric help. When he pees, he changes them; when he poops, he changes them; and when he farts, he changes them. The sad fact is that this guy would change his underwear every hour on the hour if it was possible.

It may be perfect hygiene for your extremities, but think about all of that dirty and soiled underwear that you are carrying around with you throughout your daily routine. Maybe you have more money then sense and can afford to throw your hardly worn underwear in the bin every time you change them.

Changing Your Underpants Once a Year

If you are one of those guys who think that changing your underpants once a year on your birthday whether they need changing or not, then I have to tell you some bad news.

You stink, man.

Though you probably don't care what I or anyone else thinks about your chronic hygiene habits, and you probably don't really care about anything.

You are the guy that everyone crosses the road to avoid. They smell you about 20 minutes before they see you. And when they see you, they notice that you have a funny walk.

You only walk funny because your underwear has so many stains, fluids and feces stuck to them that they are as stiff as a board.

You are the guy who has a good sniff at the laundry basket to see which clothes have the least pungent smell when you are going out on the town.

What Are Underpants?: Going Commando

To avoid any hygiene problems with underpants, there is a simple solution: don't wear them.

Going commando means there is no need whatsoever to worry about when to change your underwear. After all, if you don't wear any, there is nothing to change.

It also cuts down on your laundry, and you save money by not spending any on underwear.

© 2012 Jimmy the jock

Comments

Vijay on September 01, 2018:

It actually depends on the weather, and availability of water. In Delhi, where the weather can get extremely hot during summer, I change it daily. In Bengaluru, where weather is milder, I change it every alternate days. But in places where weather is extremely hot, but water is scarce, I change it every alternate days (cant help).

Ireno Alcala from Bicol, Philippines on March 17, 2017:

I thought I commented on this hub already. Hahaha! Who needs to change anyway, when you don't have any. Just kidding. Very informative article, Sir James. Shared this already.

Thelma Alberts from Germany on March 07, 2017:

Very funny Jimmy! Why I have missed this one? You cracked me down. My mother used to say, "you have to wear your best and clean underwear before you go out of the house shopping or so just in case you collapse on the street and people can see your panty.". Well done! I loved this hub.

Shauna L Bowling from Central Florida on August 26, 2014:

Jimmy, you're too funny! Personally, I don't see any point in wearing underwear unless I'm going out in public and my pants are creeping up my crack. Saves on laundry!

You're little sidebar about farts reminds me of when I was little. My brother and I called farts blow-blows. I said they were brown. He said they were grey. Don't ask me why. Perhaps because he's color blind. And why we assigned colors to something you can't see is beyond me. Oh, the wonders of children's imaginations!

Raimer Gel on August 25, 2014:

Just ensure that you change it at least once a day. Anything beyond that does not matter at all.

Tanya Jones from Texas USA on August 24, 2014:

This rates right up there with a day-time show I watched a while ago. The segment was a demonstration on how to properly put on ones grundies. I was very relieved that they did an over the slacks demo. Gave me a chuckle to see the title. Then there was the Wallander novel in which he was so depressed over his divorce he hadn't changed his grundies in days. Put me off for a while but I finally went back to the series.

Barbara Tremblay Cipak from Toronto, Canada on August 24, 2014:

thanks for the laugh! I want to know who googles this phrase and why; lol, maybe for party night and a game of trivial pursuit, perhaps to settle an argument about how often most people do this - (I think your poll pie chart settles it!), or to have your page 'accidentally' left open on someone's desktop as a 'hint'

Susan Zutautas from Ontario, Canada on August 23, 2014:

When you fart, small poop particles are scattered into the air and that is what other people are smelling. You crack me up. LOL!!!

Raimer Gel on July 10, 2014:

Change it at least once a day. Just think of the people around you.

cheyenneRogers on April 19, 2014:

well i change my undies every single chance that i get so i can go to bed nice and clean not smelly and dirty

Kenneth C Agudo from Tiwi, Philippines on April 03, 2013:

I always take a bath everyday, so i change my underwear once a day, it's hygiene .

JanMaklak from Canada on February 09, 2013:

I was always told to change my underwear before they became ripe. Well believe me there is nothing ripe about old underwear. They seem to go from freshly picked to rotten without any ripe point in between!

Natalie Maureen from Florida, USA on February 06, 2013:

Its awkward but honest speaking, I often doesn't wear my underwear.

Marco Piazzalunga from Presezzo, Italy on January 29, 2013:

ok, but you forgot that huge chunk of the world population that changes its slip every two days, not to mention that other slice who changes every 3 days. What about that other big slice of that change them every 4 days?

Ireno Alcala from Bicol, Philippines on January 13, 2013:

I like going commando, too! Saves money all the time. LOL!!! Thanks, Jimmy!

ChrisStyles from USA on November 20, 2012:

Very funny hub. Lol @ going commando to save money.

James Timothy Peters from Hammond, Indiana on November 19, 2012:

This is an AWESOME HUB once again from the "Great Jimmy the Jock".

Dude, you rock!

I thought this was VERY funny, but at the sametime beautiful and useful as well.

Thumbs Up & More !!!

Write On!!!

Alecia Murphy from Wilmington, North Carolina on November 18, 2012:

I heard of at least one celebrity who changes underwear several times a day. And while I understand the need for cleanliness you should really just make sure your bottom's clean instead of changing undies. It's like pulling a weed from the top and not the root. Funny hub!

Jimmy the jock (author) from Scotland on November 04, 2012:

Thanks for visiting and commenting folks, I would tell you how often I change my underwear but I don't wear any. You have to remember that I am a true Scotsman lol.....jimmy

elle64 from Scandinavia on November 03, 2012:

We all wear them ,and we do not seem to talk about them, funny hub.

Cathy from Oregon, USA on October 31, 2012:

Funny! I haven't been to HP for months...and months (I know, shame on me) but popped in today and found your hub Jimmy. Thanks for the smile! Yes, I agree, it had to be written, ha!

Susan Zutautas from Ontario, Canada on October 31, 2012:

When I saw you wrote this yesterday I knew it would be funny. How could it not be funny.

Penelope Hart from Rome, Italy on October 31, 2012:

Ha ha ha! Riotous topic Knickers!!!!. This one will go on and on and on. Voting funny (first time in a year)

Stephanie Marshall from Bend, Oregon on October 31, 2012:

LOL! This is great, Jimmy! Ewwww on the fart info. At first, I was wondering whether it might be a helpful guide for my teenaged sons. I think they try to avoid doing their own laundry in this way.... hahaha!

Russ Moran - The Write Stuff from Long Island, New York on October 31, 2012:

A hub that had to be written! I'm reminded of the tinpot dictator in Woody Allen's movie Bananas who declared that all citizens would be required to change underwear twice a day, and that they must wear them on the outside so the authorities can check. For me it's easy. Every time we change the clocks for daylight saving or standard time is a reminder for me to change my skivvies. Voted up and funny!

Lela from Somewhere near the heart of Texas on October 31, 2012:

I wonder how frequently the Mormons change their 'special' underwear. Do they get it blessed all at once? or do they have to go to temple every time they need a change? What happens to the magic drawers when they wear out? Do they have to burn them or return them to the church? I just can't figure these things out. I also wonder why I care.

lovedoctor926 on October 30, 2012:

Voted up funny!! "Did you know that when you fart, small poop particles are scattered into the air and that is what other people are smelling?" When I get up in the morning, the first thing that I do after brushing my teeth is jump in the shower. So that is one time and if I go to the gym, then that makes two. If I don't shower at the gym, then I shower when I get home again before going to bed. So twice a day for me. This was a very interesting topic with a lot of truth. Lol @ sunshine comment.

Dan Harmon from Boise, Idaho on October 30, 2012:

I'm sorry, Jimmy, but didn't your mother teach you anything? You absolutely must have clean underwear on in case you get in a car accident so as to not embarrass her when you go to the hospital.

This means a change whenever you get in the car. No car - no change needed. A drive to work, to McDonalds at noon and home in the evening means at least 3 pair - 4 is safer although a little tough to do if you just go through the drive thru at MacDonalds.

Angela Michelle Schultz from United States on October 30, 2012:

You may save money on underwear, by going commando, but my guess is your pants don't last as long. Plus doesn't that cause chaffing?

Linda Bilyeu from Orlando, FL on October 30, 2012:

Who would have thought this hub just might be needed by the peeps who only change once a year! Ewww!

Jaye Denman from Deep South, USA on October 30, 2012:

Looks as though this hub was targeted toward men, but I laughed myself silly all the same (though I didn't vote in the poll).

Voted Up and Funny

Nell Rose from England on October 30, 2012:

Hi jimmy, yes I know, my curiosity got the better of me and I had to be the first one to read! I am also that person who sneaks around in peoples cupboards when they are making me coffee! haha! love the once a year one, how yuck is that? funny stuff, nell

Candace has a broad range of interests that keep her head filled with strange facts, such as experimental cooking, games, and mad science.

If you ask women what their most uncomfortable item of clothing is, the majority would say their bra. Bras can hurt the back, ribs, and neck, chafe the skin, and can even cause the cartilage of the ribcage to become inflamed. Still, most women feel better with some support and prefer the shaping a bra gives.

But there are ways to get the support without the discomfort. Here are some bra fix-ups and hijacks, with tips for how to get the look of a bra without wearing anything underneath your top. Below, you'll find

• things you can wear instead of traditional bras
• tips for making bras pain-free, and
• ways to go braless more comfortably (including how to wrap your breasts, instead).

Being comfortable and feeling good about your appearance can happen at the same time: there are lots of options and alternatives. Stop living in bra-induced discomfort. Find a more comfortable way to support yourself!

What to Wear Instead of a Bra

Bras With No Underwire

For some people, the problem with bras is the underwire. As you move, it can poke and dig into your sides. . . a bra without underwire can be a lot more comfortable but still offer good support. Typically, the thin, skimpy ones aren't as supportive or comfortable as the fuller ones made with lots of material. Look for no-underwire bras with comfortable material around the bottom, as elastic can dig into your torso as much as underwire can. Bras with wider bands around the bottom are usually more comfortable.

Sports Bras

Sports bras offer plenty of support, without underwires. They're typically made of stretchy material that will "give" as you move rather than digging into your sides. Some even have those thinner spaghetti straps (like regular bras).

The drawback of sports bras is that they aren't the most attractive of undergarments, especially underneath fitted or dressy clothes. With most, the flattening uniboob phenomenon usually happens, and most aren't very sleek under clothes, but there are sports bras that offer comfortable support with a bit more shape.

For the most comfort, look for ones with separate cups or stitching down the middle to separate the breasts more (and give them air!) and those with wider bands around the bottom, since thin bands tend to dig and chafe.

Camisoles and Tank Tops

Camis and tank tops may be the best choice if having anything tight around your ribs irritates you. Camisoles come with or without built-in shelf bras. The tighter the tank top or cami is, the more support and less sagging there will be. Nylon or spandex material offer the most support.

The drawbacks of wearing a cami are that it can get hot and steamy in summer, since it adds an extra layer of fabric over your torso. If you are wearing bottoms with a waist that fits low on your hips, the cami can come untucked and be annoying. And unless it is really stretchy and tight, that cami still won't have the shaping-and-lifting effect of a bra.

But it is a better choice than a bra for a lot of women. Especially if you are smaller-chested, it may be the way to go.

Tube Bras

Tube bras give support and coverage without any wires or straps that dig or poke.

They are basically like short tube tops—just a tube of material made to fit around your chest area. Since there are no straps, they can be a good choice for some dressy tops.

The downside to tube bras is that they are more prone to shifting because there isn't much to hold them up.

If you have sensitive ribs, the bands are likely to aggravate. Look for wide bands, which are usually more comfortable than narrow bands that dig into your sides.

Corsets and Torsolettes

There are tons of comfortable corset options that provide support and give the lifted look of a bra without the discomfort. Torsolettes and bustier bras are similar to corsets but look less fancy and more like regular, day-to-day undergarments.

Corsets (and other similar garments) may be the best option for going under dressier clothes, since they offer more support and shaping than the other bra alternatives. And, since the support is spread over the whole torso, they can be more comfortable than bras that depend on digging underwires or pinching elastic. (Read 10 Ways to Wear a Dress Without a Bra for more ideas.)

Some corsets can even be worn as tops without anything over them, alone or under a jacket or sweater.

The best thing to do is to try on all the options. Some corsets and bustiers are built for looks and not comfort and can be painful, especially if they are built really tight or with boning. But some are very flexible and move with you, with adjustable ribbons to loosen and tighten as needed.

Nipple Covers

Nipple covers (aka breast petals or pasties) can keep your nipples from showing through form-fitted or transparent clothing. It's a way to go braless without being completely exposed.

You may have to shop around to find a kind that fits you well, matches your skin color (if necessary), and that looks right under clothing. There are a wide variety of types; some are round, and others are shaped. There are even reusable ones available for people who wear them frequently.

Most people find nipple covers to be really comfortable. They don't provide any support or lifting, but they will offer a layer in between your skin and your clothing to prevent chafing and make it less obvious that you aren't wearing a bra.

How to Avoid Bra Pain

• Get Properly Sized

  If you have never been sized for a bra by a professional, it's time. If your bras hurt, it's likely that your true size is actually different than what you think it is. Getting the right size is the first step to avoiding discomfort. See How to Find Your Real Bra Size for pro tips on measuring properly.

• Use a Bra Back Extender

  Sometimes the problem is simply that the bra fits too tight around your torso. If this is your problem, a bra extender might be the solution. If your bra is the right cup size but the band is too small around your ribcage, simply clip a back extender onto the hooks to make the bra less tight and add a few inches to the band. Extenders come in multiple hook styles and in most standard bra colors. To learn more ways to customize your bra, read How to Make Your Bra Comfortable With Simple Modifications.)

• Make Your Own Custom Bra

  It never occurs to most women to make their own bra, but making a custom bra could be the solution for those who can't find one that fits comfortably. There are many bra sewing patterns available online or in fabric stores. If you know how to sew, making a bra is a relatively easy project... and if you don't know how to sew, ask a friend or an alterations shop to make one for you.

• Wrap You Chest Instead of Wearing a Bra

  In many cultures, before bras were invented, women would wrap cloth around their chest for support, among other reasons. In Japan, chest wrapping was customarily worn under kimonos, and wrapping has gained a resurgence in recent years because of its use by female anime characters, many of whom are samurai or other types of fighters.

How to Wrap Your Chest

Do not use ace bandages or other overly constrictive material that might cut off circulation and cause blood clots, broken ribs, breathing problems, and other dangers.

Normal, non-constrictive cloth will work. In Japan, chest wrapping is done with a special, extra-thin supportive cloth called a "sarashi." Most sarashi available today are about a foot wide by 10-15 feet long.

Basically you wind the cloth around you like a mummy. Be careful not to get it too tight: You don't want it to impede your breath or blood flow. Like any other type of chest support, you shouldn't wear it all the time to give your body a chance to relax.

Chest wrapping isn't always the best choice. It can look strange under any tightly-fitted clothes because it can be a bit bulky. It also gives a flatter look to the chest. But there are times when it might be the right choice, for example if you can't wear sports bras.

Bra Poll

Is It Necessary to Wear a Bra?

You may you may feel more vulnerable without anything to cover you up, and you'll feel the breeze and chill more, but being without a bra can also feel freeing. You may feel more exposed to the world, but you will eventually get more used to it the more you go without a bra.

Best Shirts and Blouses for Going Without a Bra

If bras annoy you, it will be worth the time it takes to find tops that look good without a bra. Although you might want to avoid white and other light-colored and see-through materials if you aren't wearing anything underneath, and solid colored and form-fitting shirts will make the lack of a bra more noticeable. But under a loose, baggy shirt or a floral or other busy print top, it won't be as obvious.

Reasons Not to Wear a Bra

• Studies have not found any benefit to wearing bras other than for appearance and comfort while moving.
• Going without a bra does not lead to saggier breasts later in life: gravity alone is responsible for that.
• The natural look of the breasts isn't anything to be ashamed of. Our society is just used to only seeing breasts that are shaped and lifted by bras. It is like shaving the legs: There is nothing wrong with hairy legs on women, it is just a beauty trend to prefer them smooth.

So feel free to go braless, but be aware that this may not be deemed "attractive" according to mainstream standards.

Bra Poll

Comments

dana on June 12, 2020:

whin my bra straps hurt me i use a pad on the sholders

Roberta L Melton on May 10, 2020:

I am going to have to try the UniQlo Cami tank. Years ago I had major surgery which impacted my ribs. Over the years I have struggled to find bras that do not irritate my scars or ribs. Full body shape wear has been the most comfortable, but tends to be very warm.

Patricia Bailey on April 16, 2020:

I have never work an underwire bra in my life and I am 78 but still need one. I think I have a high rib cage or something. Even a small meal makes my bra too tight. I do need some some coverage and lift. Even the stretchy bras get too tight and makes me sweat under my boobs. Help!

bonnie mc lafferty on June 15, 2019:

totally allergic to latex/spandex ; causes blisters cannot find a suitable substitute and am not small chested

DijanaMarie on May 19, 2019:

I prefer to wear soft tank tops under my clothes.

There are tanks that don’t ride up too called NO YANK TANK at Duluth Trading Company in Duluth Minnesota . Cool

Sammy on April 29, 2019:

Im thinking of making my own bras out of those 1.68 walmart tanks, with a few well placed cuts, possibly a few stiches, it seems easy to make a tank bra with lower wrap tie for support.

Kohagura on March 24, 2019:

I've been wearing a Cami-tank top with a built-in padding from UniQlo for years, and since then could never wear any of my regular bras again, even the regular bras that I once thought were more comfortable than average bras, are not longer comfortable.

I am now so used to the loose fit and smooth back feel of the cami, it feels almost like wearing nothing, I can even sleep with it and not even think about it because it's not squeezing around my ribs at all, but still offers lift and padding to the boobs.

Also because it looks just like a tank top, it can be worn by itself in summer and therefore even better for summer than a regular bra + shirt.

anonymous on March 12, 2019:

alina murphy:

I'm so sorry to hear that, hope you are feeling better.

I'm not in any sort of situation similar to yours, but perhaps you could try attaching cooling pads to the burned area underneath the bra? I'm sorry if it's a dumb suggestion. otherwise, if you can't come up with anything, just rock who you are! it doesn't matter what your chest looks like for a few days/weeks while you are healing. just embrace the fact that you survived both cancer and this accident, and if no one else, I support you the whole way :)

Alina Murphy on March 07, 2019:

I have quite a predicament and i'm wondering if theres anyone out there in the same spot! i was in an accident and 15 percent of my body was badly burned (right around my torso where a bra goes) In addition to this i am a cancer survivor and have only one breast. I need a bra in order to wear the pad that makes them appear equal. But the burn makes the bra HURT like hell. If anyone has any suggestions, please help!

AlyssaEW on January 16, 2019:

I have been having bra issues for as long as i can remember having breasts. As a kid i hit puperty very early. I have a very thin and small body but bigger breasts. The biggest cup size i have is a DD and it absolutely kills me.

PaulaPlaytex on August 22, 2018:

My Male 46B/46C Breasts hurt when I don't wear my Bras.

Benny01 on July 18, 2018:

You are right, bra is one thing i wish not to wear on a daily basis. i always feel uncomfortable wearing it. But i will have to try nipple cover because it seems to be easier to wear and maybe more comfortable.

sherrie on June 02, 2018:

It all plays on the stupidity of the public, they think. Never never put polyester or underwire on. check it out. They tell you not to wear silk. Silk will have you in seventh heaven 24 hours a day. You must breath. You might have to do a wrap or make something, but it's way better than nothing.. Linen is almost as good. We have to start thinking for ourselves. This is ridiculous. Noone should be that uncomfortable.

Serena on January 01, 2018:

I recently stopped wearing bras. Like many they irritate squeeze my rib cage. I get cheap 2 dollar tank tops with spaghetti straps a size smaller. The nice thing is that during hot weather I can wear just the tank top

Brafree on November 08, 2017:

I have not worn a bra in 38 years. Not to work , church, socal events ....never. my only down side is that I have very large areolas and on the dark side. Sometime , depending on my top, THEY show thru a little. And thats ok with me, cause I have been ask out a few times because of that...lol.

janet on October 16, 2017:

haven't worn a bra in 3 years. put one on for two 10 hour days. in pain for two days now as my chest feels like someone beat me with a stick around my ribs. Wont be doing this again anymore. pasties, or something.. anything is better then a bra

melly on May 24, 2017:

Plus size and hot flashes. I want a cami with some boob coverage and will let my body breathe.

KKoontz on March 07, 2017:

I always have had trouble wearing a bra since a teenage. I wore cotton bras, wire bras, wire free bras, lace bras, then Doctor told me to do into sport bras which I've been wearing since 1992. Now I can't even wear sport bras as they hurt me, breasts hurts, I'm very petite don't have much fat around my ribs and the pain I am suffering wear any bras as it feels like rubber bands around my ribs or someone squeezing me. Not to mention how extremely fire red under my breasts. I don't wear any now because of this only when I go out then it is nightmare for me to get into sport bras even stepping in as my left hand don't bend well as my right hand. I just purchase camisole tanktop w/build she'll bras. I was doing fine with them, but now have the extremely fired red rash under my breasts and pain again around my ribs. I was a34B, but lose so much weight around my rib (don't have the body fat). Thinking this is the main cause of any types of bras I wear. I have wore 30B, 32A, 32B, 32C, 34B, and 36 all hurt so bad that I just rip them off. I'm open for suggestion on what I can do I'm doing exercises now that will firm and lift your breast and also make them smaller. This is where 30 & 32 comes into play now. Only problem with the camisole tank top when it gets warmer out you are going to be hot in them.

Marilyn on October 27, 2016:

Another option not mentioned that I will be trying (because of a painful bout of shingles in the under breast area) is a silicone stick on type bra. Am also interested in wrapping, and had actually considered it, but couldn't find any large enough and soft material to use in my home.

Beth on August 24, 2016:

I am allergic to bras have dermatitis ,can't find a bra that's is comfy and doesn't break me out in a rash,anyone else got the same problem

LupaLuna on August 07, 2016:

I am a 44 G/H. I have a pinched nerve in my neck and my shoulder. Wearing a bra is excruciatingly painful period but going without one and when I'm out in public is not an option. As it is at home it is a tremendous burden to not be wearing a bra. I have burned myself twice on the stove. I have bruised myself and done actual physical damage to my breast because they are hanging down on my belly. They get bumped and banged all the time. I need a breast augmentation reducing their size desperately.

indy on July 28, 2016:

I have COPD and find bras really effect my breathing these days, but a Yoga bras do much better. Can put them on over my head, they are not as tight around my chest and they have plenty of support. I get mine a Penneys and it is way cheaper than the VS ones I use to wear !!!!!!

just me on May 31, 2016:

I have horrific skin breakdown under my breasts. I have to wash my bras when I get home because I'm bleeding from just under the arm pit all the way around front....both sides. I just ordered 3 camis with a shelf bra inside. I'm large breasted, and a very modest dresser. So I'm very hopeful that this will be "enough" support for me to get away with. Thanks for all the help!

Amou Bird on April 20, 2016:

I don't mind wearing a bra, but sometimes it really digs into my ribs and also hurt my stomach. Some of these ideas are really handy!

alabaster on April 18, 2016:

I'm small chested, so I go without a bra most of the time. When I feel like I really need something due to the top I'm wearing, I like wearing a wool sports bra (Icebreaker Siren, especially, but others from Icebreaker and Smartwool are good).

Cindy on April 06, 2016:

Women with thoracic back pain can't wear bras due to the pain. I wish nice lightweight vests would come back in style.

Alison on December 23, 2015:

Nipple covers - best invention ever, though they tend to sweat off in hot weather. I've been fitted for bras, but just can't stand them. Being small-breasted the bandeaus and tubes flatten what I've got. I look for shirts with pockets, patterned tops, tops with detail such as stitching, tucks, gathers...there's such a market for clothes that look fine without a bra - why isn't someone tapping it? I like the idea of the soft cups sewn into the clothing though it might look odd with loose tops when you bend eg!

If men felt they needed underwired underpants - but no, they're not such fashion victims as we are.

Kim on November 30, 2015:

I suppose I should say I'm lucky in that I've never really had a set to worry about, but with time, even they will sag. I need support to look my best, but I have very sensitive ribs, and will go out of my way to remove even a shelf-bra cami at the end of the day. I once even pulled out my spare set of socks at work to tuck under the band and soften the blow. Here's wishing someone could come up with some wireless support that is as soft on the rib cage as a sock.

Kristen Howe from Northeast Ohio on May 12, 2015:

Great hub, Candace. I tend to have issues with my bras and wouldn't mind doing the strapless or tube versions. Voted up for useful!

aboywithgirls on May 02, 2015:

As my name eludes to, I am a man with rather large breasts, even by female standards. I wear a bra every day. Most of my bras are a 38G. I have been wearing a bra since I was a teenager. I don't feel comfortable going bra less because of my size. I know that there are a lot of women who hate to wear a bra. I am very particular about the fit of my bras. Maybe the women who are so uncomfortable need to wear a different size. Since I was professionally fitted, I love my bras.

faith on March 26, 2015:

what about the women that kind stand all that elastic

Asami on January 28, 2015:

Sports bras are fairly wearable, and I'll wear push-ups if it's only for a few hours and I have a low-cut top. When the weather is good enough, I wear (not too tight) corsets or just dresses that give some support (empire waist is the best thing ever).

Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on August 12, 2014:

Crossdressersyd - Sounds like you have an untapped market for a product.

crossdressersyd on August 04, 2014:

Why can't someone design women's bra's to fit men with out losing any of its style and still look like a sexy bra

Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on July 22, 2014:

Renu - It sounds like your bra isn't long enough around your shoulders. Look for one that has longer straps and make sure the strap adjusters are at the full length. There are also strap attachments that can make the strap longer. Hope that helps your problem.

Sandy - That looks like a great product. I'm glad it works for you.

Sandy on July 22, 2014:

I never felt comfortable wearing a bra. The shoulder pain, hard to breathe, breast spill over. Ugh! I tried BreastNest and haven't looked back. It's amazing. I even sleep in it.

renu on June 06, 2014:

I feel my bra is highly uncomfortable.. I regularly use to pull it down from front bottom....not sure about exact problem..it becamey habit know but I know it looks very bad in crowd..pls suggest something..

Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on April 04, 2014:

torrilynn - Underwire is definitely the worst. Glad other types of bras work for you. Thanks!

Elise70 - You might try looking for longer coverage like something that comes down the rib cage a bit more. Have you tried using powder to help with the sweating? A bit of baby powder may help absorb the sweat. Good luck!

Elise70 on March 04, 2014:

I join the club of bra haters. I often wear pullover bralettes, but they tend to reveal too much as they are seldom padded. Regular bras are uncomfortable, and move when I raise my arms or do almost anything. Maybe I don't have the right fit, but it seems like guidelines for a proper fit vary.

Lastly, though I am not well endowed, I sweat like crazy in that area, even with a thin cotton or modal bralette. I might try putting mine in the freezer this summer. At my wit's end with this search.

torrilynn on December 07, 2013:

Thanks for this article about bras. Ive always found bras to be very uncomfortable especially the ones with the underwire. I now try to get the bras that either lack an underwire or that clip in the front instead of the back. Nice article. Voted up.

Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on October 09, 2013:

idigwebsites - Sleeping in a bra isn't recommended because your body needs time to just relax and not be forced into unnatural positions constantly. I don't know about causing breast cancer.

Bunting - If you have to wear something, try to find a type of bra that rests farther down. A corset or torsolette might be something for you to try. A tightly-fitting cami may be a good option. Chest wrapping might also be a possibility. It is typically used by athletes. The wrapping applies pressure evenly so one spot isn't carrying the brunt of the support. Hope those ideas help!

Bunting on October 05, 2013:

About 5 years ago I had a horse accident and they had to remove parts of my ribs and go figure it is right were the bra rides so most the time it hurts no matter what I wear I have tried them all any other Ideas to keep the presure of that side? I have to wear a bra because of my line of work riding horses at a higher rate of speed most of the time you need to tie them suckers down!

idigwebsites from United States on October 04, 2013:

Only when I'm in my house I don't wear bras. I even reproached my sister when she had to sleep with her bra on. I was told that sleeping with a bra on would cause breast cancer, though I wonder if that's true, but it sure feels even painful to wear one while you sleep. Thanks for posting about this very important info. Up, useful and shared.

Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on September 15, 2013:

CV woman - It is terrible to have such problems with a piece clothing necessary for daily use. Some type of bodysuit, corset, or torsolette might work. You would just have to try some out to see if they work for you or if they are too tight. Basically you just want to look for a type of support with more length than a typical bra. You might be able to find other camis or tanks that could serve your purpose better. Hope you find something that fits you better.

CV woman on August 16, 2013:

I almost cried when I read Tiffany Marshall's comments. I started having these exact problems not long ago, and I can't wear any of my bras. I'm between a D and a DD cup so can't just go without anything, but all bras either dig & roll along the side or flip up on my ribcage as soon as I sit down. It's infuriating. I've been wearing tight-fitting Lycra tanks but need something better. Was looking at the Bali lace bodysuit. Are there other options? Hate the idea of having to wear something so constricting.

Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on August 11, 2013:

Thanks for the comments everyone!

vibesites - I saw that same study when it was in the news. Bras force the breasts into unnatural positions, so maybe that is the reason behind that.

Mirta - Way to go! If more girls took on your attitude, women could be free of the pain of bras forever. Most of the problems with bras are that they try to force everyone's breasts to look a certain way. Keep on changing the world.

wonderdawn - Glad to hear that nipple covers have worked so well for you. Most men don't understand the discomfort of bras. But I think many people are starting to realize how body type ideals in our culture are impossible to achieve and people are becoming more accepting of a more natural look.

Barbara Kay - Thanks! When you do wear a bra, getting the correct fit is an absolute must for comfort. I will have to search for that link.

Tawna - A different style of bra is probably best for you. The ones that cover down the midsection would be good for you. You may also be able to find bras that have more material on the bottom. They might have them in specialty stores or online. Good luck finding bras that cover you better!

Wheelyclunky - Nipple covers are great when you want a bit a cover and protection when going braless. It is freedom without drawing attention to your chest.

Girl - One thing that might help is padded sports bras. They might be more comfortable than regular bras. You could also try some of the comfortable corsets or bustier bras that give support and lift but don't have the elastic bands that dig into the ribs. It can give the appearance of a fuller chest. Another idea is to wear a cami that has a built in bra shelf and put breast forms (also called breast pads or inserts) into it. Hopefully you can find a solution that will work for you.

Girl on August 11, 2013:

My problem is, I have to use padded bras all the time. It's so painful but I got used to it. And I'm scared to show the real me to the world, because I'm a nearly flat chested girl. Can you suggest me any alternative please...........

Wheelyclunky on August 11, 2013:

Thank you. I'm a 40 or 42H and mainly go without. I'll look for those nipple covers.

Tawna on August 02, 2013:

My problem with bras is that the bottom portion tends to ride up & sit on bottom portion of my breasts, just below the nipples. Whenever I feel that, I instinctively to pull them back down to my chest, even though doing so looks awkward. I need bras that are provide support at least an inch below the bottom of the breasts in order to feel okay. Another concern is that bras don't provide my breasts much shape-- I need them to push the breasts inwards from the outside in order to make my breast look fuller. Right now, I research corset or bustier bras. They might be exactly what I need.

Barbara Badder from USA on June 08, 2013:

I can't stand underwire bras. It seems like most of the bras have them now. Thanks for an interesting hub.

There is a hub somewhere on here about how to get the right fit for a bra. I think Angela_Michelle wrote it. It might be a handy link.

wonderdawn from Vanleer, Tennessee, USA, Earth on June 03, 2013:

I use silicone nipple covers all the time and HIGHLY recommend. However, I am small-breasted, without much need for support. I have some that are re-usable, you just wash them with soap and water and when they dry, they are sticky again. I am a hippie who values comfort over conformity, so these are a godsend in order to feel more modest (i.e. my nipples are not staring you down) when going braless in public. I love this subject, I am always complaining about having to wear a bra. I say to men in my life, "Just imagine having to strap a tight piece of fabric around you all the time." Especially when it is 90 degrees. Totally jealous of exposed male breasts in the summertime!

IslandBites from Puerto Rico on May 02, 2013:

Good job.

Mirta on April 25, 2013:

I'm only 16 and already my ribs are deformed beneath my chest thanks to being DD+ since I was 13. Not even sports bras are comfortable. I've decided to go bra-less, entirely, and frankly I couldn't care less about the weird looks or the judgmental girls. They don't know the pain or are too preoccupied with looking good that they forget they'd look just fine if everyone would quit making perfectly round, perky breasts a fashion statement.

vibesites from United States on April 23, 2013:

I've read a recent study that bras even contribute to sagging breasts but I didn't bother to read about it further.

I wear bras that are lightweight and have no underwires. I started to wear bras with no underwires when I was uncomfortable with my bra so I removed the pesky wires. A sports bra might be also a good option, I haven't worn one yet but I'll try to see how it feels. Voted up and useful.

Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on March 27, 2013:

Tiffany Marshall - Bras that flip up on the bottom can definitely be annoying. A body suit would probably help that. If it is a comfortable option for you, it could be less annoying. A bra pouch for the washer and dryer might help cut down on the lint and debris it picks up.

Tiffany Marshall from Waukesha, Wisconsin on March 27, 2013:

The thing that bugs me most is that I have a tummy, or layer of fat/fat roll below my boobs. That said, the band that is around the bottom part of my bra flips up because of this raised area, since my tummy isn't flat. It happens with my sports bras too. It is so annoying and uncomfortable. Always pulling down on my bras & trying to "flatten" the band to keep it from folding over. Maybe I should wear a body suit. I hate buying new sports bras because they are often so much tighter than the ones I've been wearing for a few years, even though I got a bigger size this time around. I know I have to keep wearing them to get adjusted & wear to them, but it is so annoying. My sports bras also are big lint collectors after I wash & dry them. Nothing like some irritating piece of lint or hair in your bra to itch or poke you all day.

Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on March 10, 2013:

Vivian - I understand your pain with bras. They are so painful. Sorry you were forced to wear such torturous bras when you were younger. Oh, the things women have been forced to wear. You're right. Sagginess is not caused by lack of bras, but gravity over the decades. Glad you have found a bra solution that works for you with sports bras.

J Bamford-Love - Women's clothing manufacturers need to get the memo that not all women are shaped the same. It's good that you have figured out a type of bra that fits your needs. There comes a time for many women when comfort starts to outweigh society's ideals of fashion.

Jessica Bamford-Love on December 02, 2012:

I have the worst time with bras because I am full-busted with a small rib cage, plus my breast tissue extends from side of my rib cage and my breasts almost touch in the middle so the center of bras generally don't lie flat like they are supposed to. I used to wear Le Mystere because they met my needs the best, but they made finding tops that fit even harder to find. For the past six months I've been wearing Rhonda Shear Ahh bras....they do well enough looks-wise, they do separate my breasts in the middle better than most sports bras, and they are seamless. I have finally decided that a bra that holds up the boobs just isn't worth the hassle anymore.

vivian on November 03, 2012:

Underwire bras are absolute hell for me. The wires dig deeply into the front my ribcage, and also in my back, so for the entire day I'm practically struggling to breathe. And throughout the duration of my adolescence, my mother forced me to wear these really tight underwire bras ("for shaping" she said -- which is BS because we all know that wearing bras does not aid in preventing "sagginess"), with the result that my ribcage became a bit deformed -- my ribs are dented inwards underneath my breasts. Seriously, no human should suffer this. So, a few years ago I finally came to my senses and decided I'll only be wearing sports bras from now on (and so far it's been doable because I'm a jeans-and-T-shirt type person). Comfort is always the most important thing -- screw what society says about "beauty standards".

Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on October 20, 2012:

WritingPrompts - Bras can definitely be a pain. And each type does seem to come with its own set of perils. The image of boobs choking you while driving really cracked me up. Glad you have found a way to deal with the bra problem.

Alecia Murphy - The key really is in finding the right bra, which can take trial and error. Hopefully you can find ones that fit for you. Thanks!

Alecia Murphy from Wilmington, North Carolina on October 12, 2012:

I'm glad I saw this. Finding the right bra that fits and looks right is like finding the right pair of shoes. But now that I know there are other methods to consider, I won't feel so confined to a bra.

Karen from The Garden of Eugene (Oregon) on August 26, 2012:

I can manage the sports bras most of the time, but I'm large breasted and they tend to give me this "uniboob" that makes the seat belt slide up and choke me when I drive (which I do for a living). It took a couple years, but I finally got comfortable going without (at least a the truck stops). Regular bras seem to put the plastic adjusters in the worst places and usually rub holes in my back before the day is over.

Candace Bacon (author) from Far, far away on August 08, 2012:

@ moonlake - Thanks! Some women can get away with no bras, some don't look very attractive without them. It's all about finding what is comfortable.

@ Marcy Goodfleisch - Bad bras are the worst! Thanks so much!

@ Kumholtz - Sports bras are pretty much always more comfortable than regular bras. I have heard other people mention the Incredible bra for its comfort.

Kumholtz from Savannah on July 29, 2012:

Being an irregularly big chested girl, I wear sports bras with almost anything because of the comfort and it makes my chest area look flatter (which I like). But when it comes to dressing nice, I have to bring out the bras. For anyone who's looking for a more comfortable bra, VS's Incredible bra is definitely my top choice.

Marcy Goodfleisch from Planet Earth on July 28, 2012:

Only someone who has suffered through a really bad bra knows how useful this hub is! I'm making notes - you may have saved me a lot of pain and agony here! Voted up and up!

moonlake from America on July 19, 2012:

I saw a picture of family members that never wore bras and I'm telling you that picture looked awful. I have to have a bra and I want an underwire. Bali use to make the best one it had extra fabric where the wire was now they have stopped making it. The minute I walk in the door the bra is unhooked. Great hub voted up.

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Bras, Love 'em or Hate 'em

Where Can I Buy a Genie Bra in Stores?

Genie Bras used to only be available through mail order, but not any more. There are several stores that carry them. I got mine at CVS, but I have also seen them at Walgreen's and Rite Aide.

When I saw it on TV, I thought the Genie bra was pretty much the same as the Ahh Bra, and I was put off by the fact that you had to “buy 3 get 3 free” for $59.99 plus shipping and handling. What if I didn’t like it, why would I want 6 of them? The ad says there’s a money back guarantee, but I doubted that I would ever get my money back, and even if I did it would take forever.

Then I spotted two-packs of Genie Bras at CVS Pharmacy for only $19.99. Without hesitation I bought a pack. They only had medium and large. My normal bra size is 34B. I got the large, and I’m glad I did, I wouldn’t want it to be any tighter.

Expensive Bra vs Genie Bra

I liked this video I found on YouTube, but it doesn't look like the Genie Bras she's holding up have the pads in them. The one she has on looks like it does though. I think she looks great, you can't even tell she's not wearing one of those expensive, uncomfortable bras.

Take Out the Pads Before Washing

One problem I have is that the pads tend to slide around in the pockets. I read on the package, after it was too late, that you're supposed to take them out before washing. After I washed them the pads were all bunched up and when I pulled them out the fabric covering came off of the pads.

Actually now they don't slide around nearly as much without the coverings, so maybe that would be a design improvement. Better yet, they could just sew them in, I never wear the bras without the pads.

After several washes the Genie Bras got a little pilled up. I've always just thrown them in with my regular laundry. I bought another two-pack thinking this time I'd treat them more delicately. The second pair of Genie Bras really did hold up a lot better when I took extra care when laundering them.

They Run Small

On the second two-pack, I increased the size to extra large. They are more comfortable; I was afraid they'd be too big, but it's not a problem at all.

I think the Genie Bras were well worth the $19.95, for a two-pack, it's less than $10 per bra. However, as I mentioned before, I have a severe aversion to bras. I will put up with a lot for a little comfort.

I Used to Love Tight Jeans

When I was a young chick in my 20s, I used to squeeze my sweet little behind into a pair of pants made for a child. The tighter the better, that was the style back then.

That's not me anymore. I am no longer willing to suffer in the name of fashion.

I had seen the commercials for Pajama Jeans on TV. They didn't look too bad, and if they were comfortable...

I was interested, but they seemed a little pricey especially for something I couldn't touch before I bought it.

The Tight Jeans I Used to Love

Now Available in Stores

I was shopping at Rite Aide when I spotted, you guessed it, Pajama Jeans. They were $39.95, just like they have been everywhere I had ever seen them. I was still hesitant. They still seemed a little pricey, and they didn't come with the "free" T-shirt in the TV ad, but at least I saved the $7.95 S&H. I figured I have the receipt, if I don’t like them, at least I can take them back to the store.

Now let’s get one thing straight, I would never be caught dead at the grocery store in my pajamas. But when I’m at home I do like to get comfy. It’s not unusual for me to stay in my PJ’s all day if I’m at home on the weekend.

I know people make fun of them, but if someone showed up unexpectedly, I would feel a lot more dressed if I was wearing Pajama Jeans than if I was wearing my regular PJ’s.

Pajama Jeans Spoiled Me for Other Pants

After I had been wearing them about two hours, I thought they felt pretty good, and they looked pretty good. They were maybe not quite as comfortable as PJ’s, and definitely not as good looking as your favorite jeans. They're kind of a funny color, and the top stitching looks a little odd. But I have seen worse looking jeans (in fact I have worn worse looking jeans). Heck I thought I might even wear them to the grocery store.

Two days later I was practically living in my Pajama Jeans they were so soft and comfy. I wore them to the store, and seriously I don't think one person noticed they weren't jeans. Also, I like that the front is smooth, unlike the fly in some jeans. They are very form-fitting, so if you are self-conscious about your body you may not like them, but if you have a nice butt they'll show it off very well. In fact, you have to be careful what kind of underwear you wear because they do show a panty line.

Even my husband likes the way they look, and he is not one to withhold his opinion. Maybe I shouldn't have bought these, they've spoiled me for other pants.

Oh, one other thing, they only come in one length. They were too long for me. I'm only 5'1" and it's not at all unusual for me to have to shorten my pants if I can't find the ones I want in petite.

What I Would Change About Pajama Jeans

The one thing I really don't like is the hot pink drawstring. If it is left hanging out, it really stands out. Something more like the color of the pants would be better.

I actually would prefer a flat elastic waist to the drawstring. They are easier to pull up and down, and more comfortable, and no chance of the string hanging out. The last couple of pairs I have bought, I replaced the drawstring with a wide, flat elastic. I like them better that way. I realize that most people wouldn't be willing to do that.

Pajama Jeans Get Better With Age

After they've been washed a few times they look more like real denim than they did at first. That funny color fades out and they look more like blue jeans. I think most people with a low opinion of Pajama Jeans have never put a pair on. Maybe the marketing was a bad idea, calling them Pajama Jeans. They're really just comfortable pants, more like yoga pants, not pajamas. That's what I think, but then I am a comfort junkie.

I usually wear my Pajama Jeans when I would wear jeans, except if I'm doing something like working in the yard. Since they are a knit fabric, they are not very tough. If I'm working in the yard I wear regular jeans to keep from damaging my old stand bys.

I don't wear them very much in the summer, when it's hot. I like to wear leggings under them when it's really cold.The pajama jeans are a blessing when you're sitting for an extended length of time, like on a long car trip, or on an airplane for that matter.

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They Still Fit after Weight Loss

When I got my Pajama Jeans I weighed about 138 pounds. At that time my mediums fit pretty snugly, but after wearing them for an hour or so they would stretch out a little and they did not feel too tight.

I have lost some weight, I'm down to 120. They are less form fitting now, but they hold their shape well and do not look saggy or baggy. I think these pants are a good option for someone in a weight transition.

Because of the drawstring at the waist they are adjustable and you will not have to keep buying new jeans as your size changes.

New Styles and Colors!

I still have both of my original pairs of pajama jeans, and I still wear them regularly. They have held up very well considering that they are over two years old, and I have worn them a lot. Still, I was feeling like I wanted some new ones.

Now that I'm sure how they fit and everything, I thought I might as well look into ordering them online. When I first got them, they were only available in the denim blue color, in boot cut.

When I checked out the official PajamaJean website, I saw that they are now offered in black, red, green and purple. They also have a Cranberry Brocade and an Indigo Brocade pattern. All colors come in boot cut and also in Skinny Jean style.

They are continuously adding more colors and styles. They have shorts, skirts, capris and maternity pants too.

The original denim and the black are only $39.99, the other colors are $49.99. I ended up ordering one pair of black boot cut, and one of black skinny. I had a coupon for free shipping that popped up on an ad after I had visited the website, so that made me feel good about ordering online.

It took about two weeks to receive my new pants. As before, they were a couple of inches too long for me, but I'm used to having to hem my pants. I'm happy with the way they look. I'm not used to wearing skinny jeans, I'd like it better if they offered just a straight leg, but these are not too tight on my calves, and I have muscular calves. It's nice to have another option besides the boot cut.

Look for Them in Stores

If you want to try Genie Bra or Pajama Jeans, and you have any doubts, I would definitely suggest that you look around in drug stores like Rite Aide and CVS that have the "as seen on TV" sections. That way it's so much easier to take them back if they don't live up to your expectations. I do love mail order though, as long as I know exactly what I want, and if the price is right, why not save gas, and the aggravation of shopping, and have it delivered to my door?

© 2011 Sherry Hewins

Comments

Sherry Hewins (author) from Sierra Foothills, CA on October 13, 2017:

I just looked at Amazon, they have quite a variety there. If you don't find what you want, you can always go to pajamajeans.com

Donna Humphreys on October 12, 2017:

I can't find Pajama Jeans any more. These are so comfortable. Please help me find them in different colors in a large

Sherry Hewins (author) from Sierra Foothills, CA on January 09, 2015:

Genie Jeans? Are you talking about Genie Bra or Pajama Jeans?

I have heard of complaints about the Genie Bra taking a long time, they are easily available in stores now, so I would not bother ordering from the TV.

I have never heard of a problem with Pajama Jeans orders, I have ordered them online myself, and always received them quickly. You can buy them in stores now too though.

Sorry to hear you've had a problem.

Lillian Johnson on January 09, 2015:

I placed a tv order for the genie jeans. Have been waiting for 3 weeks! Called their bogus customer service number...only to get static! Beware of the scam!!!!

Sherry Hewins (author) from Sierra Foothills, CA on December 12, 2012:

Hi toxicmommy, I too have read bad things about the Genie Bra, that's why I was happy to find one at a store so returning it would be easy. Also I only had to buy two, so it cheaper to try it. One bad thing I heard was that it took a long time to receive the product after ordering. I think a lot of people prejudge both of these products without trying them. Products sold on TV infomercials are easy to make fun of and classify as silly "trailer trash" products, but once in a while you find a winner. Thanks for reading and commenting on my hub.

toxicmommy on December 12, 2012:

Thank you so much for the reviews! I've been wanting to try both of these items! I heard so many bad things about the genie bra I might have to try it but I'm worried the sizing will be difficult

Sherry Hewins (author) from Sierra Foothills, CA on November 13, 2012:

Victoria Lynn, Thanks so much for visiting! It's so nice to have a bra that doesn't drive me crazy all day. Try the pajama jeans, they are stretchy and comfy.

Victoria Lynn from Arkansas, USA on November 13, 2012:

Awesome. I came over after reading your comment on my Genie bra review hub. Funny about the sizes. I got medium since I wear medium shirts, and they're fine. It makes me think that large might even be more comfy--looser! I will never use the pads. I'm a 36C and never wanted to be larger. I felt very self-conscious when I first put them on with the pads. I'm glad we can wear them with or without.

Love this hub! I have my Genie bras and now am on the hunt for pajama jeans! I don't like tight, but it sounds like the fabric "gives"?? :-)

Sherry Hewins (author) from Sierra Foothills, CA on August 08, 2012:

Thanks moonlake. When I got my second pair of Genie bras I got them in extra large (my original larges seemed just a little tight and I normally only wear a 34B bra). I actually find them much more comfortable, so keep in mind that you may want to buy them a little bigger than your usual size.

moonlake from America on August 08, 2012:

I always wanted to know about the two items in your hub. Now I know.

I hate wearing a bra around the house but if someone stops over I'm running to get my bra on or I always keep a zip-up sweatshirt over my shirt than if anyone comes I can zip up fast. Lately it's been just to hot for the sweatshirt. I wonder if I could stand to wear the genie bra and it would be comfortable around the house.

Voted up on your hub.

Sherry Hewins (author) from Sierra Foothills, CA on August 08, 2012:

Thanks so much for commenting Sunshine 625. Google seems to love this hub, but it's got very little attention from hubbers. It's all 100% straight from the heart true. I'm not wearing the pajama jeans much now because it's 90°+ around here right now.

Sherry Hewins (author) from Sierra Foothills, CA on April 04, 2012:

I came back to freshen up this hub and noticed I'd never replied to these comments, even though I have followed both of you ladies and read many of your hubs. I really appreciated both of your comments.

Cindy Murdoch from Texas on January 04, 2012:

I love my genie bras. They are the best that I have ever worn.

Angela Blair from Central Texas on January 04, 2012:

Well, I've been checking out the Pajama Jeans and so far haven't been able to convince myself to pay the price -- BUT -- might just give in after reading your report on how comfortable they are plus being able to run to the grocery, etc. in them. Thanks for the good info -- Best, Sis

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How to Find a Strapless Bra That Fits

If you've pretty much decided there is no strapless bra that actually works, you're not alone. I'd all but given up on my quest until I was absolutely forced back into the search because of a bridesmaid dress I had to wear. I'd pretty much dismissed the idea I could find one that I'd ever want to wear again. My goal was to get through the night without the girls popping out.

I researched, shopped, talked to friends, and asked every sales associate I could get to listen to me about my plight for the seemingly nonexistent best strapless bra. I even checked out quite a few bra specialty shops to rummage through their offerings. It took the most part of a weekend, but I must say I finally found one that works. In fact, not only did it do the job for the night of the wedding, but I've actually gone on to wear it a few more times! Go figure, right?

With a renewed attitude about these bras, I've gone on to purchase a few more. I wanted to find some everyday bras I could wear with halter tops and spaghetti straps, too. With a lot of shopping and research, I am going to list my top three.

Tips on Finding the Best Strapless Bra for You

Before I let you in on my awesome find, I want to share with you what I learned about strapless bras through my research, experience and talking to the so-called "experts". Let's talk about the undesirable traits of most strapless bras first.

• Most end up traveling down to your waist within about an hour of putting them on.
• Your breasts constantly pop out of the cups.
• You must continually make adjustments, excusing yourself to the ladies' room to have free access for the tug and pull routine.
• The underwire is so stiff and thick, you end up feeling like you've been caught in a wire fence.
• They fail the public bounce test.
• The proportions just never seem right, like there's no proper marriage between band and cup size . . . one or the other is always wrong and there's no adjusting the strapless bra successfully.

Okay, I think that about sums it up. So, now the question is how on earth to find one that has solved the above problems. Well, let me just say this: some of the issues are inherent in the bras themselves, but some are user errors. That's right, let's take a look at what YOU can fix.

• For crying out loud, find out what your actual bra size is! The majority of women are wearing the wrong size bra and don't even know it. So, learn how to determine your bra size!
• Strapless bras rely heavily on the bands, so you must make sure you're wearing the correct size. 80% of the support comes from the band.
• Some women try on convertible bras and don't bother taking OFF the straps to see how it works strapless. Just because it works well with the straps on, doesn't mean it's going to be able to properly load bear without them!
• Look for strapless bras that are convertible and have straps with versatility. You are gypping yourself if you don't seek out a convertible style. Look for ones with straps long enough to become halter bras and criss-cross bras as well as regular front strap bras. See the video on the right for a great demonstration on the convertible bras.

What to Look for

Perhaps the most important feature of a strapless bra is its ability to stay put. A regular bra has straps that prevent it from unwanted travel and migration. So, one without straps needs to have a slide-proof band since that will be the bra's anchor. What kind of band should you look for then?

• The band should have silicone or silicone strips to keep it from slipping. They make a HUGE difference... It's best to have the strips at the top and bottom of the band as well as inside the back wings. They're like having that no-slip mat in the bathtub! Don't worry about the silicone if you're getting a longline bra, however. The boning and extra hooks ensure it's not going anywhere.
• You want the band to be tight, even on the loosest setting. We're not talking so tight you're in pain, just comfortably tight. This will ensure you will have a tight enough fit after the band stretches out with wear and washings.

Strapless Bras for Different Figures

The strapless bra that's best suited for you will also depend upon your breast size. Larger breasted women will need more support than smaller breasted women. Of course this is also true with a standard bra, but even more important with a strapless one.

Recommendations for Large-Breasted Women

Longlines

For women above a DD, you are going to need to bring out the big guns, ladies. As much as you'd like to only have two hooks on the band, it's just not going to offer you the support and staying power you require. You will also do best with an underwire. I know some can be uncomfortable, but hear me now... there are some underwire bras that are comfortable! Many women with extra-large breasts feel most comfortable in what's called a longline bra. It looks somewhat like a bustier and it comes all the way down to the midriff.

Because it's longer and often stitched with boning, it provides superior support without straps. These often have as many as 7 hooks in the back, giving the band the required anchor. The boning will help keep the breasts up, where they need to be. An added bonus of the longline bra is the abdominal support it supplies. It cinches in the waist, a highly desirable feature for those wanting to slim their abdomens and smooth their silhouettes. Some hook in the back, while others hook in the front. You can convert it into a bra with a low back, too. Comes in sizes 34-50, B-FF.

Recommendation: Goddess Lace Longline Bra 689

This bra has it all. It's convertible, it stays in place and it offers superior support with the wide band and boning. It has underwire cups, for extra support and to keep the girls up. It has boning on the sides of the cups for the absolute best support and lift. I'm telling you, this bra isn't going anywhere. Finally, a bra that can pass the public bounce test!

Standard Strapless Bra for Average to Large Breasts

Fantasie Smoothing Strapless Bra, Style 4530

So, here it is... my VERY FAVORITE strapless bra in the world! Available in bands sizes 30-42 and cup sizes B-G. Why do I love it? Let me count the ways:

• It's smooth under clothes, seamless and downright invisible.
• It's so comfortable, really it is. It's the first one I don't notice all day and night.
• The cups are contoured, so they shape and support your breasts nicely.
• As any great convertible bra should, the straps can turn it into a criss-cross, halter, and traditional bra.
• You can actually dance in this bra and feel perfectly comfortable and well-supported.
• The cups are full coverage, so there's no lumps going on at the top.
• The back wings have that highly coveted silicone so it won't slip around.
• Tip: The bras run a little big. I'd go down one band and cup size for the best fit.

Best for Smaller Breasts

Bali Concealers Convertible Strapless Bra 3427 (Available in Sizes 32B to 44DD)

No doubt about it, this Bali strapless is great for everyday wear. For the price, it's hard to go wrong. It has side boning in the cups, which are seamless, so it's great under camis and strapless tops. It has what they call "concealing petals" in the cups to hide the nipples, which is a huge perk if you're wearing thin, see-through tops. The convertible straps can be worn as a regular bra, criss-cross or halter. One of my favorite features is how it's tagless; it does a great job supporting and separating the breasts, the center gore is wide to keep the girls in line! The top of the wings are lined with silicone, as you now know is a desirable feature.

I do like this bra and I do wear it. However, I don't have the same confidence in it as I do with the Fantasie bra. It stays put fairly well, but I wouldn't want to go out for a wild night of dancing with it on. That said, I still recommend it for an economical, comfortable and quality everyday strapless, convertible bra. I think it's best suited for women with smaller breasts, however.

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Why Wear a Sports Bra?

At the gym, while jogging, or elsewhere, we've all met a woman who wasn't wearing the correct sports bra. Her breasts were bouncing uncontrollably and undoubtedly causing pain. When you're exercising, the appearance of a bra is secondary to its comfort. It needs to keep the breasts secure and prevent them from moving while you're making a wide range of movements.

Special Concerns for Middle-Aged and Senior Ladies

There are various types of sports bras on the market, and some are more suitable than others for mature women. For example, if you have problems with flexibility, consider a front-closing bra; these are much easier to get on and off while still providing you with needed support.

Bras for Jogging, Golf, and More

You can select the perfect bra by keeping the activity you'll be doing in mind. If you're a jogger, for example, you will need a bra designed for high-impact exercise. If golf is your sport, you'll only need a low-impact bra, but you will need to be aware of how high the sides of the bra rise. After 18 holes of golf, if your bra is chafing you every time you swing, you will soon be in pain.

I have selected a few types of sports bras for you to consider. These are popular designs for mature ladies who wish to remain active but comfortable.

High-Cut Bra With Cups

Pros

• Excellent support for large breasts
• No squashing

Cons

• Less flattering than other styles
• Easy to size incorrectly

Why We Like It

This design is my top pick for women with large breasts who want a sports bra or an athletic bra. This type of bra has formed cups and a higher cut, both of which reduce breast movement when you're engaged in physical activity. The benefit of cups is that they support each breast individually rather than squashing them against your chest. Because these bras are cut high, they're not the most flattering garment, but they provide fantastic support—and that's what matters most.

How to Wear It

To ensure correct sizing, put the bra on and then lean forward, allowing your breasts to fall into the cups. All of the breast tissue, including that on the sides, should be in the cup.

Many women are wearing the wrong size bra because they don't realize how far back their breast tissue extends. This is one reason why your bra may feel uncomfortable. If the cup's seam is sitting on breast tissue (for example, in the armpit area), it will pinch, causing irritation and redness.

Advice for Women With Breast Augmentation

If you have had a breast enlargement procedure, you will need a sports bra to participate in any fitness activity. The extra strain on your breasts will be exaggerated because of the augmentation. Choose a bra with wide, comfortable straps to minimize the pressure from the downward pull.

Compression Bra

Pros

• Ideal for smaller cup sizes
• Allows almost no breast movement
• Will not ride up

Cons

• Feels confining
• Not a good option for larger cup sizes
• Harder to put on and take off, especially for those with flexibility issues

Why We Like It

A compression bra is ideal for women who have small to medium-size breasts. (If you wear a C cup, opt for a compression bra with wider straps.) The compression style pushes the breasts close to the body, allowing for very little vertical or horizontal breast movement. These bras tend to have a wide, comfortable band at the bottom to prevent them from riding up without hindering up-and-down arm movement.

Some women find this style too confining when working out, but for stability, a compression bra is a good option. However, if you have reduced flexibility in your shoulders, this might not be the bra for you as it can sometimes be difficult to put on and take off—especially after a workout when you're sweaty.

How to Wear It

These bras are suitable for high-impact sports such as jogging and aerobics. Look for bras with adjustable straps to eliminate chafing.

Younger women often wear these bras as a top layer without a t-shirt over them. Whether you choose to wear an outer covering or not is up to you. The fabric of most compression bras will wick away moisture, which is always a bonus.

A Demonstration of a Front-Closing Bra

Front-Closing Bra

Pros

• Easy to put on and take off
• Variety of styles available (zippers, hooks, etc.)

Why We Like It

When we were younger, we had more flexibility. As we age, it becomes more and more difficult to reach around our backs and fasten our bras, and it's almost impossible to pull something tight over our heads.

Perhaps your lack of flexibility is due to osteoporosis, arthritis, or a back problem. Whatever the reason, you can find a range of front-closing sports bras that are much easier to put on and take off than rear-closing bras and compression bras.

How to Wear It

You can find styles with front-closing zippers and hooks. After a work-out when you're hot and sweaty, it can be difficult to remove a bra without a zip or hooks. Trust me; I've been there. There is nothing worse than having to ask for help to remove a bra! (Any woman who has experienced the same will understand your situation and likely lend a hand, though.)

Test Your Range of Movement

Once you're wearing your new bra, you should test it with a full range of motion: jumping, bending, stretching, and twisting. There should be virtually no movement of your breasts.

Furthermore, you don't want to feel any rubbing, which could be a sign of potential irritation during your training sessions. Check under your arms and along the top edge. Also, check under the cup—is there any tenderness there? Anywhere that looks slightly red now could become a problem later.

If the skin beneath the breasts becomes sweaty, this is a breeding ground for fungus. After training, wash and dry both yourself and your bra to avoid any potential problems.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2011 Mary Wickison

Thanks for looking.

Mary Wickison (author) from Brazil on September 17, 2014:

There are many department stores or lingerie stores which offer a fitting service. Also, she may also want to consider a vest or camisole. Many of these are so comfortable and soft.

kmpabby@gmail.com on September 16, 2014:

My 91 yr old incredible, amazing & beautiful mother has asked me to find her a bra that fits her properly & is comfortable. She is a small woman with 34A breasts. Does anybody have a suggestion?

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When god handed out breasts, he pulled a fast one on me and tossed over two anemic English muffins. Thank goodness for modern technology, eh?

To be honest, I've never stuffed a bra before, mostly because I like to forget the stark reality that I am not, indeed, still 11 years old. Nevertheless, I am very impressed by all the options that small-breasticled ladies such as myself (not to mention the non-breasticled cross dressing gentlemen who frequently put us to shame in the good looks department) have when it comes to making our modestly endowed chests look a bit more curvy.

Let us peruse the options together and discuss both the good and regrettable features of each. By the end of this overview, you shall be sure to know which bra-stuffing technology is best for your budget, needs, and capricious whims.

The Basic Offerings

Let's get real, dear reader. Pretty much anything can be put in a bra. That's one of the things that makes bras so awesome. But while many a woman is known to stuff the odd cell phone/ticket /cash wad in her bra, the best (or most commonly used) options for bra stuffing are as follows:

• Falsies/chicken cutlets
• Built-in padding (padded bras)
• Tissues
• Socks

Let's have a look at the merits and pitfalls of each option in greater detail below.

The Chicken Cutlet/Falsies

By far the most "professional" means of stuffing a bra involves the use of chicken cutlets.

The day your gentle author was introduced to these hidden accessories was at Senior Prom, when one of these oversized flesh-colored clam meat discs was flung at the Prom Queen.

As it happens, these devices make for excellent projectiles. Keep that in mind.

The primary purpose of these funny looking things, however, is to make your breasticles look bigger. They do so well by sitting at the bottom of a bra, thereby displacing what little flesh you have and making it seem like you are far more endowed than you may wish to admit.

The upside to chicken cutlets is that they may be employed whenever one wishes and removed at will. The downside is that they can become sweaty and uncomfortable to wear, and, if worn inconsistently, they may reveal to the general public that you are packing silicone.

These caveats are entirely nullified by the aforementioned option to use the cutlets as airborne weaponry, which I highly recommend. Think of them as soft shiruken that you can keep in your bra.

Padded Bras

To be honest, only padded bras have taken up permanent residence in my boob-boosting arsenal, mostly because one is hard pressed to find bras in my size that are not padded. The lovely thing about padded bras is that one need not worry about stuffing. They are the pre-stuffed, ready-to-bake pastries of the bra stuffing world.

What's more, many padded bras are filled with the most delightful substances. While the mundane normal foam ones may still be found, more and more padded bras may now be found with fascinating gel and memory foam augmentations, which contribute not only to a more natural appearance but are also delightful to poke and squeeze.

The one downside of this lovely feature is that one may find oneself prodding at one's chest a bit too often, for the memory foam makes it all too satisfying to do so.

Tissues & Toilet Paper

Time and time again, the movies present us with footage of young girls stuffing their vacant bras with toilet paper.

While such scenes are humorous (e.g. one's stuffing being used as tissues to dab away tears in times of distress), they perpetuate a terrible practice that must be stopped.

Tissues and toilet paper make for terrible stuffing options. Though the materials are cheap and readily available, they quickly collapse within one's bra, are not at all convincing-feeling when subjected to hugs, furtive fondlings, or football style chest bumps. What's more, absolute disaster may ensue should one be caught unprepared in a rainstorm and positively soaked.

When it comes to paper augmentation, just say no.

Socks

Apparently teens these days have gotten it into their heads that socks are a viable bra-stuffing material.

To be fair, socks are soft, moldable, and readily available, but let's be practical here, they're just not meant for your chest. They're just not!

Believe me, you do not want your chest to have any chance of smelling of feet. Also keep in mind that socks, even in the best of times, are lumpy. One does not want to have lumpy looking breasts. I say it's better to have no lumps at all than lumpy lumps.

So leave out the socks, too.

Two Choices

In the end, bra stuffing is best left to padding or falsies. It's that simple.

Yes, we live in an age of choice and ingenuity, but when it comes to making one's superfluous chestal appendages appear larger than they are, one had best not get too creative. Unless one wishes to construct fem-bot style boob-firearms. In that case, invent away!

No matter what you stick in your bra, I hope you have fun putting it there. And don't get to tied up in appearances. It's just your body. Take what you've got and work with it!

What have YOU put in your bra? Got any good bra stuffing stories?

Marry More on August 17, 2017:

Good info share.

Oge on January 26, 2016:

Kinda helpful. Thanks

anonymous on May 29, 2014:

water balloons and they work great... just wear two or three bras to hold em in place

anonymous on March 07, 2014:

yes using water balloons

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on October 22, 2012:

Wow, baseballs! Points for creativity, Kelly- plus, now you can play catch whenever you like just by pulling out a ball!

kelly on October 18, 2012:

i use baseballs...cuz i dont want my grandparents to know that i stuff my bra so i cant buy anything!! i need it 100% free and im an A but the baseballs make me like at least a 38B

Lovelovemeloveme from Cindee's Land on August 04, 2012:

HAHA, really? socks? youths sure are innovative these days lol

Mehak on July 07, 2012:

Hey, thanks for the great hub. I had loads of fun reading it. Cracked me up!

But let's get serious for a minute? I am on my way to 14 and I don't have the biggest size. But I am extremely happy with my girls ;)

Just up until last year, I had *very* small breasts. I went from an 30AA to a 30B. And I was tiny. I actually tried stuffing my bra with toilet paper, but I'd never heard of socks! Ew!

I once heard that massaging your breasts help the blood circulation to them and, in time, they grow.

I was a skeptic at first but I tried it anyway, massaging my breasts just before I went to sleep. In just over a month, my breast size went from 30B to 34C! I never realised the difference until my bra cut into my skin and hurt me. I went in for a proffesional measure last week and was shocked!

Also, don't wear a bra to bed. It cuts *off* good circulation to your breasts.

I'm very happy now and I just thought I would give some advice to those small-chested girls out there.

In short - *don't* wear a bra to bed and massage your breasts every night for a few minutes :)

And stugod, looks like you have another job on your hands ;)

I'm sure you won't mind though.

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on February 13, 2012:

Whoah, double-bra-ing it! Ingenious, gvfytfdghye9sok!

gvfytfdghye9sok on February 11, 2012:

by far the best thing to do is wear to bras one push up and one over that it helps give you a lifted and "big" look.

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on September 21, 2011:

Nneez-itsa, thanks so much for the insightful comments. It sounds like ladies are good to go no matter what they do or what their cup sizes are- stuffed or not. I'm glad!

Hehee, thanks Ausseye! I'm glad you're for letting things be as they are. And do keep in mind that not all gals go for the bodybuilder type. I myself err in favor of the skinny types, and most of my gal pals do, too.

Ausseye on September 06, 2011:

Simone:Gees SS, started reading this thinking it would really help me to looking my best, then I remembered I was a bloke and the body-building thing was just a bit beyond me..I'm a skinny runt so my size is set, game and match. Mind you it did come to my attention that SS wrote this giving advice to the young and powerless, and then SS reminded me as being famous in a world gone mad with ZZZ's or something like that while marching with stiffened legs, small tops and straight legs seemed to fit.

Loved the hub as it kept things samll and natural, made me want to go burn the padded bra shop or protest about using small ideas to grow big and rich....ahhh where on earth is this leading...oh yes now I remember small is beautiful, say no to the padding and save the our over big carbon world so the world doesn't et too hot and make us all wear bikies.....good one Simone or should that be SS.

nneez-itsa on September 05, 2011:

And one last thing...to Baileybear, who commented that when she asked her husband what post-pregnancy small breats would look like, he commented that they would look like 'tea-bags', and it would be a disappointment to undress a women like that, well, that is the difference he should have truly realized. The difference between the breasts of a 'girl' as compared to the breasts of a 'WOMAN'!

The 'girl' may be fun to look at, but when it comes to relationships and marriage, I'll take the 'woman' over the girl any day of the week, and half-a-dozen times on Sunday!!

nneez-itsa on September 05, 2011:

I am 58 years young at this writing, and I have been fortunate to have dated many women in my life. Some of them had large breats...some had small breats...and pretty much everything in between.

Although I consider myself a 'breast-man', my overview of dating any particular women has never been based on her breast size. I am not even one to say I have 'type' of women I usually date, as here again, I have dated slim to average women, and even women who one might say had a 'few extra pounds' to women who were heavy.

My wife believes she has small breasts, though to tell the truth, I have always thought they fit perfectly in my hands.

So, I suppose I can understand the womens perception of her breats size, as with so many men who are concerned with the size of their penis, i.e. too big (yes it can be too big), too small, too thin, etc. Still, as I stated earlier, I wouldn't refuse to date a women based on her breats size.

'False advertising'? Maybe, to some men, unless there is a vast disparity beween 'dressed' and 'undressed'. But then, aren't we speaking more to deceit, rather than breast size? Chris Rock, the comedian, once said in one of his stand-ups, that men tell the most lies, but women are the biggest liars, i.e. "Your wearing make-up...you don't really look like that! Your wearing hair extensions...your hair ain't that long! Your wearing high-healed shoes...you ain't that tall!" Funny comedic points, but are we, as a society, really that superficial?

My wife is a small women who has small breats and is slightly chubby...I met her that way, and married her that way. And yes, she was wearing a padded bra when we met. Was I disappointed at our first mutual undressing? Not in the least. For what she lacks in breast size, she makes up for in so many other ways.

Stop worrying ladies, for though you may consider yourself lacking in the ta-ta area, you too have more to offer than just something to squeeze in both hands. Love what you have, and you will find someone who will love them (and you) too!

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on September 01, 2011:

Thanks Miss Paula!

Miss Paula on August 31, 2011:

Very funny, but i don't need to stuff, but If i did there's some very interesting ideas in this hub thanks

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on August 11, 2011:

Oh man, stugod. LOL.

I'm glad to hear you're entirely cool with light-chested gals, Slarty O-Brian! And gravity is indeed kinder to such folk. And once again- LOL!!

Ron Hooft from Ottawa on August 10, 2011:

Simone.

What a funny hub. ;) I have never had a problem with woman with small breasts. Many men don't. You should be happy that gravity will be much kinder to you as you age.

My wife had nice little sunny side up eggs when she was young. I almost regret ruining them by getting her pregnant. But such is life.

baileybear

Actually, it's: "Anything over a mouth full is wasted."

It's an old adage my mother told me that I've always lived by. ;)

Stuart Goddard from Bradford on August 08, 2011:

Well in regard to only having two. Young Bull says to the old Bull... Let's charge over to that field with all the cows in and mate with one of them. Old bull(ME) says let's walk over and mate with all of them. HmmmmmmmpH

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on August 08, 2011:

OH MY GOD!!! I COULD NOT ASK FOR BETTER ADS ON THIS HUB!!

That is brilliantly hilarious, melbel! So glad you shared that screenshot! Heheee!! The ad is definitely funnier!!

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on August 03, 2011:

But you only have two, stugod. That's going to be hard to monetize.

And whaaa? I've never heard of nursing pads before, tchenruiz! Intriiiiguing!

tchenruiz from San Francisco Bay Area on August 02, 2011:

How about nursing pads? Great if you just need a little "filler", so your bra doesn't look collapsed under a tight T-shirt.

Stuart Goddard from Bradford on July 28, 2011:

Well I waited long enough for someone to get it in but to no avail. The only way to stuff your bra is with my old hands. Needy not greedy.lol.lol.lol

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 28, 2011:

LOL @stugod!!

And GO FOR THE GOLD, GARRETT MICKLEY!!!

I hope you find the opportunity quite soon, Multiman :D

Multiman on July 27, 2011:

Thanks, I can't wait to try this! Vote Up. :-)

stugod on July 27, 2011:

I should clear this up straight away. No back door action implied or given From old school Stuart Goddard. better use my real name to avoid confusion.

Garrett Mickley from Jupiter, Florida on July 27, 2011:

Thanks so much! I'll use these tips this weekend!

stugod on July 26, 2011:

I did once date a chick who had bigger shoulder blades than boobs. This was very confusing in our early days of courtship. If she smelled good she was facing me. If she smelled bad it was the other side. HmmmmmpH

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 26, 2011:

Hahaa, that's hilarious FloraBreenRobison! I hope I can find a clip of that online.

Hey, it would be awesome, wouldn't it K9keystrokes???

Cheers Stephen Kalu :D

And NIIIICE JamesMcAlhanyJr! That's one of my favorite photos on flickr. Great minds think alike, eh?

JamesMcAlhanyJr from Melbourne, Florida on July 24, 2011:

This is too funny, I actually used the picture that you have on this hub for my fantasy football team: The Bud Light Bears.

stephen kalu from Nigeria on July 24, 2011:

Nice hint on that

India Arnold from Northern, California on July 22, 2011:

"You know what would be awesome? Gel-based ones that are refrigerateable / microwavable, to keep one satisfied in hot/cold weather!"

Simone...you are hilarious: and an evil genius! ;P

FloraBreenRobison on July 22, 2011:

Talking about water balloons reminds me of an episode of The Golden Girls where blanche put baloons in her bra --not filled with water-and there was a scene where they deflate when a man is holding her in hisarms. I loved that show. Betty White is the sole surviving cast member now.

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 22, 2011:

I've totally rocked water balloons before, Becky! It's so much fun, jumping up and down with water balloons stuffed in your shirt. What's even better is doing a rough chest bump with someone else and totally soaking them! I guess they're a good option of you're not afraid to get your clothes wet :D

Hahaa, glad you still found the Hub amusing, wychic! If only cup sizes could be exchanged like trading cards, eh?

LEG MEN FTW, Wesman Todd Shaw!!!

And kimh039, I am very pleased to report that there is a wide variety of padded swimsuits out there! Have a look- you'll see!!! ... though stugod's solution is brilliant. :D

Thanks, Jennie Demario! And hmm... how about water balloons filled with glitter? Then one has two glitter bombs on hand! The lotion ain't a bad idea, but it'd sure muss up clothes when water would just get them wet.

Becky makes a very important point, AgesMGMT. Of all my tiny non- sports bras, only four are unpadded. They're super hard to find!

Thank you very much, invitationwrite!

And daaang, Debra Charney. What's not to love about ANYTHING with Miracle in its name? You know, there used to be a kid at my middle school named Miracle Moses. Awesome name.

I'm honored by your praise, K9keystrokes! And I bet your friend puts everyone to shame with her good looks, cutlets and all. If only they made them more comfortable! Oh! Oh! You know what would be awesome? Gel-based ones that are refrigerateable / microwavable, to keep one satisfied in hot/cold weather!

stugod on July 22, 2011:

Fear not fair bloom kimh039. Well sort of. In case of accidental loss while swimming scream at the top of your voice "Jelly fish"!!! and whilst everyone exits the pool retrieve your enhancements. Mike Myers covered the floater in The Spy who Shagged me although this was a different type of floater. What you need is the smg design breast arrestor gel. It comes in three colours. Is water proof to 6 atmospheres and tells the time on four different continents. (made the last bit up). Rivals who stirred up a media frenzy and stated it was in fact super glue were just jealous. In any event it was all a storm in a D cup you might say. Note! please seek medical advise before super gluing enhancements to your chest.

Kim Harris on July 22, 2011:

I'm very disappointed with this hub, Simone. I am desperately seeking ideas on how to fill my swimsuit top so the filling doesn't float out while I'm swimming. Perhaps another hub. Thanks anyway.

Wesman Todd Shaw from Kaufman, Texas on July 21, 2011:

Simone - you are a riot.

:=D>

I understand women's obsession with their breast sizes. . . .but breasts aren't my favorite thing so far as the female anatomy is concerned.

I go for those long cyclist legs, and that big ol' brain!!! YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Leg Men RULE!

India Arnold from Northern, California on July 21, 2011:

Simone, I laughed my rear off with this one! Your poignant phrasing and colorful sentence structure had me on the floor. Stuffing has not been an issue for me personally, but I do know many who feel this is an important topic. A (born male) friend of mine uses the cutlets you mention, but also agrees with the comfort issue you discuss. When She dresses to nines though--a more beautiful female figure does not exist!

This is fun, informative and offers some truly superb bra stuffing advice. Way up and awesome!

Cheers~

K9

Debra Buckland from United States on July 21, 2011:

I like your sense of humor. Voted funny. By the way, Victoria's Secret has a great Miracle Bra. Gives you an extra cup size. Looks great in the swim suit line, too!

invitationwrite on July 20, 2011:

By the way I voted up and funny,thanks??

Becky on July 20, 2011:

AgesMGMT, you probably have never been shopping for a bra, in fact, I know you haven't. So here is the scoop, you cannot find bras in A or B cup that are not padded. That is fact. Ask at your local stores and you will find out. It isn't her fault.

AgesMGMT from New York on July 20, 2011:

i'm dating a girl right now who where's a padded bra, and to be honest it kinda pissed me off when I found out. I'm still dating her and still would have dated her if I knew her breasts were smaller. Anyway I guess if they are more comfortable then that is a different reason but I see no reason to give off this false representation of yourself.

Venture Boyz from Floating in the clouds on July 20, 2011:

Ha great ideas here Simone. Becky you can not be serious!!! Water ballons, really? That is awesome. That is actually a great idea. What about water balloons filled with lotion or some type of thicker fluid that would be less likely to explode or leak. Hmmm. I'll be back.

Rebecca Mikulin from Sheridan, Wyoming on July 20, 2011:

While this doesn't have much practical application for me (in fact, I've offered to give away a few cup sizes so I can stop traveling 200 miles to shop in the nearest specialty store), it was certainly an enjoyable read. I'll certainly have to pass this on to my sister, who accuses me of having stolen all there was available in the family :P.

Becky on July 20, 2011:

Here is another option for your stuffing. My daughters' friend used water balloons. They were great until the ride home on the bus when she got shoved a little too hard. The balloon burst and she ended up soaking wet and lopsided. She got teased about that for quite a while. Soft and squishy though.

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 20, 2011:

Wow stugod. The Dr Carter Cheek Parter sounds like a the holy grail of the lingerie industry. Lordy lord!

And underwires really are something, aren't they, purplerose! So true though, about everyone looking in the mirror and wanting something else... and it's not just the case in the chest department!

I'm glad you're free of the burden, pics hosting. Though bra stuffing can always be enjoyed recreationally!

Oooh, thanks so much for the insider dude POV on false advertising, leroy64! Noted! And appreciated! The charade shall continue!

They *should* be called titting points, stugod.

And eeeeexcellent, anglnwu! It is quite amazing how humankind has applied so much effort and intelligence in the bra department.

Thanks for the kind words, Patty Inglish MS and onethousandpoems!

And heeeeeeeeeeee... you might think raw chicken cutlets would be a bad thing, Wayne Brown, BUT... think of how handy they'd be if everyone were starving around a campfire? Or if an overly-pursued woman wanted to give salmonella poisoning to any man fresh enough to try to cop a feel? Hehee.

Rochelle Frank, I shall have to check out that Hub. What promising title! Off I go!

Hup an under!

Rochelle Frank from California Gold Country on July 20, 2011:

Yes, I thought the chicken cutlets were a meat counter item, as I had never heard the term used that way. I know some skirts have 'pork chop' pockets, but I have found that they are not practical for holding real pork chops. That being said, I hope you might look a my hub, "OK Ladies, What's in your Bra", for a few more options.

Wayne Brown from Texas on July 20, 2011:

Funny stuff but true as well. You shook me up there a bit when you discussed the chicken cutlets. I had horrible visions of young women running the bars with raw chicken breasts in their bras...love to go home with that! Yeehaw! Thanks for sharing. WB

onethousandpoems on July 20, 2011:

This is an excellent and most hilarious hub I found here.

Patty Inglish MS from USA and Asgardia, the First Space Nation on July 19, 2011:

Very very funny!

anglnwu on July 18, 2011:

You cracked me up. As one less endowed than I would like to be, i must say that these suggestions have sprouted ideas in my head. Haha--things we would do. Goes to show how ingenious we can be. Rated up.

stugod on July 18, 2011:

leroy64 is spot on here. The industry term for it is the tipping point. Not titting point a common misconception. Once at this stage there is no going back inverted nipples or no inverted nipples. Its more common name being the point of no return. In any event once at this stage copping a feel is a must. Amateur short wave radio buffs are notorious for spending hours on this activity seems almost endemic to them. Myself I usually head south asap. Not one to miss an opportunity. Had a bad experience as a teenager when it was "snatched" away from me. Snooze Ya Loose so long suckers.

Brian L. Powell from Dallas, Texas (Oak Cliff) on July 17, 2011:

I learned more than I wanted to; but, I could not stop reading. One male observation on the comment about "false advertising". Once we guys get to the point of undressing our girlfriend, dates, etc., I assure you we are quite beyond disapointment. Just keep up the act so his friends will be jealous.

pics hosting on July 16, 2011:

no need to stuff any thing in bra.

purplerose on July 15, 2011:

i dont have the bra stuffing problem, but sometimes wish i did. now that i am older i hate having to tuck them into my waistband or sling them over my shoulders to keep them out of my way. just kidding, a really stiff matronly underwire does the trick instead. seriously i dont think there is a woman alive anywhere in the developed world who has not looked at her breasts and wished they were bigger smaller rounder firmer softer etc etc etc. sad really isn't it that we still judge ourselves on bodily attributes that we cant really change in the normal course of our lives.

stugod on July 14, 2011:

Thank you Simone Although the thong does match with the over the Shoulder Boulder Holder we do sell it separately. If this is the case you should order the Dr Carter Cheek Parter. Before you suspend your belief please bear with me a second. Dr Carter was our lead designer in our lingerie department and met with a tragic accident late one night. whilst carrying out some design details. At the coroners inquest a verdict of death by misadventure was recorded "An understatement if ever there was one". I still see the rather large lady who was modelling that fateful night from time to time gibbering and trembling her way along the side walk. She occasionally shouts "Hup an under" but have no idea why. In any event we decided to name the garment after our sadly departed colleague.

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 14, 2011:

Oh, and thank you ever so, fashion! :D

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 14, 2011:

I shall have to trot over to the local VS store and have a look at this bombshell bra, danielleantosz! Sounds most promising... I mean, ANYTHING that refers to explosives can't be all that bad, eh?

Thanks Lady_E- and yeah, I think it's a wise choice.

Thanks to you, too, KMattox! The understudy role is YOURS!

Those are very flatting words, camsolivia! I am most honored. And shiruken are those ninja stars that one can throw :D I love the idea of using cutlets as ninja stars.

So glad it's not that bad, Peggy W! And lucky you for being so well endowed in the chest department! While stuffing is fun, methinks a life of dignity has its own special allure.

Thanks for clearing things up stugod. And goodness! I didn't realize your Shoulder Boulder Holder is part of a matching set! Brilliant!

LOL @Bailebear! And seriously. I knew they were machine gun jublys (I can HEAR Austin Powers saying that line!), but I had no idea they were 9mm. So glad we have some real experts in the thread.

fashion on July 14, 2011:

Such a funny hub and well written.A serious issue is created in a fun.I have no words.

Baileybear on July 14, 2011:

stugod - only a male would know what kind of boob firearms they were

Baileybear on July 14, 2011:

Peggy - my hubby tells a joke about the old woman feeling all nice and warm. Her husband says that's because one boob is in her porridge and the other is in her cup of tea!

Peggy Woods from Houston, Texas on July 13, 2011:

Wish I had that problem! Just the opposite... No padded bras or need for toilet paper or socks here! Of course with age...the bigger they are...have you seen the granny cartoons with the wahoos hanging down to her knees? Not quite that bad yet I am happy to report. :))

Camille Olivia Strate from Planet Earth on July 13, 2011:

As I said (a minute ago)...you are a HOOT! I LOVE this article. Still laughing (now) as I type this little note of gratitude. Not only is it funny, it's really quite eloquently written; in other words, your style is BEAUTIFUL! One question though: what, pray tell, is "shiruken"? Looked it up (in my huge, leather-bound dictionary as well as online) and could not find a definition.

Thanks for your hysterically funny "tips".

KMattox from USA on July 13, 2011:

By the way I voted up and funny :)

KMattox from USA on July 13, 2011:

Hi Simone! Great hub, very funny! It's a little disappointing knowing the job of inspector is taken, but what the heck maybe I can be understudy?

In any case, I saw that you visited my hub and thought I would return the favor. When I read the title I just couldn't resist, so I read this one first. I going to look at some of your other hubs now also. This is funny and very well written. Thanks again.

Elena from London, UK on July 13, 2011:

Fun Hub and useful too. I'd go with Padded instead of surgery. :)

Baileybear on July 13, 2011:

firearms - ha ha. Didn't they have something like that on Austin Powers?

danielleantosz from Florida on July 13, 2011:

Funny hub! On a more serious note, there are self adhesive "chicken cutlets" that work really well, and while I do not like promoting actual products, the Victoria Secret Bombshell bra is freaking awesome. Mine can be regular straps or cross backed, which helps since I have a bad back.

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 12, 2011:

This is quite true, Baileybear. Quite true indeed. Though I think there are *some* instances in which the crazy padding and tight tops is appropriate. Sometimes one wishes to add comedic value to one's appearance.

And thank god for scaffolding! Love the stuff. As for boob surgery... yeah, I'll be passing on that, too..... until they can build in sonar and GPS. I'm really intent on that. Or maybe firearms. That'd be awesome.

And stugod, that sounds like a most wondrous invention! And I'm glad you've purchased that hand warming device, because good god, nothing spells discomfort like an icy hand!!

Baileybear on July 10, 2011:

Small busts are much easier to dress than large busts. Just don't go and draw extra attention with tight tops after all the padding - when it sits too high it looks strange.

As for my 'girls' they've been stretched from pregnancy. Need to hoist them up in scaffolding (bra). Said to hubby that even if I could afford a breast-lift, I wouldn't have one - apparently boob surgery is horrendously painful for starters. It all goes south eventually.

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 10, 2011:

You know it, stugod. And excellent! You're on as our official breast inspector then.

And DRAT, Baileybear! Go on and dash my breast augmentation dreams. I was hoping to have special ones engineered complete with built-in sonar and GPS. But now you've made them seem so... tacky.

You flatter me, Mark Ewbie. Do go on. And suuure, intellect matters.... I guess.....

Curves, eh Chatkath? Most interesting- especially that they've become less popular! I wonder if women are becoming more popular indeed... or if plastic surgery is just becoming more cost-effective.

I think anyone is justified to give tissue-stuffing a go for at least a short period, kittythedreamer. Glad you've moved on to the padded bras, though! Goodness gracious, I love mine.

Kitty Fields from Summerland on July 10, 2011:

Too stinkin' hilarious! Admittedly, I used to use tissue as a pre-teen. Half of my friends already had b and c cups and I was slacking with barely an a. Nowadays I just love myself and I love what I got so I don't feel a need for stuffing any longer...but I do get a nice padded bra with a lot of lift. :)

Kathy from California on July 10, 2011:

How funny Simone- For 12 years I worked at Bodylines where we marketed "Curves" (they look a lot like the cutlets you put in your bra) they were more popular than you might think...Hollywood, etc. This was also during the surgery scare where many "smart" women were scared of the associated problems. I think the popularity tapered off some and I am hoping that women can now try to accept what they have and don't have up top and learn to live with it! I have, although it took me awhile;-) Great Hub Idea!!!! Rated up

Baileybear on July 10, 2011:

You can always say 'more than a handful is a waste'

Mark Ewbie from UK on July 10, 2011:

I probably shouldn't be reading this sort of stuff but it's a great title and by Simone so what else to do? I always say that a womans intellect is vastly more important than her breast size. I always say that...

Baileybear on July 09, 2011:

what's worse than padding is the women that get boob jobs & go over the top by getting many sizes too big for their frame. Looks ridiculous and obvious.

eg check out pics of Rebecca Breeds (Australian Soap actress). She looks like she went from an A cup to a DD, but should have stopped at a B or C if she was going to do that with her body, IMO (she's only short)

stugod on July 09, 2011:

Bloody cheek. I even have the baseball cap with boob inspector logo. Although I must confess I thought they were two cakes with a cherry on each one.

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 09, 2011:

Good point, Baileybear... I do suppose it'd be awkward to undress a woman only to discover she's been stuffing. It's sort of false advertising in a way. Though I think it could also be quite comedic. But LOL at the super high enormous padded boobs! I suppose that's something to avoid. Which is why all good stuffing options involve things going *below* the breast instead of above.

And I think it's a brilliant solution, drbj. What a fabulous and flattering way to pack a meaty snack, right? And then the cutlets are all nicely preheated!

Ah yes, the frog stuffing option. 'Tis such a good one, stugod- thanks for bringing it up! There is so much we can learn from the classics!

And thanks jacqui2011! I think we should both be proud of the fried eggs on our chests. At least that's less to flop around in an uncomfortable manner, right? And hey, if padding gets you cleavage, that's still more tan I've got! Man, the only cleavage I can produce happens when I bend over when wearing saggy pants.

And right you are, stugod. Eggs is eggs. Though I think we can all agree that one doesn't want scrambled eggs on one's chest. Best keep them fried of boiled.

Lucky you, kat11! You're going to have to flaunt your natural endowment for those of us who have nothing to flaunt. Way to go!!

Stugod, I'm so glad to have your help on this front. Though... you're certified, right? We want to make sure that any inspection is done by real experts, as I'm sure you'll understand. Nothing is so tedious as an inexperienced breast inspector.

kat11 from Illinois on July 09, 2011:

A real unusual hub topic but funny. The only time I really had to do this I was in junior high. I have been told by male friends and my husband that I am just the right size. I am not sure what that means. I also nursed three children part of their first year of life. Now that I am in my late 40's I am still in pretty good shape. Keep writing about the neat topics. You Go Girl!

stugod on July 09, 2011:

I prefer boiled eggs. But what the heck eggs is eggs.

jacqui2011 from Norfolk, UK on July 09, 2011:

Such a funny hub and well written. Im still laughing now. I, too, seem to have been shoved to the back of the queue when breasts were being handed out. I have taken to wearing gell filled bras to give myself some cleavage. The only problem is, when I take my bra off at night its a big disappointment when I see what is left. My partner says I should be proud of my fried eggs!! Lol.

Stuart Goddard from Bradford on July 08, 2011:

I knew a girl who put frogs in here bra.I know she was in one flew over the cuckoos nest. But I sort of knew her. Watched it 3000 times.

drbj and sherry from south Florida on July 08, 2011:

How about using REAL chicken cutlets for bra stuffing? Then you would always know where your next meal is coming from!

Thanks for the funny read, Simone.

Baileybear on July 08, 2011:

ha, that's hilarious. My average-sized boobs have been ruined from pregnancy. I asked hubby what he thought small breasts would look like post-pregnancy. He said, maybe like tea-bags? He thought women stuffing their bras must be a disappointment to undress.

One girl I knew that was self-conscious about her small breasts went overboard with padding - it ended up making her look enormous up too, but sitting too high.

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 08, 2011:

FloraBreenRobison- I know, right???

And aw man, ezhang, you've BEEN DOING IT ALLLL WRONG!!! Thank goodness for my helpful guides. WHERE WOULD YOU BE WITHOUT ME????

Thanks BizGenGirl! Just trying to cover the important issues out there. Real hard-hitting stuff, this is.

PermissionGiver from Lake Stevens on July 08, 2011:

You always pick the most interesting topics to hub about, lol.

Edward Zhang from Bay Area, CA on July 08, 2011:

Socks won't do the trick? Oh geez, *now* you tell me! I've been doing it wrong all this time!

FloraBreenRobison on July 08, 2011:

I'm average-sized. I have had padded bras before. I find them more comfortable. This is the first I have heard of socks being used, though! yuck!

I enjoy giving advice to others on how to do those little tasks that require precicse hand movements, like undoing a bra.

What's that, sonny? You've never undone a bra before? Well, gee whiz! You've come to the right place!

If there's one thing I love to do, it's undoing bras. When other kids were out playing catch, learning basic social skills, and learning to read and write, I was sitting at home, having a go at various female undergarments. I know my stuff.

Lucky for you, I've decided to share my knowledge. By the end of this guide, you'll know how to remove not only simple bras but also slightly more advanced chest-supporting contraptions (because god knows, they're out there). You shall find that the process is by no means daunting, and is, on the contrary, quite satisfying and fun!

Basic Bra ATTACK!

Let's start with the basics: undoing a simple, no-frills (aside from the obvious cute bows and lace) bra. Seeing as most womenfolk are somewhat uncreative with their undergarments, you're most likely to encounter one of these.

Take a look at the basic components pictured above. Nothing to be afraid of here. What you see is two hooks at one end of the bra and three rows of eyes (to accommodate varying sizes). Seeing as you're a real sharp kid, you probably realize that the hooks loop through the eyes. Well done! Someone ought to give you a medal.

But let's address the important part: how these two ends may be separated. All this entails is a simple one-handed pinch.

1. Place one thumb on one end of the clasp and one forefinger on the other side
2. Pinch the ends in toward each other
3. Before long, the hooks will slide out of the eyes

Voila! The ends of the bra will SPRING apart in a most satisfying fashion.

Level 2: The Negligee

Undoing a girl's bra is like riding a bike. Once you get it down, you've got it down. But wait! There's more! That's right—you'll find the classic bra clasp in more incarnations than just the simple bikini-like bra. Many slips and negligees, for example, utilize the same clasping system.

For the most part, disassembly steps are EXACTLY the same:

1. Put fingers in place at either side
2. Pinch
3. RELEASE

But then you'll have to deal with the pull-up or step-out-of dilemma—basically whether the slip should be subsequently pulled over your dear friend's head, or whether it should be slid down and stepped out of. This depends on two factors:

• Your lady friend's hair/makeup
• The sort of back said slip or negligee has

If your lady friend has fancy hair or makeup going on, do not muss it up by pulling what might be slightly abrasive (e.g., lacy) fabric over it. Bad bad bad. In such cases, it is either better to pull the slip down, or to step back and let your opponent remove the rest of the garment herself.

If your counterpart happens to be wearing a negligee or slip that has a rather sizable opening in the back, it is meant to be slid down and stepped out of. If you realize that most of the back is exposed as you're undoing the clasp, by all means, feel free to just slide the thing down. If, however, there is no open back, this is most obviously a pullover style garment, so if you think you can manage and harbor the bravery, feel free (with your friend's assistance), to pull the garment over her head—shame on her for wearing something so difficult!

Getting Advanced: The Corset!

When you think of corsets, you might be reminded of the days of yore, but these convenient undergarments are still very much utilized, and make frequent comebacks.

Thankfully, unless you're dealing with specially made/particularly expensive/period costume pieces, most corsets you'll be coming up against are nothing more than amplified bras, at least when it comes to disassembly. That is to say, most utilize the same hook and clasp system that you'll find on mainstream bras.

The key to undoing these suckers, then, is just a calm disposition and a methodical approach. There are two main ways by which you can go about parting the sides of this camisole-like undergarment:

1. You may employ the pinch-and-release method, starting at the top and moving downward
2. You may utilize two flat hands at either side of the corset to squeeze each entire end together and release all the hooks from the eyes on one fell swoop (this is what I prefer).

This may take a bit of practice, but removing corsets is, in principle, as simple as removing simple bras. In my humble opinion, removing corsets, at least with hook-and-eye fastening, is easier than removing slips or negligees, because they come right off the front when undone.

Perspective, Perspective

Having a go at undoing a girl's bra might seem daunting at the beginning, but I hope this guide has proven to you just how simple the process is. In fact, removing bras today is easier than it has been for decades. I mean, consider what the 1800s dandy was up against! Proper ladies had ATTENDANTS lace up their undergarments for them... heck, men had to practically be tailors to disassemble them! Really, you've got it easy.

Not all bras utilize the clasp system outlined above, but those that do not are either sports bras, which are simply to be removed like shirts, or have buckle-like clasps, which you're more likely to be familiar with. So rest easy.

I hope you've found this guide to be helpful. If you have any additional tips to share, feel free to leave a comment.

And godspeed, Casanova. Godspeed.

© 2011 Simone Haruko Smith

Comments

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 28, 2011:

Wow stugod. I want a Velcro bra. That'd be awesome. Perfect for those days when one forgets to pay the gravity bill.

stugod on July 26, 2011:

Well lets get back to the matter in hand. Given half a chance. I did buy a former girl friend a Velcro bra. It was not the fastener though. The bra itself was made of Velcro. After some minor adjustments in the bedroom I found I could stick her to the bedroom wall and have my evil way. WARNING !!! Always ask permission before engaging in such activities as the repercussions can be serious indeed.

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 26, 2011:

Bahahaa! True! True!

50 Caliber from Arizona on July 26, 2011:

Simone Smith, not to forget treacherous behavior, Hahahaha, 50

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 26, 2011:

Hahahaa! Hey, never underestimate the wisdom and experience of Old Timers.

50 Caliber from Arizona on July 23, 2011:

stugod, then it's cool for me not to get it, being an old timer and my life suits me fine and I have enjoyed the past 2 decades this way. I got internet in 2008 as a gift from my little brother so he could contact me now and then. Since I've learned how to navigate much entertainment by reading here on the pages, thank you, dusty

Stuart Goddard from Bradford on July 23, 2011:

Well 50 cal your not going to get it living way back over yonder. These city galls are a bit too slick for us old timers. Had a look around some of your stuff seems an idyllic lifestyle you have there.

50 Caliber from Arizona on July 22, 2011:

Well stuart, ???? I don't get it, I'm kinda slow that way..., 50

stuart goddard on July 22, 2011:

Well 50cal now I have been made The Heavy Weight boob inspector of the world. No gouging No biting and No scratching. Low blows and Low sucks are cool. Let's Get Ready to Fumble. !!!!!!!!!!!!

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 22, 2011:

Hahaa! That's hilarious! I need to see that episode. And here's to the simple pleasures of life!

50 Caliber from Arizona on July 22, 2011:

Epic and entertaining topic. It made me think of an old "Happy Days" show where the Fonze showed the rest that were practicing on a bra around a trash bin, funny then and still. I really need to think harder towards the simple pleasures of life for topics, like this one turning out so well! 50

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 18, 2011:

Thanks fashion! And so true, stugod. I'm glad you're clearing these things up because even my grade school teachers told me that it was Pasteur who was responsible for the glass bra. Ah, the lies that are perpetuated by our public school system!

stugod on July 14, 2011:

It's a common misconception to think that the glass bra was invented by Louis Pasteur in his early attempts at pasteurization. I can assure you this is not the case as my great uncle Seymore fitz was the sole inventor of said undergarments and as his name suggests is clearly incontestable I rest my case.

fashion on July 14, 2011:

You got unique idea.hilarious Hub! you solved a little problem.

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 14, 2011:

stugod, I just made the (mistake? smart move?) of Googling "glass bra."

And good god. That's one heck of an epic bra. Just consider the potential.... CONSIDER!!!

stugod on July 12, 2011:

I thought we had exhausted this subject until one of our design team reminded me of a commission we received to design a quick and efficient method for older ladies and larger types, that were struggling with conventional clasps. The design we came up with was so efficient that it had unexpected benefits as it also acted as an anti ageing product. The clasp was so fast that as it released the larger boob it had the effect of removing all the wrinkles from the wearers face. Although for the first hour the wearer did take on the appearance of a sky diver. This effect was only temporary as gravity balanced things out. But within the first few hours the lady could get some lippy on and dash down to the local bar and pull herself a guy. I did have some thoughts on the morning after breakfast scene. But clearly that was beyond the scope of our design.

stugod on July 12, 2011:

I did here a rumour that a glass bra was being marketed. No big deal to me. Smash and Grab innit.

Got previous form for it. No follow ups pleeeeeeeeease. lol

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 08, 2011:

LOLOLOL

stugod on July 08, 2011:

I did here that the American style was two yanks and it's off. Could not resist it Simone.lol

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 06, 2011:

Oh, thanks glassvisage! You're quite right- the key is in understanding how the dang things work. I'd tell guys to head off to lingerie departments and have a look themselves, but they'd probably not want the odd stares.

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 06, 2011:

marshacanada, I am SO WRITING THAT HUB! I've just started it. I owe you one for that!

LOL Mark Ewbie- what a funny joke. OBVIOUSLY you know that upon being sold her first bra, every woman must sign a form promising to never reveal how that trick works. Surely your wife told you this. Such are our secrets!

glassvisage from Northern California on July 06, 2011:

Haha, I love the "advanced corset" section :) The photos are helpful because I feel like a lot of people get "hung up" because they don't understand how a bra works. Now I just do it with one hand :)

Mark Ewbie from UK on July 05, 2011:

Excellent advice Simone, and I wish I had known about it when I first started wearing womens clothing. Of course not. When I first, well, anyway.

What I don't think you covered is the Houdini like trick when a woman wearing a shirt, plus pullover (or top WHATEVER!) says "I'm hot, I'll just take this bra off" and then with a couple of movements she is pulling the whole thing down one arm of her top garments.

Deserves a round of applause that, and it ALWAYS impresses me.

When I say woman, I mean my wife, so please don't think I'm having more fun than I should.

If I were to rate my technique by the way it would be fumbler.

FloraBreenRobison on July 05, 2011:

ha! I love it marshacanada.

marshacanada from Vancouver BC on July 05, 2011:

A good laugh to start my morning. Now how about a hub for teen age girls on "How to fill a bra."

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on July 02, 2011:

Oh, I'll have to check out that Hub, Chatkath! Lingerie is such fun.

And hahaa, I bet your boys are already total pros, akirchner! Thank you ever so for the kind words :D

Tehehee, thanks FloraBreenRobison. I really feel for all the frustrated guys out there. Who KNOWS how many men are losing their minds fiddling with difficult undergarments this VERY second??

FloraBreenRobison on July 01, 2011:

My favourite part is when you say "shame on her for wearing something so difficult." :)

Audrey Kirchner from Washington on June 30, 2011:

Good lord, I'm glad my boys are men now - though they may still give a look at this~ Thank goodness for your journalistic prowess in explaining these mysteries of life. I expect to see this featured as a segment on 60 Minutes soon~!

Kathy from California on June 30, 2011:

I should link to my lingerie hub, must get those basics down first and foremost! Part of the appeal! ;) Great How to!

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on June 30, 2011:

Gotta cover those important issues, Wesman Todd Shaw. Cupcakes and bras are serious social causes. I've got to bring my hard-hitting journalistic fervor to these underdog subject areas.

I've gotta tell you, CMHypno, my childhood was pretty unconventional, but it sure was fun!

And thanks fro stopping by nanospeck. Remember. It's all in the pinch. Easy as pie.

Akhil Anil on June 30, 2011:

In-sightful article!!! Thanks for sharing the tip..

CMHypno from Other Side of the Sun on June 30, 2011:

A slightly unusual way to spend your childhood Simone, but at least now you can educate our men in the ways of female underwear!

Wesman Todd Shaw from Kaufman, Texas on June 29, 2011:

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Never again will I be disparaging towards cupcakes, or hubs about them.

You are truly hilarious!

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on June 29, 2011:

Dude. That would be AWESOME. I would so buy a password protected bra.

Marina from San Francisco, CA on June 29, 2011:

the new wave of bras should be password protected. adding an entirely new element of complexity to what is already such a daunting task for many. hilarious Hub!

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on June 29, 2011:

Oh, good point about the value of hilarity, LiamBean. I hadn't thought about that! Hmmm.... well, thank goodness not all bras are so easy to unclasp. Let's hope teen girls start opting for the more strangely-fastening bras!

LiamBean from Los Angeles, Calilfornia on June 29, 2011:

Sheesh! Where ARE you going with these? I don't think teenaged boys really need a cheat sheet. Part of the "rite of passage" is figuring this stuff out on their own (heh heh heh); with hilarious results (of course).

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on June 29, 2011:

Excellent, A.A. Zavala. Glad to be of service!

Augustine A Zavala from Texas on June 29, 2011:

Adding to crib notes. Thanks!

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on June 29, 2011:

Dangit!! Ed, there are tears ALL OVER my keyboard now. It's totally short circuitdoihn;erjlskdfbxivc; klnm.,rdfx;c/lvbkn lm.

Edward Zhang from Bay Area, CA on June 29, 2011:

Aw, I hope you know that you just lost your biggest fan :(

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on June 29, 2011:

LOLOL - I'm branching out to more than bras with my series! You'll never guess who recommended it. I'm hoping out to corner out a nice little niche, here XD

Edward Zhang from Bay Area, CA on June 29, 2011:

Oh boy, you have a whole series ahead for unhooking bras?? I'm totally your biggest fan now!

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on June 29, 2011:

Just doing my civic duty, Jeannieinabottle. We've all got to pitch in, right? :D

Jeannie Marie from Baltimore, MD on June 29, 2011:

You have helped many young men all over the world with this hub. You are quite generous for this contribution to society. I thank you (even if I have the whole unsnapping the bra thing under control) for sharing this information.

Simone Haruko Smith (author) from San Francisco on June 29, 2011:

Thank you, ever so, Gordon Hamilton! I wish I could say it was my idea, hehee! I hope many a teenage boy finds this to be helpful. I'm all for giving them a leg up. No potential pun intended.

Thanks Peggy W. Hooooboy, I've got a whole series ahead of me. Writing is far too much fun XD

Peggy Woods from Houston, Texas on June 29, 2011:

You are too funny Simone!!! What will you think of next? Haha!

Gordon Hamilton from Wishaw, Lanarkshire, United Kingdom on June 29, 2011:

Fabulous idea for a Hub! Essential reading for every teenage boy, the world over. I hope they realise how lucky they are in these informative days of Internet... :)

I've been an online writer for over eight years. I love helping people feel more comfortable in their own skin!

People who assume they don't need to wear a sports bra often say, "I am not into sports or any physical activity, so I don't need one."

Girls and women often associate the sports bra with physical activity, but some doctors, experts, and everyday women recommend wearing one even if you aren't exercising. Here's a quick look into the benefits of wearing a sports bra.

1. They Help You Avoid Discomfort

Do you go to the gym, go for a walk, or maybe do some stretching exercises at the park? Even low-impact exercises, such as stretching or jogging, can be uncomfortable if your breasts are not held in place.

Good-quality sports bras are designed to handle movement and motion so that when you move, they will provide maximum support and hold your breasts firmly in place. Regular bras don't offer enough support, may cause tension on the shoulders, and can accumulate sweaty patches.

2. They Help Reduce Breast Pain

Muscle ligaments in a woman's breasts move up, down, and sideways whenever there is movement. This can sometimes result in pangs of pain after exercising. Because sports bras are designed to restrict the movement of breasts, users often report less or no pain at all even after rigorous workouts.

If you experience breast pain after exercising, you may want to see an expert to help you get the best-fitting sports bra for a comfortable and secure fit. If the pain persists, visiting your family doctor or any other qualified medical practitioner is recommended.

3. They Help You Avoid Nasty Stares and Drooling Faces

Do you find it annoying when people stare at your boobs while you are running on a treadmill? Do you find it embarrassing when people stare at your chest while you're working out? Does it make your blood boil when the pizza delivery guy talks to your boobs while you are in your comfort clothes? If you've been nodding along, maybe it is time you bought a sports bra to curb the menace.

One of the biggest advantages of wearing a sports bra is that it helps avoid nasty stares and glances. A good-quality sports bra fits snugly around the upper torso, holds the breasts in place, and to a significant extent, prevents them from bouncing during exercise. This is a big boon, especially for women with a bigger bust. While a sports bra cannot guarantee that guys will stop staring, it will reduce those embarrassing and awkward moments.

4. They Can Reduce Long-Term Sagging

Researchers believe that movement combined with inadequate support can lead to long-term sagging. In a study by the University of Portsmouth, scientists revealed that "breasts move far more than ordinary bras are designed to cope with." Wearing a sports bra is a commonly accepted remedy for sagging. It also helps prevent premature sagging.

5. Sports Bras Have Become Fashionable

Moving Comfort, Nike, Champion, Adidas, and all other major sportswear and apparel brands have come out with sports bra designs that are trendy. The online market place is full of sports bras of different designs, shapes, and colors.

They are a major fashion hit because you can wear them as a top. Celebrities and everyday women can be spotted wearing them in public at gyms and supermarkets, as well as around the house.

6. Sports Bras Are Great Alternatives to Regular Bras

Wearing sports bras is no longer limited to workout sessions. You can put one on even while lounging at home, doing chores, or running errands. They don't have straps so they are easy to slip on and take off. They also don't leave skin marks. They provide great support and are so comfortable that you will barely notice you have anything on.

7. Sports Bras Should Be Worn After Injury or Cosmetic Surgery

Women who have gone under the knife or those who are up-to-date with cosmetic surgery will be able to relate to the use of sports bras for healing. In the weeks after breast surgery or augmentation procedures, surgeons are known to recommend wearing a sports bra instead of the regular variety.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

Comments

Carrie on May 08, 2020:

I have issues getting sports bras on and off. I guess I’m not as flexible as I used to be.

Lorraine K on December 28, 2019:

I e worn sports bras daily for roughly 10 years They’re far more comfortable than regular bras and the straps never slip I’m 63 and my breast do not sag at all - even though I’m overweight I say forget the regular bras and stick with the sports bras

Ansley on May 26, 2018:

i’m 15 yrs old and my sports bras are tight and it’s comfortable for me, i want to keep my breasts small because i play 3 sports so i want to stay flat haha, will that give me breast cancer?

joe on September 06, 2017:

Yeah but you look like a tard with it on every day. Find something else to wear ffs people. every day of the week. you just look like THAT person we all talk about when you walk by.

Cynthia from North Myrtle Beach, SC on June 24, 2012:

Love it! I wear them too! They are so much more comfortable. I did have trouble at first finding ones that fit. Thanks for the info!

Trsmd from India on February 16, 2012:

I think that by seeing the review, those who are not interested in sports also will participate, which will provide them to wear this bra. Thanks for SHARING and pinned it.

princesswithapen (author) on July 08, 2011:

Yeah it feels great to say goodbye to those nasty straps when your wear a sports bra, doesn't it?

I'm super excited about the hubnugget nomination too! Thanks heaps for stopping by on this one.

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FloraBreenRobison on July 08, 2011:

Sports bras are extrememly comfortable. And you never have to worry about the straps needing realingment. And easy to take on and off too. Congratulations on your hubnugget nomination. I'm so excited. Someone I'm following has been nominated.

princesswithapen (author) on July 07, 2011:

Yep, that's the funny thing with sports bra. They may feel a little 'unusual' in the beginning, but once you get used to them you can't live without them.

Thanks for stopping by, Simone.

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Simone Haruko Smith from San Francisco on July 07, 2011:

Yeah, sports bras are fantastic! I don't know what I'd do without them. I practically LIVE in them when lounging about my apartment on warm days and working out. Lovely Hub :D

A nonconformist by nature, my passions are family, pets, social and environmental issues. It's critical to me that my bra fits well.

Infomercials claiming "The Miracle, Best Ever, Genie Bra!" have aired on several TV networks, and this bra has caused quite an upstir amongst women. Some consider it the best bra ever and others say it's nothing less than a horrible scam targeting unsuspecting women everywhere.

Who's right? I went online to order this miracle, test it, and let you all know what I think. Read on to see my review of the Genie Bra and the process of acquiring it.

The Infomercial for the Genie Bra: Accurate or Full of Hype?

The infomercial for the Genie Bra begins with scenes of several women struggling with obviously poor-fitting bras. The narrator says "you just know that most bras were invented by men," and introduces the show host, Jane Denoble, who looks pretty good in her blue dress (under which she claims to be wearing a Genie Bra). Ms. Denoble then introduces Stella Riches, a "fashion trend launcher" who tells us that the woven extra support comfort band means the bottom band won't roll up. She also assures us that the Everlast stretch fabric is intricately woven so that it moves with your body. It also provides support, eliminates top bulge, underarm spillage, back fat, and other concerns about ill-fitting cup sizes. They also tell us that if a woman wears a size small shirt, she'd wear a small Genie Bra (and a size medium shirt equals a medium Genie Bra, etc.)

Wow! this does sound like a miracle bra, and each of the various models looks great in their new bras. The infomercial offers six bras for the price of three.

I Initiated My Purchase

After checking what few reviews I could find, I went online to order the bra. I was then met with my first delay: The site didn't recognize my zip code. Okay, probably best to call them anyway, since I wanted to accommodate 36DDD (E girls!), and though the infomercial continuously emphasized this custom-conforming bra is for women of all sizes and showed a few 36/38DD girls, they did not specify any E girls. They also did not show an actual size chart on the broadcast. I thought it was in my best interest to ask a real person about the size.

The representative was very kind and a great salesperson. She said that size large would be perfect for 36E girls, so I proceeded with the order. She also sold me three of the lace-trimmed bras. She told me that my order should arrive within 2 to 3 weeks, and sent an order verification to our email.

And It Took Forever

I waited, and waited, and tracked, and waited, and then got nervous and checked the reviews again. After reading more recent reviews, a cloud of buyers remorse settled in like a dark storm cloud. Everyone's orders were apparently delayed. Then on May 18th, another email arrived, stating that the order had shipped.

The Genie Bra Email I Received About My Late Order

Dear genie customer,

Thank you for your order with geniebra.com. Your order number is xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx. Follow this link to check the status of your order. We are pleased to inform you that your order has shipped.

Shipping Date: 05/18
Order Date: 04/04

Quantity
Ordered UPC Code Product Description ........... Unit Price Qty/Shpd Amt

1 4-00202-40 SEAMLESS 3PC MULTI/L W/PADS........... $59.99 1 $59.99

1 4-00204-40 SEAMLESS LACE W/PADS 3PC L/MUL... $29.97 1 $29.97

Merchandise Subtotal: ................................................................... $89.96

Processing and Handling:.............................................................. $31.97

Sales Tax Total:................................................................................ $0.00

...................................................................................Order Total: $121.93

My Genie Bra Experience: Slow Shipping, Poor Sizing, and Extra Items on Invoice

That's odd. A charge for pads? There was no mention of pads in the infomercial, though I saw reviews that mentioned pads and asked similar questions: What were the pads for and how did they end up on my order?

Finally, after another 10 days, the miracle Genie Bras finally arrived on May 28th, about two months after I ordered them. Am I wrong in thinking the pony express would have been faster? Am I wrong in thinking that for a high cost of shipping, the package should have arrived faster than 10 days? Am I wrong in wondering why it took more than seven weeks to toss three pre-packaged bra sets into another bag?

I Finally Received My Bras

​Skeptically, I open the package, and inside the Tyvek envelope are three separate sets of three bras, three each, in white, black, and nude, one set lace-trimmed. Then I pull out a rather nice-looking white bra that does look like the ones seen in the TV ad. Yep, there are little pads hidden within tiny pockets that open to the side of each cup, and again I wonder why these pads weren't mentioned in the ad, but they do seem to add shape.

Product Inconsistencies

Having taped the infomercials, I watched it again: Nope, no mention of any pads, and somehow, the bras don't look exactly the same, either. The straps and band appear wider in the infomercial, and these cups look small, but let's see if they can accommodate the girls. Immediately, the E-girls are struggling to find space within the cups, and the thin fabric reveals the reason for the pads: Whoa! Everything shows through, especially on the white bra, and yes, these little pads definitely add a lot of shape. I began to wonder if XL might have been a wiser choice, but no, the straps on this bra are a bit loose actually, so XL would be too big. Darn! We're also noting a slight uni-boob look going on—ugh!—and some underarm spillage too, but the back is smooth. Okay, time to put a shirt on and see how it looks under my tops.

My Final Opinion on the Genie Bra

All in all, the Genie bra isn't as bad as I thought it would be.

My Overall Assessment of the Genie Bra

The Genie Bra is not uncomfortable, but there's a little too much jiggle to do anything but go to work or walk around in it. We definitely won't be exercising, speed walking, or running in these bras! What to do, what to do?

One way to minimize the excessive jiggle is by putting another bra on over the first one. It helps to also take the pad out of the inner Genie Bra, and leave the pad inside the outer Genie Bra. It looks and feels a little better. Pull the inner bra up in front a bit to avoid front and side spillover if it feels a bit tight. It should still be smooth in back. Wearing two Genie bras definitely provides more support.

​The bottom line: I think this just might be a "miracle bra" for girls that wear bra sizes up to 36D, and maybe even DDs. No miracles here for the bigger girls. You'll need to wear two bras at once if you want any support. Wearing one bra is really only good for casual sleep.

As far as the Genie Bra claims, on a scale of 1-10, here are the marks:

For comfort, the Genie Bra rates a 9.

For support, the Genie Bra rates a 3 or 4. Just not enough lift!

For style, the Genie Bra rates a 6 or 7. Not bad-looking, but there's lots of room for improvement.

Questions & Answers

Question: Should I take the padding out of my Genie bras before I wash them?

Answer: I don't believe that is necessary, especially since these should be laundered by hand or delicate cycle.

Comments

Denise on August 25, 2020:

I purchased 2 orders of the TLC bras in 2 different sizes with the same cup size - 1 was too big, the other too small and extremely difficult to put on. The bra was not supportive even though I adjusted the shoulder straps. The fabric beneath the bra that's supposed to hug around your upper torso kept bunching up under my breasts.Thought the whole idea was to be comfortable and supportive?? Returned both orders for refund. Very disappointing! I don't think these are appropriate for those of us with larger breasts even though the cup sizes are available. The models in the infomercial did not seem to be full busted.

Laura on August 15, 2020:

These have no support, I’d like to hear reviews on the new tlc bra, not the old ones, I bought some bras from true and they are amazingly comfortable so I don’t want to buy more genies until I hear the reviews on the new tlc, thankyou in advance

Marsha on August 12, 2020:

I don't think you got the original Genie Bra. I have had ones like you describe and did not like. However, The Genie Bra TLC is great! It does not have removable pads. It has something that I would call an inside bra, It has adjustable straps that run inside the straps you see. They stay in place unlike the removable ones. The band stays in place. The only issue I have is when I put it on, I have to tug and sorta unroll the back. Once in place, it is very comfortable.

Nocgirl on August 08, 2020:

Thx for this review I’ve been watching the infomercial in the nail salon I will pass on these bras after your review the super long shipping time and extra charges don’t excite me

Diane, NY on August 06, 2020:

So I bought 6 of the original genie bras ($9.99) years ago, they really didn't fit as I was to big busted, so I gave them to my daughter. They were best for sleeping and not much else. I then purchased the Perfect form which I also use for sleeping but I can get away with running a quick errand with a Big tee shirt on, but nothing fitted. What has happened to the Perfect Form I don't know. I brought 2 at the time for 24.99. When I go to the site they aren't listed.

Lila on August 04, 2020:

I was sized as a 30 J. Since then I’m about 20 pounds heavier. Guessing I’m a 32 or 34 K by now. Thank you for the heads up!!!

Char on August 03, 2020:

It took forever to get them they have absolutely no courtesy they were out of stock and you have no clue they do not send a email letting you know!!!

Here is the BEST PART THEY ROLL NOT VERY COMFORTABLE. I threw them out after believing them. I spent $108 I threw them out because I realized that if they didn't let you know they were out of stock they're not going to give you back your money. I'll go back to the wire bras.

Kay Vincent on August 01, 2020:

I was pretty excited about ordering the Genie TLC advertised on TV. The order took a little longer than expected, but I did finally receive. The bras I received were not what I ordered. The video plainly showed an under bra with separate straps, not small pads installed into a much larger section of double fabric. Therefore, the pads slip around freely. I ordered the 3-pack, plus one lace bra. I received all lace bras. The sizing was fine, the bra was comfortable enough, but I've had a few similar to these and the are not worth the $25.00 that they ended up costing me. I can buy them for much less. But, I'm looking a much more secure pad.

Thelma on July 28, 2020:

I don't believe the bra is true to size, because my regular size is 38DD. I will return the 38 DD/DDD for a larger cup size if available and a larger band size because it rolls up.The pads could be larger for more breast coverage and support. Hopefully it comes in larger than DD/DDD

Kimberly White on July 20, 2020:

I wear a 42-DDD or 42-E when available. I bought several different sizes but finally the XXL was the best fit. When I first put it on it fits pretty good but the longer I wear it the lower my breasts fall. (To my waist). I can only wear them as sleep bras and around the house. I could never go in public with them. They are quite comfortable but little to no support after wearing them for a while. I was really hoping that this would be my miracle bra but the search goes on.

Bf19703 on July 16, 2020:

If you have a longer torso, the bra sits too high and there is no way to adjust strap length. All you can do is keep tugging it back into position.

ordered on March 4, took till June 18 to get on July 05, 2020:

The size way too small, the "pads" about size of inside part of palm looks more like a pad to cover nipple leakage for new mothers. I got XL (am size 42 c) is way, way, too small, no coverage for back fat or love handles. Absolutely no support. Looks like if I put in washer, I would get rags out at end. Was buy 2 get 1 free, got two after 4 MONTHS, haven't seen # 3, gave to a smaller person, told her if doesn't fit, throw them in garbage. Cost is excessive. Material is very thin.

Cynthia on May 16, 2020:

I was looking forward to trying this "great product " bought one today. And im NOT impressed at all . No support. I feel like im wearing a tube top with straps. Will not recommend this product to anyone i know.

Patricia Collins on May 11, 2020:

I ordered my 2nd set may 3rd I got them today last time I got xl and it was small but I wore them anyway . This time I got 2 x and it’s covers my breast good . I will probably order more they are very comfortable. I am

Patricia Collins on May 08, 2020:

I’m a double d and it was too small and not enough support it’s not for big girls I kept asking the man on the phone what size should I get that I’m a big woman with dad n sometimes according to the bra a triple d He insisted on me getting a extra large and it was too small it’s a fight to get in it and the pad after being stretched out looks like a nipple cover It is very comfortable So I have recently decided to try again with ordering the 2x We will see how it goes

Diane on May 03, 2020:

i ordered 40ddd jan 19 2020 still haven received constantly told 2 moe werks well just receive a postcard from them on may 1 2020 says if we dont hear from you within 30 days your order will be cancelled march i got a post card said march 13th ill be receiving my order i have called several times and always a different answer and of course now its due to the pandemis ummm i ordered in january. Ill never ever order from them again. When i ordered the operator said within 2 weeks id be receiving mh order. Id rather pay mire money for my bras than deal with thdir lies.

Diane Cole on April 19, 2020:

The removable pads are a great nusance. After they come out of the washer I always have to put the bra and pads back together. I'm wasting time sewing the pad opening closed and tacking the pads in place. I've already purchased the bras and I'm attempting to make them easy to maintain. Please offer the bras with the option of the pads being sewn in place. I don't have time to wash them separately.

Teri on February 07, 2020:

I ordered out of a catalog some months ago. I wear 48DDD so I ended up with 4x according to the chart. 3 for about $40.00 I guess. They fit great but the pads do shift and the straps start to slip at times. I’ve found that hand washing is best. The pads especially. My issue are the pads there are like three layers the middle being the cushion the outer layers start to peel away after awhile. Hand washing does keep the bras soft and not shrink, Woolite or baby laundry soap is best. If you must machine wash a free and clear soap or Woolite is best,NO softener ever or washing after washing loads with bleach. And use delicates bag warm or cool wash.

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Natalie on December 19, 2019:

I would recommend reading other Genie Bras reviews before making up your mind to buy them.

l wood on June 02, 2019:

the ones with actual straps are very good. the others with just the material wide straps are no good

Marlene Zuercher on September 05, 2018:

I have 6 of these bras. At first, I thought about returning them and then I noticed you actually step into them. I took the pads out and they fit great! I ordered a Large - normally wear 38 D or DD and these hold me up and stay comfortable all day long. I was going to order more as I've been wearing these about 2 years. I machine wash them in cold water and hang them on hangers to dry and then fold them and put them in a dresser drawer and these are the only bras I wear. Oh, I am 81 years old and still have shape and very little sag. Cannot pass the "pencil test" any more but can go braless around home and not become embarrassed if someone comes over.

Pat on August 16, 2018:

Bad bra, good only to sleep in! Would never recommend it!

Jennifer Ann on June 03, 2018:

Does anyone know you are not supposed to put these bras on over your head? You step into them & pull them up! Also, if you looked around the site and read you would know that they have different bras that have different purposes (I.e. sports bra.) You can’t blame them because you purchased the wrong size, I’ve never had a problem with things not fitting me but I’ve always made sure I ordered the right size!

Linda Fostano on March 20, 2018:

Waiting for product to arrive and after a week or so got an email stating that they were on back order. Still2 weeks later got an email saying the order was cancelled. Yes $59.95 ended up to over $80.00 . Now a cancellation, what’s up with this product, they offer 10% discount for canceling the order on another order, yes like I want to do this again. Not

Rose Marie on February 14, 2018:

I place an order by phone last week, still no email confirmation. I called and there was no record of my order. After reading the above review, I don't think I will reorder. Also, the people on the phone had very heavy accents, there was much noise in the background (both times) and I don't know if this is a company I can trust to have my credit card info on file.

Shirley Dasch on January 09, 2018:

I ordered 3 bars, 4 pairs of leggings.

2 pairs of pants size L/XL, could not pull up over my calf's, the bars are cut way to small, there size chart does not match the size. Everything is cut way to small.

Save your money, buy platex or just my size. Very disappointed. ..

Linda on December 27, 2017:

My husband noticed that i was having trouble with the bras that i had been wearing...they were too small he said. All i noticed was they were getting tight on me...so on a whem my husband bought me a.(Bamboo Bra ) and im telling you now that this is the BEST BRA I'VE EVER WORN ( hands down ) So ladies go to your nearest Wal-Mart ( this is where he purchased mine ) and you will absolutely Love Love Love it...they have a great lift and no bulging just a great fit...i just thought I would share my story with thr woman that cant find a good fitting bra ....this bra is very comfortable and one last thing...im very happy my husband thought enough of my breats that he took it upon himself to make me comfortable ....i lnew i loved him but this is thoughtful and it makes me love him more ...but im sure he had bis own agenda...LOL

Genny on October 22, 2017:

After I struggled to get the thing on, the band immediately rolled up. My boobs were smashed nearly flat in my XL Genie Bra (I am a 38C- size 14-16 shirt), according to sizing, I should have been able to wear a Large. I was so tired by the time I got this bra on, that I cut it off!! There is NO support. The sizing is totally wrong. I had spillage on the sides and back fat spillage. This bra, in my opinion, gets a negative 1. Worst Bra Ever!!!!

Ava on September 25, 2017:

I bought mine at Walmart. Double D here and sick of the underwire pain so thought I would try something that would be more comfortable. Sadly uniboob city. Doesn't really lift and separate but it is very comfortable. I bought the large and still a pretty tight fit. I will wear but won't buy more

Darla money on July 30, 2017:

Having had breast cancer,and after a mastectomy, and reconstruction,the genie bra,is a miracle for me.It was the only thing I could find that made me look normal.A life changer for me.It would be nice,if they were a bit cheaper.

Esther Balch on June 23, 2017:

If I had a doll I doubt if it would it. I ordered large it is

so small I barely got it over my head. Awful

Pam on May 10, 2017:

I purchased zip front bras on the Genie bra 60 days guarantee. The first two bras did not fit so I returned and exchanged them for a larger size. Those bras did not fit either so I returned the bras again for a full refund. They stated that they will refund your money within 2-3 days after return. No, they do not and they have not returned the money after a month. This is a extremely unethical and rip off company.

Pam Forest on May 01, 2017:

Don't waste your time. The fit was poor two times. I sent both orders back and then they gave me a run around about giving a credit on my credit card. It is more trouble and aggravation dealing with them than it is worth.

And, the bras do not fit well at all. At least the ones I bought did not.

Lee on April 30, 2017:

I was gifted them because of bad sizing for the person who ordered. They have pads and are comfortable. I'm in my 50's and would wear them as a sport bra and in my line of labour work. I'm happy with product.

S Alston on February 18, 2017:

I was disappointed because their claim that the size of your top would fit the size of genie bra you should orsder was totally FALSE!

I CALLED THEM ABOUT MY ISSUE and asked to get a truer size. They seemed to want to give me flack about it. Like sending me the RAM Envelope was such a hassle.

I ordered a L, they sent me an XL that was so tight when I wore it that I had to find a fitting room to take it off after my event. It was like I needed a 2X. Money Wasted!

Linda Brown on February 04, 2017:

Genie bras are the most comfortable I have ever found, BUT the band and shoulder straps always start to feel too tight after a few hours. Am still searching for something better.

Michelle on December 05, 2016:

Has anyone tried the Custom genie?

Michelle on November 13, 2016:

I've been waiting 21 days for my order. They keep telling me to be patient. My order is on its way. All I can track is that a label was printed and UPS is waiting for the product. Yet $85 has been taken from my account.

frances on September 10, 2016:

I'm probably a good deal older than you gals, I like my Genie bras. Except the camisole, it gives me a uniboob that isn't comfortable. Otherwise, I wear them every day.

Lee on August 20, 2016:

I bought 3 "cami" bras from the shopping channel in Canada. They are definitely more comfortable than my expensive underwires, but don't have much for lift. I wear them around the house or under hoodies.

S mcgregor on August 04, 2016:

Where can I send it back

Pat Murphy on June 13, 2016:

I ordered 2 beige originals and 2 black origins. I got the beige and the next day got 2 lace trimmed black bras. The lace trimmed are horrible. The lace does not stretch so they are almost impossible to get on and off. I called customer service and was told they don't have nay of the originals left. NONE. Not in black, not in beige, not in blue, not in any color. I was then offered a $10 coupon for future purchase and I could just keep the lace bras. I said no, I want a complete refund with a mailing label so I don't have to pay shipping, and she said she would send it to my email but never did.

fantasia86 on June 12, 2016:

What a rip off. There was a sale on three bra's, so we ordered three. Over a month and no bra. Call and am told that it showed they shipped, butt hey actually hadn't - what does that mean? So they say they will send out replacement. Replacement? You just said you never mailed out the first set. Three weeks later two bra's arrive. Uniboob in front. Straps are about 1" - 1 1/2" too long so not much in support. Is not smooth in back and the band rolls up. Called three more times to get the third bra that we paid for, and 6 months later it still has not arrived. We thought we could at least sell it on ebay.

Wendy on June 05, 2016:

The bra is NOT easy to zip up and is very frustrating. When I do finally get it zipped up the zipper splits from bottom to top. If you can finally get the bra on and zipped it is comfortable. It does not hide the underarm flab at all. It is just a comfortable bra to wear when you are not wanting to impress any one...if you can get it zipped!!!!

e estell on May 09, 2016:

no support for larger busted women wish i could give them back worthless over priced

Kris D. on January 16, 2016:

Not thrilled. Ordered these from a online catalog site and was hoping for something comfortable, supportive and soft with no underwire. Even though I'm a 44B (weird size I know) I really need some lift and shaped cups are usually too big for me. The shipping wasn't bad but when I got them and put them on I was disappointed. The first problem was how snug they were and that they do roll in the front. Having asthma, I don't need anything else constricting my ribcage. Second, they create a major uniboob and being "small" busted doesn't change or help that. I will probably wear these around the house and out just running errands but definitely not to work or church. Can't recommend.

cvs on January 16, 2016:

Poor customer service through the genie bra website. Wrong items are shipped and they expect you to pay shipping and handling (twice) to get the correct item. File a complaint with the Better Business Bureau of Connecticut under Tristar Products, inc. That is the only way we can band together and fight this company from ripping us off. It's not about the money since these are rather inexpensive items, but if we let them get away with stealing even a small amount from us, their unethical behavior will continue for the next customer. I filed my complaint this morning.

Diane on November 26, 2015:

Shoulder band slip off on one side. Underband curls at the front. Bra pads move. What support?

bfauchon@videotron.ca on October 10, 2015:

the black genie bra theres sooomutch dye in it and it gives me a rash its about 20 times I wash it and the dye stills comes out where does the material come from it should be cotton mix where theres no dye at all its no good for our skin and the pad in it the material comes off to

thank you

punkin on August 29, 2015:

I have 2 different sized cups. This is the first bra which makes me look normal.

Kluenii on June 14, 2015:

Not seeing any comments regarding the issue I had. Just purchased a Genie Bra at my local Walmart. I currently wear an XL, so purchased the 1x bra. Got it home and decided to try it on. Zipped up fine and felt really comfortable ...but the moment I took a breath "POP" ! Zipper splits bottom to top. Struggle to move the slider down to the bottom, zip it up again and once more POP! .. Not sure if this is just a defective zipper, or something that happens quite commonly.

Chris Vaughn on December 11, 2014:

I really like the comfort of the Genie bra.My problem is with the pads.They won't stay in place.It is awful.Makes my boobs look lopsided. You have a good comfortable bra but you need to put gel or Velcro on the pads to keep them in place.

CLewis70 on September 07, 2014:

Absolutely the best and most comfortable bra ever invented. I am a 34D and normally pay $35-40 for Bali or similar brand bras that only act as torture devices, with underwriters cutting in and horribly uncomfortable shoulder straps that scratch and cause indentations after wearing for a few hours. My Aunt bought several of the Genie bras on QVC and was immediately hooked. She sent me one to try, and I never tried it on and just put it in a drawer because I was not really impressed with the looks of it. It wasn't until a couple of days ago that I was asked how I liked it and felt guilty for not at least trying it on, so I pulled it out of the drawer and skeptically put it on and was absolutely amazed at how truly awesome this bra is. I haven't put a regular one since and probably won't in the future. This bra immediately conforms to your shape, there is absolutely zero back fat, it is totally seamless under clothes, provides great support, and is probably the most comfortable thing I have ever worn. I am astounded to hear a single negative comment about this remarkable bra. I just went on line and saw that Bed Bath and Beyond has them in packs of 2 in stock at only $14.99. With one of their $5 or 20% off coupons, that is the best bargain ever! They may not be flashy or a beautiful addition to your seductive lingerie collection, but if you have ever struggled with poorly fitting or uncomfortable bras in the past, the Genie bra is an absolute Godsend! One tip though regarding size....as I said, I am a 34 D, but the perfect size for me in this bra is 1x or CLOSE. Surprising, but best fit ever. I highly recommend!!

Kymbercat on August 25, 2014:

Loved all the comments, & yes it is true, their version of a 'size chart' is bizarre! Maybe it was created with skeletons in mind... not for normal healthy women with 'boobs' who need support, easy to wear all day comfort, anytime of the year. Here in desert heat, a design that you have to 'climb into & pull up" (hum...you should know something is wrong at this point...) material that is nylon & spandex, under elastic that cuts into your ribcage, pushes your boobs together up under your throat & the rest of your surrounding flesh out over the sides, making it hard to put your arms down isn't my idea of a 'good fit' when a normal 38C girl is left panting for air after trying on a MilanaBra in 2x! Pant! HUff! Pant! Maybe I would do better in a 4X, Hey! wait a minute.. who's in charge here? All I want is a camibra that could be cotton/mix, wireless, & doesn't cost a 'arm & a leg' to look like my 'trophies' are covered not smothered & that it didn't escape from a dime store!

Psst! Don't bother mail/Internet ordering, these overrated pieces of junk can be found at your local Walmart! So Ladies give you BoobCrusher's a ride out to where they belong.... the trash!

Thankyou

barbara on July 29, 2014:

I bought these bras about 3 years ago, and I just knew they would work for me per the Infomercial, but the Large didn't fit, so I had to send them back for Extra Large, they didn't fit either, so instead of sending them back, I requested a refund...I was a very Unhappy Camper...No More Genie Bras for me!!!!

Powens on July 17, 2014:

Horrible product and they delay shipment so they don't have to refund your money. Total ripoff. Cheaply made.

Horrible fit on May 05, 2014:

The bra may be ok for women with small boobs, however I don't recommend it if you are a D Cup or larger. I wear a 38d and size 2x was too small. The size chart is definitely incorrect. According to the chart, my size is Large. I am going to return the bras.

ELANA on April 06, 2014:

I loved the original genie bras which firmed me up - I want less rather than more. I ordered 3 more recently and was very disappointed that the current material is not as firm as before - sure it's comfortable, but they no longer fold me in as well as before. I'll have to start buying firmer sports bras at 3 times the price. Very sad!

Paty on February 04, 2014:

Do Not Buy!!!! Their sizes are way off. I have a large & their about 3 sizes too small. A large should have fit or been too large. Major rip off!!!!!!'

Isabel on November 06, 2013:

Everything that it says SEEM ON TV it is a rip off, that's what I though. I bought my GenieBra in Walmart and I LOVE IT!!! It's really comfortable. I don't have to worry about the strips falling every 30 secs or the spillage. I'm starting to look for more products of this line because I'll replacing all my bras. The only thing is the width is not for using with everything. Next time I'll go to Walmart, I'll get one more box.

Shannon on June 01, 2013:

I'm a 38B. Kinda a weird size. Big rib cage and not so big boobs. I bought this bra in a large. A large- I wear a small or medium shirt. And it is very tight around the bottom- uncomfortably so. And it flattens my boobs, even with the pads. I hate it. I'll use it as a sports bra, but honestly- my underwire padded push-up is more comfortable.

Catherine on April 01, 2013:

Best Bra EVER!!

I would always rip off my old bras in the early evening because of discomfort.

I wear the genie bra all day and evening with NO discomfort at all.

I am 36DD and 57 years old. I get plenty of support with the genie bra and I threw away the little pads because they are totally unnecessary. Smaller girls might want them for extra padding.

The uniboob thing is okay with me because, when dressed, it gives the appearance of a reduced bust size which I prefer.

I have thrown away all of my old bras.

Pamela Lipscomb from Charlotte, North Carolina on October 23, 2012:

You did a great job on this topic. I was one of the suckers who purchased a Genie Bra. They are simply terrible, with no support or definition. I would alone suggest them as a training bra.

TattooKitty from Hawaii on October 23, 2012:

Thanks for the heads-up; I surely won't be buying into this boobie-miracle, as there's nothing I loathe more than the uniboob look (well, except for the Madonna cone-boob look...both are pretty hideous.)

I've always been a big-chested girl, so finding an excellent bra is almost like finding Jesus (bikinis, even worse.) However, after losing weight (thank you, My Fitness Pal!!), I've seen my boobs shrink drastically. I'm still at a large D (or DD, depending on the bra brand), but I'm still not going to risk waiting weeks for a crappy product. Once again, thank you for the great review!!

IzzyM from UK on October 22, 2012:

I'm afraid for that price, I would want a bra make of 22 carat gold thread!

givans1980@yahoo. from Blackwell, OK on October 22, 2012:

Awesome hub! Thank you so much for sharing, and for making me laugh. =) I hadn't even considered these bras until they made their way into my local Wal-Mart check out aisle. But even then, I thought "Eh." Glad I didn't buy one.

Pat Materna from Memphis, Tennessee, USA on October 21, 2012:

I ordered these about 6 months ago. I'm a 44DD. Was concerned with that issue. According to the infomercial and the person on the phone it was guaranteed to fit and change my life. I ordered 2 sets of 3. The 2nd set was free except for S&H. After about 4 weeks got the pkg. What a terrible joke this is. A big scam!!! Immediately called them. They agreed to refund my money less the shipping and I had to pay for return shipping. So it ended up costing me almost $40. Even if I were a smaller size these they would have offered no support and they where difficult to even try to get on your body. I should have checked the out more thoroughly. HUGE, HUGE RIP OFF!!! Good articile!

Ti on October 21, 2012:

All these bras are shown on young women, and/or pre pregnancy. The body shape just changes with time. It would be helpful if everyone commenting would include her size bra.

Patricia on September 30, 2012:

I wanted to buy , but after reading all those comments, i changed my mind

cityalice on June 16, 2012:

Sounds like the take from this review is that the bras are comfortable but don't offer much support. I guess it depends what the woman is looking for, whether they like this bra or not.

harmony155 from Atlanta, Georgia on April 22, 2012:

Check to make sure you purchased the right size. You might find that a smaller size won't roll up.

angela on April 22, 2012:

i bought mine 3 days ago not good as constant roll up at front

harmony155 from Atlanta, Georgia on April 20, 2012:

I've been very pleased with my genie bra purchase. I'm actually shocked by all the negative reviews.

Tina on March 17, 2012:

Thanks so much for the very detailed revuew. I am a size 12 shirt and wear a 36ddd(e), and because I am too large fir Victirias Secret, I usually purchase bras at Lane Bryant due to the cup size - but my size is rarely available and never on the sale rack...my usual bra purchase is in multiples and rather expensive, so I very nearly purchased this product today. Thanks again for saving people like me from spending time and money needlessly.

Sue on March 09, 2012:

This is one of the worse purchases I have ever made. No support at all. The bra is really hard to get on. The bra rolls up. I almost pull a muscle each time I try putting one on. I strongly regret the purchase of these bra's.

Silja Paulus from Bristol, United Kingdom on February 20, 2012:

Does sound like awful delivery time. Where has the world gone to?

Plussizeswimsuits from United States on February 01, 2012:

Thanks so much for your in-depth review.

Marcy Goodfleisch from Planet Earth on January 31, 2012:

I have wondered how one design could serve everyone of us out here in bra-land. Thanks for this really informative review. Well done, in every way. Voted up & useful

Al Hawkes from Cornwall on January 30, 2012:

This is a great review, I almost bought some, but thought I would wait until someone else did before spending money. I won't be buying any after this.

I am going to stay with a good sports bra, plenty of support there and at a cheaper cost too.

Thanks

MariJane on January 19, 2012:

Very comfortable, but you definitely nees the pads otherwise your boobs look like to flat pancakes in a sling.

momofone on January 12, 2012:

I dont see how this bra will make women who have a small B and non full looking boobs feel good about themselves. I just dont see how it will make the boobs look bigger or nicer if you have well.. flatter looking boobs after pregnancy!

elvi rhys on December 17, 2011:

i thought they were to good to be im 46DD and im sooo tired of being poked by my under wires that im getting desprite but im soo happy i looked here if there this bad i wanted to know

maggie on November 14, 2011:

I admit these are comfortable but that’s because there is no support at all. I ordered three of these, tried one on and walked on the beach. I am a 38DD and I was flapping around all over the place. How can you even say they support the larger sizes, I get better support from my ex. These are flimsy and although mine were supposed to be padded they did not come with any padding and am not sure that would have made any difference. I need to know how to return. I was not satisfied with these at all.

Maree on October 22, 2011:

I have a positive comment - If you are less than a D cup you should at least try this bra. Buy a size larger than the chart suggests and get only 1 - on EBAY. If you get the right size for you = they are the best bra ever - the only drawback is that the nylon is not for 100 degree days - too hot!!

Kathy on October 02, 2011:

Bought mine at Bed Bath & Beyond Store 9/15/2011. Came in a box of 2, a nude color and a black. I'm normally a 38C, so got the Large like the chart recommended. 2 for 19.99, but I took that Bed Bath & Beyond coupon for $5 off, so came out to 2/$15 with tax. Great price!

The fit feels wonderful. Yes the band immediately rolls, but I don't care. I'm looking for comfort. Very slight side bulge, no back fat. Feels a bit like an exercise bra, and I can run and fast walk with good support. I had to take pads out because it felt like they pushed me backwards and hurt a bit. Don't need the pads. Weird thing is, when I washed them they have little fuzz balls all over them, "pillage". The bras seem to make me itch a bit. Still trying them out. $7.50 was a great price. Might get some for my sister for Christmas.

KLRomano from Small town OHIO on September 26, 2011:

My mom ordered some and they were too small for her, so I inherited them... nothing thrilling. For a smaller chested woman they do nothing for shape or support, and i totally had the uni-boob. I'll wear them around the house... but agreed, not worth the hype!

delores m mcmannis on September 25, 2011:

i brought the bras and am not please i try it on .and i thought they made me look flat . i wanted a bra that would had some lift . and yes you can see right thew it disappointed. was not worth what i paid for it

SanSan on September 23, 2011:

Just wante to post that I am very happy with this Bra. I am size B or C, and have wonderful lift and looks good under t shirt... Maybe does not work for bigger girls. Anyhow, I tried it without pads and not good at all...

Geri Anderson (author) from Arizona on September 16, 2011:

Thanks to all for your comments. It's obvious that the genie bra is great for some, far from great for others. No one can deny that they are comfortable... and perhaps by now, they've improved on delivery time. Shipping fees are still exorbitant though.

Pat on September 11, 2011:

I LOVE them...going to pitch all of my old bras with the exception of one uncomfortable "perkier" one for special occasions.

ciranoushj on August 24, 2011:

Myself and my husband (a man who likes looking at boobs - who would have thought) were watching the commercial for this "bra" the other night - and we both said pretty much at the same time "no way this going to work". I never buy bras online - just like I don't buy shoes online - these items should be fitted correctly, with the help on an expert. That's my take on it anyway. Thanks for writing this hub and saving some of us girls a bunch of money and time.

Magdelene from Okotoks on August 23, 2011:

Excellent hub, I was going to order this one, the infomercial was very well done and I thought perhaps this is the bra I have been waiting for. But after your investigation I will wait and see if they do an improvement and then perhaps reconsider. Thanks for the info, saved me from wasting my money.

ArockDaNinja from Massachusetts, USA on August 23, 2011:

Well I guess I'm not getting one now! lol

regina s from Sacramento, California on August 22, 2011:

Thank you for this very helpful hub on the Genie bra! I was going to order it...I am a 42 DD and have been searching for the perfect bra for years! I almost ordered one...then I saw the Ahh bra at Walgreens...the Ahh bra has commercials that are almost identical to the Genie bra...same idea...just order your shirt size and no matter what size cup you are...the bra is supposed to fit and lift and separate...I bought the Ahh bra at Walgreens because you could buy one instead of a whole package and it was only $19.99 and no shipping and handling. It doesn't have pads...I do love it...but it doesn't deliver the support of an underwire bra like it claims...but it is really comfortable and I will probably order the package of three...interesting...will anyone really ever come up with something like this that REALLY DELIVERS?

bonnie l. hill on August 20, 2011:

Thanks so much for the info because, like madwummin,I was all set to charge my heart out! Thanks again.

madwummin on August 17, 2011:

thought i had found the holy grail of comfy bras. i actually had my bank card in mysweaty little paws. thank god i looked at the revews. yes girls, im afraid the old adage is true, if it sounds too good to be true..........

Linda Weaver Clarke on August 12, 2011:

$31.97 sure seems like a lot to ship something so lightweight. That alone seems like a rip off. Thanks for the info.

MonetteforJack from Tuckerton, NJ on August 12, 2011:

The genie bra is so complex. It looks uncomfortable and sticky. It is much better to buy bra in person to be sure of the material and the fit, and of course, of the fix price. Am glad you found a teeny-weeny humor in your situation.

Jenny Rose from Northeast USA on August 11, 2011:

thanks so much for such in depth information. I saw this infomercial recently and considered buying the genie bra. I'm not interested in a uni-boob, so you've saved me and others alot of money, which in these economic times is much appreciated. I'm watching my 401K droop, don't need to watch my boobs droop too!!! Thanks

Lately, I've been having my fair share of wrist pain, so I decided it was time to try front-fastening bras for myself.

If you are large-breasted like I am, you know the inherent difficulties in finding the best bras for large breasts. And you know the sheer joy in finding just the right one. Similarly, you've probably thought you've found your "soulmate" bra only to be profoundly disappointed by its performance over time. You know the one, right? It starts off keeping up the girls, keeps them pointed straight instead of east and west, is comfortable, supportive, and is even attractive, to boot. Then, the test of time completely severs your love affair...the underwire pokes out at the top, the cups stretch out a full size bigger than they're intended to, the straps not only dig into your poor shoulders, but they lose their elasticity, and the girls have then migrated southward.

Good news for you, I became sick and tired of that scenario and make it my mission to track down the best bras for large breasts. I have written extensively on this topic, have done hours of research, and have sampled a wide variety of brands. In this article, I will give you the winners for the best of the best full-figure bras.

Best Overall, Everyday Bra: Goddess Keira Banded Underwire Bra, #6090

Goddess bras are fairly new on my radar but caught my attention from all the rave reviews they've been getting. The Goddess Keira is definitely on the top of the favorites list for best bras for large breasts, and for good reason. First of all, it's comfortable! No matter how great a bra is, if it's not comfortable, let's face it, you're not going to wear it. This one has successfully coupled comfort with fantastic fit and support.

Here's how it's different... It has sewn-in side slings that lift, separate and really keep your breasts in place. It doesn't smush them together resulting in the dreadful uni-boob look. The cups basically have four sections, allowing the breasts to stay forward, without drifting east and west, as well as up, without drifting south. The straps are actually flexible, which I was worried about. Sometimes flexible straps stretch out or don't lift properly. This is definitely not the case with the Goddess Keira straps. The flexible straps only give a little and not only prevent strap slippage but make for a much more comfortable all-day-long bra.

The back of the bra is also unique, in a good way. It has a wider leotard back that aids in comfort and prevents slippage. It only has two hooks, which is preferable for comfort as well as much easier fastening.

This is fortunately not your Granny's bra either, it's attractive! The satin cups are not only soft but look quite nice. It has a V-plunge that works well with a variety of dresses and blouses, plus a flattering and feminine sheer trim along the top of the cups.

My only complaint is the color choices... It comes in scarlet (red), chocolate and fawn. I'd like to see a few more colors, in particular black, white and a true beige instead of the pinkish fawn.

Minimizer Bra: Bali Women's Passion for Comfort Minimizer Bra

No matter how you slice it, this Bali minimizer bra is simply impossible to beat, trust me, I've tried. Now, I'm a huge fan of Wacoal minimizer bras and I proudly own and religiously wear them. However, they are a bit spendy, unfortunately. This is where the Bali Women's Passion for Comfort Minimizer bra wins, it's affordable and frankly, minimizes as well as its Wacoal counterparts. For a detailed review, read Top Picks for Minimizer Bras: Best Minimizer Bra.

The bottom line is it minimizes beautifully, is one of the most comfortable of all minimizer bras (it's tied with my Wacoal Slimline Minimizer Bra). Let me just say, this Bali bra minimizer just hits you in all the right places and stays put. It doesn't have a lacey pattern that's going to rear its head under your clothes, either. It's smooth, has no spillage, poking, no uni-boob or cone breasts, and it makes you look a lot smaller than you actually are. It would take some serious competition to beat this bra, I've yet to find it.

Best Sports Bra: Enell Sports Bra

I can't tell you how long I waited to find a sports bra that would properly support large breasts. I tried so many different athletic bras only to be completely disappointed. This is bar none the best plus-size sports bra. It's like having on a comfortable suit of armor for your breasts, they aren't going ANYWHERE. It's a racerback bra and it hooks in the front, which is nice for those who find rear hooking bras difficult.

It's made of nylon and has superior moisture-wicking ability. It uses both compression as well as encapsulation to keep your breasts in place. Wide straps aid in support and comfort. The neckline is high and is what they call "motion control". It's almost like wearing a mini camisole, actually. Finally, as you can see from the picture on the right, it has a very unique back for a sports bra. It's a racerback (criss-cross design) UNDER a full back, so it's like double support on the back.

General Characteristics of The Best Bras for Large Breasts

The majority of the quality bras for large breasted women have some common characteristics. So, when you're out shopping in the wild and feeling completely overwhelmed by the variety of styles and choices, here are the attributes you'll want to look for.

• Wide straps for both comfort and support
• A wide band to keep the breasts in place
• Avoid cotton bras- they have too much give and are prone to stretching
• You don't have to spend a fortune on a bra, but when in doubt opt for reputable brands. Investing in a quality bra will pay itself back very quickly.
• Be flexible when bra shopping- try different styles and manufacturers
• This is not always the case, but often the more hooks, the better. When in doubt, shoot for four hooks instead of two. Again, there are exceptions to this rule like the Goddess Keira I've highlighted above.

Comments

Ms.fixIt on December 13, 2018:

I am a size 36 G and i can never find a good bra that is cute. Why is that? Why is it once you reach size DD all the bras are ugly. I want supportive and cute with matching undies.

Ladys any ideas

Wendi on March 28, 2018:

I am a 36jj and I have bought this bra before. It was good. However I am looking for a bra that makes me stand out more. I need lifting. I need major support. It feels better on my back when I have that. What do you recommend?

Sue on August 20, 2017:

I have looked through the net and cannot find one bra that is truly made with big breast in mind, I mean big breasts mean a heavy load, so a heavy load needs some heavy support. But allllll the bras I have come across have straps that would do for a b or. C not a j

Goddess did a wonderful bra, good strong straps, but now discontinued ? Why couldn't they replace it with something vaguely the same? It's so annoying, think I will just go and make my own ! Who knows it might be a hit for us larger ladies?

rita on July 15, 2017:

Does anybody have bras for 48gg or 48h? That's what I've been measured as and have a problem find any.Rita

Me on June 18, 2017:

You guys have weird comments.

Cathy on April 19, 2017:

Maybe your breasts aren't large enough.LOL. Remember,bigger is better.Not that I like large but I'm ALSO LARGE BREASTED. Cathy

DDtop on March 17, 2017:

Hi as a male that is i guess classed as busty? being between F-I cup bra dependent 42/44 band find not all are equal in the mid price Elomi/Goddess take a lot of beating(Wacoal brands so sister)ive many of them as find great all rounders they have many styles to suit also.

My others going up in price are Primadonna as Deauville&Madison are beyond approach for large busted last well very supportive&very comfortable both take in side tissues the Deauville more so slight difference in approach to fit between them but either is A1.

glamorise are good for many i love there sports bra 1166 which for wide set/rooted is great &very discrete even under T-shirts for guy's even as wide straps&deep band along with adjustable front layer that can be adjusted to bring them in! it's also very cool in hotter weather with fabrics/design wide size range available.

Elomi also do a great sports bra EL8040/1 wide size range so all catered for it's wired double lined works by more encapsulation method than compression(non wired)

Learn't a lot about it all with sizing/fit's etc as for me having Fibro&Raynauds along with a Pit tumour things become sore/tender easily plus mark/scar which becomes painful so have to take care of them and choose wisely what i buy/wear.

I'm always polite when asking as many treat as with destain about fittings!

But i always leave decent detailed feedback on items i buy so anyone reading can see decent info on the bra & a bit about how i came about so know legit reason.

Many places now welcome my input even one contacted me saying our input is more indepth.

Sophie Steward on February 08, 2017:

I am a large busted woman with a chronic condition so wearing wired bras with back fastenings are uncomfy and painful. It's hard enough as it is just to find a bra that fits and they usually cost me £30. So to find one I am comfy in with no underwire and front fastening in my size is an impossibility. I have been in touch with suppliers to see if they could make them in my size, but had no response.

francis andrews on July 04, 2015:

I am male but I wear bras & fill them out so I have breasts.

Jacqueline Johnson on July 16, 2013:

Love this always looking for the best bra

tschaunerb from Medicine Hat on January 26, 2012:

I wrote a similar article. Gd hub tho.

susannah42 from Florida on March 13, 2011:

Thanks for the information. very useful.

fashion on March 07, 2011:

really nice one...

Elsie Nelson (author) from Pacific Northwest, USA on January 14, 2011:

yes, webtoys... they just might. Nice to see you drop by again!

webtoys on January 06, 2011:

goodness mate, those fit for a new mother...

btw, thanks for this good post

Lately, I've been having my fair share of wrist pain, so I decided it was time to try front-fastening bras for myself.

Front-Fastening Bras Are Key!

No one talks about how difficult it can be to fasten your bra from the back.

It has become more and more of a battle for me to fasten your standard back closure bra, as it can be one big guessing game. Some rear closure bras are so difficult I've occasionally taken to hooking them in the front and turning them around. This guessing game has given me my fair share of wrist pain, so I decided it was time for a change.

Through some trial and error, recommendations from my girlfriends, and research, I've concluded that front-fastening bras are the way to go.

Front-Fastening Bras vs. Back-Fastening Bras

As the proud owner of some fabulous front-fastening bras, I have noticed multiple health benefits to this type of bra. My largest takeaways so far are about these front-fastening bras are:

• They are way more comfortable than your standard bra.
• They have a wideband or a crisscross band in the back that offers better support.
• The crisscross elastic bands in the back allow for an excellent custom fit.
• The band can also provide upper back support and aid in improving posture.
• These bras are great for people with arthritis in the hands and wrists or people with shoulder problems.

In addition to helping my posture, I've also noticed that these types of bras have many more pros than your average back-fastening bras.

3 Highly Recommended Front-Fastening Bras

After trying a few different options, these three are my tried and true favorites. Each is a little different but gives the same amazing result. You'd be satisfied with any of the bras from this list.

1. Glamorise Wonderwire Front Close Stretch Lace Bra
2. Wacoal Women's Front Close T-Back Bra
3. Playtex Women's Front Close With Flex Back Bra

1. Glamorise Wonderwire Front Close Stretch Lace Bra

This is the best overall front-fastening bra on the market. You can't go wrong with this Glamorise bra. It's very comfortable and easy to get in and out of. Not to mention, it's attractive! You can put it on and go about your day without it sliding, digging into your skin, or having underwire poking into very undesirable places.

Wonderwire

It's called "wonderwire" because its cleverly constructed built-in wire can't make contact with your skin, but you still get the benefit of the support wire provides. I love how well it lifts your breasts and keeps the girls where they should be.

Straps

It has wide, comfortable, adjustable straps so you can get a custom fit. You won't have to worry about the back straps digging into your skin. They are simple to adjust and are so comfortable when you find that sweet spot.

Cups

The cups are made of stretchy lace that provides a seamless look and they maintain their shape over time. In other words, the cups don't readily stretch out and lose their ability to support your breasts. It doesn't have hook and eye closures, but rather a barrel front close, where one side slides into the other. It's a great everyday bra.

2. Wacoal Women's Front Close T-Back Bra

The best front-fastening t-back bra is here. This Wacoal bra is a great option, especially for sleeveless dresses, blouses, or deep armhole shirts. However, you may find yourself wearing this Wacoal bra every day, regardless of whether or not you need a t-back.

I don't normally wear t-backs, so I was concerned it would feel funny. I was pleased with how quickly I became accustomed to it.

Quality

If you haven't discovered the wonders of Wacoal bras yet, you're definitely missing out. While not the cheapest bras on the market, you definitely get what you pay for with this company. The quality is just outstanding, and their bras stand the test of time. Wacoal uses quality materials, elastic and fabric, so it will maintain its shape without stretching out.

Straps

I love how the straps don't fall off my shoulders and how readily it adjusted in the back for a custom fit.

Cups

The cups are very natural and give you a beautiful shape to your bustline. I recently traveled across the United States and hate feeling uncomfortable on planes, but I literally didn't even know I was wearing this comfortable bra. I'm quite pleased by how well it supports my breasts and gives me shape without the dreaded uni-boob look.

3. Playtex Front Close With Flex Back Bra

This Playtex option is the best one for large-breasted women. If you can believe it, this Playtex wire-free bra actually provides support for large-breasted women. I can even exercise in this bra; that's how supportive it is. I love how my upper back feels supported, too.

One important thing to note about this bra is that it sits fairly high, so wearing it with a low-cut blouse won't work very well.

Straps

I'm telling you, this bra is not only flattering but is so comfortable due to its wide padded straps. The straps also stay in place for once because they are designed to be no-slip. I'd also like to note that some shirts like scoop necks won't properly cover the straps since the straps are wide.

Cups

The full cups provide full coverage and the ultimate support. There is no constant adjusting, tugging, and pulling to get the bra back where it should be. The adjustable crisscross back makes for a perfect fit. It has large, easy to close hooks and eyes.

I enjoy helping others find garments that allow them to feel comfortable while looking their best.

Okay ladies, let’s face it—we all have problem areas on our bodies that we’re just never satisfied with. Things tend to get dislodged and travel in unwanted directions as we get older. Bulges need taming, sagging needs rearranging, and our assets just need to be placed back in their God-given positions. Well, I’m here to tell you that a little assistance is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of! I am a full-fledged advocate of shapewear (sometimes called girdles or compression underwear). I’ve scoured the stores, both online and brick-and-mortar, and I am ready to share with you the tricks to choosing the best design. Below, I go over six common varieties of slimming compression underwear and their various benefits and characteristics. Learn about each type to figure out what might work best for you.

6 Common Shapewear Options for Women

1. "Scuba Suit" or Mid-Thigh Shapers
2. Boy Short Slimmers
3. One-Piece Body Suits/Onesies
4. Camisoles/Shapewear Bras
5. Full and Half Slimmer Slips
6. Slimmer Thongs

1. “Scuba Suit” or Mid-Thigh Shapers

• These girdles for women are great for slimming and smoothing out the abdomen, hips, buttocks, love handles, and thighs.
• Look for ones with a gusset, or opening, to make going to the bathroom easier. This option tends to be offered by the more expensive brands, however. Word of warning: Some of the holes are pretty darn small!
• Compression underwear made of thick material can make your derriere look anywhere from flat to practically non-existent.
• The thicker the material, the more tendency they have to “roll” up and down.
• You want these to have a snug fit, but if they are too tight, it will increase the chances of the ever-dreaded roll. So, proper sizing is of utmost importance.
• If you have a short torso, beware of the super high-waist shapers. They may be too long for you.

2. Boy Short Slimmers

• Boy shorts are like mid-thigh shapers except they stop at the upper thigh. If you’re only worried about your love handles and buttocks, these will do the trick.
• These aren't as effective at eliminating the muffin top.
• They are more suited for women who don’t have a lot to iron out or for women who feel claustrophobic and tormented by regular shapewear.

3. One Piece BodySuits/Onesies

• If you are large-breasted, get the kind of bodysuit where you wear your own bra. Personally, I’ve never found a bodysuit with a built-in bra that provides enough support for my larger than average “girls." If you opt for a onesie with a built-in bra, make sure it has adjustable shoulder straps. If not, you might as well just put on your one-piece bathing suit; you’ll get about the same results! In other words, don’t forget you’re also buying a bra with this design, so look for all the characteristics you require when bra shopping. In my book, adjustable straps are crucial for a custom fit.
• Beware if you’re tall! If you’re above 5’8”, getting a bodysuit that’s long enough is tricky. Even if you have a particularly long torso, you could be in for some pretty unpleasant shoulder digging and chaffing as though you’ve spent a day carrying around a backpack.
• Spandex stretches in all four directions. So, bear in mind if your bodysuit is stretching ¾ of its capacity in width. That means you’re only going to have ¼ left to stretch in length. So, when in doubt, always buy a size larger. Look for material that has at least 10% Spandex for maximum comfort.

4. Camisoles/Shapewear Bras

• If one of your primary concerns is back fat, then a camisole bra is an excellent choice. They’re great for evening dresses or form-fitting blouses because they get rid of bra-bulging. They also make everything look smooth can can make your tummy appear a little flatter. They can either be tucked into the pants you're wearing or not. Some even have fancy trim that’s meant to be visible under shirts, giving you an elegant, layered look. Again, when choosing a camisole, bear in mind again that you are purchasing a bra. Some even have molded underwire and can work as effective minimizer bras if you’re large-breasted.
• The camisole isn’t immune to riding up. Again, getting the correct size will help avert this problem. My solution is to make sure my camis are long enough to tuck into my pants.
• Word of warning: camis are not the most effective at tummy slimming. You’re better off with a onesie or a scuba suit if that’s your primary problem area.

5. Full and Half Slimmer Slips

• These are definitely not the slips for women of yesteryear, which functioned only to avoid static cling and transparency. A full slip basically looks like a dress. It can be strapless or have spaghetti or regular straps. A half slip just looks like a skirt and helps hold in the hips and thighs
• Opt for a high-waisted version if you’re worried about stomach fat.
• The most troublesome thing about these slips is that it makes you feel like a tightly wrapped mummy, unable to use your legs. You must find one with lycra and spandex in order to combat this walking disability. If you still feel confined, I recommend just sticking with the mid-thigh shapers.

6. Slimmer Thongs

This style is a great example of how girdles have evolved. If you enjoy wearing low-rise jeans or pants, slimmer thongs are a great choice. On the bottom part, it looks like a regular thong, but it comes with a control top compression panel for slimming purposes. Personally, I’m not a fan of thongs, but I know they’re a staple in many women’s undergarment collections.

My Experience

I have excitedly purchased an embarrassing amount of girdles with a lot of disappointment. No doubt about it, modern shapewear has come a long way since the old, vintage style. I still remember watching my grandmother get her daily workout trying to slither her way into her girdle and corset. She then had to strap the whole ensemble together, with snaps sticking out all over the place.

I first discovered the wonderful world of compression underwear quite a few years ago, just after the birth of my twins. My stomach was enormous—so much so that it was difficult to ascertain which side of me was the front and which was the back. Down in the dumps, I ended up in Nordstrom of all places, looking at all the cute jeans I used to be able to fit into. It was then that I came across the girdles section. I found myself mesmerized by the idea and hopeful that these undergarments would solve my abdominal bulge. I knew absolutely nothing about body shapers, so I was shopping completely blind.

I tried on a Wacoal hi-waist, long-leg brief. I liked the way it fit and thought the price was reasonable, so off I went. Within a half-hour of putting it on, the top of the brief had rolled down into a snake-like shape below my stomach, and the bottoms of both legs had rolled up. Basically, I was left with a tight pair of underwear with rope-like bulges, which completely defeated the purpose of the body "shaper." Then, I tried to go to the bathroom. Good grief! Taking them on and off was a colossal battle — one not to be won in a small, public bathroom stall.

I could see, however, that I was on to something. If only I did a little research and could find the best qualities for my needs. If you have your own favorite, let me know in the comment box below!

Comments

EverSoSweetMe on July 13, 2016:

I am an extremely indulgent, hopelessly incessant crossdresser and the Sp**x Super Higher Power Shaper Panty is absolutely magical at temporarily making the entire nasty bikini-zone boy thing disappear so effectively that it renders me perfectly flat in front even in the tightest of skirts. Also, I have very good reason to believe that my dedicated daily wearing of the shaper underneath my boy clothes for the past six months has initiated hopefully permanent shrinkage as well as retraction to up and inside my lower abdomen. Thank you, thank you and thank you Sara Blakely! I own several Sp**x foundation garments and they have done wonders for my greatest passion in life, the art of self-feminization!

Gilliane Moxham from Kilkenny, Ireland on July 28, 2015:

Nothing like a real girdle, the open bottom girdle with suspenders for stockings. That's what I love a woman to wear. Sexiest things ever.

lingerielover on September 27, 2011:

From my experience a good fitting high waisted longleg girdle is the best choice. I love the feeling and the support the girdle gives me.

Another choice is the classical open bottom girdle. Worn with stockings nothing comes close.

KayBee01 on September 03, 2011:

Still looking for best compression underwear for excess fat in lower abdomen due to many surgeries. Its like having a shelf of fat from hip to hip even though I'm not overweight. Any help appreciated.

Ingenira on January 19, 2011:

Hmmm... I like the Boy Shorts Slimmers, they look so sexy! Are you supposed to wear that inside a pants, or you can wear it for sports ? Have you got the price for it ?

Lately, I've been having my fair share of wrist pain, so I decided it was time to try front-fastening bras for myself.

I will admit, I am one of many people who religiously watch the Oprah Winfrey show and often heed the advice of this American icon. From relationship advice to yes, advice about the almighty brassiere, Oprah always piques my interest.

Wacoal’s "Slimline Seamless Minimizer" Bra

My love affair with Oprah’s bra picks began when I first tried her highly recommended Wacoal’s Slimline Seamless Minimizer bra. It’s won a couple of Undie Awards for the favorite minimizer bra, and I know why. It is next to impossible to beat its comfort; I can wear it multiple days in a row with no problem. And, for crying out loud, it works! The molded fabric used in the cups is more rigid than what’s used in other minimizer bras, so it has superior minimizing capabilities. It also doesn’t get all stretched out and frayed over time.

Le Mystere "Dream Tisha" Bra #955

Of course, when I found out about Oprah‘s favorite bra, Le Mystere Dream Tisha 955 bra, I headed right out to get it. I told you I trust Oprah. I am a comfort seeker, no doubt, and I hate having an uncomfortable bra. Nothing is going to ruin my day more quickly. I like the super-wide straps on this bra for that reason, plus they offer a lot of support and can be custom fit since they are adjustable. This bra is great for the full-figured woman as well as the average-sized woman. The lined cups give you that extra support you need. I have large breasts and often end up wearing minimizer bras to ensure extra support, but I get the proper support with the Le Mystere Dream Tisha bra. Like Wacoal’s minimizer bra, it keeps its shape without getting stretched out over time. It’s seamless, so it looks great under clothes. You will love how the cups are lightly lined; you will be hidden where you want to be, if you know what I mean.

Although it’s not the most beautiful bra, it has a nice, simple design. I like it strictly for its functionality. The Dream Tisha bra does come in a fancier, lacy version, which, unfortunately, lacks the advantage of being smooth and seamless.

Felina "Hint of Skin" Bra

This is a newer bra I’ve added to my collection, though I was a little hesitant because I am large-breasted and I was worried it might make my girls appear even bigger.

I must say, I am disappointed in this bra. It just doesn’t seem to hit in the correct places. Its claim to fame is how it eliminates that “back fat look,” which it may, but it just rests too high. It almost gives that "uniboob" look because it pushes the breasts very close together. Not to mention it’s sorely lacking in the comfort department. Finally, it really doesn’t seem to be well-crafted. It’s stretched out now, and the bra straps are beginning to unhitch from the cups. I am probably spoiled by my Wacoal and Le Mystere, but I expect a lot more from a bra. It might work better for women with smaller breasts, but the lack of quality makes this bra one I cannot recommend. If you are above a C-cup, I say don’t go there.

Felina "Hint of Skin"—Oprah's Bra Revolution Show

As Seen on Oprah: Chantelle “Graphie” Bra

If you have “the sag factor,” you are going to love the Chantelle Graphie T-Shirt bra. I practically lived in this little gem all summer long. This, like the Wacoal, is a great everyday bra: comfortable, affordable, and molds your breasts in a very flattering shape. It also lifts a little, which is great for aging women and those of us who have saggy “nursing breasts." All in all, one of the best full-figure bras.

Prima Donna "Zanzibar" Bra and Freya "Tallulah" Bra

Yes, finally beautiful bras that actually provide a lot of support! It can be very difficult to find attractive bras that simultaneously provide functionality, but these two bras have both. They are fantastic for the full-figured woman who needs optimal coverage, contour, and support. They are also perfect special-occasion bras, particularly the Freya Tallulah, which is great for low-cut dresses and tops.

Are You Wearing the Right Size?

One of Oprah's revolutionary shows revealed that about 85% of all women are not wearing the correct bra size. Naturally, I wanted to determine whether or not I fell into that “mis-sized” majority, so for the first time, I got myself properly fitted for a bra. Guess what? I had been wearing the wrong size, in fact, I was way off the mark. I highly recommend you find out your correct bra size. In my other article you will find a bra size chart plus more reviews of minimizer bras.

I enjoy helping others find garments that allow them to feel comfortable while looking their best.

It often seems the grass is always greener on the other side, even with breast size. Many large-breasted women want to go down a few cup sizes, and, of course, smaller-breasted women are often looking for ways to enhance their breast size.

What some people don't think about are the potential negative repercussions of having large breasts. They can be very painful for women's backs and necks. Straps that dig into the skin can cause shoulder pain. A properly fitting, seamless minimizer bra that optimally supports the breasts can decrease pain while reducing the appearance of the bust size.

With this type of bra, the cups are shaped in such a way as to spread out the breasts, so that part of the breast tissue is pushed out into the area under the arms. They claim to reduce size (in appearance) by one to two cups sizes, depending on the brand.

What to Look for in a Minimizer Bra

Proper sizing is the most important part of finding the best minimizer bra!

• Having padded straps is a huge advantage. They will reduce the pain of straps digging into the shoulder area. Bali bra minimizers do a great job at this. A few Lilyette bras are also very comfortable, don't “dig” into shoulders, and are great minimizer bras.
• Look for bras with a center gore that doesn't stretch so that it will maintain its shape and fit. Wacoal bras do an excellent job with this.
• Look for bras that have a more rounded cup so that you can maintain your shape and not have that harness/sports bra uniboob thing going on.
• Look for bras with adjustable straps. Surprisingly, not all bras have this necessity. Adjustable bra straps are an integral part of a well-fitting bra.
• Look for bras that minimize from side to side as well as from top to bottom. This four point compression provides the best minimizing results as well as the ability to maintain the natural shape of your bust.
• Look for a seamless bra. They really do make a big difference aesthetically.

How to Find the Right Size

You will need a cloth measuring tape and someone to help do the measurements.

Band Size

Measure the area just under the breasts. Expel the air from your lungs to get the best measurement. You want this final measurement to be even, so if you get an odd number, round up to the nearest even number. If you get an even measurement, this should be your band size. However, you might discover the next size up fits better, for example, if you get 32", you may want to go up to 34". Remember to write the number down.

Cup Size

Now measure the circumference of the area from your back to around the fullest part of your breasts. Hold the tape horizontally and make sure it's flat on your back and kept uniformly horizontal to the floor. Your arms should be down at your sides. Round up to the nearest number, and again, write it down.

Calculate Your Bra Size

Subtract the band size from the cup size. As a rule of thumb, each inch difference is equivalent to one cup size (or letter). Example: If your band size measures 40” and your cup measurement is 44", then you will subtract 44- 40”= 4. Your proper bra size is then a 40D. 40 is your band measurement and D is the fourth letter of the alphabet.

Inch-to-Cup Conversion Chart

Wacoal Minimizer Bras

Wacoal bras are simply top of the line in terms of attractiveness, seamlessness, functionality, and comfort. Naturally they've been in the spotlight lately as Oprah has declared them her favorite minimizer bras. I was a fan way before Oprah declared her love for Wacoal bras, and I can tell you they are hard to beat.

Wacoal Elegance Hidden Wire Minimizing Bra

The Wacoal Elegance Hidden Wire Minimizing Bra is an all-around, great bra to wear every day. It's something you would be happy to be seen in as it's very attractive, has lacey cups, minimizes up to one inch, and is very comfortable. It looks great under clothes, is seamless, and doesn't create that between-breast mini trampoline that other bras do. It provides a nice contour of the breasts, a nice silhouette, and doesn't create that abhorrent uni-boob look. It's a little more spendy at about $60.

The material doesn't readily stretch out, so it continues to minimize and offer support for a long time. I've purchased other bras that quickly lose their shape, and therefore functionality, so I'm bra shopping again just a few weeks later. This Wacoal bra is really a good investment.

Wacoal Slimline Seamless Minimizing Bra

I have the Slimline Seamless Minimizing Bra as well. This Wacoal bra is not quite as attractive as the Wacoal Elegance, but it a tie with the Bali Passion for Comfort Minimizer as the most comfortable bra I own. Plus, it looks fantastic under clothes. No kidding, it really is a seamless bra. You can easily wear white halter tops and not see the bra underneath. I can literally go for a little jog and my breasts stay in place. They don't spill out the sides, look round, and the straps feel great.

The only negatives about this bra are the price and that the straps got stretched out sooner than I would have liked. I prefer the Wacoal Elegance straps for this reason but I've purchased another few of these because this is still a near-perfect bra.

Lilyette Minimizer Bra

My favorite Lilyette minimizer bra is definitely the Lilyette Women's Minimizer Bra #427. This is the best mix of comfort, attractiveness, price, and durability. It's very soft and supportive at the same time. Some of the better minimizers have less soft material over the cups, making them somewhat uncomfortable to wear all day. The last Lilyette minimizer bra I loved was discontinued and I was worried I'd never find one that compares. This one certainly does.

Bali Minimizer Bras

Bali Women's Passion for Comfort Minimizer Bra

The Bali Women's Passion for Comfort bra is my newest favorite. It just seems to hit in all the right places, minimizes without feeling squished, is soft, and doesn't have a pattern that shows through your clothes. The straps actually stay in place and don't readjust themselves all day long. It's true to size as well. I know my bra size and this one really seems to be right on the money. I actually went to a specialty store once to get fitted for the “right bra.” I walked out of there after spending an ungodly amount of money with a bra that hurt. This one fits like I wanted that one to fit. The only negative is that the cups are elastic and will stretch over time. But, I have stocked up on a few of these in fear they will be discontinued. This is my favorite Bali Bra minimizer and is tied for comfort with my Wacoal Slimline Minimizer.

Bali Satin Tracings Minimizer Bra

I've had quite a few of these Bali bra minimizers. I used to prefer the Bali Women's Passion for comfort, but the Bali Satin Tracings Minimizer Bra has become tied for first place. My absolute favorite thing about it is the comfortable straps. It purports to reduce appearance by 1 ¾ of an inch and I will say it works well. No doubt about it: The price is right; it's very inexpensive. I used to have problems with the straps stretching out, but I bought one recently and haven't had the same issue. It seems they've made some improvements! I highly recommend it for its comfort, minimizing ability, and price.

Signs You've Found the Wrong Bra

The following are signs you haven't found the right bra yet:

• Your breasts have no shape. You look like you're wearing a harness
• You can't see the individual breasts. You just have one big shelf going on up there.
• Your blouses don't look smooth, either because of obvious seams or lace, or because your breast tissue is popping out of the bra.
• It doesn't pass the "bounce test." Granted, we're not looking for a sports bra here, but if you have large breasts, you want to feel like you can run to hail a taxicab without feeling self-conscious. Do a little jumping around the dressing room.
• No matter how you adjust it, the bra feels uncomfortable. This just doesn't cut the mustard, ladies. Even if you think it's the proper fit and you look great, if it's not comfortable, don't fool yourself. You won't wear it!

Comments

Jan Shaffer on April 11, 2016:

I wish you would address the petite torso. Many of the underwires are too long and poke me under the arms. I am looking for a minimizer that seams will not show under knits. I have purchased the Aviana Satin and Lace and love the fit but the seams show through.

KJ SunnyDay on March 27, 2016:

Thanks for the GREAT recommendations and info. I, too, have worn the Wacoal Elegance hidden wire minimizer for many years and still can find nothing that comes close to having everything in one package - especially the no bounce! I am going to try your second recommendation of the Wacoal Slimline Seamless minimizer, just because it is so seamless. Thanks again.

Elsie Nelson (author) from Pacific Northwest, USA on November 23, 2010:

Schoolgirl, it is comfortable. As I mentioned in this hub, you do need to make sure you are wearing the correct bra size. I don't even feel the underwire at all. In fact, it keeps the girls from slipping out underneath the band, which really hurts.

Thanks for the visit and comment.

schoolgirlforreal on November 22, 2010:

Hi

I noticed you mentioned liking the: Bali Women's Satin Tracings Minimizer Underwire Bra #3562

Is it comfortable? The underwire looks like it might stick into your body, or maybe not as long as you have a snug or looser fit?

Anyway very helpful hub, I actually never knew exaclty how to measure myself and these look Very comfortable as well as minimizing...i need that.:)thx!

Elsie Nelson (author) from Pacific Northwest, USA on September 27, 2010:

Hey, thanks so much, prey!

prey from places you should hope we never meet on September 27, 2010:

Thanks, I actually didn't know some of this [could be cause I'm still fit for training bra ha] and I did forward it to mom, she'll appreciate this, and my sister who sadly is so plumped bet she'll never need one again! I swear they do not move!

Thanks, cool hub girl

For someone who used to be plus-size, if there were such opportunities in my days, I probably would've become a part-time plus-size model.

Plus-Sized Modeling

Modeling plus-size swimsuits and lingerie is a popular niche in the fashion industry, and it is no news that the plus-size modeling industry is expanding rapidly. Undoubtedly, it has fast become one of the most lucrative branches to pursue.

If you are full-bodied and aspire to become a model, this is one of the top categories you may wish to consider.

Several agencies are scouting for curvaceous women to model plus-size intimate wear, swimsuits, and lingerie, but some standards need to be met in order to be successful for a sign-up.

Your passion must be evident; you must have the right attitude, meaning no hang-ups and no self-conscious feelings about your body, shape, and size.

5 Things You Need to Become a Plus-Size Model

Not many women can become plus-size models. Being interested alone is not enough to get you into this category of the fashion industry.

Certain conditions must be met to become successful in this niche industry, but these five aspects can get you far:

1. Maintain a Healthy Relationship With Exercise
2. Prioritize Your Outward Appearance
3. Have a Great Attitude and Being Confident
4. Be the Standard Modeling Height
5. Be at Least a Size 14US or 16UK

1. Maintain a Healthy Relationship With Exercise

Contrary to popular belief, many larger-sized women are fit and well-toned.

Yes, some may find it hard to equate being plus-sized with a firm and toned body, but just because you might be plus-sized doesn't mean you don't have a healthy relationship with exercising. Agencies will expect that you prioritize health and wellness, no matter what size you might be.

With modeling, you will need to expose your body (swimwear and lingerie are revealing), so having a good muscle tone is essential. You must also be well-rounded, curvy, and firm, and most importantly, you must look hale and hearty.

2. Prioritize Your Outward Appearance

Many agencies will seek women who present themselves as well taken care of!

The modeling industry, in ways, does expect flawless skin. So make sure to implement skincare into your daily routine. Not to mention, for photographs, your skin must glow! This is achieved by being well moisturized all the time.

Along with your skin, your hair must look well maintained and healthy. The key to this is finding a good stylist that understands your hair type and, more importantly, your vision!

3. Have a Great Attitude and Confidence

Having a great attitude and exuding confidence is essential to all modeling, not just plus-size.

Agents and agencies can spot the difference between someone who is confident and someone who isn't. They need to know that you won't crumble under pressure and really have what it takes to make it in a difficult industry.

Additionally, being assertive will go a long way in your modeling career because brands love to work with people who carry positive energy and confidence!

4. Be the Standard Modeling Height

Being tall is an advantage!

The majority of agencies have minimum height requirements for all models, even plus-size models. The average height of models is around 5’9”, and the taller you are, the better the chances of you getting great modeling jobs.

So, if you are statuesque, there is a likelihood of you being more successful than those who are of average height.

Unfortunately, there isn't much you can do to be proactive with this step if you are on the shorter side. In this case, you are either born with it, or you're not.

5. Be at Least a Size 14US or 16UK

According to most plus-size agencies, you must be no less than a size 14US or 16UK.

Being plus-size means you must be a minimum size of 14US to 16US (16UK and 18UK) before you can even qualify to model large-size swimsuits and lingerie. Being curvy must be a prerequisite, and your curves must be evident and, frankly, must be in the right parts of your body.

So, if you are full-bodied and aspire to become a swimwear model, for instance, but your curves are virtually non-existent, you can work on your figure not necessarily to lose weight but to tone your curves and bring out your shape. The passion you have for this job will give you enough drive to lose excess fat around the important areas with the right exercise.

Inspiration From Top Plus-Size Models

You can get some inspiration from some of the top models in the plus-size category. Their journey to the top will certainly inspire any woman who plans to build a career as a plus-size model.

• Jennie Runk: My Life as a ‘Plus-Size’ Model
• Ashley Graham on Authenticity and Being a Body Image Activist
• Best Plus Size Models and Accounts to Follow on Instagram
  

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2010 viryabo

Comments Are Welcome

Carrie Lee Night from Northeast United States on April 25, 2020:

Interesting hub :) That is what I have noticed with plus sized models :) They are like other models just sizes larger. It is tough to be firm/tone yet be a size 14. It sounds like a delicate balance :) Anyhow, I am proud of any woman who has confidence :)

viryabo (author) from Lagos, Nigeria. on January 01, 2012:

Thanks thesingernurse. I'm glad you find it useful. And i wish you all the best if you decide to become a plus size model.

Go for it.

GodBless

Tina Siuagan from Rizal, Philippines on December 31, 2011:

It's nice to know that the modelling industry is welcoming plus-sized models like me. It has always been difficult for me to fit in because most designers would look for skinny and anorexic-looking models... This is such a great avenue to explore upon.

Very interesting and useful. :D

ChristinCordle12 on August 01, 2011:

Very helpful hub! Thanks for the tips.

Miss Lil' Atlanta from Atlanta, GA on May 13, 2011:

Some of these women pictured as plus size aren't plus sizes. lol or at least they shouldn't be; they weigh like only 20 pounds more than regular models (in some cases at least).

Not that you can help what is determined as what size and what not. Either way, still a really great hub you wrote. I'm not plus sized; I’m small, but not like 90 pounds small lol, but my expectations of women aren't of people who weigh 100 pounds at 5'9 either, so I like seeing pictures of what real women look like from all walks of life and with all shapes and sizes. Honestly, I think that it’s great that people like you are showing that being plus size is just as much the “right size” as anything else.

I won't lie, I like high fashion and seriously as many bad examples of anorexia that is involved with in the industry (although has been a bit exaggerated at times), there are still many good influences from high fashion that people tend to overlook. Like for example, boob jobs, plastic surgery, skin bleaching, fake tans, are simply just not allowed. I mean, of course they do crazy artsy stuff with modeling where they change people's looks drastically on individual occasions just as an art form, but simplicity is perhaps just as or even more important in the high fashion industry as well…

yes I know I’m going way of topic here lol… but I just felt like saying that.

Plus I like how high fashion shows that there are all kinds of beauties out there in the most exotic manners, like women of very dark black African skin which honestly such a beautiful feature to have. But I wish that the industry doesn’t have to make it seem like women should honestly be as thin as rails.

viryabo (author) from Lagos, Nigeria. on April 20, 2011:

I'm so happy you found this Peches. Its good to know that being plus size is now trendy, and with the right curves in the right places, its good to be Big & Proud.

Thanks for the visit Peches.

GodBless

Peches Bra from Mumbai on April 20, 2011:

Thanks Viryabo for this lovable hub. After putting fat i was depressed, and always thinking of slim again, after getting this page and your sweet thoughts for plus size women, i will try to overcome my frustration for plus size.

viryabo (author) from Lagos, Nigeria. on December 17, 2010:

Love you for your kind consideration and good thoughts for others G.

Thanks my friend.

GodBless

GPAGE from California on November 16, 2010:

viryabo..this is a lovely hub. I know quite a few women that have been successful at this. One of my close friends has a successful plus size clothing business based in NY. I always try to inspire women to be themselves and love themselves. All the best, G

For years I was buying wrong-sized bras, until an experienced salesperson showed me how to take the proper measurements.

An astonishing number of women don’t know their correct bra size.

I used to just buy bras that looked like they’d fit. You know, I'd look down at my chest, look up at a row of bras, and measure by eye. Then once, I managed to grab a store clerk’s attention. She measured me, and that day I returned home with two bras that wouldn’t have fit when I was 13.

In other words, your actual size may surprise you, especially if you've been buying the same size since you were 13. Here's precisely how to find out your exact bra size.

Measuring for a Bra

So how do you find the right bra size for your body? Well listen up, ladies, I’ve got some great chest-enhancing, body-fitting booby advice, and I’m sharing it with you because no one ever bothered to educate me on how to find the right bra. All you need is a body and a measuring tape.

If you’re a guy who wants a bra, please feel free to apply the following to your fantasy boobs. You’ll find no prejudice here.

How to Find Your Bra Size

Make sure you’re wearing a really lightweight bra while you're taking the measurement—nothing padded, just a plain one without embellishments. You definitely need a measuring tape to do this, because a ruler just won't do!

How to find your correct band size:

1. Using a tailor's measuring tape, measure around your ribs right below your breasts. Don’t allow the tape to go slack and drop down—make sure the line is as straight and flat as possible, all the way around.
2. Now write down this measurement, to the nearest inch. (If you measure 29¼" around, write 29".) Let's call this your exact rib measurement.
3. Next, do some simple math to find out your band size. If the number is odd, add another five inches to it: This is your band size. If it's even, add four inches to find your band size. (For example, if you measure 31", add 5 for a band size of 36—or if you measure 28", then add 4: your band size is 32.)
4. NOTE: If your exact rib measurement is 36 or larger, only add an extra 2 if odd, 1 if even. (For example, if you measure 37 inches, then add 2: Your band size is 39.)

How to find your correct bra cup size:

1. While you're wearing an unpadded, lightweight bra, place the measuring tape around the fullest part of your breasts. Write down this number: it is your widest chest measurement.
2. Next, simply subtract your band size from your widest chest measurement and check the chart below to find your corresponding letter cup size. For example, if your band size is 34 and your widest chest measurement is 37", then the difference is 3 inches and your cup size is a C. (Refer to the chart below for correct cup sizing.)

Bra Cup Size Chart

How to Buy the Right Bra

You know, wearing the right bra not only does wonders for your comfort (fits better, feels better, upholstered better), but it also makes you look slimmer. Great, huh? More bang for your buck. Besides, trying to squash a quart into a pint cup never works. One of the laws of physics: If it's too big, be prepared for spillage.

How you know your bra doesn't fit:

• the sausage back effect
• underarm fat rolls
• too many puppies in too small a basket

'Fess up ladies: who wears a badly fitting boulder-holder and spends all day scooping escaped bits of flesh back into a space that immediately ejects the excess... during that important meeting? And who hasn't performed the quick-and-snappy back-band shuffle? The shoulder-strap tweak? The under-wire scoop?

*breathes*

Tips for Always Getting a Bra That Fits

1. If you can, try on at least a dozen bras. Even with the correct measurements in hand, you'll still need to make sure that the bra fits correctly.
2. A lot of the support you get from any bra comes from the band, and that's why it's so important to make sure your band size is measured correctly!
3. A correctly fitting bra will sit flat on your rib cage, and it should be centered. If it slides or bags away from you ribs, it's not going to support you. If you own any bras that don't hug your ribs anymore, toss them out.
4. Re-measure yourself if you gain or lose weight. Makes sense to assume that if your waist has dropped or gained a size, so has your bust.
5. Remember: Each time your band size increases or decreases, the cup size likely follows suit.
6. It won't hurt to have yourself professionally fitted. If you have access to this service, use it.
7. The straps should sit comfortably on your shoulders: no cutting in or dropping.
8. The back band should sit slightly lower than the bra front. It should feel snug without feeling tight. If you've got muffins going on, it's too tight: Adjust it, and if that doesn't help the bra feel comfortable and snug, try another.

Comments

Carrie on January 18, 2020:

I have the same problem as someone below. I measure 48 and I should add, but I'm in a 46 that is WAY too big as it is and have to move down. I'd like to know who came up with adding numbers. Something doesn't compute.

Dee on April 08, 2019:

This doesn’t work for heavy women. I have a difference of 4 1/2 inches but my breasts barely fit in a B cup. All my size is everywhere else other than my actual breasts.

Cheryl Dyal on February 16, 2019:

When I measure my bra size I come up with the band size being 48 then I add 4= 52.

My bust measured 55.5. So how do I determine my size when the bust is larger that the band? Am I missing something!

Cathy on December 12, 2017:

Serves you right. I'm glad to see this happening. Maybe then you can understand how us women feel being teased about our large breasts.

barry known as Carol on May 06, 2012:

thank you for the tip, I now have the right bra size and it is comfortable

Rismayanti from Tropical Island on April 20, 2010:

Great hub..helping, thanks

Andria (author) on April 02, 2010:

Cheeky Girl - I hope either something I've written or something left in the comments helps improve your ... you know ... boobs ;)

Cassandra Mantis from UK and Nerujenia on March 31, 2010:

I am so glad I saw this! I will book mark this one for sure! Whehey! Thank you! About time someone did this on hubs!! : )

Andria (author) on March 31, 2010:

Dim - I'm saving the world ... one chest at a time ;)

Andria (author) on March 31, 2010:

Mist1302 - I used the universal method but for sure one size doesn't fit all. That's for another method for measuring you cra size correctly :)

Justine - glad you may have found another way to upholster your boobs!

Andria (author) on March 31, 2010:

suiiki - thanks for the alternative advice :) I think it's helpful to leave different methods. The above pretty much works for me but I'm not everyone else!

Paradise - just don't bother with my original method ;)

Candie - that's what jiggling boobies in too small a bra always look like lol :)

Dim Flaxenwick from Great Britain on March 31, 2010:

That gave me a good chuckle, thank you. I've made just about every mistake mentioned here.I have also just measured and 'yes' I need a different size.

Why am I not surprised? I'm constantly uncomfortable in my bras. Thanks for the advice. Great stuff!!

Justine76 on March 31, 2010:

HAHAHAH!! FD, I am actually going shopping for new clothes soon. We had a bon fire for my birthday a while ago, and I ripped my only pair of jeans. I am hopefully going to spend some money on new undergarments as well. They really make a difference on how well your clothes fit, but Ill need to find someone with a camera to tag along... :)

HEY I just noticed some comments to help me, thanks guys!

Mist1302 on March 30, 2010:

For those girls with larger cups, it can be fairly impossible to find anything in a regular store. (And yes, 'anomalies' like 32F happen - to real women. Wearing the correct band and cup will make you feel better and look better - but unless you are lucky enough to live in the UK, it is necessary to find a specialty store or buy online.)

But the way you measure band is incorrect. When taking the underbust measurement, add only 2-3 inches to find band size. It quite honestly depends how squishy you are around the ribs and what size actually fits, for the same measurement seems to vary woman to woman. I measure about 28.5 inches underbust, and I wear either a 30 or 32 band depending on brand. (That's another factor in correct size.)

I hope this helps.

Candie V from Whereever there's wolves!! And Bikers!! Cummon Flash, We need an adventure! on March 29, 2010:

LOLOL!! "Too many puppies in too small a basket"!!! You crack me up!. I had a girl friend (full figured to be sure) that used to laugh and say she had to by bras in the hat department! Thanks FD!

Paradise7 from Upstate New York on March 29, 2010:

Thanks, I'm bookmarking this for the next time I go bra-shopping. I've bought bras online using the size charts and doing the measuring with a LOT more success than I've had buying bras in the store (note for Justine!).

Suiiki from City of the Newly Wed and Nearly Dead on March 28, 2010:

I was always taught that to find your cup size, you need to find how much bigger your boobs are than your band size (before adding to find the actual band size) For instance, my breasts are 5 inches larger than my measurement just under the bust, making me a DD cup.

I could be wrong, but that's the way my mum taught me and her mum (A dressmaker) taught her...

It always worked for me (And could help Justine76)

Andria (author) on March 28, 2010:

drbj - I don't think it's a first. I just wrote it on the hop. So to speak ;) And the joke made me laugh ... gravity is very cruel to women. And men ...

Ethel - The part about me measuring by hand is true. 'Twas in a store in my local town. I semi-cured me. I got all fascinated one time with those gel filled bras. I ended up buying another useless bra that day too ;)

Ethel Smith from Kingston-Upon-Hull on March 28, 2010:

You managed to get a good amount of humour into this Hub. Not easy with the subject in hand

drbj and sherry from south Florida on March 27, 2010:

A hub on how to measure your bra size? I haven't checked but this must be the first hub of its kind.

I wish that the comments section could show an image but since it doesn't, I'll describe a funny cartoon I just saw that fits (joke) right here.

Picture an elderly couple sitting side by side on a sofa. He puts his hand under her blouse to fondle her breast and she says, "No, Henry, they're not up there any more!"

Oh, well, you had to BE there.

Andria (author) on March 27, 2010:

Lol Justine that's a crime, surely?! I don't know - go try one on and see. And of course I'll need pictures for evidence ;)

Justine76 on March 27, 2010:

HAHAHHAHAH!! Ive had this problem for so long. Yes, just under the bustline 27 inces. (skip the math for the band size, Ive got 7 inches of boob? that's NOT going to fit in a B cup!!) It may be the fact that where I live doesn't offer much for variety, bras are kinda like jeans, different brands will vary in their sizes somewhat.

Andria (author) on March 27, 2010:

lol Justine all I can say is the above is the standardized method for finding your bra size. If it says you're a 32B ... and you're not then something's wrong. You're definitely taking the first measurement from just under your bustline right? Adding the right amount to find the band/bra size? You'll have to get your boobies out lol, so I can see. And don't worry - I won't share ;)

Justine76 on March 27, 2010:

haha. sausages. :) Here is my big issue. I get 27 inches for the first measurement. so..add 5, right? 32. Now, next measurement, 34. So I should be a 32B? not a chance will that fit. Ive tried!! what am I doing wrong? And the shopping? Your so right! He wont mind a bit!!

As a woman, I write a great deal about men who wear lingerie. To be honest, it has become rather a passion of mine over the past few years.

So you like to wear lingerie under your clothes during the day, and you want to extend your lingerie obsession into the night as well. There's nothing wrong with lingerie being an obsession; in fact, one could argue that it is obsessions which make the world go round.

Nightgowns, also known as night dresses, are long and flowing items of lingerie designed to look sexy and be incredibly comfortable. Yes, if you wore one of these, you'd technically be wearing a dress. But, oh, what a dress! Clad from top to toe in the smoothest of silk or nylon, you'd have the best night's sleep you've had in a very long time.

1. Shirley of Hollywood Long Gown

Shirley of Hollywood never fails to please, and this long-line beauty is no exception to the rule. With lace and mesh cups for that touch of flirtatiousness, this garment would just scream class. Except class doesn't scream, so rather it murmurs class in refined tones. Of course, once you slip this on, there's no guarantee you'll be able to show the same level of restraint.

2. Rhonda Sheer Lace and Mesh Nightgown

How gorgeous is this piece of lingerie? The charmeuse fabric drapes your body, the mesh splits reveal a naughty side and the lace trim reminds onlookers that you do have a touch of class after all. This is an incredibly beautiful nightgown from Rhonda.

3. Unmentionables Nylon Tricot

50 inches of the finest nylon topped with beautiful lace inlays which show off your charms. Who could fail to fall in love with this nightgown from Unmentionables? Someone without a soul, that's who. The feminine shape and cut of this nightgown is sure to delight and inspire—and yes, even men will look feminine due to the fact that the bodice creates an artificial waist as it flows down into a full skirt.

4. Unmentionables Lace Bodice

For men who like a little more lace in their nightgowns, this lace bodice gown delivers. Also from Unmentionables, and also 50 inches long, this beauty offers plenty of room to play. Much like its sister nightgown, this is sure to create a very feminine shape on any body, male or female.

Where to Find Nightgowns

These styles are all available from reputable online lingerie retailers such as herroom.com and barenecessities.com and amazon.com, so there is no need to brave the winter cold or the summer heat. Internet shopping: providing naughty little pleasures since Al Gore invented it in 1995.

Comments

Owen on August 21, 2020:

I sleep in a nice nighty, silk every night and love the way it feels on my body.

richard.g on June 29, 2020:

I have sent several posts but none has shown up.

Phil on June 05, 2020:

I just love vintage babydoll nighties with nice long ribbons on the shoulders and a big bow in the front with 2 bows either side. The ribbons would have to be nylon and extend beyond the hem. As I love playing with the long ribbons when wearing my babydoll nighties . I wear them round my home too

"Donna" on May 25, 2020:

I have been wearing women's clothes all my life. I wouldn't be able to sleep without a nightgown and panties on.

Richard on May 19, 2020:

I have sent several comments but they have not been posted.

Thomas de Jong on May 02, 2020:

I like the night gowns and I wear a night gown my self but I miss male models showing your night gowns.

Rick on April 01, 2020:

I like wearing silk granny panties and avia jog bra. On cold nights i like wearing my moms old wool night gown.

Rick on March 31, 2020:

I wear an avia jog bra at night, and during the day when shoping or whatever i wear a avia, 16/18 size very nice fit and feel. It gives me suport and a little bounce for the girls.

Lance on March 08, 2020:

I prefer to sleep in bra and panties to me a night gown is too restrive.

Rick on February 22, 2020:

I think most places would, but i would call first and ask. All they can do is say no. Personaly i have been asked to leave or called queer. So call first.

Patrick on February 15, 2020:

I love wearing my nightgowns from Shadowline. I sleep so much better wearing them. Long nightgowns in winter and short in summer.

The problem is that when my girl friend stays over, she doesn’t want to see me wearing my nightgown. She knows I wear it and she sees it hanging in the bathroom, but I cannot wear it when she is with me.

She has no problem with my wearing It when alone, she just doesn’t want to see me wearing it.

Henry on December 21, 2019:

Where can a man find a place to try on sexy womans clothes

John on December 19, 2019:

I have been wearing a nightie every night since I was 14 now 53 love them

Thomas on November 17, 2019:

I am a male and I wear nylon nightgowns and I love them. I feel that I should have them years ago. what I would like to see that you use male models to show off these nightgowns.

Saniya (Abi) on October 28, 2019:

Oh i am a boy, but i loved to wear nighties at night. In night i usually wear matching bra and panties then petticoat and then a full sleeve nighty. I also wear two anklets and a long scarf over my head. What a feel it was to sleep in that sexy outfit. Sometimes I also wear satin night wears. Every man should try this atleast once in his lifetime to feel and enjoy what these sexy feminine dresses can give you..

Jim on October 13, 2019:

I wear panties 24/7 and I wear night gown ever night. at first my wife was upset but now she is use to it, she even comment on my lingerie. I sleep great. love the way it feel on me

Chuck on October 01, 2019:

I LOVE wearing any lingerie. I wear panties ever day . Some days I’ll wear a garter belt with my hosiery. Gowns are awesome . I’m wearing a bra, pantyhose and bikini panties now. When I come home every day, I change into something special. Before my wife passed away, she was approving more and more. Many times when we’d go to the beach, I’d were her panties as my bathing suit!!! So now, I’m enjoying what she liked!!!!

Richard on September 10, 2019:

I love walking around the house in silk or satin slips mmmmmmm makes me feel so sexy!

Phil on August 28, 2019:

I have always LOVED the feel of feminine finery. Looks very amazing too!

james on August 17, 2019:

I like long see-thru nylon gowns and long sleeve robes combined with chiffon lace panties.

dave on July 27, 2019:

Panties....nylon....full back briefs....the ultimate panty to wear ....feels good on body parts....arouses me to the max....especially when a woman or another man enjoys it with me....

Tallguy on July 26, 2019:

I’m lovin sleeping in Satin. My wife at first accepted it now likes it. It’s so sensual. It’s done wonders for our love life!

It’s a bit tricky to find sexy gowns in plus sizes but it can be done. Some Asian products are way undersized.

But it’s worth the research. We have fun swapping gowns and helping pick them out each night. It’s added so much spice to our life. We wink at each other in the day thinking about our secret nightwear! We are seniors in a long marriage

Plus a satin nightdress is so comfortable

D on June 26, 2019:

I wear a satin nightdress every night and have done so for about two years. I have never slept as well as I do now.

Mark on June 14, 2019:

My name is Mark I love wearing black stockings I love to put them on very slowly

A black bra black satin long dress to the floor with a split on the right side for my leg long black hair to my waist just be a woman that's all I want to be I just want to be a woman I don't like being a man anymore

Kendall on April 29, 2019:

I want to wear woman underwear and women nightgowns but my girlfriend is not in to that I'm thinking about buying some and hide them so she doesn't know about them short night gowns boyshort hipster checky underwear always turn me on so much that's why I want to buy some

Brian on February 21, 2019:

I love wearing womens lingerie [t is so soft and pretty but it is hard to find the right size.I find that when buying panties it is easy slips are easy to but when buying nightgowns camis bras ect you should really go to a lingerie store to be measured

oooo on February 04, 2019:

god i love night gowns.....ps iam a man

Judi Ann on December 20, 2018:

I adore wearing pretty, frilly, satin or nylon nightgowns. My love for girl clothes began when my mother took me dress shopping when I was eight years old. She treated me like a girl and those were the best days of my life.

tim on December 15, 2018:

I like cape sleeve nylon nightgown the best but I like them long too its herd to find one that 56 in long any more .

John Moran on December 07, 2018:

I love long nylon or satin nighties. I wear one every night along with a bra and panties. I'm 73 years old and have done this for a long time.

John on December 03, 2018:

Like Susan, I also love wearing satin nightgowns. I also like wearing long nylon nightgowns.

s on December 03, 2018:

I love wearing long nylon or satin nightgowns. I sleep in one every night. They feel so good on my body. Sometimes, I stay in one the whole day.

debbie on November 25, 2018:

I love men that wear night gowns.

Susan on November 21, 2018:

Love wearing satin nightgown make me feel like the woman I am

Abby on November 06, 2018:

love to wear long nylon nightgowns to bed no panties just love the feel of nylon wife let me wear them to get a good night sleep

Billie on October 24, 2018:

Phil, your story is so nice

Georgie3 on September 26, 2018:

Hello georgie3 here again so nice to here that so many guys are wearing lovely nighties .i have added to my collection with long seethrough nighties and I wear panties all the time now .so nice to get out of bed in the morning and walk to the kitchen for that first cuppa ,feeling all that nylon mmm. Keep wearing guys . Nice to read your stories

Andrew on September 20, 2018:

I love wearing satin nighties long and short ones. I used to sleep around my aunties, she wasn't a real aunty a lot during the holidays and she always had me wear a satin nighty to bed, she saw at once how much I liked the satin against my body and would watch me play. She even dressed me fully as a girl at times and took me shopping for lovley satin lingerie. she told me she always wanted a daughter

PaulaPlaytex on September 11, 2018:

"Phil"...That is such a "Sweet Story" about you and your Mom...My Sister-In-Law has got me into being a "Crossdresser"...I have "Natural Big Breasts" (46B/46C-Cup)...She gave me one of her "Old Bras" to try on...Her Bra size is a 46D-Cup...Cup size was "Too Big"...She took me "Bra Shopping"...We found the "Right Bra Size" for me to wear.

Phil on August 20, 2018:

My Mother got me into vintage nighties in the 60's. Nighties wern't vintage then just a normal nylon nightie in thoses days.

She was going through a divorce and I had come home and live with her as she was alone, I used to come up to her bedroom each morning as I didn't start work till much later on. I love to sit on her bed in my P.J.s and one morning she said to me "you should've come up in your nightie, Phil" I said. " I havn't got any nighties Mum" so she replied, "Well, do U want to try on one of my nylon nighties???" And I said "well.......OK then, is that OK Mum" "of course U can" she said so I asked her what draw do U keep your nighties in Mum,??? so she told me, so I she undressed me from my PJ's to the nude and I sorted out a real sexy nightie that she used to wear quite a lot,I put it on as fast as I could and she said that it suited me and IT FELT SO so nice I just had it on all day, then I asked her if I could wear it to bed"of course U can " Then she said "lets go to the lingerie shop and buy you some nylon nighties " So off we went and bought some real nice baby-doll chiffon nighties I think it was about 3 or 4 its a long time ago now, but I had to sleep in with my Mother she told me but that was OK as we both loved to wear the baby-doll nighties. Sometimes we would swap nighties in front of each other, and we both loved doing that, as she told me, and I said yes Mum I love to do that to. But sadly a few yrs ago she passed away, and now I'm in my late 60's and have been wearing chiffon nylon nighties ever since both when I'm at home during the day when I'm not working and to bed at night ....its great and I love it. I have a big drawer just FULL of chiffon baby-doll nighties and another drawer full of nylon peignoirs or negligee's all different soft colours as well and some have nice ribbons and bows on as well.

PaulaPlaytex on August 08, 2018:

I always sleep wearing a "Sexy Nightgown"...Wearing my Bras and Panties underneath...(Sometimes I wear my Nylons too).

Spizzo on August 04, 2018:

I love wearing Shadowline and Amanda Rich nightgowns especially on weekends.

Andy on August 03, 2018:

Hi can anybody recommend some good nightgowns the sleep in I have a Carol Hoffman nightgowns it good I’m looking to at

To my nightgowns

Richard Regan on July 26, 2018:

I've been wearing woman's nightgowns since I was 14,I used to wear my aunts nightgowns and I really enjoy it it relieves a lot of stress and I sleep like a baby in it.now I'm addicted to wearing women's gowns and panties Ill be 75 in Sept.I love to wear flannel, nylon and plisse gowns' don't care much for pajamas any more, a nightgown is much more comfortable and I wouldn't trade it for the world.

Keith Anthony on July 10, 2018:

Why do straight guys love wearing silky night gowns

John on July 03, 2018:

Gillian's husband is a very lucky man.

John on June 29, 2018:

I've been wearing long nylon nightgowns for over 20 years. love the feel and comfort.

Andy on June 21, 2018:

I just started to were nightgowns to sleep in a couple of. Months ago and I love it

Mark on June 08, 2018:

I love wearing nighties and would love to be able to post a picture on Herr.

Pete on March 25, 2018:

I wear a silk nightie to bed every night and silk panties......so extremely comfortable.

Madeline on March 11, 2018:

Hi love to wear cotton full coverage panties and a nightie to bed every night it just feels so nice. Wear panties and a cami under my man clothes all the time

ray on February 26, 2018:

i love to wear lingerie because of the sensouous feel of nylon against my skin, as a man i would only feel rediculous wearing a bra i'd rather wear a silky nylon cami so i can feel the nylon of the cami gliding across my nippleswith of corse nylons and panties, makes me feel so sexy!

Bob on February 18, 2018:

Good to be back. I found a small lingerie shop in a neighboring town that loves to help cater to guys. They do bra sizing and everything. They created and account and file for me and I just order items when I feel I need them. Everything is done by appointment. Panties, bras, slips and thigh highs, doesn’t get any better than this. So nice having bras with panties to match, especially in correct sizes.

Gillian on February 02, 2018:

I purchased a lovely satin gown and robe for my husband--red. When I presented them to him he was surprised but pleased. He looks so sexy in them and loves to wear them. When we go to bed I love the feeling of warm satin next to me.

Since the first purchase I bought panties and bras which I introduced him to gradually--especially the bras. Today he wears all of it and is very happy to please me in every way. I'm dying to see him in a pretty blouse, stockings and a pencil skirt. I know it's feminizing him and at first we were both a bit apprehensive but the pluses far outweigh the negatives--at least for us. Gotta go--time to help him polish his toenails.

Dave on January 24, 2018:

So glad to find this sight. To know I am not weird or alone. I enjoy the slips and nightgowns on my body. Feels soft and flowing. Also enjoy the bra on occasion as the straps with the slip straps feel sexy. I am married but my wife does not see this as normal. As far as I am concerned it is not abnormal and enjoy when we can.what makes women's clothes any different. It is only material. We should enjoy as well. Long live slips, nightgowns,nylons and bras!!

Dave on January 24, 2018:

It is nice to find out I am not alone

PaulaPlaytex on December 14, 2017:

I love wearing woman's nighties. Also wear BRA and PANTIES to bed...Sweet Dreams ! Paula Playtex P.S. Only wear PLAYTEX BRAS !

Bob on November 11, 2017:

When my wife is out of town on business I sleep in one of her half slips. Half slips are the only ones that fit me as I have none of my own. This is in addition to garter and thigh highs. I have two garters to choose from, a Christian Dior I bought her for an anniversary and one I purchased for me. When I finish wearing hers I just throw it back in her drawer. She never knows. I usually wash it along with my stockings in Woolite and hang to dry.

Ryan on October 14, 2017:

I have not tried nightgowns but I wear panties 24/7 what should I be looking for when I go shopping for nightgowns

GEORGIE 3 on October 08, 2017:

hi all so pleased to see so many guys wear ladies long nighties its such a lovely feeling i try to wear a long nighti all day when i can im wearing one now its pink see through with gold lace straps feels good i also wear slips and panties . lovely keep having harmless fun georgie x

brian on October 01, 2017:

I love the shirly of Hollywood blue nightgown very pretty I would wer that with matching panties

Lovely Nancy on September 21, 2017:

I've been wearing Nighties since I was 8 yrs. old.

I only wear Satin in the winter month because satin doesn't breath as well as Nylon.

I prefer Olga, which I don't think they make anymore. They are very comfortable to wear and you forget you have one on.

My wife says they are very sexy.

Silkydrawers on May 28, 2017:

I have been collecting and wearing nightgowns for over 30 years and my collection has grown into the thousands and I am still finding new treasures to add to my collection.

Paul on April 19, 2017:

I have been wearing a nightie every night since I was 14 years old now 51 .

Sissy Charleen on January 27, 2017:

I wear women's nightlys everyday plus panties night and day ❤️

jeff on November 06, 2016:

i wrote here 7 years ago and my wife still loves me dressing in the double layerd nighties that are short. She rubs my nighty when iam in bed with her iam so lucky to have such a good wife who lets me wear these nighties to bed i love them and they feel great. I used to wear t-shirts and tighty whities now i wear sometimes to bed vanity fair granny panties full brief but not very often. I like to feel the nighty on me it feels great and i love it. I have 5 babydoll nighties and love them.

Bryan on August 11, 2016:

got my nightdress on now it's satin and so comfortable will never sleep in pjs again

teki on November 01, 2015:

I got awfull testicle pain from the sharp crotch of my pyjama trousers and when I realized what could be causing the pain I borrowed a simple cotton nighty from my wife. I felt foolish it was too tight with the short sleeves and cold wearing above knees so I went online and found 'Woman Within' had a sale on. I bought a long sleeved 53" full length night gown and it felt so natural I was hooked and bought three more. Wife thought I was funny but I hurt my shoulder at work and couldn't be on top that night in bed so common wife to my rescue and with legs apart she tried the 'on top position for the first time. Boy was that terrific guys. Soon I was having my panties taken down and began a brand new sex life as the sub partner. Now we both change into our nighty's to sit around drinking cocoa and watch a movie together in body shaven massage's and sheer frilly feminine bliss. Don't knock it till you have tried it guys.

Richelle on October 26, 2015:

I have been wearing the last two styles for several years and you are correct. After the first time you put it on that's it your hooked for good and you do get a grate night sleep in them. I like the idea that some people think it is okay for men to use these clothes and there is nothing wrong with it. Good blog, like the information you put out there for use to learn from.

Wilsinho on February 17, 2015:

I have done extensive rercaseh on this subject, and agree completely with the way this was written. I only wish I had the eloquence to put it into quality writing. I will shurely post a link to on my site.

Lady Joanne on March 19, 2010:

I absolutely love & need to wear to bed every night dainty and demure, long sleeved, hight necked, full length Nightgowns with lovely lace and ruffled adornments at their collars, bodices and cuffs. I also love adorning myself with frilly lace sleeping caps & just adore setting my hair up in rollers before securing them in place under my lacy boudoir caps. I have developed a lifelong fascination for the Victorian era Nightdress with all its attendant whitework Broderie Anglais frillings and finely worked pintucks. When I prepare myself for bed as the modest minded lady of the Victorian era, in conjunction with my fully buttoned up to its frilly collar, long flowing voluminous & elaborately befrilled Nightdress, I also don a beautifully befrilled Night Bonnet that fully frames my face in soft delicate lacy ruffles and ties securely in place with a dainty draping bow under my chin. A pretty cardigan & or shawl, worn over my Nighties on the colder nights completes the picture of Olde World boudoir minded modesty that is my life long transgendered identity. I wonder, does anyone else feel that their feminine identity is not of this time and wish they were a woman of another time as I persistently do ? To conclude I love my vast collection of Victorian and contemporary Nighties and ruffled Nightcaps and wish I was the wife and mother to a husband who comes every night to our conjugal bedchamber adorned in his own fine lace ruffled Nightshirt and Nightcap in the glow of our oil lit bed lamp.

ashtree on February 17, 2010:

I sleep only in full-length satin and nylon nightgowns, and to tell you the truth, unlike PJ's they "remove the stress" somehow. I don't know why, but I feel fantastic, putting on a nightgown after a hard-working day. I'm about 190 cm (~6'5") tall, so all my nightgown and robe sets are custom-tailored, about 65"-66" long from shoulder to hem. Such lengths are practically unavailable on the market. I'm happy - my wife and daughter are OK with that, they have a lot of fun :) I don't wear any panties or other underwear underneath- it only spoils the great feeling!

MrDonald on December 22, 2009:

I too have been wearing long (52" or longer) nightgowns for many years and will never go back to pajamas. To me, pajamas are too "restricting" and I tend to get too warm in them. Nightgowns keep me plenty warm yet allow for circulation.

I also see no need for male nightgowns because 1, they tend to be not long enough and 2, they are rather plain. I have 8 womens 52" nightgowns in various fabrics and styles. Some are best for winter, some are best for summer, and the others can be worn year round.

A long time ago, men used to wear a type of gown to bed anyway. But if more men tried a woman's nightgown for sleeping, many would find it far more comfortable and restful than any other type of pajamas. Many probably would never go back to PJ's ever. And yes, lots of women's nightgowns do look very nice on men.

dane on November 18, 2009:

Nylon nightgowns are the best! I have always worn women's nightgowns, only because they were the only thing available. My wife doesn't care for the look on me but knowing how much I love nylon and satin, she's ok with it. BUT! I just found a site where they sell nylon nightgowns for men. I searched on yahoo search engine and found nightgownsformen.com. I ordered a blue and lavender one (my wife is glad about how they're designed-not so feminem- but she wasn't thrilled i wanted lavender). Can't wait till they come in!

fran-gerry on September 20, 2009:

I love wearing a long nightgown, sleep in one every night have never slept better.

JEFF on July 22, 2009:

I feel like a lucky guy I love to wear the double layer baby doll nighties of nylon and to me they are the sexiest things i have ever seen. Now I get to wear them for my wife. But the feel of the nightie is awesome But a lot of men if they were to try these on would experience something they never have experienced and that is feeling so good in these beauties. nylon nighties are the best and i love them. The only way you will enjoy it is to try it on you will be hooked.

Wren on July 22, 2009:

I have never thought of wearing a night fown before. It is worth considering, not sure how the GF will take it though.

Brandy on July 21, 2009:

I know that I am lucky because my Gf loves me in silky night gowns and all lingerie. We spend most mornings sitting on the patio in our nightgowns talking and drinking coffee. I have never slept better than when I started wearing lingerie to bed

scantilyclad on July 17, 2009:

i love sleeping in a nightdress and panties, and Hope is right you get a wonderful nights sleep!!

Zeta on July 15, 2009:

Oh! That is sad!

They had nice full nylon briefs with nylon crotch as well.

I will treasure my two nighties!

Nanciboy on July 14, 2009:

Shadowline, alas, is no more. (as of two or three months ago)

Zeta on July 14, 2009:

Nightgowns also feel wonderful walking around in the morning. Can't you imagine the feel of a soft summer breeze playing with the hem?

Shadowline often has nice nylon gowns on sale

Nanciboy on July 13, 2009:

Me inappropriate? I was mearly referring to forgetting to hold our tummies in and stand up straight when dressed up for taking pictures. What were you thinking of? ;)

50 Caliber from Arizona on July 13, 2009:

Unmentionables Nylon Tricot sweet!

I can feel the heat from this gown on Satin Sheets, one might slip out of a bed that is not level. :) I suppose you could have your wife tie you in so you don't slide out........ then the Spanx panties could earn there name.

Nice hub! It generates ones thoughts to full speed of delightful adventure.

Hope Alexander (author) on July 12, 2009:

That's what the flouncing is for.. now shush, you're dangerously close to being inappropriate ;)

Nanciboy on July 12, 2009:

Of course most of us wouldn't have a flat front as shown in the pictures when wearing gowns like these.

As a woman, I write a great deal about men who wear lingerie. To be honest, it has become rather a passion of mine over the past few years.

What are the best panties for men? Opinions vary greatly. Some men like thongs; others prefer bloomers. This article is based on feedback I have received from some of the finest male panty connoisseurs the Internet can provide. Let's see if I've got this right.

The Best Panties for Men: Full Brief Panties

According to the experts (me and my commenting crew), full brief panties are the best type of panties for a man who wears panties for several reasons.

1. They provide enough coverage to make the panty-wearing a rather modest affair. That is, certain parts of the male anatomy do not sneak out the bottom or top of the panties and cause the wearer to become uncomfortable.
2. They provide enough coverage to be satisfying. If you're a man who loves the feeling of wearing women's lingerie, there's very little point in wearing little scraps of fabric. Full briefs allow the wearer to really feel the fabric across their skin.
3. Full briefs are usually a snug fit. Men who wear women's lingerie often enjoy the feeling of a snug fit. Sure, there is the pleasure of loose fabric teasing one's body, but at the end of the day, it is nice to feel lingerie against the skin as you move about.
4. Full brief panties are more hygienic as they draw away sweat and germs harmlessly. I hate to disrespect the noble thong, but those things are pretty disgusting when you get down to it—more so for a woman than a man, because the sweat build-up from the posterior causes nasties to migrate down the string and into other areas. For a woman, this can be the cause of a nasty infection; for a man, it's just generally gross.

Best Material: Nylon

Men who wear lingerie just love nylon panties. I think it is because of the soft sensation against the skin and the relative cost-effectiveness when compared to other fabrics which have a similar feel, like silk for instance.

Therefore, if I'm right, the majority of my readers will have a pair of 'Nylon Full Brief Panties' as their favorites. Was I right? Let me know in the comments section.

Choose What You Like Best!

Of course, at the end of the day, the best panties for you are simply your favorite panties. Maybe they're a pair of billowing bloomers, maybe they're a cotton bikini (ick, cotton), maybe they're silky soft boy shorts.

The best panties for you are the ones that make you feel great when you wear them. The ones that put a smile on your face. The ones that you're sad to find in the laundry basket because you didn't get around to washing them like you meant to. The ones you pack first when you go away on business trips. The ones you—you get the idea. Wearing panties is about expressing hidden sides of yourself, and the only one who knows how to do that best is you.

Comments

Dennis Andersen on August 25, 2020:

I think the best panties on the market is basil's 2633 they are comfortable they are soft and stretchy these panties make you want to wear them more because there is an endless overwhelm beauty wearing these panties thank you bali's for the endless overwhelming wearing beauty in womens panties i will wear them untill i die

James on August 13, 2020:

I started wearing women's nylon panties about 50 years ago and have never looked back. I started wearing my mums panties at first then I started buying my own .I love wearing full brief nylon panties and camisoles under my male clothing .it is a thrill going out in public wearing my under garments and nobody none the wiser .

Robert on August 04, 2020:

Half my underwear drawer is women's briefs, both cotton and cotton polyester blend. My favorite is "Bali Women's Stretch Brief Panty". I wear panties regularly, and I'm not afraid to change in the gym's locker room, because the panties have no lace of feminine seams. The reason I'm wearing panties is two folds: first they are good - unlike boxers, they give support, snug fit but not too tight, the waist band never get loose. Second - I can't deny it, there is this kinky slutty feeling of being special, different from other men. I also have few other feminine items, like bras for my men boobs (B cup), bodysuit and pantyhose - but these are just for the experience at home, not something I wear to work on a daily basis.

Chris on July 28, 2020:

Have been wearing panties for about 5 years they're so comfortable and my boyfriend likes the way i look in them

Ryan on July 11, 2020:

My wife said I have great tastes and is throwing her panties away and sharing mine. lol

Clarence on July 04, 2020:

i have been wareing silk womenes full figure under ware for over 50 yeares and just love them my ladey friend loves to see me wareing them with sheer energey nylones sayes that turnes hr on to see me wareing them she likes to spank me while i ware them

CindyCD on July 02, 2020:

Nylon briefs are the best. They feel beautiful and come in lots of colors and just a little bit of lace makes a great experience.

Douglas Paepke on June 18, 2020:

I Just Love the Feel of Women's Panties against my Skin!

I Love the Feel of Nylon with the Stretchiness of Lycra! My Favs are the Jockey NPL Promise Panties as well as Many other Maidenform Panties!

I am a Man Who has Worn Panties Ever Since I was Borrowing them from my younger sisters panty drawer, 55 years ago to use them For Fun!

I just Love the EXTREME Comfort That Women's Panties Offer!!!

As Well as The Softness, Stretchiness, the Lightness and Comfort of Girls Panties!!!

I JUST WOMEN'S PANTIES!!!

Phil on June 12, 2020:

My favorite panties are vanity fair nylon briefs with and without the lace sides. Have been wearing since teen but 24/7 for 35 years. Have over 2000 pair. Wife loves these silky soft panties too. All men should try wearing these.... so much more comfy and enjoyable.

Stuart on June 12, 2020:

I am a widower and have been wearing ladies panties before I lost my wife.

I find it very hard to buy panties as my wife used to buy for me,

To make them more comfortable to wear I pick them with a double-layered gusset then cut out the inside cotton gusset. My favourite is mesh or nylon I never wear cotton ones.

Sissy Dave on June 12, 2020:

I like full brief panties with a wide gusset. I'm not fussy about the brand as long as they cover my diaper.

tina on June 12, 2020:

as a man i like panties that hold my dick and balls in place and must fit soft and a string up my asscrack

Jack on May 23, 2020:

I got my start by wearing a mix of cotton and nylon panties, girls tops, bottoms and shoes during my childhood. My mother and 2 older sisters dressed me in their hand me downs pretty much. We didn't have much money after my father past away and we didn't have any relatives close by to help us out. My wife knows I wear panties. I have a variety of panties in my dresser draw. Nylon/satin briefs, high cuts, hipsters, bikinis, thongs, g-strings and cotton/spandex panties.

terence wright on May 22, 2020:

i like to wear navy blue school knickers they make them in adults size snow which i find very comfortable

Chrisi been wareing womenes full figure silk under ware for over 50 yeares and they just fit and feel way better then aney menes ever did on May 17, 2020:

Why dont they make menes under ware like womenes with more matereal between the waste band and croch they would fit way better womenes fit way better then menes when you bend over wareing menes they come almost halfe off your but you giyes know what i talking about but womenes full figure silk fit so good dont even know you have them on most of the time i love the womenes full figure silk

Lloyd on March 26, 2020:

to me the most comfortable are boy shorts

Jerry on March 25, 2020:

I have been wearing panties for many years. During that time i have tried about every style and fabric there is. My favorite at present is the nylon brief by Carole. They are full cut and have a very wide gusset that makes them especially comfortable.

Bryan on March 23, 2020:

Wore my first pair of panties over 60 years ago, I only wear Full Briefs, and my favorites are Olga and Bali, both have wide gusset, perfect for male junk. Threw away male underwear decades ago. I love that silky feeling. At 70, I have no problem admitting to any woman I date that I wear panties, if they can't accept it, then Too Bad!

Bobbie burton on March 17, 2020:

I been woreing womenes full figure silk under ware for 50 yeares and just love the way they they they fit dont even know you have them on why dont they make menes that fit that good

jer on March 15, 2020:

love just love bali 2633 skimp skamp style, wife does not mind, actually washes them, all 14 pairs. I am a man and wear daily

Bill on March 07, 2020:

My wife got me to start wearing panties over 10 years ago and I would never go back. Bali nylon hi-cut briefs are my favorite pantie. I also wear a pantyliner which keeps my panties clean.

Bob on March 03, 2020:

I have been wearing panties for over eight years now and I would never go back to men’s underwear. My favorite panties are Bali nylon high cut briefs. My wife loves how I look in them. She now has me wearing a Always pantyliner which help keep my panties clean and absorb any drips I might have.

Buddy on March 03, 2020:

I have worn panties for many years because they are nice and comfortable on the butt. I especially like the nylon panties they feel so nice on the skin. Women really like men wearing panties. I like the bold colors and comfort. I like the long legs in the winter. The nylon skimmies are excellent in the cold weather. I have worn some type of panties for more years than I care to tell about.

Jeff on March 02, 2020:

I've been wearing panties for 20 years now. At the start, it was only for an hour or two. But has grown to wearing them every night when I get home until I shower the next morning. I wore Victoria's Secret panties for most of that time, and started wearing Soma panties the last few months. Soma is a great panty right now in whatever style you choose.

Bill on February 29, 2020:

Almost all of my panties are full nylon briefs by Vanity Fair. My wife likes VF briefs, too. She prefers blended fabrics rather than nylon. We like that VF maintains very high quality standards.

The wide gusset and snug elastic at the leg openings make the panties ideal for men. I like the look and feel. They are comfortable to wear.

Dennis Andersen on February 29, 2020:

To men cotton panties are like wearing mens underwear men like nylon or soft sliky fabric streches and lacey the color is pink men who wear panties have at least 6 pair of pink panties but i have 5 drawer full of panties i have been wearing panties at 5 years old now ill be 73 my whole life been wearing panties i dress as women 75%of the time my whole life been wonderfull

nat peters on February 24, 2020:

My favourite hands down is the Playtex waist shaper with Elastane, and Polyamide mix giving a light support, Skin tone or white. I also wear a size up for comfort. Fantastic support especially with the tummy panel and the feel. These I wear bed time and make a wonderful foreplay accessory for my wife. Daywear its Vanity Fair, so comfortable I don't notice them!!

Rowsby on February 20, 2020:

I have worn panties for over 50 years.

Like the local motel NO BALL ROOOM!!

LONG LEGS FOR ME!!

Rick on February 18, 2020:

I was raised by my aunt who was a seamstress. When i was 9 i would try on her cloths. She found me in a bra, and said i should learn to make my own cloths. Now i make all my own cloths from dresses to bras.

Mike on February 06, 2020:

I have been wearing panties for 5 years and won’t ever go back to mens uncomfortable underwear.

I like all lace full briefs in pink, red and purple. These are so comfortable and the coolest I have found.

It’s perfectly fine to wear them as a man for whatever reason you wear them.

After all, many women wear men’s shorts, pants and underwear and no one cares. But, when a man wears a piece of women’s clothing they are labeled wierd,gay or cross dressers. What about equality that people are always talking about? What’s good for a woman is good for a man. I am all about equality!

What anyone wears is their business, man or woman. Society has to quit judging, only God can judge.

Amen.

Roy on February 02, 2020:

You are right. I much prefer full coverage nylon panty briefs. I think a nice silky nylon panty is the way to enjoy lingerie as do the ladies. Cant beat a nice silky nylon panty for comfort...….wouldn't wear anything else and am a heterosexual male that wearing panties makes my day.

Ari on January 18, 2020:

I have been wearing nylon string bikinis every since my wife bought 5 pairs for me in 2001. I instantly converted from men's briefs to panties once I tried on a pair. Thank you Hun.

fred on January 15, 2020:

I wear vanty fair full nylon briefs full time. I fell more like a female with them on. when I go to doctor or treatment,they tell me to take my pants off. they both male or female doctors see I have panties on. great feeling then

Kevin on January 14, 2020:

I have been wearing brief nylon panties for 30 years i just love the feel of the nylon i started out wearing my grandmothers white nylon panties been hooked ever since

Nick on January 13, 2020:

I love wearing string bikinis, Jockey style nylon or silk, I’m a straight man, marry have try other brands but I stick to silk , nylon. I have try French high cuts , but I like low cut better cause they don’t show it you bend down. Love my bikinis panties also

Bri on January 09, 2020:

I found that passionate silk on Amazon has gstring bikini panties that fit well an im 32 inch waist 6inches extra large because they will shrink after first wash but hold package great but get a wood an not good im so use to them i dont grow no more in them

Richard Brown on January 08, 2020:

I prefer Carole brand full cut nylon panties. Sheer soft nylon generous fit.

Harry B on January 01, 2020:

Just recently started wearing nylon panties. Got tired of the same old boring men’s underwear. Was on a trip and my luggage was lost. My wife offered me a pair of her Jockey NPL to wear until we could go shopping. I was hooked, ask my wife if she cared she said go for it. She ordered me 8 pairs of Jockey NPL and I love them. I will never go back to men’s underwear and to those who think it’s weird are maybe I’m gay I say no I’m comfortable and go F yourself.

Terry on December 29, 2019:

I have always loved panties i love buying them for my girlfriend(vanity fair nylon string bikini and jockey nylon string bikini) i have told her many times i wish they would make mens underwear out the same nylon as hers. She bought me a pair of size 7 jockey nylon bikini panties not the string bikini like the ones i buy her but the regular bikini with a little more coverage and asked me to try them on. Of course i was eager to try them on and they fit perfectly! They don't ride up or bunch up like other panties i have tried on.i was very aroused when i put them on and they still held up great with my erection.now i have bought many more jockey nylon bikini with colors and prints that match her jockey string bikinis. i will say my favorite are jockey nylon bikini panties i also will say there is nothing wrong with a man wearing panties i am totally straight and i love the way they feel when i wear them and so does girlfriend!

james on December 25, 2019:

Hi hope . I love wearing the full brief nylon panties with a matching camisole.Have been wearing for 50 years now. I have over 70 pairs and have ordered 8 pair more.

John B on November 16, 2019:

Have been wearing vanity fair nylon briefs for 30 plus years. They fit and feel so nice. Last a long time too. Threw out all my male undies 20 years ago, would never go back. Have 100's of the lace noveau and ravissant nylon panties in multiple colors. Have recommended to friends who love them just as much. All guys should give these panties a try.

Jarret on November 14, 2019:

I like Jockey No Pantyline Promise full briefs for daily wear, walking, hiking. When driving for long distances (more than an hour) I prefer a size larger in full briefs, nylon, microfiber, or cotton. I recommend them for anyone who drives for a living; truckers, delivery, taxi, police. I have worn several styles, fabrics, sizes, fabrics.

el dubya on October 21, 2019:

For me it's full size briefs, nylon too. I used to be embarrassed but now I don't care. ED and no sexual gratification, just comfort.

I like beyond soft boxers but nothing beats a nice fitting panty

Terri on October 18, 2019:

Darn, just went to my local Fred's and they are closing. No Dixie Belle panties in my size.

How2b on September 28, 2019:

Bodyaware tactel panties for men are like wearing a second skin, They are light, semi transparent, but grip you discreetly all the time you are wearing them.

No panty line at all. Nice colours. great feeling for you and when you remove your trousers, your partner will enjoy the view as well.

I really do recommend them, i have worn them for several years

Buy; wear; enjoy from Bodyaware

Terri on September 19, 2019:

I have been wearing panties for years. I have purchased many brands trying to decide which brand is my favorites. What a tough decision and why do I need to pick one when so many feel so soft, comfortable and elegant. Having said that, I can definitely say my favorites are nylon briefs. I love Vanity Fair Ravissant, Shadowline, Bali Skimp Skamps, and most recently Dixie Belle. I have found Dixie Belle at Fred's for only $3.00 per pair. The sizes are all mixed together in a big bin. It is so much fun sorting through all the panties looking for size 6 :) . All my choices have a wide gusset which contains my manhood very comfortably. I love wearing panties.

Terry on September 10, 2019:

Been in panties for years and loving it. Jockey ,no panty lines hipster are my favorite. Recently started wearing stockings and garter belts..we love colours are a good product with lots of feminine colours. Wear lingerie 24/7. Have lots of fun in it.

Sean on September 09, 2019:

Oh yes,

I wear full brief lace panties because they are cool and soft.

Many different colors. They just make me comfortable, and I don’t care what anyone thinks. My wife said to wear what I am comfortable wearing.

Bill F on September 06, 2019:

Yep, full coverage nylon briefs has been my panty choice for years. I've tried other styles, but in the end I always come back to my grannies.

VF Ravissants and Lace Nouveaus, Bali Skimp Skamps, Teri panties, Shadowlines, all great panties.

I've been in panties 24/7 for years with the blessing of my very understanding wife.

Pintoas on August 29, 2019:

Bring it to shops

Sean on August 28, 2019:

I love wearing panties. I like High rise briefs , lace because they are so comfortable and cool.

My wife thinks I am gay. No. They just make me feel so good. I have seen other men at the gym Too. It seem to be common.

Many women weakens undies and that’s ok too. Don’t understand why as they are so uncomfortable.

So who cares as long as you’re comfortable. It’s a personal thing.

Bobbie on August 11, 2019:

I love to wear panties for it brings out my feminine side of me

Jaimie O on August 07, 2019:

Thankyou Ms Hope for guides on panties for the male anatomy. I'm st8, so advise guys that I love the feel and enjoy sharing that with my fantastic wife, Please guys get your wives to support you.The tease, and intimacy of panties is fun, Wives put your husbands in panties,get the best of him.

I'm wearing a super man panty that matches my wifes tonight!

rohnda on July 27, 2019:

I have been wearing nylon full brief panties 24/7 for years. I no longer have any mens underwear.

HappyPanty on July 24, 2019:

Thank you for the wonderful article Hope. I am a panty wearing man. I wear panties every day, they must always be pretty, and I change panties two or three times a day to stay fresh and to suit my mood. I believe it is very important that men who wear panties regularly wax. Full Brazilian, front and rear, completely bare. A full wax enhances the appearance of panties on men, and make wearing panties enjoyable. To my fellow men, Hope’s advice is wonderful. Men, put in your panties, and wax. My female aesthetician loves to look at my panty choices, and she’s wonderful and helpful in making recommendations for panty styles, colors, and patterns that best suit my shape.

Jerry on July 14, 2019:

Yes I enjoy wearing nylon panties and have for many years. The panty feel unmeasurably better on the genetials than men's under ware. I was forced by the US Army to wear boxers years ago and I threw them away as soon as I was discharged. Panties are most of the under ware in my under ware drawer,. I do wear men's under ware when it's extremely cold but no longer than necessary. Panties are so much nicer than the rough men's under ware. During the summer panties are the best for staying cool. They are nicer than the new fabrics. I enjoy the multitude of colors and styles too.

Andrew on July 14, 2019:

Loved your article. Full panties are the best. preferably with out the cotton crotch.

George on July 10, 2019:

They all feel great

Andrew on July 09, 2019:

I AGREE.

Robert on July 07, 2019:

you are right on both counts

Jon on June 20, 2019:

hanes stretch satin hi -cuts are the BEST 24-7

teao on June 05, 2019:

shops should keep unisex underwear in they shop guys shouldent feel shy to ask

Mark on May 12, 2019:

ive been wearing panties for about 3 years every day . my wife says its hot and its a turn on for her . My favorite would have to be Brazilian tanga briefs and thongs from Bras N Things .although full cut briefs / bikini styles are much forgiving for my large package . finding the size which fits you the best for each cut is key . mostly im a size 12-14 depending on cut. i actually dont own any mens underware anymore

Johnney on May 11, 2019:

Just love the full figure silk under ware belkes has they fit good and have lootes of room some of my ladey friendes buy me some some times thes like me wareing sheer energey nylones with the paniteyes and like to spank me while i am wareing them then tell me you been bad so got to spank me to i pee in them then make me ware them all day they like that

Jim on April 28, 2019:

I personally love the feel and fit of DKNY mesh bikinis. The fit is so perfect and they are both sexy and like wearing nothing at all. I also recommend Maidenform Comfort Devotion tanga panties.

Janet on April 20, 2019:

Prefer nylon full cut panties size 9 and a size 44H full figure bra with full length nylon slip.

Brandi L. on April 15, 2019:

Perfect assumption—-my panties of choice are always nylon full cut brief granny panties, but I just recently wore a pair of cotton baby blue granny’s that felt so awesome on my tiny cock and so soft rubbing against my boy clit. My favorite brands are Bali, Shadowline, Olga and Vanity Fair. Lately, I almost wear exclusively Bali Skimp Skamp, their fullcut cotton brief panty and there double support brief with a pretty little bow top front center and 2 side panels of a floral insert that’s not really lace. I’m a small guy, about 5’ 6” and 155 lbs.but I like my panties comfortable, so instead of ordering a size 8 in the Skimp Skamp and double support brief, I order a size 10. This gives you lots of coverage, comes way above what ever kind of pants you wear, so if you’re wearing a short shirt or top and want to show off to the gals what kind of pretty panties you’re wearing, you just have to bend over or raise your arms in the air !!!! I hope my info was helpful for all you panty wearing guys out there

Dan on April 05, 2019:

I really love the Hanes full (high cut) briefs panties with cotton crotch, The width of the crotch holds my junk nice and snug : ) . and the thin nylon makes me feel so feminine , I'm married and straight and my wife says I'm very sexy looking in my panties, I don't wear men's underwear any more, just panties .

Clarence on March 30, 2019:

Just love the feel off full figure silk womenes under ware been wareing them for yeares my lady friend likes to see me wareing them and spankes me while i am wareing them she sid that turnes her on

Don on March 29, 2019:

You are ABSOLUTELY right on with everything you said!

Dave on March 28, 2019:

I wear a full coverage light control panty. It helps smooth out the lines of my diaper and helps to hold it in place. I always get something that's easy care an machine washable. If I pee too much and my diaper leaks I need something that cleans up easily. I used to wear lace briefs but with the diaper thing I now need more if a granny panty.

Pintejro on March 11, 2019:

Why does the women shop

Thinki am weard when

I ask for unisex panty

Shops should sell it

Thanks

Jim hansen on March 08, 2019:

I wear underscore brief they give just enough snugnest nice assorted colors to choose from.

Cali guy on February 25, 2019:

Thongs and Tanga style bikinis or hippsters feel wonderful and we'll let's just say are sexy for the other gentleman to stare at when the time is right

Bobbie on February 18, 2019:

I haveing womenes full figure silk under ware for 40 yeares and love the way they they feel make me wish i w à s a women so i could ware all there clothes all the time so sexey

anthony on February 15, 2019:

I love wearing the full nylon brief panties .PS to me you can not beat them.

Just Me on February 09, 2019:

Bikinis or boyshorts with lace trim. Cotton floral prints are my favorites!

frank on January 19, 2019:

I wear hipsters and bikinis size 7 I have a 32 inch waist and about 5.5 inches and they fit me nice and very comfitable

Smooth on January 16, 2019:

I don't like briefs. I prefer something more sexy.

Brian on December 30, 2018:

I love wearing my panties I wear high cut panties or French cut panties most of them are nylon I also like to wear satin panties they are so soft.I like wearing my panties to bed with a pretty nightgown

John on December 25, 2018:

Boyshorts fit me great. Xl im only 155lbs 5'10" tall an 32 inch waist i love wearing them too even g string full back silk panties fit me fine.

Christ i on December 24, 2018:

I love womenes silk under ware and nylones been wareing them since i was teen now in my 70 es just fel so good dont even know you have them on why dont they make menes that feel and fit that good

wess on December 21, 2018:

amen. theres absolutely no underwear more comfortable than nylon full brief panties that are one size larger than what ya wear under your everyday guy clothes when ya get home and can change into a nice soft nightgown to relax in

Jonathan on December 02, 2018:

New to panties. Looking for some alternatives to the full briefs? Would boyshorts/hipsters work for an average sized man?

Dave on October 22, 2018:

I love Vanity Fair 15712 briefs

Eileen on October 12, 2018:

Bali full briefs for me.

James on August 18, 2018:

Been wearing ladies hi cut briefs for over 20 years and the microfiber is a good change from nylon. The only problem that I seem to have with fruit of the loom is that the colors are awful in the packs. I like red, pink of all shades but they put in some of the most ugly purple, black an other raunchy colors and they will not change.

lee on August 07, 2018:

I have been wearing psnties 24/7 for the past 10yrs I wear bikini and hipsters they fit a me nice the hole my package nice and are very comfitable the soft stretch cotton and I love the colors and some of then can pass as mens

Charlotte on July 20, 2018:

The reason why "the boys" are outside the body is because heat kills the sperm, womens underwear is lighter

Sean on June 24, 2018:

I am a man and have been wearing women’s lace high waisted briefs for several years. Reason being is that they are way more comfortable and the lace breaths making me much cooler there.

Sales ladies are very helpful and say many men are wearing them. At first I was embarrassed but after she said that a large number of men wear them and indicated whatever is most comfouis what we should wear. One commented that if it’s ok for women to wear boxers,etc. then why can’t men wear panties. Always a double standard in life I guess.

I”ve see men wearing them when changing at the gym so I guess it is quite common.

C.m. on June 17, 2018:

I have been wearing earners no muffin top brief. I like the fit and feel.as a man they fit the best. I like having no front seams.

Alice on June 05, 2018:

As we speak.

Sissy girl Dave on May 03, 2018:

I wear Dixie Belle Style #01232 – Lace Trimmed Brief. They have full coverage and a wide crotch. They cover my diaper well and wash and dry easily if I wet them.

Blake lewis on April 10, 2018:

You are absolutely 100% correct. Full cut briefs in nylon Vanity Fair are wonder with just a bit of lace on the side.

delabole on March 30, 2018:

I'm finding that very brief swimwear is tolerated on the beach, even in Britain. I have worn tiny pouch thongs leaving my bottom exposed, without getting any comment. Best outside school holidays.

delabole on March 30, 2018:

I love really brief panties, even G-string type, and in pretty colours like pink and turquoise. Not worried about modesty - I have a gorgeous bottom that I don't showing off!

jerry on March 20, 2018:

I disagree personally. I like the bikini's or the hipsters better than the full brief. The full brief's are taller than I like and rise up on the waist to much. Whereas the bikini's and hipsters fit around the hips and are more comfortable and to my liking. I like the nice colors of panties over men's briefs or bikini's.

Phil on March 19, 2018:

I have been wearing sexy panties for years, I don't have any male underwear at all, most days I wear nylon, full brief in bright colours, I have numerous PVC and plastic panties custom made off the net and wear these mostly on weekends.

My wife likes me wearing panties and at home matching bra.

kev on March 18, 2018:

I love wearing full brief knickers very comtable or the bikini ones.been wearing womans panties since I was 13 .find them more comtable than mens kickers to wear.my wife didnt have a issue with me wearing woman panties when I first started going with here she was very understanding

buck on February 28, 2018:

I love to wear panty hose they feel so good I have been wearing them for a long time they are the first thing I put on in the morning I wear them to work

I will tell you about clothes because fashion is what happens when people wear clothes.

'Hope, how can I find a woman who likes men who wear lingerie'? I get this question rather a lot, and while I can't point any of you to the 'women who like men who wear lingerie' store, I can give you a few pointers to help you along the road to finding such a lady.

After all, most men who wear lingerie also want to find female partners who will be okay with them wearing lingerie, and hopefully, even enjoy it. The idea of a lifetime of hiding an important part of oneself does not appeal to many men, though there are many men who have found themselves in just that situation.

Finding those elusive women who are okay with men who wear lingerie is something of a tall order but there are some things you can do to increase your chances of finding a lady who will be supportive and understanding of your desire to wear lingerie. Here's the first, and possibly most important step in the process:

Don't Look for a Woman Who Likes Men in Lingerie

This may seem counterintuitive, but I say it for a reason (aside from just being all Zen and smug about things, which is fun and all). Looking for women who declare that they like men who wear lingerie does two things:

1. It cuts your potential dating pool down exponentially.
2. It cuts out a lot of very nice women who haven't thought about it before.

Prior to being introduced to the phenomenon of men who wear lingerie I can't say that I'd given it any thought whatsoever. If my partner at the time had elected to only date women who somehow indicated that they liked men wearing panties, then we would have both missed out on a great deal.

Look for a Woman Who Is Open-Minded

Instead of looking for a woman who likes men who wear lingerie, instead look for a woman who is open-minded, perhaps one who has some interesting carnal proclivities herself. There's a chance you may have to accommodate a sexual idiosyncrasy of hers, perhaps one that you hadn't thought of before.

Remember too, that you are looking for a romantic partner who is a person, too—she's not just a vehicle for your lingerie desires. This is intellectually obvious, but looking for 'a woman who will like me wearing panties/bra/stockings' does turn all potential dates into rather one-dimensional creatures. You'd be surprised at how often men do this, perhaps because they tend to be rather practical souls. Women very rarely appreciate this approach, however, and yes, even if you don't vocalize it, they can tell that you're screening them for certain qualities, and they generally don't like it.

Women Have Big Hearts

Also, remember that women are emotional creatures, and that love has the potential to make women accept things that they might not think they would. Quite often, women leave comments on this sort of article saying things like 'Omg no way, that is so gay!' . . . but one suspects strongly that if it were a man they loved who wanted to wear lingerie, they may respond differently.

They may also respond differently depending on his appearance of masculinity. Many women fear that a man who wears lingerie will be less masculine, less sexy, less of a good mate than one who does not. However, if you put someone like Arnie in a pair of pink panties, I doubt that he would lose much of his allure with the ladies. It's all about attitude and making her feel comfortable with you as a man before you go introducing the panties and things. So to conclude, a series of bullet points:

• Don't necessarily look for a woman who likes men in lingerie, look for a woman who has the traits that will make her a good, loving, and accepting partner, such as open-mindedness, empathy, a wild streak, a sense of adventure.
• Look for the whole package, and treat all potential dates as human beings with thoughts and feelings and hopes and desires beyond a man in lingerie.
• Some women will never be interested in a man who wears panties. This is a harsh reality, but it's the same as some people will never date people of a certain ethnic background, and it's equally as shallow. Don't be saddened by missing out on these women, count yourself lucky to have dodged a bullet.

I will tell you about clothes because fashion is what happens when people wear clothes.

For those of you fresh from another planet and possessing particularly poor deductive reasoning skills, bras, also known as brassieres, are items of lingerie which are primarily designed to provide support to the breasts, which are the large, fleshy structures found upon the chests of women.

Though typically considered a female item of clothing, there are a significant number of men who, through weight gain or hormonal issues, also find that they have sufficient breast tissue to warrant the wearing of a bra. (Not to mention an extra portion of the male population who have decided that they'd quite like to wear one even if they don't need one.)

In addition to merely providing support for the breast tissue, many brassieres are now designed to give the breasts better shape, more lift, or to make them appear larger. Bras are also designed to adorn the body in a generally flattering fashion and are designed in a range of fabrics, patterns and designs ranging from the pretty to the sensuous.

There are many types of bras available on the market today, and some of the terms you encounter in your lingerie journeys may be strange and unfamiliar to you, so to aid you in your quest for bras, here is a fairly exhaustive list of various types of brassieres commonly available.

Balconette Bras

Balconette bras are much like demi-cup bras (see below) though they cover around ¾ of the breast and can be identified by their distinctive butterfly line, in which the fabric dips towards the center of the chest, and then rises up towards the straps.

Demi-Cup Bras

A demi-cup bra is one in which the cups do not cover all of the breast, rather they cover around half of the breast, leaving plenty of cleavage on display to onlookers.

Bullet Bras/Cone Bras

Popularized in the 1940s and 1950s, bullet bras and cone bras were lingerie creations which turned the soft curve of a woman's breast into a dangerously pointy object that would put your eye out if you got too close.

Nursing Bra

A bra worn by women who are nursing which provides easy access for the baby in a relatively demure fashion.

Open-Tip Bras

Open-tip bras are bras which offer some support for the breasts, but which have openings around the nipple area. Not recommended for everyday wearing (the chafing would be horrific), these bras fall firmly into the category of risque lingerie.

Open-Cup Bras

Open-cup bras are bras which are designed so that the cups plunge directly downwards in a diagonal line. Open tip bras are also sometimes referred to as open tip bras.

Padded Bras

Padded bras, as the name suggests, are bras which are padded in the cup area to enhance the appearance of the size of the breasts.

Shelf Bra

A shelf bra isn't so much a bra as it is a display rack upon which the breasts sit, exposed and uncovered. Some sportswear and swim wear comes with a 'shelf' stitched into it to give the breasts some support. This device is also occasionally referred to as a shelf bra. Best not to get the two mixed up.

Push Up Bra

A push up bra is a bra which is engineered to press the breasts together and lift them. The effect is a larger bust and deeper cleavage, which is considered attractive by many, and to give the appearance of having a bottom on one's chest to the more cynical.

Strapless Bra

A strapless bra is one which is held on purely by the band which wraps around the chest. Whilst effective for some ladies, generally those with smaller breasts, many women (such as this one) find that strapless bras are worse than having no bra at all, as they are prone to slipping down the body and leaving one to 'surreptitiously' adjust them all night long.

Stick-On Bra

Stick on bras are the latest incarnation of brassieres, and work by simply adhering to the breasts, giving them shape and covering up the nipples. The support given by these devices is negligible, and they are more of a novelty item than a useful piece of lingerie, no matter what the advertising says.

Sports Bras

Sports bras are bras which are specially designed to reduce the amount of bouncing and wobbling breasts are wont to do when the owner is exercising. This movement can be not only painful, but also bad for the breast tissue, causing bruising and tearing.

Training Bras

Training bras aren't really bras at all, rather bra like items of lingerie which are given to young girls to wear in anticipation of the time when they will actually need a real bra. They start at size AAA, and are probably a huge waste of time and resources in the majority of cases.

Wonderbra

A wonderbra is a brand name bra which is widely held to increase the appearance of the size of a woman's breasts. Wonderbra burst onto the lingerie scene in the 1990s and have not looked back. The company now stocks a veritable plethora of bras which deceive and then disappoint shallow partners the world over.

Underwire Bras

Underwire bras are bras which are reinforced by a wire which runs under the cups in a semi circle and reinforces the structure of the cups. Larger breasted women often find that underwire bras are more comfortable than their soft counterparts, however it is not uncommon for discomfort due to wires digging into the body to be felt, and after some time it is quite common for the underwire to work its way out of the lining of the bra and either fall out, or poke into the underarm/chest of the wearer.

Water Bra

A water bra works much the same way as a padded bra, however instead of making use of foam to pad the breasts, water filled cups are utilized to increase the apparent size of the breasts. Some wearers prefer water bras to padded bras, saying that the liquid inside the bra provides an extra convincing jiggle factor, but problems can be encountered in the case of leaks, in which case the wearer starts to slosh about and leak a fair bit in what is generally agreed to be an unsexy fashion should those accidents happen.

Comments

joan on November 28, 2016:

i am always wearing a bra and panties my favourite colours are matching red, black and blue i am 40B but the cups are often too large what do you suggest ?

c. anderson on August 07, 2009:

No one should call breasts filth.They are wonderful!

MarkM on February 13, 2009:

I started to develop breast again after years of them disappearing . I am a 38C cup right now if I wear victorea secret bras but in everyother I am a 40B. I decided that I like having them and would like to reach a 40 D Or DD cup size. dose any one have any advice?

david on January 30, 2009:

This is a great article for guys who need some info on bras. Whether they're buying one for that special someone or even if they want one of their own, they can't go wrong by reading this article.

Mylacipanties on August 24, 2008:

Dearest Hope, You are mature beyond Your chronological years. Your thoughts and writings are knowledgeable, pure, forthright and succinct !! You are almost too good to be true; but, after reading ALL of Your wonderfully detailed, well-written, and deeply.... yet pleasantly philosophical posts, no one other than someone who is perfectly aware of the full background, as well as the current interest of the topics of her musings, could be anything less than THE BEST OF THE BEST.... which is what You are !!!!! Please continue !!! Please, do not ever cease to be our most adored creature on the planet. Biggest Hugs !!! Lea

ILoveLingerie on August 22, 2008:

this is a great article, thx for the explanations because I think all these different bra types are pretty confusing

Shadesbreath from California on July 03, 2008:

I found this hub whilst doing research for a deeply academic and serious writing project on undergarments and their architectural correlaries. The chapter I am working on is the "shelf" currently and its spread into uses beyond holding up our cups and, of course, saucers and plates etc. I was very dissapointed to see that your article, while otherwise sumptuously informative, was censored in certain regards to this useful application of the structural marvel that is a shelf, and suffers in its depiction even as it supports your article's theme. I had hoped to use that portion of your article in conjuction with other items like smoke shelves and valance shelves in my chapter on "Carpentry miracles move beyond wood", but I can see your editors do not fancy all the elements of the shelf as much as do I. I am dissapointed, frankly, but I will certainly continue to read everything you post in the future to see if perhaps you mend your ways.

Hope Alexander (author) on July 02, 2008:

I am well aware your comments were intended to be ironic Mr Stone - as were mine.

How ironic to miss the irony of a person's comment whilst pointing out the irony of your own.

Christopher James Stone from Whitstable, UK on July 02, 2008:

It's called irony Hope Alexander. I really enjoy your hubs. They always make me laugh.

Hope Alexander (author) on July 02, 2008:

Thanks for the tips Dave, that will be very useful for other men who wear lingerie! I am glad you enjoy the posts too :)

Dave on July 02, 2008:

Hope,

Every week I eagerly await your postings and have saved many of them to help explain to any future woman with whom I may enjoy a relationship. I would like to recommend a site that I have purchased many things because they are specifically designed to fit the male body. xdress.com makes panties with a little extra room in the front and the bra's they make do not have cups. The material feels great and is very pliable. I have a whole drawer full and wear it every day under my suit. Thank you and god bless.

Hope Alexander (author) on July 01, 2008:

I object to your chastisement, good sir, as you can see, all the filth is clearly marked and blocked from the eyes of honest men.

(Plus there are lots and lots of words, I know, I wrote them all myself.)

Christopher James Stone from Whitstable, UK on July 01, 2008:

This hub is obviously designed to put on display a large number of pictures of women in scanty clothing and therefore to draw significant numbers of men in to take a look. I am disgusted. I had to look at it twice to confirm how disgusted I was. You should be ashamed of yourself.

As a 60-something female, Kate Swanson is well aware of the challenges facing women throughout their life in health, beauty, and fashion.

Tips for Finding the Right Bra Size

We've all heard that most women are walking around in the wrong size bra. "That's hardly a surprise," I hear you say, "considering how hard it is to work out what does fit!"

Yes, finding the right bra can be frustrating, but if you learn a few simple rules, it can be done. If you know how to try on a bra properly and can spot the tell-tale signs of a bra that's never going to fit, you can find a comfortable bra that will feel good as well as look good. The problem is, bosoms come in all shapes and sizes. Short of custom making, bra makers can't possibly make a bra to fit every single variation.

Bra manufacturers have to decide how to average them all out, and they don't all make the same decisions. Some of them will choose models shaped like you—others won't.

That's why you'll find some brands fit better than others. For instance, I would love to wear Marks & Spencers bras to go with my M&S undies, but they don't fit. Ever. Actually, I'm a 34DD so there aren't many bras in the average store to fit me. Which brings me neatly to my next topic: discovering your size.

How to Get Fitted and Determine Your Size

The easiest way to determine your size is to get professionally fitted—but please, go to a specialist bra shop and not just the lingerie section of a department store. These days, those fitters are usually employed by the individual bra manufacturers, not the store, So naturally, they want to sell you their own make—and if it's a brand that's not your shape, you could walk out the door with a bra that fits just as poorly as your old ones!

Bra sizes are based on only two measurements: your rib cage and how far your boobs project over it. Get a few women together and you'll see there are many other variations in shape, position on the chest wall, depth of the back, etc., so those measurements are only a small part of the story. That's why the best fitters don't even use a tape measure. Instead, they assess your shape by eye, then try bras in a range of sizes to find what works. It's really the best way.

How to Take Your Own Measurements

However, if you're trying to work out your own size, you need to start somewhere, and a tape measure is as good a place as any. The letter (A, B, C, DD, etc.) represents your breast volume, and it's the most important measurement to have and also the most difficult to get.

Why is it important? Because the secret to a comfortable bra is to have cups that fit your shape exactly. You can always cut the bra or band to make them shorter, or add extensions—but you can't change the shape of the cup.

Why is it difficult to get? Because if you measure without a bra, your breasts may be drooping and the measurement you get will be too small. If you measure in a bra that's too small, your boobs will be squashed. If you measure in a well-fitting bra, you'll get an accurate measure, but it sounds like you don't need it because you already have a good fit!

The ideal is to get a friend to help, then you can cup your hands under your breasts to get them in the right position while she measures you (you can hold a bra in place but don't use the straps or fasten the band).

Measure around your rib cage under your bust again. Don't breathe in, we want your resting measurement. Now measure around the fullest part of your breast. What's the difference between the two? Every full inch is a cup size. So one inch difference means you're an A, two inches means you're a B, and so on.

The number in your bra size represents the size of your chest. There are two ways to measure it, either:

• under your bust, and add 4 or 5 inches (whichever gets you up to an even number), or
• round your chest, directly under your armpits (don't add any extra to this figure).

In both cases, keep the tape in a straight line (look in a mirror or get someone to help you) and breath all the way out, or the band will be too loose. Now, armed with this information, you can head to the store with at least some idea where to start!

How to Try on Bras

If you can find a store that lets you take more than two or three bras into the changeroom, go there! Otherwise, be prepared to make several trips: Choose a top you can throw on quickly without a bra, so you don't have to do a whole lot of dressing and undressing all the time.

Pick a selection of bras from different makers—not just in your theoretical size, but in sizes either side. Now, before you try anything on, take the bras off their hangers and loosen all the straps to their fullest extent.

An Important Note About Hooks

All bras have several hooks on the band. However, extra hooks are NOT there so you can adjust your new bra to fit! They're there so you can adjust your bra as it stretches over its lifetime. If you want your bra to last, it should fit you on the first hook.

If anyone tries to sell you a bra and you can see she's using inner hooks, say no politely and find another fitter. That bra will lose its fit, long before it has started to wear out.

Now You're Ready to Do Some Tests!

Be patient, but be ruthless. The first two tests below are deal-breakers: If a bra fails one of these tests, take it off immediately. Move on to the next bra. Put the bra on, fasten it at the back on the loosest hook, then lean forward and lift each boob, and let it fall into the cup.

The Band Test

The band must fit perfectly. If it doesn't, NOTHING else will work! I know it's tempting to go for a looser band to avoid "back fat," but that won't work. A firm band is vital: it's what allows the bra cups to lift the breasts, rather than simply cover them.

Fasten the bra using the loosest hooks. Now try putting your fingers under the band. If you can get your fingers under the band easily, it's at least one size too big. Note I'm talking about the number, which relates to the band, not the letter, which relates to the cup. So if you're trying on a 36, you need a 34.

Once you're wearing a bra in the correct band size, look down between your boobs. If you can see daylight between you and the band where it crosses between your breasts, even a tiny chink, take it off. The cup is too small. Get a bra with the same band size but a bigger cup size and try again.

The Cup Test

Once you've found a bra that passes the band test, put your thumbs on the sides of the bra under your arms (pretend you're about to do the chicken dance). Feel where the edge of the cups touch your skin. Is that breast tissue you feel under the wire? If the answer is yes, the cup isn't big enough. The outer edge of the cup needs to be sitting off the breast on the flesh under your arms. Once again, if this test fails, take it off—there's no point doing the rest because that bra is never going to fit. To find a cup that fits, go up one letter at a time (e.g. if you tried on a 34B, try a 34C).

The Ski-Jump Test

You did loosen the straps all the way out before you started, didn't you? Now tighten the straps to fit before you do the third test. The taller you are, the less likely you'll need to adjust them because this adjustment depends on the distance between your shoulder and your boob. A lot of women make the mistake of tightening the straps to try to make too-big cups fit. It won't work, it will only make them pucker! If you have to tighten the straps more than halfway, you've probably picked the wrong cup size.

Stand sideways to the mirror and look at your profile. Your breasts should have a lovely smooth silhouette from neck to nipple—no gaps and no bumps. Imagine a ski jumper flying down that curve—would he shoot off the end of the run to a great jump, or would he come a cropper on the mogul just above the cup line (or alternatively, disappear down the gap between you and the bra cup)?

The Overflow Test

The last test is the back. The band must be sitting flat all the way around, parallel with the floor—not up between your shoulder blades! It shouldn't be cutting in and causing bulges above and below. However, bear in mind that if you're carrying extra weight, you'll get some overflow even in your correct size. If that applies to you, styles with a broader band will improve the look.

It may sound like a lot to remember, but think of it like this:

• Loosen the Straps
• Check the centre front
• Do the chicken dance
• Ski jump
• Back riding up?

Not so hard, is it? Follow these rules and you will find your perfect fit—but you can see it's going tol take a while. Measuring myself with a tape told me I was a 36C, and it took a LOT of trial and error and, eventually, a trip to a very upmarket bra shop with a professional fitter to confirm that I was really a 34DD (and a 34E in some brands). It's been worth it though, not to have wires digging into me, straps cutting in or backs riding up. Ah the relief!

How to Wash Your Bras

After all that effort, you want your bras to last as long as possible! The best way to wash a bra may surprise you. All washing machines cause stretching (even if it's a front loader on delicate); a soft washbag isn't enough protection. Unless you can get your hands on a plastic washing case to use in your machine, the safest way to handwash your bra is to take it into the shower when you wash yourself. Yes, really!

Resource

• Rigby & Peller: The Fine Art of Luxury Lingerie
  At Rigby & Peller you can be sure to receive service fit for a Queen - just as you would expect from a company which has held the Royal Warrant since 1960.

Comments

lolita on November 20, 2011:

informative & useful

Caroline on March 19, 2011:

excellent info regarding bra fit... if you've looked and looked, and still can't find a bra that fits you proporly, feel free to come over to my webpage and check out my services.. I am a custom bra designer and work with clients all over the world...

mysisters on January 20, 2011:

Nice Hub. Very helpful information. Having a bra that fits right really does make a difference.

Jodi on October 17, 2010:

Excellent advice! The sizes are really only an approximation. And, each manufacturer interprets those sizes differently, both shape and volume. For instance, Elle Mcpherson runs very small, while Goddess runs very big. You have to get familiar with the brands (and the styles in that brand) that work best for you.

jessica on August 19, 2010:

Ahh...it is a relief to finally know what to do t get my correct bra size. You hav been such a help thankyou you soo much!!!

sam on March 10, 2010:

tell me diff types of bras

katie123 on March 03, 2010:

I think selecting bra style is vital but testing the bra cups and bra support are equally important. Most importantly one should try the bra prior to purchase to test the comfort level for sure.

Helen Cater from UK on August 24, 2009:

I have been measured many times for bras and I must say your advice on how to do it yourself is the best way. I take loads of sizes in now as each shop has different sizing. Thanks for the tips.

Kate Swanson (author) from Sydney on June 23, 2009:

Thank you Sparkling, you're very welcome.

And for those who are wondering about that Hub, here it is!

https://hubpages.com/H0T/hub/bra-size

Sparkling_ from Europe on June 21, 2009:

I put a link to your hub from my hub 80% of Women[...]. I hope that's okay.

Conflictuniverse on December 22, 2008:

anyone need some fitting help, I am available 24 hours a day

Must be 18-35

Kate Swanson (author) from Sydney on April 20, 2008:

That's an excellent tip, Patricias. Sometimes if you really like the bra, you can be tempted to overlook the "double boob" effect. Put a clingy top on and you can't ignore it!

2patricias from Sussex by the Sea on April 19, 2008:

I think the other step of trying on is to go shopping wearing a top that clings. Then, when you think you have a bra that fits, put the top back on and check that you really have got a smooth shape, with no bulges in the wrong places. I know it prolongs the whole process, but it helps to guarantee that you make a good purchase.

Stephanie Marshall from Bend, Oregon on April 18, 2008:

Excellent! Fit makes all the difference! Bad bra = bad shape. Why buy expensive clothes if you don't look good in them?

tjmum from Isle of Wight on April 18, 2008:

I'd love to be able to have the time to stay in a shop for longer than five minutes without either my husband moaning or my boys crying! And where have all the cotton bra's gone?! Nylon and lycra may be cheap and stretchy but they do nothing for comfort (especially if you've had kids and your boobs are heading south!).

Great Hub. Have taken my measurements but still think I've got the wrong bra as they say I'm between a B and C.

Whitney from Georgia on April 18, 2008:

You make it sound so easy.... Yet, who know that fitting a bra was so complicated? Ha

Shelly McRae from Phoenix, Arizona on April 18, 2008:

I had no idea I was supposed to do all that stuff. I'm looking forward to having bras that actually fit!

Eileen Hughes from Northam Western Australia on April 18, 2008:

Well done Marissa. All us women have the same problem it fits when you try it on wash it and .....well that's it. As usualyou have done another Great informative hub that should help a lot of women.

About time you did another hub by the way.

Zsuzsy Bee from Ontario/Canada on April 18, 2008:

Marisa! The right fit is most important for clothes to fit just right. I can't tell you how often I had to remind a customer to have the right bra on when coming for a fitting. When I made wedding and bridesmaids dresses I demanded that they not use the new bra till after the wedding. After a few washings the the elasticity of a bra alteres and the formfitting bodices of the dresses being made wouldn't fit the same.

Super great hub regards Zsuzsy

Pat Merewether from Michigan on April 18, 2008:

Helpful hub!

amy jane from Connecticut on April 18, 2008:

Very helpful info! I think too many women underestimate the importance thatr a proper fit (and sometimes lift) will make in your over all look. Great topic!

Lifebydesign from Australia on April 18, 2008:

Great informative hub! Shape and size are definitely important.

As a woman, I write a great deal about men who wear lingerie. To be honest, it has become rather a passion of mine over the past few years.

There's nothing more sensual or sexy than a lace bra. The lace bra has become one of the biggest lingerie fashion icons of our time, and it is little wonder that some men like to wear this undergarment as much as women do. Whether out of comfort or for pure pleasure, lace bras are some of the most popular choices for men who like to wear lingerie.

I've picked out a few examples and discussed their advantages and features below. If you're a fellow looking for some inspiration for his bra collection, you may just find it here.

Strapless Lace Bra

A strapless lace bra may be the perfect solution for the man who would like to wear a bra, but doesn't want to risk having the straps be seen. It is also a great way to change your lingerie look very simply without spending too much money. Strapless bras are a little bit naughty, and a little bit dangerous. Being a man, it is possible to enjoy these bras even more than women, who sometimes have to worry about them slipping out of place. The men I know who like to wear lingerie sometimes like these bras simply because they can require plenty of adjusting, and hence, plenty of lingerie play time. This strapless bra by Glamorize is a simple yet sexy example.

Black Lace Bra

Like the little black dress, the black lace bra is a complete classic. Just be careful not to wear it under a white shirt, or everyone will know that you are wearing a bra! This example by Luniare shows a lovely variation on the black lace bra theme. With lace edging along the top of the cups, and a striped mesh stretch cup, this bra is both beautiful, and entirely practical for men who need support.

Demi-Cup Lace Bra

A demi-cup bra is a naughty low-cut style that many men enjoy because of its daring nature. This particular specimen by Lunaire is especially gorgeous, with a soft mesh lining which makes the bra delightfully opaque, and scalloped edged lace cups for a little extra ornamentation. This bra simply exudes class and luxury.

Cami Lace Bra

I chose this bra because of its uniqueness, and also its extraordinary suitability for men. This camisole-style bra by Natori is just perfect for the man who wears bras but does not have breasts per se. The camisole cut gives nice full coverage, and the mesh underlay gives a naughty opaque look.

Sheer Lace Bra

If we're going to be talking lace bras, we can hardly forget to mention the naughtiest of all: the sheer lace bra. This underwire bra from DNKY is a perfect example of a sheer, see-through-in-places brassiere guaranteed to make the wearer feel super-sexy.

As a woman, I write a great deal about men who wear lingerie. To be honest, it has become rather a passion of mine over the past few years.

When a man decides to wear panties, he is faced with a decision. Either he purchases women's underwear and wears it, or he purchases specialty underwear that is made of the same fabric as women's underwear, but is cut to accommodate the manly parts that women lack.

One would think that men would opt for the underwear designed for men, but it would seem from the comments on these articles where men have mentioned what panties they like to wear, that men often prefer to wear women's lingerie. In my own experience too, men who like to wear lingerie generally elect to wear women's panties rather than special panties for men.

This is a discussion of the pros and cons of men's and women's lingerie. Comments are more than welcome if you'd like to share your own favorites.

The Comfort Factor

It is a simple fact that men's and women's bodies are different, and in more ways than the obvious. Not only do men and women have different equipment, but they are also shaped noticeably differently. Men tend to be longer in the panty region, and women's hips make their bodies rounder. Thus panties designed especially for men are generally much longer than women's panties and have extra space in the crotch region.

This would appear to be advantageous, as it provides for a more 'natural' fit, but many men seem to enjoy the more restrictive feeling that wearing women's lingerie provides. It is also worth noting that most fabrics will stretch to accommodate the male figure, rendering a special panty for the purpose obsolete.

He's Got the Look

From what I have seen, many panties designed for men don't actually look like women's underwear when they are being worn. They tend to be cut long, and have an appearance somewhere between a bloomer and a diaper. Perhaps this is a harsh comment, but the effect of creating a panty that covers the body from a man's waist to his upper thighs is not at all like the effect that wearing a woman's panty, where the material tends to cling to the skin.

Depending on your reason for wanting to wear women's lingerie, this can be a good thing or a bad thing. Men who purely wear women's lingerie for the feel of the material may find panties designed for men to be the perfect solution. Men who like not only the feel of the material but also the feel of the particular way women's panties cling to the body will probably find panties designed for men to be unsatisfying.

On the plus side, panties designed for men do tend to have a great deal of detail on them. Because the manufacturers understand that their clientele is in love with pretty colors, lace, and smooth, silky fabrics, you will generally find that Panties for Men or Manties as they are sometimes known are more feminine in appearance than most women's underwear.

© 2008 Hope Alexander

Comments

Jim on August 23, 2020:

I have worn panties and other items made for the ladies for many years ! Nothing makes me feel more feminine than nylon briefs from VF and great bra from my wife . I have totally dressed female around home and have no desire to show myself to anyone other than my spouse . She has assisted me with lipstick and jewelry advise ! Panties made just for men would not appeal to me as I seek the full female wardrobe and full female experience !!

Steve on August 21, 2020:

Is it ok for me to wear yoga pants . Have been a pantie wearing man for most of my life .

clarwence on June 14, 2020:

i just love womenes full figure silk under ware they feel soo good you dont even know you have them on dont know why they dont make menes the same way ass theres i been wareing them 50 yeares love them

Bob on March 11, 2020:

I have been wearing panties for over eight years now and I would never go back to men’s underwear. Bali and Vanty Fair panties are my favorite. My wife loves me in panties and we often buy panties together.

I also wear a pad or pantyliner to keep my panties clean and to absorb any drips.

Mike on February 25, 2020:

I am a married man for 30 years and wear women’s panties exclusively. I love the feel, look, comfort and color that are only available in women’s panties. I have been wearing panties since I was 11 years old and enjoy every minute of it. My loving wife supports me and often buys me panties for special occasions. My panties of choice are the Soma Sensual Lace hipsters. They are so beautiful and sexy and have the perfect amount of lace to bring out my feminine side. I also wear many other women’s lingerie around the house and even to work including matching bras, stockings, slips and nighties. My wife like to dress me up in lingerie and a tight fitting dress and ride me around in the car to show me off. I have had many stares while out but no one has made an issue of it. I believe there are much more men who wear panties than people think. I believe that men should be able to express their feminine side and thankfully we have so many wonderful choices with women’s lingerie. I like to buy my own panties at the department store versus online. The sales women are very understanding and so helpful to make sure I get a perfect fit. They always allow me to use the fitting rooms and even helped me adjust my bra. I am not embarrassed to wear my bra and panties wherever I go, even to the doctors office. I have so many pairs of panties, much more than my wife has. Soma is not the only brand that I like, Vanity Fair makes a great quality panty that also fits me well. Wearing women’s lingerie has put so much spark back into our sex life, at 62 years old, I don’t see me ever going back to men’s underwear. Men do not need to be ashamed for wearing panties...

Chris on February 17, 2020:

I love the full figure silk grannie panties been wareing them for over 50 yeares and love them font even know you have them on why dont they make menes fit that good i will never stop wareing them 75 mow and going to keep wareing them

Pantys on January 08, 2020:

I lov women's pantys how can i get some

I wear panties on December 24, 2019:

It started when I was 14 with an older woman who wanted me to wear panties for her I stayed with her all summer and would wear silk panties for her every day and night

Bikini boy on November 29, 2019:

I have strictly worn women's panties for 40+ years. I don't own and will never own men's underwear ever again. I have a huge selection of panties. My daily go to panties a my

Victoria Secret double string very lowrise nylon string bikini panties. The styles of panities i wear are bikini ,

G-string , thong , cheeky , tanga and

Hip hugger panties. Only nylon and silk and satin material. No cotton for me cotton only brings back bad memories of mens underwear. And i never wear briefs or granny panties. And all my panties well over 300 pairs are made for women. I agree with everyone else about panties that are made for men. And why would you want them it takes the taboo and the thrill and sexy feeling of wear panties that is a part of being a true panty boy.

Paul on October 19, 2019:

Buying Panties made for men would take the fun out of wearing Panties, I tried a pair of the wife's years ago, they were to small but felt nice, a few years later I found a pair of Panties at a laundry matt that fit, I was hooked, started buying my Panties at stores, plane black & white ones that I could wear to work & the gym, when I found out about online shopping I started buying my Panties online I found so many kinds of Panties, now I have pretty flowers & lacey Panties, I've found that hi-cut & hipster Panties fit the best, I have 2 drawers full of Panties, I like wearing hi-waist Panties that show above my pants when I go out shopping, when I bend over my Panties are showing & thats the fun part of wearing Panties, I don't care who sees my Panties, I also like to wear nylons & womens leggins, with Panties underneath, of course, so guys put on your'e favorite pair of Panties & enjoy the feeling.

Robert on September 05, 2019:

When I was a little boy (I am going on 70) My mom would take me to stay with her baby sitter (Margret). I was about 4 then. She had a daughter (Kathy) the same age and size as me. I would often stay over night with them. After my mom left to go to work or wherever, Margret would put me in Kathy's dresses and slips and fix me up like her little daughter. She would put me to bed wearing silky, very girly slips. I later became addicted to silky panties. She painted my finger nails too. I remember it felt exhilarating !! I have been addicted to women's lingerie and dresses ever since then. I have never been able to kick this addiction. I all feels indescribably exhilarating while at the same time it is incredibly embarrassing ! My mom never knew about this and I kept it a deep personal secret until she died in Oct,2011.

Brandy on May 23, 2019:

This was so helpful thank you!

Lloyd on May 13, 2019:

I have been wearing women's painties since 2012, when I had prostrate surgery called the "Terp" procedure. After healing up, I was left with a small drip after peeing. If I pee at home, I can stand or sit until the drip completely stops, but when I'm off working, shopping or just away from home, I can't stay in a public restroom at the urinal for five minutes dripping, so I wear womens thin panty liners without wings and that solves the problem. By dealing with that problem, my wife sugested that I wear a pair of her painties, so all I have to do is unzip and pull down my panties, and take my hardwear out to take a leak, without taking my trousers off. The nylon painties stretch without my panty liner coming unhinged and loose. My old men's cotton underwear want accommodate the pantie liner with a fly. She handed me a pair of her Victoria Secret painties and said, "Lloyd, you can wear my painties and your problem is solved". That's when I started wearing women's panties and I absolutely love them and will never go back to those very uncomfortable men's underwear. The nylon with Spandex, fits me just great. My wife gave me all 12 pair of her medium size Victoria Secret bikinis and I love them. I originally gave them to her. They have just a little bit of lace. She purchased several different brands of painties for me, to see what fits me best and Jockie nylon string bikinis are a perfect fit. The Victoria Secret cotton crotches and Jockey cotton croches are removable. I wear Jockey Classic Tactel Nylon Stretch with 10% Lycra Spandex. My wife bought me a varity of them, all different colors, because we coud not buy just one color. The stores only had about 1 or 2 of the same color. I wear conservative colors to the doctor's office. A nurse told me she was goung to buy her husband some now, after I told her how comfortable they are.

They feel so good on me. Right before my wife passed away, 2 years ago, she said, "Lloyd, you can inherit my panties, so don't give or thro them away. I want you to wear them and think about me". We both wore size 6 or medium. Oh how I miss my beautiful wife.

SissyBJ on March 14, 2019:

The whole reason for wearing womens panties is because they're womens panties. I wear them daily,even to sleep in. Makes me feel sexy and a little feminine. And when I add garter belt hose and heels the prancing begins!

Peter Johns on February 07, 2019:

I wholeheartedly agree, made for men are not at all what the man wants, its sheer naughty to wear a woman's satin panty, that's the thrill and why we do it.

cracklewalk on January 05, 2019:

I've been wearing women's panties for years. The fact that they're designed for women is part of what lights my fire.

Dj on November 09, 2018:

I look panties it got to be women's I have a nice selection of 100% nylon panties size 8 of course they're pink they're blue yellow they're comfortableright now I'm in the living room and my blue panties on and they're done to my knees that's how I clean house

bottominpanties2 on July 07, 2018:

Ive worn both, many of the womens garments do fit men with smaller anatomy in the groin, and are affordable, many of the garments that are made for men are either so expensive you cant afford to buy many sor are so cheaply made the they tear on the first wear,

Brian on March 30, 2018:

I have been wearing womens panties for years I love the way they feel and I love all the different colors.I will always wear panties

tim on March 29, 2018:

cotton bikini for me and the wife

Dan on March 12, 2018:

I love wearing sexy ladies panties and sexy lingerie. Sexy ladies panties feel wonderful and I'll definitely never stop wearing panties for comfort and such great sexy feeling wearing panties.

David on February 27, 2018:

Hi why don't we these panties for men in south Africa

Pantyboner on February 25, 2018:

Vanity Fair 15712 for the win!

VanityF on February 10, 2018:

I have been wearing Vanity Fair nylon full cut panties since 1975. Started wearing my moms and been wearing ever since. Glad my wife has no problem with it.

Philss on January 27, 2018:

I have worn panties and bras for years both purchased from lingerie shops and also off the net specific for males but with the female look and feel, I love them, at home I also wear sexy nighties, suspenders, stockings, heels and madeup with a wig as well, I have plenty of other Femme wear skirts, dresses, pants suits and Maids outfits they are just great and my wife adores seeing me dressed Femme

Mark on December 11, 2017:

I been wearing women's panties for years.i am 54 I wear bras,tights,slips,skrits,to,I started wearing panties,at 14 years old

Mark on December 03, 2017:

I only wear panties also, I hate guys underwear.

Mark on November 20, 2017:

I wear women's nylon full brief panties and bras .and tights

Joshua David boisclair on November 11, 2017:

I wear women’s bali skimp Skamp nylon briefs size 8 and nine and they are. The comfortable ever recommend for All men

Mark on October 20, 2017:

I wear women's clothes.i like panties and bra.i have for 40years I started at14.

ed on October 15, 2017:

Worn panties since six, bras came later. Now at 75 ,I've been wearing Vanity Fair panties for over 60 yrs. Wife buys some for me from time to time. Doesn;t mind at all.

Purveyorofpanties on June 27, 2017:

Having been a wearer of women's panties for over 30 years, it is my preference to wear exclusively the vintage nylon styles of the 50's and '60's.

This steams from my early panty experiences from the 1960's, when lingerie was quality.

It's also the nice wide double fabric gusset...

Keeps me in a semi state of arousel.

pntyluv on June 02, 2017:

Love wearing panties. Its not only the comfort, but mostly for turn on of wearing a women's intimate. The softer the better. Lace also adds a sexy touch. There are times that I enjoy the feeling of my panty riding up my butt. That is a constant reminder that I have on panties. It will create some VPL so beware.High cut is one of my everyday panty choices.

April on April 21, 2017:

I am where I don't wear white clothing more women's panties and bras nice dresses nice high heels T so I love to wear pretty panties and pretty bras

Me on March 29, 2017:

I wear womens underwear for support. I'm normal size but I shrink up, and whitey tighties suck. The pocket in the front you have to fill degrades you. Panties are soft, supportive. Mens underwear SUCKS they just dont get it.

jamie cross on January 31, 2017:

i like wearing women panties, because i had not idea they made panties for men. bikini on special occasions,mostly just pantie style.

i love the feel i get from themes sexual, so sensual

bicycle boy on November 07, 2016:

I am a man,i have been wearing panties for years and I love the feel.they are very slick on my private parts.they do there job.and they are great,i love them.

Annette on October 15, 2016:

Only wear women's Vanity Fair Perfectly Yours, Lace Nouveau, and Shadowline silky nylon full brief panties.

These are the best quality and silkiest nylon panties of all to wear.

The ultimate nylon panties for me.

Have many of them, and always buying more.

My lingerie drawers runneth over with them.

Other nylon panties brands are just ok.

kendra on September 27, 2016:

I enjoy very much wearing women's panties. I have been wearing panties for 5 years now. I never wear men's underware anymore. Panties feel so much better. I'm trying to wear bra's in public but am still nervous about the idea. I have read the article about men wearing bra's to work. I'm trying to get over my fear of being noticed with a bra on.

''Fern'' Que,Canada on September 22, 2016:

I'm a man 66 years old, I prefer women panties, and specially I like to wear those Vanity Fair Ravissant Panties # 15712 panties all day long, they are better then men regular brief, it's like having a second skin on you,and even in bed with a Vanity Fair Nightgown too, a perfect match I think they are the most silky undergarment on the market, and also at a reasonable price too, and we can find it in different color too,don't be afraid to wear those women panties, just go for it.............

Pantyboy on September 08, 2016:

I was a panty thief as a child and into my 20's. I love the feel of nylon tricot on my body. Now I wear them every day and my wife does not know. I got started before I was five years old and will never stop wearing them.

Dan long on April 29, 2016:

I love wearing knickers that are designed for men.

I have a lovely, understanding wife and tge young ladies who design my knickers/panties are lovely and understanding too.

I'm known has the bodyguard in and out of work, so I wear panties/knickers that are designed for men to help me chill.

Plus knickers/panties are more comfortable and more softer than mens pants.

Nylon panty lover on April 19, 2016:

I have been wearing women's panties for over fifteen years and I agree with most men that if you want to wear panties wear women's panties. I have tried both and women's panties fit best!

Wife buys my panties on March 31, 2016:

I have been wearing bras and panties for years. Most everything I wear comes from HommeMystere web site. And every morning my wife selects my bra and panty set. And I'm very comfortable with this arrangement.

Panteaser on February 25, 2016:

Panties turned me on at the age of 4 been wearing them for decades,I'm now 64 still going strong.Guys we all have a feminine side some just don't admit it!

Wife buys my Panties on February 15, 2016:

I've finally found a site that sells lingerie custom made for men. It's Homme Mystere. Bras, matching panties and even garter belts, they have it all. I now have a dozen sets. The fit and feel are designed especially for men. And now everyday my wife picks out what bra and panty I wear. I definitely recommend this website. Enjoy!

pantystan on February 04, 2016:

i love wearing panties. i hace had a love affair with white nylon panties ever since i was 7 years old! i am now 77 and still feel the same. i would do anything to peek under a girls dress so i could see her panties. i love the vanity fair white hicut nylon-spandex panties. they feel so wonderful to feel them on me. wow.

Jim on January 26, 2016:

I started courting my wife at age 19. She was 20. She wore Vanity Fair panties. We got into heavy petting. She used Jerking lotion to cut down on the friction but it would mess up my pants. She started putting her nylon panties over my privet parts and smoothness drove me wild. It wasn't long before she suggest I wear her panties all the time. She made them part of our love making. That was 55 years ago. Since then we have worn the same kind of panties every day. We shot for them together. She loves to touch me in my panties till I climax at home or in the car and even in the movies. I will never stop wearing women panties. If I die first she said she wants to bury me in a pair. When I go to the hospital or doctor,s office the female staff seem more excepting of my having on panties and often voice their approval and many say they wish their husband would wear women panties. I tell them to buy some and ask them to wear them. My doctor's nurse said she took my advice and her husband wears her panties every day and it has stimulated their sex life.

I think most women are flattered if their men wear their panties.

JT on November 21, 2015:

What can be said.....women's panties are the most amazing panties ever. I love the Victoria's Secret Everyday Panty in silky smooth fabric. The colors, the smooth feel against the skin, the thrill of buying them for yourself in a store that is set for women, and you are wearing them while shopping....amazing! They fit so perfectly, both the thong and bikini and even the boy short! They caress, and snugly hold your package just so, and should you get excited, they still hold you in place perfectly!

I love wearing them backwards even, as you get more coverage and material in front to caress your business....even while working during the day and no one is wiser to your perfect panty experience...and you now have a perfect thong!

Then, when you couple it with thigh high stockings, it just completes the feeling of complete sensual coverage of panties and nylons.....

But even more when you slip on a Victoria's Secret slip in white....to complement your perfect panties, it is overwhelming!

I LOVE WEARING PANTIES!

Mikie on February 17, 2015:

Cherie - congrats girl! all your hard work & amznaig talents are yet again alive & real. you have a gift Kat & how nice for you to have a space to illustrate that talent. xo Cherie

Nolyn on June 11, 2010:

My one experience in buying "panties for men" from Manties.com was a negative experience mostly due to the fact that they were poorly made. It's a lot easier to just shop for women's panties at the store - you can see what your getting and they are generally well made.

pantylover1 on June 05, 2010:

I wear custom made "mens panties" just because I cant wear real womens panties to work. the silky fabric is just as soft and silky as my wifes olga but made for men. when I am not working I have my lacy womens panties on. as long as they are silky I will wear them.I have tried manties and

jg2 and dont really dont care for either one.cheap fabric

just dont work. I spend a great deal of cash on my underwear. either satique or on ebay

sissychuck44 on February 19, 2010:

I only wear real, authentic women's panties. Manties not only don't look like real panties but they don't fit like "real" panties. If I'm going to bother wearing panties, I want the REAL panties and get the full effect of wearing women's panties, not men's panties. There is something taboo about wearing women's clothing made for women as opposed to wearing women's clothing made for men.

I prefer the cut, the look and the feel and knowing that they were designed and made for women. it's far more exciting and emotionally rewarding wearing the real thing, shopping in the women's section of the stores and wearing what women would actually wear.

TIMWILLIAMS on November 22, 2009:

I am a man. I wear panties all the time. But I won't go for these "mens panties" that are now out in these sites. I wear the womens/girls panties that you get at Wal-Mart, Sears, ETC that are sold in the womans/girls lingerie departmants.

I intend to stick with the actual girls and womens panties/underwear and the actual womens and girls bras as well. I won't wear the "panties for men" nor "bras for men".I just stick with the womens/girls stuff. Besides, if you want to wear bras and panties, get the real womens and girls stuff like I do and wear. It's the whole fun of it to wear the actual girls and womens underwear and bras.

silklover on October 25, 2009:

I love my selection of panties. I have also chosen women panties due to other reasons. I would love to see more women support the men in this. Reading Hopes writings it fully supports what a man wants to wear. I am not against cross dressers. In fact i support them. My wife does support me wearing panties, other than that she don"t agree with. I can live with that, and respect her for what she wants and likes. In fact i have tried a bra and not happy with the looks or fit. I will stick to my panties and be happy that me and my wife enjoys my panties. I also enjoy when she wears matching panties with me. In short men if you want to wear panties, bras or anything else go for it and don't hide it.

Little Princess dani on October 06, 2009:

I not only love my pink panties, I see myself as a girl in "most" ways. I just love to put delicate panties on and feel sweet and girly. You are a wonderful person, Hope! Not everyone understands this.

suki on July 10, 2009:

Fine European lingerie- French and Italian- are the best ! I could wear these all the time and enjoy extended sessions of massage while wearing them for my partner's pleasure.

gurlinside on June 29, 2009:

Personally, I have been wearing panties since my mother dressed me in them as a young child. As a middle age man, I still love them. My wife now buys them for me often but balks at the lacy frilly type. I wear them everyday, even to the doctors office as I do not own any male underwear. I have purchased panties from xdress and from other specialty shops but they are much more expensive than the run of the mill ladies panties and personally, I like the high of wearing ladies panties. The xdress panties I have purchased do hold up though. One thing I love about wearing ladies panties is the VPL and the lines of the crotch area. Mens panties do not have the cotton liner and thus do not have the look that I adore. Personally, If I am going to wear panties, I want to look in the mirror and see a visible panty line that looks accurate.

PantyLuvr on June 27, 2009:

Arrrggghhhh!!!!! Shadowline has gone out of business! I loved, loved their 11042 Hipster.

bigboy on May 09, 2009:

yes, why don`t you people package womens in mens packages , and sell them in stores for men. in m/ s/ l i would really like to see that happen real soon.

Panty-Lov on May 06, 2009:

for a couple days now I have been reading this site. Today I was going in and out of hospitals(12) for my job, this site mde me want to be adventurous. I wore my 6 strap garter belt, black lace top stockings back seem, and pink ruffled boy cut rhumba panties. I did a lotof walking though hospitals talkking to doctors, yes it was a thrill feeling the straps on the back of my legs with every step I took.

I almost exclusively wear panties under my ladies pants, and either the tin ladies pant socks or PH. No i do not try to hide it under my legs, nd yes I have been caught. My pants today were light enough tht the straps could be seen if you knew to look. I also like to wear Ph under shorts, or with an oocasional Denim or my leather skirt, both knee leangth. It definitely is fun beeing a secure male.

I remember dressing in my sisters clothes at 8 yrs old, today I have my own wardrobe. I also don't see a problem with a t-shirt dress or a caftan type outfit. I don't think I woul go much further thou.

bill I love panties on March 31, 2009:

I love panties.

Bill Kelley

Chrissy on March 11, 2009:

I have been wearing panties, bras, lingerie, and female clothing virtually all my life. I had an overwhelming desire to dress as a girl by the time I was 5 years old. In my opinion, wearing panties and girly things in general come from the need that some of us guys have to be feminine women. We love to be women in every way and slipping into a soft, pretty pair of panties, a new shiny satin bra, or some pretty lingerie satisfies that need and makes us crave it again and again. To meet this need, we need to be able to purchase and wear panties, lingerie, and clothing that is designed for women, not some ugly tacky looking garment that was designed for men but with feminine qualities. We do not think like men. We are women in every regard except for our physical bodies and we want to look, feel, and be treated as such. I personally love being a woman and will never be able to buy enough pretty panties, bras, lingerie, and pretty clothes to satisfy me.

robin48 on February 23, 2009:

I only wear womans panties such a thrill to look pretty..amd feel pretty

BigDan on February 03, 2009:

Panties from Shadowline-lingerie.com are the best available. The Hi-cut satintrique panties fit exellent for men.(get 1 size smaller than you usually get) They have others without a cotton crotch. Their slips are great. They have the silkiest fabric ever. You can find them on e-bay but are cheaper on their web site. The slips are cheaper on e-bay.

The bad thing is they are going out of business this summer 2009 so get what you can now. They are much better than Vanity fair or Victoria Secrets.

I've been wearing their panties for more than 15 years and have a drawer full and am stocking up. Try them once and you will scramble to get more quick.

jim on January 09, 2009:

I started at 13 wearing my mom's pink nylon full cut panties. I stopped just before I got married, but after a year or so I tactfully brought up the idea that her panties looked comfy. My lovely wife told me to try on a pair. From then on we/ve both been wearing Vanity Fair full cut nylon briefs. Her age is an unlisted nuimber, but Im eighty. Thirteen to eight is. . . You do the math.

Robin B on December 14, 2008:

My wife has paid a lot for silk boxers for me. The soft, light, tickly fabric makes nice sleepwear. The lack of stretch manifests as splits in the fabric the next morning weven in the largest sizes. Non-stretch satin produces the same result. I coninue wearing them after they split so that she won't feel badly. For me these these are better suited to vertical activities.

To avoid splitting, stretch panties hug and can hide a bulge if you want to. Didn't Maasters & Johnson report that 77% of men wear or have worn their wife's or girlfriend's underwear? I guess I'm not the only one who enjoys that endorpen rush - that "peaceful easy feeling." Cuddling, snuggling, spooning when both wear a loose nightgown is another source for those endorphens.

Here's an unexpected bonus: until the onset of my wife's arthritis, my wife would massage my shoulders after a long drive. When I wore a bra (or backpack) the straps would pinch close to the aching muscle. I would always push the straps closer to my neck. Now I enjoy a racer-back sports bra that hits the spot for 2 reasons.

pink12 on November 28, 2008:

Pantielover has hit the nail on the head so to speak. Why in the world would I want to buy panties made for men! Vantie Fair make about the the best soft and silky pantie I have found. You can buy them for a good price compared to the crazy high price they want for Manties or any other pantie made for men. My wife and I have a great time going to the store and buying them for her and I. I have benn wearing silky panties for 35 years and love every minute of it.

pantielover on October 26, 2008:

thr thrill of having womans panties next to your softest spot is a thrill that no pantie made for men can give you . panties are sexy,taboo,forbiden ,arowsing .A pantie made for men takes all of that alure away and leaves you with a mans undershorts that no woman would ever wear .We wear panties to fil a sexy need inside that mens underwear can not fill.

You can lie to yourself and say that it is ONLY the matirial but in that case the manties still look like panties .so why bother ,it is just someone trying to make money on our choice of attire .

the entire allure of womens undies is that they are WOMENS undies.

Jeffsize8 on October 08, 2008:

I too am a married man of 30 years and I began wearing panties when I grew tired of finding nylon bikini underwear to only have a store stop carrying them.

After discussing it with my wife I decided that nylon panties would always be around and began wearing them 24/7. love it because I have so many choices in fabric, styles, and colors.

I wear Nylon and Satin Brief, bikini, string bikini, hipster, and control brief panties and womens fit me great! I guess because there aint to much down there.:)

peanut918 on October 07, 2008:

I agree with nylon & ross I also love the nylon panties of yesteryear. I like them so much that I probably spend close to a $100 a month on Ebay shopping and buying brief and vintage style panties, this is not to mention the panties that my wife buys for me. She loves it that iam comfortable with her and myself, it has made our relationship as strong as I've ever had. I've been wearing panties for about 30+ years and have loved every minute of it.

nylon panties on September 29, 2008:

I agree with Ross...I love the nylon panties from yesteryear that my mom & sisters wore. The kind that had the double nylon in the crotch. I really do wish that I could find a manufacturer that still makes them like that.

Ken on September 16, 2008:

I wear womens panties because they are panties. Manties are usually made cheap with lower end materials. I like quality fabrics as I am a very tactile person. I only own items created by Victoria's Secret or Fredericks of Hollywood. I have tried panties made for men and was turned off by the low grade fabric. It is also much easier to go to the store and shop then play a guessing game with online purchases. I would rather have bras and panties of high quality than high quantity.

Dave on August 20, 2008:

Personally, I like the full silky lacy satiny most femenine panties because I think if I want to wear panties, I should go the whole hog. But they are impossible to buy over the counter. Which department stores offer the best off the shelf panties?

Ross on August 20, 2008:

I agree with both your assesments Hope but you left out one other aspect of wearing traditional ladies panties.....the mental/emotional THRILL of wearing panties meant to be only worn by WOMEN. However...my site offers the perfect 3rd alternative. I go to true panty manufactures and have them make there regular panties but with double nylon gussets rather than cotton.....like the panties from the 50's and 60's. In every other way they ARE ladies panties. Plus...in some cases...I suply the fabics as today panty manufactures use the cheapest nylon fabric available while I supply fabrics of vintage nylon quality.

Sam_T on August 20, 2008:

I agree with the your assessment about how Panties made for men (Manties) don't

really don't look like womens panties. I also think that they are extremely overdone. Even the xdress variety. Personally, I will stick to my women's hipsters, boyshorts and thongs. They are more accessible and there is such a huge variety out there that is infinitely more tasteful.

And they are far more comfortable...sometimes even more so with a careful alteration at a dressmaker.

jeimy lacy on July 14, 2008:

This is true and applies not only to panties but to many other items. In my opinion even the most efeminate pink silk shirt will have no chance if compared with any simple and severe cotton blouse. It is not a matter of fabrics, colors or designs, it is a matter of gender identities.

I will tell you about clothes because fashion is what happens when people wear clothes.

How to Wear Panties as a Man

Now that you've decided to wear panties, it's really time to learn about them. Women's underwear is a strange new world. There are a multitude of fabrics, textures, and cuts to learn about, and you're going to want to learn about most, if not all of them. Here are three types of panties you might encounter.

The Thong

A thong can be very sexy, indeed, if you like the "whale tail" effect. If worn lower, a thong is virtually undetectable, which can be a huge bonus for the Man in Panties who would rather not have VPL (that's visible panty line to the uninitiated) at a business meeting, or in the auto shop, or wherever you might happen to work. Of course, if you spend a lot of time bending over, you may find that the thin strip of material rubs unpleasantly between the cheeks, causing chafing and redness.

Bikini Cut

Bikini cut is a popular, simple, but sexy cut. Rising high on the hips and leaving a little of the buttocks exposed, the bikini is a good look if you want to try something a little more adventurous without going overboard.

Full Brief

For those say when you just want a little more coverage, a full brief covers the entirety of the buttocks. The full brief may appeal more to the older man, or you could perhaps wear a full brief when you want to feel particularly serious or professional.

Panty Materials

Now that we have the basic cuts covered, let's look at fabric.

Luxuriously soft and supple, the feeling of satin and/or silk against your skin may send you into the heavens with every step you take. These materials are very sensual, sexy, and

Very simple, very basic, cotton breathes well and can be a good choice if you're just having a low-key kind of day.

The poor man's silk and satin, polyblends can be good for men who want some of the texture of silk and satin but don't want to pay the heinous price tag.

Ah, lace, the most classic of all the materials. You can purchase panties made entirely of lace, or you can have a little lace trim on an otherwise unadorned pair of panties. Classy as you please, or trashy as you like, lace is versatile and ever so delicious.

Mesh is often used in various panels to provide a see-through effect. Mesh can be a playful, naughty way to express yourself.

Those are the basics. Now, go forth into your department stores and boutiques and treat yourself; you deserve it. If you are interested, you can also read all about panties made for men.

Comments

Dave on July 01, 2020:

I have been wearing panties for Al long time now recent divorce and she did not know remarried and new wife knows and supports it she even goes shopping with me to VS and we have a great time

Panties4life on May 25, 2020:

It started when I was 14 my stepmom found a pair of her red panties underneath my mattress I tried to blame it on a friend of mine that spent the night but she wanted to know who was the one that wore them and at that time we were just sniffing I didn't tell her that part because that's just as perverted and she told me. Put them on and if I didn't she was going to tell my father everything after I put them on she laughed at me and took pictures and told me I was sick ever since then she would walk around the house wearing panties and a bra or her nightgown and only panties on when I was in high school she put a pair of panties in my letter jacket hoping my girlfriend would find them I guess luckily I found them first and went home and threw them at her and she only laughed but since then I've been addicted to wearing them I can't remember the last time I wore men's underwear and since then I found out it's very common the only difference is that most of the men that wear panties are feminine I'm very Alpha male but have a fantasy of being caught in my panties and forced to be somebody Sissy... has not happened yet but still wishing

Mike on May 09, 2020:

I love to Ware girls hip hugger jeans and I always ware small Lacey panties eavry day the girls can't stop staring at my ass I have girls that come up to me a say that I have a sexy little girl butt I got to be doing something right

Todd P. on April 30, 2020:

Hi

Have to take a piss, be there shortly

David on April 17, 2020:

Been wareing womenes full figure silk under ware since i was teen anger 75 now just love the way they they feel and fit way better then aney menes i have ladey friend that loves to see me wareing them she sayes that turnes her on loves to watch me put on nylones and under ware then rubes them to see if it turnes me on and it does she loves to spank me wile wareing them to she make me cry and wet in them that realey getes her turned on then she keepes it up long time

Moe on March 30, 2020:

What is not often mentioned, is that some women's panties are more comfortable than men's underwear.

Lucas on March 16, 2020:

I'm glad to see this. Ive been wearing panties on and off since I was 10. They belonged to my foster sister and tried them on as they were laying there in the bathroom. Took them and loved every minute of them. Till I got caught that following Christmas which wasn't a happy day... Moving on I love wearing panties so much and having on and off days my dresser is beginning to have two draws of them and the kinds I get are the most common kinds and of course walking into a Walmart store I tend to buy in packs. Where most of my underwear is known to the public. Starting from briefs all the way to thongs. I mainly have bikinis or similar types because I like the half coverage and sexy appeal to them. Materials are obviously the cotton, microfiber, and nylon. As an added tip I can share to all you new comers for wearing that feminine side choice of color and sensation. Try wearing some gym shorts if you feel like it. I wear them mainly out of habit because in middle to high school of the locker room experience. I know how much trouble it can be when you're exposed wearing panties and simply it's going to be trouble. So I wear more clothes to hide it and hey if my pants get a tear in them or something spilled. I'm covered cause I'll walk around in gym shorts and don't care what they think. Heck you can say if this happens to you. Just say I'm headed out to do something sporty. If they are strangers more to you or say I'm glad I still have them so no embarrassing revealing secret of those panties you're wear. If anyone has tips for me on other types of underwear send them to me. I'd be glad to hear from you.

Brian on March 08, 2020:

I have been wearing women’s panties off and on for 30 years I love the feel of them. My wife knows I love wearing women’s panties and on occasion has purchased some for me. I love the thought of getting caught by her friends I love the bikinis and thongs the best my wife makes me wash my own panties she said if I wear them I wash them

Bob on March 08, 2020:

I have been wearing panties 24/7 for eight years now and I would never go back to men’s underwear. I am also completely shaven down there which makes the panties feel even better. My wife loves it and we always buy our panties together.

I also wear a pantyliner which keeps my panties clean and absorbs any drips. Nylon hi-cuts are my favorite with lace.

Kevin on January 24, 2020:

I have been wearing women's panties for most of my life. It started when I was pretty young. I saw a pair of my sister's nylon panties in the bathroom. Something came over me and I had to try them on. They felt so wonderful on and from that day I was hooked. I prefer to wear nylon hi-cut panties with some lace to make me feel more feminine. I also love wearing garter belts and sheer stockings. I feel so pretty when all dressed up.

DA on January 12, 2020:

Just came out to my wife that I have put her panties on for years 2 days ago. She immediately went to her drawer and got me a pair. Been wearing some of hers since and just ordered my own

Spike on December 14, 2019:

I love the feel and look of panties stockings and the high heels. I just wish my wife would be ok with this. I wear these when shes not home. I would love to wear them around her. Any advise to help me? I love feeling pretty in female clothes

pantywearer on November 01, 2019:

I am a male n I love wearing women's g string panties

Bill on September 25, 2019:

I started wearing panties on my honeymoon my wife asked me to model her so I did and lived the way they felt that was 50 years ago I am still wearing panties but now wear camies and bras as well with the full support of my wife we shop together and she picks out things for me to try I am going to ask her to try some eye makeup on me that is a total turn on in my mind for now

Clarenceis on September 11, 2019:

Is it wroung to love womenes under ware i have been wareing womenes silk full figure silk panties and nylones fo over 50 yeares just cant leave them alone they feel so good my ladie friend likes to see me wareing them to she gives me some of heres and teles me to ware them likes to watch me put on scheer nergey nylones and her under ware on then spank me hard to i wet in them she loves to see me do that spankes me to i beg her to stop then make me ware them around house all night wet i found out most women love to do that kind of stoff just wont tell no body but my friend telles me

Sean. on September 09, 2019:

Full lace briefs are the best for me. Very cool and soft. Not binding and plenty of room for the boys. Mens are tight and constricting and not soft and hot.

Wear what you like and don’t worry what others think. If they don’t like it it’s there closed minded problem.

No one ever says anything about a women in men’s cloths.

Lori_loves_it on August 31, 2019:

I am a sissy Boi that cross dresses often. I started wearing panties about 6 years ago. Started with bikini panties and wow I was amazed at how good they felt hugging my whole underside and butt. I tried thongs but at the time I couldn’t get used to the feel. I now have thongs in my panty drawer. I also bought some bras which I need to fill so of course I needed to buy some breastforms. Since then I have started to shave as nothing looks worse then my bush poking out of my panties. I have also bought so many new cute outfits. Now in morning before leaving for work I lay out my outfit to wear when I get home. I never meant for this to go this far but I just couldn’t stop myself. It feels so good. I hope there are others out there who have taken this journey too

peater on August 07, 2019:

grate panty put them in the lady shop and men buys it must be comfortable to the man

Grant on August 03, 2019:

Been wearing 24/7 for years,it started out a sexual thing (still is) now its more for comfort.My lady is fine with it.

dly645@yahoo.com on June 19, 2019:

I have worn panties exclusively for 14 years. In most cases I prefer panties made for me thru Ebay and Etsy. I like being able to get the fabric, color, style, and trim I want. I love floral prints. I like a wider gusset, I think hang out is very unattractive. I feel the panties I wear are very feminine and look and feel like women's panties. I am castrated so there is very little bulge in my panties. I wear a full brief style because I think bikini and thongs look gross on a male

HappyPanty on April 15, 2019:

I wear panties 24/7. I will often change my panties two to three times a day to suit my mood. Any man who wears panties should regularly get a Brazilian wax. Panties feel better when hairless, and pretty panties don’t look as nice when a man is hairy. I love wearing my panties to my aesthetician and getting undressed in front of her. She enjoys it as well and always tells me what she thinks about my panty styles, colors, and patterns.

Tom on March 29, 2019:

I have been wearing panties on and off most of my life since I was 12. Wore my moms and then when I got to college my girl friends or would find them in the community laundry. I had to come out to my wife and she is totally on board! Love all of them!

Stevie on November 10, 2018:

Even wearing full time for about 25 yrs. I own no men’s underwear. They’re so icky I can’t- I won’t ever go back. I mostly wear satin stretch briefs and shiny nylon hi cuts. I am a true panty boy

JJ on September 25, 2018:

ive been wearing panties for 4 years now. I love how confrtobale they are on my body. Right now i have on a pair of pink thongs, they feel so confrtobale. I slept in them all last night. Soon i might go to walmartor justice and get me some bras,panties,nightie,short skirts and short shorts. THIs whole week ive been doing the panty challenge. WHhere i wear pantiss all day and all night, you guys should do it.

Paul wears Panties! on July 11, 2018:

I put on the wife's Panties 30 some years ago, felt sooo nice, wore them once in a while, mostly at home, 10 or so years I started wearing my Panties all the time work ,gym etc..., plain black & white Panties, buying them at stores was fun, got all kinds of looks & some smiles from the clerks, now I get my Panties online, nice colors, lace & flower prints are my favorite. I have 2 drawers full of Panties, I've found that Hipsters & Briefs fit the best, Thongs are nice to, they have a-lot of material in front. Look at the Vanity Fair Body Caress Hi Cut Brief Panty 13137 on any store site, 3/4's of the reviews are from Men!

So, If you bend over at the store & you're Panties peek out and some guy gives you crap about them, just tell him he don't know what he's missing!

lee on May 12, 2018:

i have been wearing panties 24/7 for about 5 yrs now i wear hipsters and bikinis as the fit nice and i love how the look and feel on me i also love the colors they come in a lot of poeple know i wear them as it is hard to hide when it is all i wear

Sissy boy on February 27, 2018:

I enjoy wearing all styles of panties

PJ on December 29, 2017:

Been wearing nylon and satin panties for many years and feels so good.

Chris on October 16, 2017:

I have been watering women's silk panties full figure under ware since I was teen anger 72 now always did love the feel of them like you don't even know you have then on some times I wish I was a women so I could ware all there clothes bylines and dress and every thing I have a few times it just feels so good when I have all there clothes on I wish I was a women kites of times they have sech nice fancy clothes and I look good in them to no one know I was a man when I wore them and dressed like women even used women's bath room and no one knew I was a man

Brady Hest on September 13, 2017:

I will be wearing

Satin panty wearing guy on August 26, 2017:

I wear satin or mesh pantys everyday. i love the feel under my jeans. My wife loves it...

PJAJ on August 01, 2017:

I have been wearing panties for over 50 years, wife does not agree, however I am looking for comfort. I prefer satin, silk, lace, thongs. I have to do it when she is not home, however when we used to make love I would wear a thong and she would pull it up between my cheeks. I always wore VS thongs. Enjoy life as much as you can.

Newintimate89 on July 31, 2017:

I love my new lane Bryant underwear it feels so good when I'm by myself. It was the best trip I made in my life and I will definitely visit again I love the boyshort it just feels so good to go along with my bras I'm still going to wear men's underwear for certain times but most of the time I will be wearing panties now. What do you people think of my reaction and do you have any suggestions on how to balance the life of wearing them.

johnfreer on July 03, 2017:

When I got remarried I made sure my wife to be knew i wore panties. On our honeymooon i received a pair of vintage silk tap panties with a zipper from the 40's. Later my wife found me a lace panty at matshalls. Why so special? They are Perla.

Been wearing them for years! I am truly a lucky guy!

Boschra on May 28, 2017:

I like wearing thongs. I've never felt so sexy. But in sommer I sweat a lot and it feels so terrible, Burning and itchy. Does anybody have an advice for wearing thongs in Sommer for men?

Eric on May 26, 2017:

Briefs are the best. Cant wait to put on each day. Nothing better than rubbing through the zipper

Pantiecomfortluvinfun on May 04, 2017:

My biggest thing is "Why the heck do women get to have all the fun? Share the pantie comfy loving joy and fun!" I mostly love thongs but I also enjoy string bikinis and just about any type of skimpy little bikinis, or sometimes full coverage briefs. Recently I've really been enjoying cheeky panties and some lacy things. I love the way they feel on my backside. I mostly just love the comfort of panties, the feel of stretchy nylon, polyester or cotton on my skin. I think there's a certain kind of mental and emotional comfort there as well that has a soul soothing effect. Most panties don't completely cover my man parts but I'm good with a sewing machine so I modify them a bit and they fit fine. I'm not into bras at all. I like plain regular tank tops to go with my "fun undies" as I like to call them. I'm a totally straight guy and my wife was a little weirded out at first but she's pretty much ok with it now. She's not quite 100% with it (but almost) so when I'm home by myself I will watch tv or cook or work on a puzzle or something and wear my tank top and fun undies for a while and bask in the comfort of it all.

Michael on April 26, 2017:

Love wearing panties. The first time I wore them was when my man undies were all in the wash. My girlfriend told me to wear a pair of hers. I did and wow I had no idea they would feel so good, much more comfort than men's. The silky was so comfortable. I have been wearing them ever since.

Women seem to like them. Even had a lady to say that I should wear lace. I am not that daring however.

Like many people say, wear what you like. Many women wear men's boxers so what is good for them , then we should be able to wear what we like.

cooper on February 23, 2017:

man, 50 ish, love to wear wifes panties....she knows too

New and excited on November 28, 2016:

I bought my first pair today. Pink lacy thong. While I was checking out the very cute cashier commented, those are cute, Christmas present for your girlfriend. I was immediately flushed, confidently I said, no, they are for me. It was awesome, someone else knowing I will be wearing panties. Big turn on for me. So she asked if I enjoy wearing panties. I said im sure I will, this is my fist pair. I was really surprised when she told me to come back and let her see how they look on me. Trust me, im going back to buy more tomorrow. I will wear my new pair above my pants, hopefully someone else notices.

Tim on September 15, 2016:

dressing for 20+ years. Wear daily, usually thongs, g-strings & lace boy shorts. Usually have garter on too. Love the femi sissy ruffled panties too. Stockings on today and the feel of garter strap on my thighs is quite arousing. A matching 42DDD full cup bra ain't bad either. wife and our GFF buy most of my panties for us. I am very lucky to have 2 gals that buy for me.

Ralph on October 17, 2015:

I love the feel of nylon, satin or silk. I've bought hundreds of panties over the years and Jockey Tactel Nylon panties are THE most comfortable I've ever worn. But my favorite types are hi-cut, cheeky, tangas or boyshorts especially with a ruched back that ride high on the butt cheeks.

Andrea on January 31, 2015:

I wear on weekday plain cotton woman bikini panty because if I have to lean over I do not want people discover that I wear woman undies it can be male underwear also they probably not will notice the different.

Radovich on April 01, 2010:

I have been wearing panties since I was young and I feel that they are more comfortable than mens underwear. I like the basic cotton bikini because it is comfortable and looks like mens micro briefs. I tend to get embarrassed when shopping for panties but my wife seems to support what I wear. I like cotton bikinis that are plain, with no lace because they are comfortable and still very manly. In the mens section there is virtually the same bikini underwear just one is comfortable and the other leaves me sore and uncomfortable in places.

wingnut on December 31, 2009:

I love wearing panties, and panty girtles are my favorite. I love the tight feel and the boys not getting tangled up. and the silker the better. Don't have a wife but love the feel

iluvpanty43 on December 31, 2009:

been lookin for this since i was 8. thought i was the olny one. glade to find y'all.

Sandy on December 28, 2009:

Like you I love my panties and bras

TIMWILLIAMS on December 11, 2009:

I am a man in girls panties/underwear and bras too. I am proud of my self doing this. I like the bikini and hi cut panties the best of all. I am also proud to wear girls bras too. I feel honored for that and I don't care what other people think about me doing this because it's personal.

Cory Smith on December 10, 2009:

I know that my girlfriend especially loves when I have a silky pair on that covers all my parts completely. Some styles of panties, especially the hipster, look and fit very nicely on the male figure. A thong or thin lacy item can result in the male member falling out or being too constricted. So, if you're trying to impress your mate by wearing lingerie, make sure to keep this in mind.

randy on September 21, 2009:

i love wearing sexy silk and lace pantys.i have on a silk pair of hot pink pantys and matching bra now thay fill so good on me.i wear them 24/7.i have about 100 pair!!!!i will never stop wearing them.

iwhcpanties on September 02, 2009:

Would love to wear 24/7 but cant, wife and society won’t allow it. Oh, it is Hi-cut or French cuts only for me though! Bernie, wish my wife was supportive. Thanks Hope!

Bernie on September 02, 2009:

There is nothing wrong with boys wanting to wear soft pretty things. Why should girls be the only ones who can enjoy the special feelings that female clothing brings to anyone who wears it. I have been cross dressing for many years and I love wearing lingerie 24/7. My wife supports me 100 percent!

iwhcpanties on September 01, 2009:

Hi-cut or French cut panties are my choice for any function. Cotton for the SC heat and nylon/spandex combinations for the sexy feels!

Coral on August 14, 2009:

Ive been wearing womens pantys for at least 10 years now,24/7 . I also wear womens shorts and tank tops out on public all of the time.

ILoveLingerie on July 06, 2009:

I love wearing panties, but I can't wear them often. Too risky in my social environment for my tastes.

Thongs, bodies (called teddies in america) and bikinis are my favorites.

Jack on February 23, 2009:

I've been wearing panties since 10. I wear thongs or bikinis 24/7. The girlier the better. I've had some girls notice, many smile, some laugh. but one took me ut shoping for more panties!. That's kick ass.

scantilyclad on February 17, 2009:

Panties 24/7 for me except visits to the doc or undressing in public, lets face it they are only fabric it is society that has to put a label of "boys wear" or "girls wear" on everything, if you could go into a store and womens and mens underwear was in a big bin together and not in separate "mens" & "womens" sections i bet most of us would wear panties especially once you try them they are so much more comfortable, but the clever manufacturers & retailers wouldn't make as much money so i don't see it happening

panties in public on December 17, 2008:

I like to wear satin panties even though they are getting harder and harder to find cheap. I like to wear white shorts with pink silk panties. I know you can see right through them. I only wear them to stores where the emoployees are mostly female. I went to a Wallgreens and bought two pairs of silk panties from the lady at the cosmetics register, one pair red and the other pair dark pink. I went back the next morning with white cotton shorts and the red panties under. When I walked by her, she followed me around a little. I was wearing a baseball cap and knowing that she was following me, I stopped at the area where they sell the fake pony tails. I stood there bending and looking like I was searching the whole while she was behind me or where she could see. She then came up behind me, picked two pony tails and held them up by me and said this one or this one. She was helping me match my hair color.

Me Myself on December 04, 2008:

I just started wearing Womens lingerie. I love the feeling of them very nice feeling my Fiancé actually told me to try them on felt embarresed at first but learned that it turn her on a lot after wearing them for a while now they are a lot better than regular boxers or briefs I love wearing the boyshorts fit me very well

pantyluver on November 21, 2008:

Wish I could wear them 24/7. Wife would blow a gasket! Absolutely love lace boyshorts-nothing better, except the occasional lace thong.

Gemini II on October 10, 2008:

Been wearing panties for at least 20 years. I now wear panties 24/7. Like Calvino said, I sometimes let my pantie show over my trousers to catch peoples reactions. Men usually do nothing, most women just smile. Ocassionally young girls will giggle a little. I love it.

Calvino from Canada on September 18, 2008:

Being wearing panties for last 6 years 24/7. Don't care if I get seen in public. The other day I went to garage sales and accidently having them poking out to see what people will say, but the only thing I noticed was a few girls looking and smiling!!!

pantiesrule on July 07, 2008:

i love wearing thongs and bikini underwear. they are so much more comfertable then regular boys underwear cause your stuff doesn't stick to ur legs

silkpantyboy on June 22, 2008:

I wear silk or nylon panties daily my girl friend got me started wearing panties and I love them .so now I have over 100 pair of fine nylon and silk panties and she buys me panties when she goes shopping and I buy them too.love my panties

mark on June 15, 2008:

My choice of panties vary day to day. Some days it's a flowery thong to a pair of plain yellow bikini.

mheinonen on May 12, 2008:

i wear panties and and bras all the time

buckey4u on November 18, 2007:

i love the fit and feel of nylon panties.my lady puts them out for me 24/7.love to hear from all you ladies.buckey